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Theophany posted:Oh totally, I'm not disagreeing with you, just pointing out that with her post history readily available it is demonstrable that she is trying to use guys' appendages to feel better about herself whereas with the guy it's speculation. Sex feels good
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Caganer posted:Sex feels good Mods?!?
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I [24f] went out and met someone else who I felt a connection with. I've been with my bf[26m] for almost 1.5y. Help me make sense of it!quote:I moved to Chicago last July and I didn't know anyone before I moved here. I haven't really gone out and tried to make friends and for some time I was fine not having friends because I was relying on my bf mostly. I'm introverted so I'm also content spending a lot of time by myself.
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I[26M] am going on a trip with FWB[24F], but the day I arrive she tells me she's in a relationship and wants to do the trip as "friends". Advice?(self.relationships)quote:Me and A dated for a bit a year ago; we stopped dating when she moved away, but we'd occasionally go on trips as hookup buddies.
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Tyler sounds pretty rad honestly. Hell the fact he asked if he could kiss her puts him leagues above most guys. I bet her boyfriend when they first kissed just jammed into her face. Her boyfriend is a loser and she should break up and go be with Tyler.
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:Tyler sounds pretty rad honestly. Hell the fact he asked if he could kiss her puts him leagues above most guys. I bet her boyfriend when they first kissed just jammed into her face. Her boyfriend is a loser and she should break up and go be with Tyler. Yeah she should probably go on a few dates with Tyler. You can't risk being single, and if her BF yells or gets angry she cheated she can tell all her friends he was abusive and not feel guilty. It's a no lose scenario!
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:Tyler sounds pretty rad honestly. Hell the fact he asked if he could kiss her puts him leagues above most guys. I bet her boyfriend when they first kissed just jammed into her face. Her boyfriend is a loser and she should break up and go be with Tyler. 
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In the comments it turns out that the big quality is that her bad plays video games and Tyler doesn’t. When her bf plays video games she feels ignored. Here’s the thing though, by her own account she and her bf have spent the the vast majority of their time together since he moved in, her bf has commented “we'll have to find you some friends when I'm playing video games." And by her own admission in the first paragraph she relies on her bf for pretty much all her friendship. Ultimately we don’t know whether his gaming is excessive or if it’s just his solitary time because she doesn’t break down the time they spend together, but she sounds pretty exhausting tbh.
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fruit on the bottom posted:In the comments it turns out that the big quality is that her bad plays video games and Tyler doesn’t. When her bf plays video games she feels ignored. Yeah, pretty much every time someone's problem is "my SO has <x hobby> and I don't like it one bit" the relevant question to ask is "how much do they do it" because maybe he's one of those guys who plays 16 hours of LoL a day, but maybe she's mad because he sometimes responds to her texts with "hold on, playing Overwatch, will call back in 20 minutes"
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Caganer posted:Yeah she should probably go on a few dates with Tyler. You can't risk being single, and if her BF yells or gets angry she cheated she can tell all her friends he was abusive and not feel guilty. It's a no lose scenario! She gotta break up first. But she can do it by text, strike while the iron still hot
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:She gotta break up first. But she can do it by text, strike while the iron still hot nah that's not how it's done. you just do everything except sex with the new potential bf and if your current bf expresses any indignation you slam him to your social circle for being controlling, abusive, etc. nobody just breaks up - every ex was evil. didn't you read the latest thought catalog?
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loquacius posted:he sometimes responds to her texts with "hold on, playing Overwatch, will call back in 20 minutes" Thats abuse
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fruit on the bottom posted:I [24f] went out and met someone else who I felt a connection with. I've been with my bf[26m] for almost 1.5y. Help me make sense of it! Altogether now - OPEN UP THE RELATIONSHIP.
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Ok guys, confession. I'm Tyler
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I've never even heard of a dueling piano bar, so I learned me a thing.
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:Ok guys, confession. I'm Tyler I don’t think so, Locutus
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That's what Daffy and Donald were at in Who Framed Roger Rabbit
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Jeza posted:I've never even heard of a dueling piano bar, so I learned me a thing. They are a thing. There's one in my hometown I've been meaning to go to, but just haven't had the chance. A.I. Borgland Corp posted:That's what Daffy and Donald were at in Who Framed Roger Rabbit Nice, I totally forgot about that scene. Need to watch that movie again.
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I [27F] feel like a third-wheel in my own marriage compared to my best friend [25F] with my husband [28M],am I being overly jealous?quote:The three of us have been friends ever since I was around 6-years old, yeah we split apart for some years but we met whenever we could. I’ve been in a relationship with my husband for 5 years now and married for one, we’ve had a wonderful relationship throughout. We’re both musicians and love playing together, creating music, covers etc. But it’s mostly romantic or classical music.
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Caganer posted:I[26M] am going on a trip with FWB[24F], but the day I arrive she tells me she's in a relationship and wants to do the trip as "friends". Advice?(self.relationships) I feel it's a shame people are ignoring the other side of Pete's story. Tyler's girl probably doesn't know how to handle someone showing interest in her while she's in a relationship.
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ZearothK posted:I feel it's a shame people are ignoring the other side of Pete's story. She knows. It's not complicated. "It's complicattttedddd" is the siren song of entitled brats who thing "Buttt I wantttt toooo" complicates whether things are OK.
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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:They're loving
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[GA] Just moved into a condo, neighbor is tasing hell over my nonexistent pet birdquote:I just bought a condo that has been vacant for a while. Right after I bought the place, before I even started moving in, I got an official warning from the HOA that my next door neighbor has called their emergency line 3 times over my pet bird that is so loud in the mornings it startled him awake and caused him emotional distress. In their email they specifically said what time my bird was making these loud noises.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:[GA] Just moved into a condo, neighbor is tasing hell over my nonexistent pet bird I dont get some people, there is nothing sweeter inlife than getting a lawyer and destroy him in court and sue for damages and harrassment.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:[GA] Just moved into a condo, neighbor is tasing hell over my nonexistent pet bird send help, trapped in a Kafka novel
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:[GA] Just moved into a condo, neighbor is tasing hell over my nonexistent pet bird The dude is black and they want him gone.
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School Nickname posted:The dude is black and they want him gone. Sadly that's the first place my head ended up too. 
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:[GA] Just moved into a condo, neighbor is tasing hell over my nonexistent pet bird Dude just get rid of the bird.
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But seriously, how would a legal case go down here? Somebody needs to prove he has a bird in that court, right?
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:[GA] Just moved into a condo, neighbor is tasing hell over my nonexistent pet bird Okay, this is pretty funny, but: the HOA manager doesn't believe him, even though the neighbor started complaining before the OP moved in. It's totally possible they really are that stupid, and the neighbor is that crazy, but isn't it also possible it's a scam of some kind that they're both in on? Alternatively OP is being gangstalked. E: just realized black people essentially are gangstalked in the US
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Palpek posted:But seriously, how would a legal case go down here? Somebody needs to prove he has a bird in that court, right? Yes, they need evidence if it goes to court. In fact, he is more likely to be the one taking his neighbour to court for harassment.
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I [18F] called my BF [24M] selfish for trying to take advantage of his roommate, now he's pissed. Was I wrong? No need for long back story fluff. I am a Sophomore, BF is a grad student who lives with 3 other guys who are all Grad students. Let's call them A (23M), B (22M) and C (27M). My BF is a really sweet guy, the only thing is that he is a typical 20-something guy who leaves messes behind with no urgency to clean them. Roommates A and B are the same way. My BF will cook and then leave dirty dishes all over their shared kitchen for hours, maybe a whole day until he cleans them. Roommates A and B are the same way. Dishes will stay in the sink sometimes for a whole week before getting washed. So roommate C is the oldest of the bunch (27M) and he is the complete opposite of the other three. To quote him "My future wife will be very spoiled. I hate messes, I love cooking when I can and when i'm stressed I clean". His biggest thing is dirty counters (crumbs, junk mail, dirty dishes laying around) and dirty dishes. He always washes his dishes after he uses them and never leaves anything laying around. He NEVER does my bf's or the other 2 roommates dishes and has told them he won't. The other roommates (including my BF) are notorious for leaving food spills, crumbs and other stuff all over the counters and stove. Whenever I am over there I always notice roommate C is the one who wipes these surfaces down even if he isn't the one who created them. C travels alot and when he does, I notice that the trash is always almost overflowing, but after C comes back, the trash is taken out. Once in a while C will ask someone else to take out the trash and they do. I asked my BF if C complains about this and my BF said "No he just does it, I've never heard him say anything." I think C just really hates messes and figures he'd rather do it himself than wait around for the others. Now lets fast forward to earlier today. I was over at BF's apartment and he was cooking pancakes for me. No one else was home, A and B were in the library and C went away for a weekend long conference and was due to get back later in the evening. As you know making pancakes can be a little messy and BF used quite a number of dishes and after we were done, we had left some batter on the stove, counter and there were a lot of crumbs (some from us from last night when we ate Chinese takeout and other various food leftovers). I said to BF: "Hey lets clean up, we made quite a mess" and he replied "It's whatever, (roommate) C will probably clean it up". This is where things went to poo poo. Apparently roommate C had come home early from the conference and was in his room. He heard what my BF said and came out of the room. He told my BF that no that's not how it works. He is not their maid and he only cleans up after everyone if he makes a mess too from cooking. He really wasn't even THAT pissed. He wasn't yelling or anything, he just seemed a little annoyed. My BF gave kinda a sarcastic "sorry man" and they both let it go. About an hour later after C had left to go grocery shopping, me and the BF were in his room chilling and he said "What the gently caress was that about earlier, C said he liked cleaning didn't he?" And I said "Well yea but it is kinda selfish to try and take advantage of his kindness and just ASSUME that all of your messes will just magically be taken care of by him". My bf got PISSED at this and said "You know what gently caress you". I was really taken back and asked what did I do/say and he literally won't answer. He just said whatever and put his headphones in. I kept asking him what did I say wrong and he would not answer so after 30 mins or so or silence I decided to leave and go back to my dorm. He didn't even say goodbye or give me a kiss and will not answer my texts after 2 hours. Seriously Reddit, what did I say wrong? Was I not right in what I said? How do I rectify this? TL:DR: My BF lives with 3 other guys. Him and 2 of the roommates are messy, 3rd roommate does not like messy kitchens and often cleans up after them (but never does their dishes). My BF made a comment saying that he wasn't going to clean up after himself bc 3rd roommate was just gonna do it anyways. Roommate heard this and called him out and later I said that was selfish and taking advantage of him and now BF won't talk to me.
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Bird dude should just start calling the HoA to complain about his neighbour's TWO birds, which keep him and his bird awake.
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I can tell you one thing, that guy is no Tyler
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Smirking_Serpent posted:
Entirely aware he's being a piece of poo poo, resentful at being called out about it. Not hard to understand.
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HoA Emergency line? Yes, I need to complain about the two bald eagles my neighbour has. They killed and devoured my bird, causing me severe emotional stress.
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