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Lain Iwakura posted:I lucked out on the trans woman lottery as I am 172 cm and my shoe size is a women's 11. You're also totes adorbs! (That's how the kids say it these days, right?)
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shame about that voice and weight
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Pollyanna posted:shame about that voice and weight Both fixable if they bug you. Nobody clocks my speaking voice at all but I can still bust out a deep baritone if I want to gently caress with someone.
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Lain Iwakura posted:This is why I only date enbies and girls. yeah well some of us are not blessed with such desires.
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Improbable Lobster posted:one time a dude on grinder recognized me from when i worked at the lcbo like a month after i had left the job i'm not very good with faces, so i'm continually shocked when people recognize me, because i seldom recognize them. if it has been his face i would have probably been "hurr durr whodat?" but i remembered the body plan and the shirt and the shade of the walls in the room it was taken in.
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ultravoices posted:i'm not very good with faces, so i'm continually shocked when people recognize me, because i seldom recognize them. 
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ultravoices posted:i'm not very good with faces, so i'm continually shocked when people recognize me, because i seldom recognize them. it's weird, i'm just the opposite. terrible with names (like, 3 months just to get new coworkers down) but great with faces, so I constantly have to avoid going up to people whose names I can't remember shouting "I KNOW YOU! I KNOW YOU" like some crazy lady in a moopie.
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i'm very glad that most of my jobs have included name tags
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cis autodrag posted:it's weird, i'm just the opposite. terrible with names (like, 3 months just to get new coworkers down) but great with faces, so I constantly have to avoid going up to people whose names I can't remember shouting "I KNOW YOU! I KNOW YOU" like some crazy lady in a moopie. i have, on occasion, gone to myself "oh that's a cute guy" looking down the aisle at the supermarket or whatever, and then get closer and realize it's one of my partners.
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ultravoices posted:i have, on occasion, gone to myself "oh that's a cute guy" looking down the aisle at the supermarket or whatever, and then get closer and realize it's one of my partners. you and lain both say this. is it a canadianism for coworkers or do we have some poly-wogs running around yospos? i can't tell because every poly i've met irl was a fat man with green hair, an insane level of narcissism, and a penchant for emotionally abusing dozens of women at the same time.
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cis autodrag posted:you and lain both say this. is it a canadianism for coworkers or do we have some poly-wogs running around yospos? i can't tell because every poly i've met irl was a fat man with green hair, an insane level of narcissism, and a penchant for emotionally abusing dozens of women at the same time. no, i would say business partner in that case.
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i know a few poly people. my partner is one of them and she's nice. poly people seem to show up a lot in the circles i'm in.
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i've met a couple poly people on tinder and the like and they've all seemed fairly normal so far but i sure as gently caress could not do a relationship like that.
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cis autodrag posted:you and lain both say this. is it a canadianism for coworkers or do we have some poly-wogs running around yospos? i can't tell because every poly i've met irl was a fat man with green hair, an insane level of narcissism, and a penchant for emotionally abusing dozens of women at the same time. i am poly and have two partners and something with two others. it's not something i advertise outside of queer circles because i hate explaining it to non-queers or those who are not in derby
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Improbable Lobster posted:i've met a couple poly people on tinder and the like and they've all seemed fairly normal so far but i sure as gently caress could not do a relationship like that. i think there's a lot of variation in what people do with their interests other than their primary partner (if they have a primary partner). i don't typically see multiple people seriously at once, but i tend towards relationships where some degree of intimacy with others is allowed. if you have good communication and well understood boundaries it doesn't have to involve drama and can be nice
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Interesting. Like I said, most people I've met irl are guys who just need a way to convince their girlfriends to let them sleep around. I'd love to meet a poly group that was genuinely a mesh rather than one partner who had multiple other partners
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Lain Iwakura posted:i am poly and have two partners and something with two others. it's not something i advertise outside of queer circles because i hate explaining it to non-queers or those who are not in derby Why would you need an explanation beyond "this really only concerns the people actually involved"?
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flakeloaf posted:Why would you need an explanation beyond "this really only concerns the people actually involved"? You are right but still
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cis autodrag posted:it's weird, i'm just the opposite. terrible with names (like, 3 months just to get new coworkers down) but great with faces, so I constantly have to avoid going up to people whose names I can't remember shouting "I KNOW YOU! I KNOW YOU" like some crazy lady in a moopie. i have moderate faceblindness so i tend to recognize people by attributes other than their face, because i can't really tell faces apart beyond broad general similarities. on top of this i'm also terrible with names, so once in a while i see someone that i swear is... what's 'er name... uh... etc, except it's not even them and i'm just a confused weirdo bothering people in the mall  cis autodrag posted:you and lain both say this. is it a canadianism for coworkers or do we have some poly-wogs running around yospos? i can't tell because every poly i've met irl was a fat man with green hair, an insane level of narcissism, and a penchant for emotionally abusing dozens of women at the same time. there seems to be some universal rule that a poly person who advertises that fact is a generally horrible human being who's guaranteed to be emotionally or physically abusing at least one person, but i've met a few people who just don't really bring it up, cuz it's not really anyone else's business, and they're all cool and fine  Lain Iwakura posted:i am poly and have two partners and something with two others. it's not something i advertise outside of queer circles because i hate explaining it to non-queers or those who are not in derby wait are you poly with your derby team? because that sounds... actually kinda intimidating 
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ate all the Oreos posted:wait are you poly with your derby team? because that sounds... actually kinda intimidating like the spartans fighting alongside their lovers, but with more rolling
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ate all the Oreos posted:
Hu? Intimidating? ...yeah. Let's go with that. I won't bring my dirty thoughts up in this wholesome thread.
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i'm currently imagining two people trying to gently caress in roller blades and accidentally pushing each other away
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I like that roller Derby seems to be universally accepting of trans women. I've seen rec leagues for other sports that don't allow trans women and it's so hosed.
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cis autodrag posted:I like that roller Derby seems to be universally accepting of trans women. I've seen rec leagues for other sports that don't allow trans women and it's so hosed.
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I wish I had the free time to join a Derby team.
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evil_bunnY posted:derby in general is accepting of anyone who can take a punch I'm out. I'm fragile as gently caress. Dainty as all get out, too.
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Avenging_Mikon posted:I'm out. I'm fragile as gently caress. Dainty as all get out, too.
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evil_bunnY posted:I mean you can watch. top of the turn is the best spot. if you’re lucky you’ll get blood on you. or an entire rider. who knows. You all are making it really difficult to not be dirty you know.
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cis autodrag posted:Interesting. Like I said, most people I've met irl are guys who just need a way to convince their girlfriends to let them sleep around. I'd love to meet a poly group that was genuinely a mesh rather than one partner who had multiple other partners drat near every trans person i know irl is poly and thankfully i've never met that kind of lovely dude
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cis autodrag posted:this isn't gattaca. im only gonna start pulling cards when people are acting like assholes and saying *phobic poo poo. That's a relief for me. I'm terrible at talking, especially about myself so it just ends up awkward. I'll still try and chime in from time to time since it's nice to have a thread.
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lisa needs implantsultravoices posted:body plan
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ate all the Oreos posted:wait are you poly with your derby team? because that sounds... actually kinda intimidating Nah. One of my partners does play derby but for another league and someone I have a thing with right now is but again in another league. I would never date anyone in my own league. I can imagine an intra-league match bring a blood bath for me if they're a blocker since I am working towards being a jammer. If we were to have a nasty breakup which is unusual if you do poly relationships right I could see myself getting a gnarly injury. Haha.
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guess you could say theyre..... out of your league......... literally.............................. i'll see myself out
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the nb person (is there a shorter way to say that) i'm talking to has never heard of the trailer park boys, what the gently caress
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Meat Beat Agent posted:guess you could say theyre..... out of your league......... literally.............................. I wanted to make this joke but...
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Improbable Lobster posted:the nb person (is there a shorter way to say that) i'm talking to has never heard of the trailer park boys, what the gently caress
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Improbable Lobster posted:the nb person (is there a shorter way to say that) i'm talking to has never heard of the trailer park boys, what the gently caress "person"
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this cishet male lurker just wants to say this is a cool thread, y’all are cool people, and I’m learning lots now back to listening!
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pokeyman posted:this cishet male lurker just wants to say this is a cool thread, y’all are cool people, and I’m learning lots *tacklehug*
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