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Midnight Voyager posted:The problem is that they feel like the other person isn't understanding the words they are saying, is responding to something they are not saying, or is just generally arguing in bad faith. That is what I was saying. I was not saying "People just want people to agree with them quickly." What I was trying to express: I think the whole "omg this person doesn't agree and they're just being stubborn and twisting my words" is sort of a weird shut down discussion move that I see a lot when there's genuine difference of opinion. That aside, I'm clearly not communicating the point I'm trying to make. Probably can't happen in a reasonable amount of words or posts so let's agree to disagree on this point and I'll not belabor the thread with the topic.
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dudeness posted:Spam musubi is delicious, but I have no idea how anyone can look at it without realizing it's Spam. It literally looks like someone sliced a piece of Spam and slapped it down on some rice. I'm not a huge fan but wtf it is definitely not hiding its identity.
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CharlestheHammer posted:You don’t know what Stalker means either, I forgot to mention that before and I would feel lovely if I didn’t bring it up. Because none of her behavior is stalkerish at all. So would you say what she did was or wasn't sexual harassment?
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Apr 22, 2018 22:27
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ArbitraryC posted:So would you say what she did was or wasn't sexual harassment? The word Stalking is not the words Sexual Harassment. Neither is good, but they are not the same thing. Christ.
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Apr 22, 2018 22:38
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Midnight Voyager posted:The word Stalking is not the words Sexual Harassment. Neither is good, but they are not the same thing. Christ. I didn't say they were the same thing, let's not dodge the question.
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Apr 22, 2018 22:54
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Nah at this point your just randomly picking bad words in a weird desperate attempt to make this guy the hero.
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Apr 22, 2018 22:57
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:let's probably not delve too deeply into the list of hypothetical situations where arbc thinks selectively loving the people whose futures depend on your favor is totally prudent and justified For the life of me, I cannot envision how that conversation must have gone down. "I'm worried you will molest our daughter one day, seeing as you're a pedophile and all." "Yeah, that makes sense. I won't though."
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Apr 22, 2018 22:58
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CharlestheHammer posted:Nah at this point your just randomly picking bad words in a weird desperate attempt to make this guy the hero. Asked out coworker, got shot down, drunk dialed them later, made issues in the workplace when they started dating someone else. P textbook sexual harassment.
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Apr 22, 2018 23:07
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Now He Wants The rear end!....? (self.sex) submitted 2 days ago by Simply4Honey quote:So my finance is now asking something out the blue!..
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Apr 22, 2018 23:08
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My [24F] boyfriend [24M] has been really into fitness for the last year. He's muscular now and always looks in the mirror and says "Daddy lookin thicc."quote:Together for 4 years and our relationship is great. My boyfriend's always been a pretty skinny guy.. although I enjoyed his body. I guess he was self conscious about it so around a year ago he started going to the gym. Since then he's become pretty into the whole lifestyle. Meal planning / prep, workout supplements, going to the gym 5 times a week, etc. Shoo shoo gainz goblin.
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Apr 22, 2018 23:08
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I mean wizard already implied he raped em quote:your coworkers think they have to suck your dick to get a raise so I think mine is less of a stretch
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Apr 22, 2018 23:08
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My finance fucks me in the rear end all the time
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Apr 22, 2018 23:09
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Moridin920 posted:My finance fucks me in the rear end all the time Hell 
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Apr 22, 2018 23:13
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CheesyDog posted:Now He Wants The rear end!....? (self.sex) If all those jokes about prison are true then Cons are the pros.
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Midnight Voyager posted:If I am told something I don't like it in a food that I do like, I go "Oh wow, really? It's not bad in this." and I continue eating it. It does seem weird when it's cheese or something they hate, but I suppose it depends how much they hate the given food. I'd stop eating a meal I enjoyed if the chef revealed it was made from dog, as a somewhat extreme example. E: /r/relationships: I've heard A lot of pro's and con's on getting hosed in the rear end. Darkrenown fucked around with this message at 23:21 on Apr 22, 2018 |
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(I've heard A lot of pro's and con's on getting hosed in the rear end.)
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Darkrenown posted:It does seem weird when it's cheese or something they hate, but I suppose it depends how much they hate the given food. I'd stop eating a meal I enjoyed if the chef revealed it was made from dog, as a somewhat extreme example. And this whole thing is why we have The Rocky Mountain Oysters scene from funny farm https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qq4mqCDakVQ
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Apr 22, 2018 23:20
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CheesyDog posted:Now He Wants The rear end!....? (self.sex) This post is inane and the person writes like a loving idiot. Who needs to ask other people if they should have some type of sex or not, especially when they seem interested in doing so?
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Apr 22, 2018 23:21
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Me [30M] with my wife [30F] of 2 years, having problems because I went on a trip without her after she forgot her passport.quote:It's a little more complicated than the title suggests. The full story is that we had a sort of baby moon planned in Spain last month. My wife forgot her passport but didn't realize it until we got to the airport. We made the decision that I would stay and go if she didn't make it back in time and she'd rebook and meet me there. My wife wasn't able to make it back in time so I did board without her, but rather than rebook another flight she decided it was too expensive (even if she waited a few days) and opted to stay home instead. To be honest, I think it was also because she was upset about missing a few days and didn't feel like it would be worth it. 
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Apr 22, 2018 23:22
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [30M] with my wife [30F] of 2 years, having problems because I went on a trip without her after she forgot her passport. Lol what a dumbass. “sure honey I’ll stay” psych! Lololol
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Apr 22, 2018 23:24
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CheesyDog posted:(I've heard A lot of pro's and con's on getting hosed in the rear end.) Compare them in a list and tell us which side actually wins 
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Apr 22, 2018 23:25
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Yeah I'd be super salty too lol Like ok I forgot my passport but wtf man
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Apr 22, 2018 23:28
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Moridin920 posted:Yeah I'd be super salty too lol Shoulda remembered your passport, bitch
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So what are you doing in Spain? Oh I'm on my babymoon. Where's your wife? Back in America, where else would she be?
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Apr 22, 2018 23:32
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My husband doesn't realize that he's the one maxing out our credit card.quote:We've been married for 4 years, 99% of our marriage is great, the only problem is his spending. Find the buried lede!
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quote:Today he tells me that I'm not allowed to go to the store and get some medicine and a couple of groceries for dinner because we go to store too often and it's maxing out our credit card... I'm so frustrated at this point, obviously tomato sauce and chili powder isn't maxing out our credit card, it's all the other stuff he's buying. no medicine for YOU! and of course he's a grad student. in economics. it all makes sense.
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Apr 22, 2018 23:37
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband doesn't realize that he's the one maxing out our credit card. an economist that is a complete idiot about money? Well I never 
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i mean he does seem to have completely nailed down american economics so i dont see the problem
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i also love this onequote:because once he gets a job we will have tons of disposable income mmmmmhmmm. soon, the problem will be that we have too MUCH money.
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Apr 22, 2018 23:38
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Skutter posted:This post is inane and the person writes like a loving idiot. Who needs to ask other people if they should have some type of sex or not, especially when they seem interested in doing so? Women do this. Though those less idiotic than the OP usually have friends they can talk to to instead of Reddit.
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Apr 22, 2018 23:39
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband doesn't realize that he's the one maxing out our credit card. Okay so it's tobacco and alcohol purchases. Wait no, it's that he spent 300 on ram. Probably mines bitcoin. Aha, it's clearly purchasing a video game system as a gift for the wife he intends to use himself. I've got it, he's studying to be an economist!
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Pick posted:i also love this one To her credit, she’s already anticipated that he’s just going to spend more in response.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [30M] with my wife [30F] of 2 years, having problems because I went on a trip without her after she forgot her passport. The word 'we' is the crux of his entire post. If he pushed her to race home alone / rebook, she has every right to be pissed. Otherwise, ehhhh
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I show up to work on time every day, do they call me Bob the Punctual Guy? No. I give great gifts in the office Secret Santa, do they call me Santa Bob? Of course not. I absolutely did not get caught making GBS threads in six out of seven of my coworkers' bag lunches, do you think they call me Bob The 85% Not The Office Shitter? No, they just call the police. quoting this. Bored posted:Poor people? Brother owns a house. The mother and daughter own several cats. Boyfriend rents an apartment, as does daughter . I don't think being poor means sharing beds, but it's more like Future MIL/Mom is crazy. You are right in general though. The OP mentions he's blind and lives in a particular apartment complex meant for disabled/60+ year olds, so Future MIL could at least move out into the same apartment complex. But seriously sharing a bed with your parents is Weird. Capital W. LadyPictureShow posted:I once watched someone eat about half a dozen Spam musubi (its like a spam sushi roll) going on about how good they were. She asked the host what the meat was, and when he told her, she spit her mouthful into a napkin and threw her plate in the trash.  should have suplexed her, imo. Spam Musubi is a holy food, imo.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband doesn't realize that he's the one maxing out our credit card. Put a stop to this poo poo, immediately. Sit him down, show him every penny of expenditure you can track, and, if he continues to not see it, go directly to a divorce lawyer. I am not kidding, at all. This poo poo will only get worse, and it will ruin your entire loving life. If you want to work through it, you need to set a hard cutoff. "You've got six months to turn this around, else I'm gone." Otherwise, it's going to be thirty years of excuses, and heartache, and the occasional month or two here and there where you really think he might be getting better, followed by a backslide, and you will never be out from under the pressure of constantly being right on the verge of ruination. There will never be enough money. His spending will grow to make sure that every penny that comes in goes right back out, + a few bucks on the credit card. Also, get a loving SodaStream. "One or two packages" of sparkling water per week. Jesus.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:let's probably not delve too deeply into the list of hypothetical situations where arbc thinks selectively loving the people whose futures depend on your favor is totally prudent and justified quote:Our sex life is normal. I actually have a higher sex drive than he does I wonder if it’s occurred to this woman that the reason she has a “higher sex drive” is that she’s no longer a pubescent teenager and that doesn’t do it for her pedo husband
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:The word 'we' is the crux of his entire post. Actually he said he would not go if she didn’t make it soooo no matter what she has every right to be pissed. It’s a pretty solid dick move.
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Pick posted:I know an absolute shitload of people who do the latter and I agree it's bizarre. this one is simple, add another entry to the list of "people are huge whiny irrational lovely babies"
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MarcusSA posted:Actually he said he would not go if she didn’t make it soooo no matter what she has every right to be pissed. No, he did not. quote:We made the decision that I would stay and go if she didn't make it back in time and she'd rebook and meet me there.
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