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A.I. Borgland Corp posted:It's 2018 Grandpa we eat rear end now I'm probably younger than most people in this topic
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Yeah he’s like 22, he’s just a reetreet
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Ham Sandwiches posted:
"Someone else is taking her to a party. I don't understand?"
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Apr 20, 2018 22:00
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I have never heard of any argument over a last name that wasn't directly the result of vanity and/or insecurity. Blade Runner posted:I realize that this is just because I'm pretty garbage as a person and it shouldn't matter, but I would have to seriously quell the urge to laugh at a dude who took his wife's last name, and I feel like a pretty large majority of people would too I'm proposing soon and my girlfriend is surely going to be taking my last name (she's traditional in that sense). However, I definitely wouldn't care if she wanted to keep hers and I probably wouldn't even care if she wanted me to take hers.... though to be fair I haven't really considered it as an option until now. It's just not something that concerns me whatsoever. I'm a secure individual who is able to differentiate between my value, and the string of meaningless letters that comprise the second part of my name. I don't think I'm alone in this.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:00
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Blade Runner posted:I realize that this is just because I'm pretty garbage as a person and it shouldn't matter, but I would have to seriously quell the urge to laugh at a dude who took his wife's last name, and I feel like a pretty large majority of people would too oh no you won't get married, what a threat to all those women, you're such a keeper lol a dude who takes his wife's last name despite social pressure to Be The Man is actually brave, and laughing at him makes you the insecure coward
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Apr 20, 2018 22:06
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Pick posted:Yeah he’s like 22, he’s just a reetreet I am young, and pretty, and stupid Taima posted:I have never heard of any argument over a last name that wasn't directly the result of vanity and/or insecurity. Okay, you're a cool dude and that is cool, but I sorta feel like anyone who is gonna say that a dude isn't gonna get judged or at least sort of made fun of in most places if they take their wife's name is being kinda obtuse It's fine if you want to do it, but come on
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Apr 20, 2018 22:07
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Who gives a poo poo about last names in marriage these days?
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Apr 20, 2018 22:08
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You’re 22. Tons of poo poo you and your friends think matter, won’t, once everyone is 30 and tired
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Apr 20, 2018 22:09
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oh no watch out being made fun of that's what you let dictate your life actions, right? not what makes you happy but what people might think of you? sounds super healthy
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Apr 20, 2018 22:09
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Again, he reetreet
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StrangersInTheNight posted:oh no you won't get married, what a threat to all those women, you're such a keeper lol I guess you could call yourself brave for opening yourself up by doing something that a lot of people are going to dunk on you all the time in a lot of aspects of your life for doing The entire world isn't the San Francisco Bay Area or Portland and there are a lot of people who will actually laugh at someone for taking their wife's maiden name as their last, and I don't really blame a dude for not feeling like dealing with constantly being seen as a joke by everyone
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Apr 20, 2018 22:11
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Blade Runner posted:I guess you could call yourself brave for opening yourself up by doing something that a lot of people are going to dunk on you all the time in a lot of aspects of your life for doing I live in Alabama and have never heard of anyone giving a gently caress out loud, or at least not anyone who wasn't some dumb pigfucking yokel.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:12
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Midnight Voyager posted:I live in Alabama and have never heard of anyone giving a gently caress out loud, or at least not anyone who wasn't some dumb pigfucking yokel. I live in NYC and know plenty of people who will and have made fun of people for it.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:13
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Milotic posted:Run, run and never stop running: Hey, you know what you need? A grave. Also a life insurance policy. And maybe if you could put all your valuables in this box. Awesome. Have you ever thought about skydiving?
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Apr 20, 2018 22:14
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I will take my bf's name in a heartbeat but that's just because my last name is ethnic and I want to hide my ethnicity behind his extremely white name. If I was a man marrying a white woman, I would do the same thing gladly. Anyone who responds along the lines of "what the gently caress, are you a self-racist or something", try applying for jobs as a person of color in the South.  My mom took my dad's last name and deals with bullshit too. She regularly told me stories of "passing" as white due to being a light-skinned black woman with a white sounding last name and that psuedo-privelege evaporated and went in reverse when she married my dad.The person with the less convenient name (too long, sounds like a dirty word, ethnic in a racist area) should take the name of their SO regardless of gender.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:15
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there's a school of thought that many of our current social problems come from the fact that men tend to fall in line to impress each other rather than stand up for their own values, and then subsume their own desires and needs and get hella frustrated and violent and such here are some dudes talking about it, near the end Michael Kimmel talks about specifically how many men have reported a common experience of going against their own integrity to impress other men and the stresses that brings on https://www.wnyc.org/story/when-masculinity-gets-diverted-political-extremism/ Blade Runner posted:I live in NYC and know plenty of people who will and have made fun of people for it. oh nyc. well no wonder. i just moved away from there after 15 years, the city is full of unhappy shitheads whose only joy is dunking on others, and desperate status-hounds. don't listen to them. that's a good strategy for most New Yorkers, there's so loving many of them there's no way they are all intelligent or even sound of mind StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 22:19 on Apr 20, 2018 |
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Apr 20, 2018 22:16
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Moridin920 posted:Why would you not? Jail
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Apr 20, 2018 22:19
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Wow it’s like men are dumb as hell
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Apr 20, 2018 22:20
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Yeah no one in AZ or WA gives a gently caress about anyone's last name. How the hell is that kid going to finish college if he can't understand what a breakup is? At his age that's "needs a keeper so he won't fall off the porch when he slips in a puddle of his own piss" or "still has someone feed him by hand" dumb. I hope his parents don't have high hopes for him and I'm amazed they're even comfortable with him moving away from home. Ever.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:20
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It’s like they care about things because they’re all loving gay for validation, up to marrying a hotter woman just to impress other guys even though she’s a hateful bitch instead of a kindly normal-looking lady lol
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Apr 20, 2018 22:21
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andrew smash posted:Jail And the registry
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I, as the child in my 20s, will take the naive stance of "What your peers in both social and work groups think of you is actually relatively important to your development socially and in your career field, and while taking noble stands is admirable and good morally it may not necessarily viable on a realistic level." I feel like there's a difference between doing something that overtly violates your integrity as a person and not desiring to open yourself up to lampooning by your peers, and I don't feel that being unwilling to take your wife's last name is something so important that I or most people would bother risking the judgement involved if they lived in an area or worked with a peer group that would think less of them for it. StrangersInTheNight posted:oh nyc. well no wonder. i just moved away from there after 15 years, the city is full of unhappy shitheads whose only joy is dunking on others, and desperate status-hounds. don't listen to them. I have lived in NYC my entire life and I work in the venn diagram center of police, finance, and computer boy, so This also explains many things about me if you were wondering Blade Runner fucked around with this message at 22:25 on Apr 20, 2018 |
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Apr 20, 2018 22:22
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Look at this tard lmao
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Apr 20, 2018 22:23
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Scathach posted:Yeah no one in AZ or WA gives a gently caress about anyone's last name. At his age he's still basically a high school kid. People are idiots about relationships in high school as a given, though sometimes that idiocy goes through into college. You're young and naive and stupid and hormonal and every relationship feels super powerful, and you're sure it's ~true love~ that will last forever. Now if he makes stupid decisions like that AFTER college age, then he can be written off as a lost cause.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:23
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Blade Runner posted:I, as the child in my 20s, will take the naive stance of "What your peers in both social and work groups think of you is actually relatively important to your development socially and in your career field, and while taking noble stands is admirable and good morally it may not necessarily viable on a realistic level." you are way too young to already be giving up on doing any social development or work whatsoever, but i can't say that i'm surprised :/ just float along, scaredy-cat
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Pick posted:You’re 22. Tons of poo poo you and your friends think matter, won’t, once everyone is 30 and tired Also the other way around Pick posted:It’s like they care about things because they’re all loving gay for validation, up to marrying a hotter woman just to impress other guys even though she’s a hateful bitch instead of a kindly normal-looking lady lol Those loving Chads!!
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Scathach posted:Yeah no one in AZ or WA gives a gently caress about anyone's last name.
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Apr 20, 2018 22:26
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No a self-assured guy just marries the woman he likes. It’s a huge bitch move to let other people mandate your attempts at status and reveals what a pud you really are
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Apr 20, 2018 22:27
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Pick posted:Look at this tard lmao Please give me advice on how to improve my relationships with others, you literal crazy cat lady StrangersInTheNight posted:you are way too young to already be giving up on doing any social development or work whatsoever, but i can't say that i'm surprised :/ just float along, scaredy-cat I used to be real into hardcore punk stuff as an even younger idiot child, but then the only real viable option I had turned out to be joining the military and that got beat outta me
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Apr 20, 2018 22:27
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/\/\/\ ok? i don't know if you want an award for being willing to live your life impressing your military buddies. you're already taking what is socially the easiest road and joining into easy masculine bonding by mocking other men's choices, it's fine if you wanna be that way but a least admit it reflects more on you than others re: breakup dude, he is confused as well because he's not used to the idea that two people can really like each other but break up for other reasons so in his mind they click so well and were getting along just last week, what happened???? he's naive and it hasn't quite settled in that he went in too heavy too fast and mistakenly broke it StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 22:31 on Apr 20, 2018 |
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Apr 20, 2018 22:28
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Pick posted:No a self-assured guy just marries the woman he likes. It’s a huge bitch move to let other people mandate your attempts at status and reveals what a pud you really are I would marry the woman I like but would also not take her last name, hth
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Apr 20, 2018 22:28
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i think the cooler thing is making a new name a new family etc. not portmanteau or hypenating or whatever
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There is no bigger indicator of a nightmare relationship than a man with antiquated views on gender roles/status. It's like bright colors on a poison dart frog, a neon siren screaming "I WILL SUCK" Well ok, maybe that's second place to "I just got out of rehab"
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Apr 20, 2018 22:30
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extra row of teeth posted:There is no bigger indicator of a nightmare relationship than a man with antiquated views on gender roles/status. It's like bright colors on a poison dart frog, a neon siren screaming "I WILL SUCK"
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Apr 20, 2018 22:32
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Wait what was your former username, extra row?
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Apr 20, 2018 22:32
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Blade runner is gonna get so fat once he hits 26 lol he’s just the type
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extra row of teeth posted:There is no bigger indicator of a nightmare relationship than a man with antiquated views on gender roles/status. It's like bright colors on a poison dart frog, a neon siren screaming "I WILL SUCK" Surely you're forgetting 'I'm polyamorous'
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Apr 20, 2018 22:34
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Antiquated poly rehab? You can just say “Mormon”
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Pick posted:Wait what was your former username, extra row? Cuckoo. I changed it because the cuck meme became a thing and I caught endless poo poo for it despite being named after the bird.
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extra row of teeth posted:There is no bigger indicator of a nightmare relationship than a man with antiquated views on gender roles/status. It's like bright colors on a poison dart frog, a neon siren screaming "I WILL SUCK" Sorry but I was raised on the values of the Third Intermediate Period and that's just how it's gotta be Pick posted:Blade runner is gonna get so fat once he hits 26 lol he’s just the type I donno, I work out a lot now and have no real plans to stop I was gonna make a joke about anorexia here but it seemed kinda mean
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