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girl pants posted:A person who is blackout drunk can't consent to sex Is there a way we can reframe that where I can do whatever I want to people and experience zero negative repercussions?
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Jeza posted:My [19M] girlfriend [18F] saw a hand print on my back car window and accused me of cheating Admit it you son of a bitch you got a super handjob from a very freaky girl with 8 fingers on one hand.
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Ham Sandwiches posted:Yikes, I bolded the part where it gets even better quote:I know I'm the villain here, and I'm supposed to feel sorrow and remorse, and I do feel bad for leaving her alone like that, it was cruel, but... OP wanted her friend to suffer for being "too friendly".
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Apr 7, 2018 00:00
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girl pants posted:A person who is blackout drunk can't consent to sex It's really hard to tell sometimes when experienced drinkers are in a blackout. They will chat, pay the tab, drink more, and flirt with you. Once you have your tolerance up that high, you can operate almost normally and still remember nothing the next day.
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Pick posted:Is there a way we can reframe that where I can do whatever I want to people and experience zero negative repercussions? Uh grow a y chromosome.
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new phone who dis posted:It's really hard to tell sometimes when experienced drinkers are in a blackout. They will chat, pay the tab, drink more, and flirt with you. Once you have your tolerance up that high, you can operate almost normally and still remember nothing the next day. That's what all the date rapists say.
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Apr 7, 2018 00:02
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Cool to see the bona fide rapers in here
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Pick posted:Is there a way we can reframe that where I can do whatever I want to people and experience zero negative repercussions? Can you grow a penis
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Midnight Voyager posted:That's what all the date rapists say. Not a rapist but I was a blackout drinker for a time.
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Midnight Voyager posted:Never take risks or some shitlord on the internet will float in off his high horse, point to a mistake you made, and go "You deserve harm because you are a fallible human. Besides, it was EASY to get out of that situation anyway." You're intentionally misreading it. Or you're looking for a reason to be argumentative? The girl explicitly stated her concerns about staying with Matt and did so anyway. How can that kind of myopia be condoned or celebrated in any conceivable way? I said I wasn't detracting from the Uber story because that was hosed up and her lovely friend did nothing to help. Idk why protecting somebody you care about from making potentially bad decisions is somehow inherently bad? What am I unenlightened about here?
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girl pants posted:Can you grow a penis In multiple senses, yes
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I have never forced sex upon anyone and have no plans to, but I did wear a polo with a popped collar once, so really
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ArbitraryC posted:Not to perform the ritual of summoning tfr goons but is she sure it's an actual "assault rifle" or did she just hear gun and picture some big black full auto scary thing? Like if we're just talking about a hunting rifle then I honestly don't see anything wrong with teaching an 11 year old how to responsibly handle guns that way, particularly if he's shown an interest in them. ***appears in a poof of black powder smoke*** it's almost definitely (99.99% not an actual "assault rifle" (NFA machine gun), it's probably a semi-automatic rifle of some kind (though it could be bolt action), which could be anything from a 10-22 (which can look like anything), a .22 that looks like an AR (like a 15-22), a wood stocked hunting rifle, an actual AR in 5.56, or something dumb like a FAL if it's not a .22 of some type, I'll say there are very reasonable odds it actually is an AR, because of the appeal to an airsofting tween and excellent price/quality ratio for anyone doing target shooting (and potentially hunting depending on caliber), but beyond magazine size/caliber there's not actually much functional difference between any of the above options and how dangerous/irresponsible it is will have very little to do with the appearance of the gun and quite a bit to do with storage/parenting look on the bright side- at least he's not buying the kid an ATV
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can we have one thread that isn't about edgy gender politics or gun control? God: "no"
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I'd say it's almost definitely a Ruger .22 of some kind if the father knows anything about guns. Whatever your personal opinions on guns, the truth of the matter is that people who don't like them, as the mother very obviously does not, really...don't tend to know anything about them, most of the time(Y'know, obviously)so I can't really trust her when she says he's getting his eleven year old a loving assault rifle.
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Jeza posted:can we have one thread that isn't about edgy gender politics or gun control? We'll move on to some other dumb subject soon enough, just go off and search for something to top this in our attention spans
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Jeza posted:can we have one thread that isn't about edgy gender politics or gun control? Amen
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Theophany posted:You're intentionally misreading it. Or you're looking for a reason to be argumentative? She made a mistake, it does not mean she reaped what she sowed. It means she made a mistake. People drinking too much and getting taken advantage of isn't "well, they shoulda known better!" It is a mistake. They don't deserve what happens just because an ideal mind makes no mistakes. OP admits they "made" her stay with him. And if they're her only friends around, she didn't have that much choice unless she can pull out enough money for a hotel offhand. I'm not "celebrating" or "condoning" it, I'm understanding it and saying it doesn't take anything away from the whole rape thing. And if she's blackout drunk? Yeah, he raped her. Talking about stuff you don't Let your significant other do that isn't "gently caress other people" just sounds kinda weird and it got some shrapnel while I was at it.
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ArbitraryC posted:buy the ticket, take the ride wow it sucks that women like can't have sex with men
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Jeza posted:Help us (44 m, 43 f) get our son (17m) out of the alt right. get rid of internet for the whole house not a joke, i had a friend whose daughter was flunking out of school and dropping out of life bc of anxiety and internet addiction, and part of how they got her back and engaged in the real world was no functional internet in the house. my friend herself had a smartphone she kept close and that's what she'd use if work needed her to access internet. later when her kid was doing better, she got her a smartphone as well. still no wi-fi for the house though, and the kid is one of the more balanced kids of the internet age because she basically had to give up camping a computer screen to go into real life
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LGD posted:***appears in a poof of black powder smoke*** I'd rather a dumb kid buy a machine to kill himself than a machine to kill others.
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Midnight Voyager posted:OP admits they "made" her stay with him. And if they're her only friends around, she didn't have that much choice unless she can pull out enough money for a hotel offhand. i mean, she suggested it's better for a tourist to stay in queens over manhattan, which is absolutely true, and Texas Girl agreed I didn't get the sense that she 'made' her maybe i misread somewhere? not touching the rape debate with a ten foot pole, i already put in my time today
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StrangersInTheNight posted:get rid of internet for the whole house Honestly, since they can't figure out how he's getting net access, my money's on him accessing a neighbor's unprotected wifi. So that might not help!
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StrangersInTheNight posted:i mean, she suggested it's better for a tourist to stay in queens over manhattan, which is absolutely true, and Texas Girl agreed She used the words "I made her stay there." I'm going by that.
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Theophany posted:Did Matt actually rape her? Because this is unclear. Seems like she got piss drunk and made bad decisions. you can't give consent while "piss drunk" so yes, she was raped
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Midnight Voyager posted:Honestly, since they can't figure out how he's getting net access, my money's on him accessing a neighbor's unprotected wifi. So that might not help! you'd think they'd have figured that out though? or maybe they're such tech illiterates they don't know i just figured the kid knew how to mess with the settings on the modem bc it's not THAT hard Midnight Voyager posted:She used the words "I made her stay there." I'm going by that. eh, i got the sense that's some guilt or self-blame talking since Texas Girl does know both Matt and OP as 'friends' but perhaps i'm wrong! (fwiw yes she was raped) still, it is hard for me to blame OP for trusting a friend to take care of Texas Girl. he was hosting her and took horrible advantage  the guilt falls on him
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Blade Runner posted:We'll move on to some other dumb subject soon enough, just go off and search for something to top this in our attention spans My [31M] wife [30F] of five years tricked me into getting her pregnant with a second child she knew I was against... quote:I am here for advice and perspective. Thank you in advance. i want to get off MR BONES' WILD RIDE
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Jeza posted:My [31M] wife [30F] of five years tricked me into getting her pregnant with a second child she knew I was against... he should record her admitting to her deception and take it to the police - rape by deception is a serious crime
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StrangersInTheNight posted:Controversial opinion: if a dude is loving a lady and gets her pregnant and tells her he's not ready to be a dad but she wants to keep it because SHE'S ready for a baby, I think it's ok to leave that lady to do it on their own. It can be Her Kid, she's making that choice. You can't force her not to have it, but she shouldn't be able to force you into a family you're not willing to have. You shouldn't HAVE to take care of the child, because the assumption that having sex will equal you promising to Raise The Baby should it appear is pretty drat bold. can we just point this out as a thing that has literally never happened
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:can we just point this out as a thing that has literally never happened I think "force you into a family" is exactly equal to child support payments for these people. Obviously nobody is legally required to actually join as man and wife in 2018.
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NO I KNOW I STARTED IT BUT WE FINISHED THAT (and I'm talking about people who expect that one Must Stay and become a Proud Father because you can shoot sperm outta your dick and it met with their egg, and the social expectations built around that which can hurt us all, less so than child support) StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 00:26 on Apr 7, 2018 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:I think "force you into a family" is exactly equal to child support payments for these people. Obviously nobody is legally required to actually join as man and wife in 2018. you don't have to pay child support if you were raped
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Hellblazer187 posted:I think "force you into a family" is exactly equal to child support payments for these people. Obviously nobody is legally required to actually join as man and wife in 2018. Yeah this seems about right but I want to personally kick the poo poo out of anyone who cares about this because they suck rear end by necessity.
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My [16M] girlfriend [16F] got pregnant on purpose. HELPquote:I have been with Lindsey for about seven months now. She got on birth control a month into our relationship and at two months, we became sexually active. She takes birth control AND I use condoms just to be extra safe. We both talked about it, agreed we wanted to be extra safe and not have children. She ALWAYS talked about getting married when we grew up. I may have halfheartedly agreed but told her I wanted to live before I settled down. She was always offended and claimed I didn't love her enough. i warn you, im armed with several more contentious pregnancy posts!!
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:Yeah this seems about right but I want to personally kick the poo poo out of anyone who cares about this because they suck rear end by necessity. (i actually wasn't talking about child support lol. but seriously WE DONE WITH THIS)
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When I said "take responsibility for" I meant "pay child support" if being involved in the kid's life isn't your bag
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StrangersInTheNight posted:(i actually wasn't talking about child support lol. but seriously WE DONE WITH THIS) The fact that you responded tells me you aren't done with this.
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Jeza posted:My [16M] girlfriend [16F] got pregnant on purpose. HELP Just join the military and move away, dude. They'll take part of your pay and give it to her.
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Jeza posted:i warn you, im armed with several more contentious pregnancy posts!! Are you sure you want this? I'm capable of being extremely obtuse and argumentative
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