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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah there's certainly that aspect too I just wonder if it's something the police would take seriously in the first place. I was gonna say he should go to the police but then I realized it really depends where you are on if they'll take you seriously or just make fun of you for 'letting' a woman rape you  Hell it may even just come down to how much empathy that individual cop you meet first has.
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Doc Hawkins posted:What I read is that you think this thread is too down on sexual relationships between teens and non-teens, so I'd be happy to learn that I misunderstood you. Basically what the other guy said. Like one example was a woman posting a 23 year old woman was cheating on her husband of 6 years. One of the first responses was to call her husband a pedo. His age wasn't posted or even alluded to. Personally I would say 17 is too young to get married, but there was nothing to say he wasn't an idiot teenager as well. Your first response to me was to jump straight to suggesting I was a pedo, do you not think thats a bit of a weird thing to do?
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:Me [30's M] very angry with my gf [30'sF] - 5 years, for not listening to me and getting our little dog killed You move forward by dumping the idiot girlfriend and find one that respects leash laws.
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May 22, 2018 18:17
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The_end posted:You move forward by dumping the idiot girlfriend and find one that respects leash laws.
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Doc Hawkins posted:What I read is that you think this thread is too down on sexual relationships between teens and non-teens, so I'd be happy to learn that I misunderstood you. I think a 20M with a 19F is a pedophile, as is an 18M with a 17F. Should I (M22) dump my girlfriend (21F) for suggesting an open relationship? quote:Me and my girlfriend were talking about how much she wants to try being with a girl. I told her I didn’t care if she saw other people as long as there were no guys. Ending the relationship is abuse and if you try to do that, she should dump you.
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May 22, 2018 18:21
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fruit on the bottom posted:I think a 20M with a 19F is a pedophile, as is an 18M with a 17F. See, on the one hand, I think it's dumb when people say 18- or 19-year-olds are literal children and anyone attempting to date one is a pedophile but on the other hand I'm reading the relationship issues of these 22- and 21-year-olds and all I can think is "jeez friggin kids" His girlfriend got curious about something she read on the Internet. It turned out she didn't like it in practice, so she's backing out. That kind of poo poo is what your early 20s are for.
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fruit on the bottom posted:I think a 20M with a 19F is a pedophile, as is an 18M with a 17F. She has already hosed several other men and is garbage in general, dump her You are also garbage though so dump yourself if possible
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Yeah, she doesn't care or want to gently caress other people; she just wants the option to do so whenever she wants. NBD. I don't understand why people don't just date casually if they want to be with other people. Is it just that they want their emotional needs met with a "serious" partner, but still want to screw around?
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May 22, 2018 18:27
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Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, she doesn't care or want to gently caress other people; she just wants the option to do so whenever she wants. NBD. They want to have a backup because they are terrified of being alone
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May 22, 2018 18:29
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Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, she doesn't care or want to gently caress other people; she just wants the option to do so whenever she wants. NBD. yes
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Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, she doesn't care or want to gently caress other people; she just wants the option to do so whenever she wants. NBD. Yeah, they want to meet and gently caress new people, but they also want a "sure thing" waiting at home It is an extremely juvenile thing to want and honestly kudos to the girlfriend for figuring out what a colossally dumb idea she had had and mashing the eject button on it before somebody got hurt
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:Me [30's M] very angry with my gf [30'sF] - 5 years, for not listening to me and getting our little dog killed I know everyone else already said it, but I hate this person so much I have to reiterate: there's no coming back from this. Depending on the state, it may well have been illegal. (Some states don't have leash laws, some states with leash laws restrict it only to public areas or dogs that are in heat or 'vicious', and some say that they need to be leashed or otherwise contained even on your property.) But that's not the issue here - she was adamant about ignoring his wishes and being irresponsible with an animal he loves. She killed his dog through negligence, she's 100% at fault, and he needs to 
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Kelly posted:We live on the woods and when we get a dog in a year or two it will be a lab or something big because I will be so worried about a small dog here I would actually lose sleep. I am getting worried for you as a matter of fact. Little dog only goes outside with me on a leash and usually has our medium dog which is a pit by his side while he's in the yard. The landlord has a kangal/dogo and a rottweiler that usually keep big things away, and if something gets past that they still have to get through eight cows and three horses that stomp unfamiliar canines. He's relatively safe but I still worry. I honestly can't imagine caring so little about someone that you let a little creature they love die. Terrible loving person. Scathach fucked around with this message at 18:35 on May 22, 2018 |
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My neighborhood has a lot of free range doggos but they're all big and they all run around in a pack together. I can't imagine how fast a small dog off its leash would be eaten. Like why would you do that
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girl pants posted:My neighborhood has a lot of free range doggos but they're all big and they all run around in a pack together. I can't imagine how fast a small dog off its leash would be eaten. Like why would you do that Someone down the street from us has two maremma sheepdogs and one gets loose late at night and wanders up and down the street challenging cars. Luckily all the houses are 20+acres apart but it's still creepy as poo poo. E: I've said it before and I'll say it again-- I'm glad the only relationship issue me and mine have is cancer. Rather deal with cancer than lovely people and drama. Scathach fucked around with this message at 18:41 on May 22, 2018 |
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If the dog thing was just a freak occurrence, that's one thing. But she's literally seen him be captured by a Coyote before and narrowly escape and she still brushed it off. Like, god gave you a second chance with this dog and you said "nah lol." gently caress you forever, there's no coming back. She should never have a dog again or a boyfriend again or oxygen again. I also think asking about an open relationship is instant breakup grounds. It doesn't matter how willing they are to accept it if you say no. Asking alone is a breakup/divorce worthy crime.
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May 22, 2018 18:46
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Hellblazer187 posted:I also think asking about an open relationship is instant breakup grounds. It doesn't matter how willing they are to accept it if you say no. Asking alone is a breakup/divorce worthy crime. yeah 100% agree and the bafflement and upset reactions of people who say "what, they're just asking!" are missing the point in almost the exact same way as in those "asexual partner is upset that their partner is leaving them and is unhappy with being offered sex knowing the other party isn't into it" are. bells can't be unrung, basically
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May 22, 2018 19:02
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Leon Einstein posted:I don't think she was doing anything illegal; just stupid. She was existing in the 'Bad Thing won't happen to me because.....because" overconfident mindset that makes people get shocked when they, say, get into a bad car wreck, or get cancer, or something like a violent murder-suicide or school shooting happens in their town. That's stuff that happens to Other People, not me! We're ALL Other People.
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May 22, 2018 19:06
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Scathach posted:Little dog only goes outside with me on a leash and usually has our medium dog which is a pit by his side while he's in the yard. The landlord has a kangal/dogo and a rottweiler that usually keep big things away, and if something gets past that they still have to get through eight cows and three horses that stomp unfamiliar canines. He's relatively safe but I still worry. We have a problem with loving HAWKS swooping down and grabbing small animals. As a matter of fact, my dad told me to watch my son (he is almost six, tall - all limbs and around 50 pounds) because a hawk might get him. 
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May 22, 2018 19:07
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value-brand cereal posted: I can vaguely relate. No butt stuff happened to me.
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I [19F] need some advice on dealing with my facequote:I don't want to sound like a snob, so I don't really know how to say this, but I am very lucky with my face and body. I don't know how else to put this, I'm in college right now and I any class I take, I'm usually the best looking woman in the room. I have been offered to act or model many times but I prefer to go to school and study. It doesn't help that I am a "girly girl" and do a lot to maintain my skin, hair, and body and dress well. I also have a cultural background that places a lot of importance on women maintaining their looks, my mother is a very beautiful woman and put these values in me. I always dress nicely, not too much, but for school I put on some nice clothes always, I have never worn sweatpants or leggings outside the house. Not that there is something bad about this! Just, it is not what I do. I feel out of place a lot because I always do a nice hairstyle for school, blouse, nice skirt, pretty shoes, so I feel out of place because most people dress much differently. I don't want to seem like I think I am better, I was just raised to dress very nice when going out, it is part of me I don't want to change. It’s because they know you’re not giving nice guys a chance. NEXT!
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If I had to guess, she's subconsciously broadcasting that she thinks she's the best-looking in the room and not doing as great of a job covering it up as she thinks. There's a lot of quietly loaded statements in there which, even if she doesn't mean to, clearly broadcasts her value system. She might say she's fine with others wearing sweatpants and leggings, but is she really? Really? You don't bring it up as an example of what you 'won't do' if you don't also kinda look down on it.
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She could try to adopt a Cool Nerd Girl persona to make herself more approachable maybe, but then of course the other women wouldn't be able to get a word in around the stammering of awkward men
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fruit on the bottom posted:I [19F] need some advice on dealing with my face Oh poo poo I rolled my eyes so hard they got stuck in the back of my head somebody help
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Hellblazer187 posted:I also think asking about an open relationship is instant breakup grounds. It doesn't matter how willing they are to accept it if you say no. Asking alone is a breakup/divorce worthy crime. Agree. I can't recall a single time in this massive thread where asking for an open relationship wasn't an indicator of another problem. Like, it would always be something like "I cheated, can we have an open relationship so it doesn't 'count' as cheating?" or "I really want to cheat and scoped out a partner but want permission to sleep with them (also if you say no I'm still going to sleep with them.)"
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I should stop being so surprised at how often this question gets asked. My friend [37F] has asked me [32M] to have a baby with her. Good idea? Bad idea? quote:Beth and I have known each other for 10 years. We met while working together and have been friends ever since. We just seemed to click, but we also have a number of things in common. Although we haven't worked together in quite some time, we see each other often and remain close.
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"robbing" her? dude she's got agency, she's loving asking, let her decide what would be 'robbing' her, goddamn also is he chris traeger?
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May 22, 2018 19:39
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girl pants posted:Oh poo poo I rolled my eyes so hard they got stuck in the back of my head somebody help Also, people shouldn't have kids with their friends just for the heck of it.
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Dienes posted:Agree. I can't recall a single time in this massive thread where asking for an open relationship wasn't an indicator of another problem. Like, it would always be something like "I cheated, can we have an open relationship so it doesn't 'count' as cheating?" or "I really want to cheat and scoped out a partner but want permission to sleep with them (also if you say no I'm still going to sleep with them.)" I've actually even been a victim of this. My first relationship my partner asked for this. We were like 27, had been together since 20. I said "Well, maybe in the future we might both feel this way, since we have been each other's only partners, but right now I'm not comfortable with this." And next day she was talking to a dude about boning and I was like wait a minute! She said they never boned but looking back on things I'm pretty sure they did, and probably she also hosed the guy at the tobacco shop who just magically spent a day at our house when I was away for work tee hee we're just friends. I stuck around another 2 years because I was/am completely spineless. Actually she left me. Hopefully I learned a bit from it and wouldn't be as spineless if it happened again.
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Leon Einstein posted:We can tell she's stuck up without even seeing her. I can imagine how high she holds her nose in person. That being said, I've seen women get really catty around attractive women due to jealousy. it's a vicious cycle but it can be broken out of by pulling one's head out of their rear end Leon Einstein posted:Also, people shouldn't have kids with their friends just for the heck of it. seems about as good a reason as people having babies with one-night stands they don't even know bc 'i have to take responsibility' actually it kinda seems better bc at least this baby is wanted by both parents, who know they get along, and who are at a stable point in their lives
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StrangersInTheNight posted:seems about as good a reason as people having babies with one-night stands they don't even know bc 'i have to take responsibility'
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StrangersInTheNight posted:actually it kinda seems better bc at least this baby is wanted by both parents, who know they get along, and who are at a stable point in their lives counterpoint: it will make dating for him difficult in the future-- imagine being on a date with someone who tells you they Just Friends had a child with their friend and they're coparenting? i would definitely run from that.
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I'm [30m] and she's a [31f] she just found out she's pregnant and were keeping itquote:Gf is pregnant not sure what to do. Were both broke I'm 30 she's 31. I'm have 14 classes left of college and haven't done a internship yet. I'm an i.t. major. I told both my parents yesterday and my dad freaked the gently caress out. I have no job, she has no job and baby is due at the end of January of next year. She's 6 weeks in right now. I'm loving terrified. I love her we've been together for 7 years. We had an abortion just last year. She hates birth control because it makes her depressed and gives her mood swings and i dont like using condoms because i injured my dick a while back and it became numb so i dont have alot of feeling there. quote:I'm full time school and she's in between jobs.her dad gives her money for groceries and we both live with our parents I still can't believe those ages.
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girl pants posted:counterpoint: it will make dating for him difficult in the future-- imagine being on a date with someone who tells you they Just Friends had a child with their friend and they're coparenting? i would definitely run from that. It does sound a little red-flaggy but I'm not really sure how it's that distinct from being amiably divorced and sharing custody with your ex
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fruit on the bottom posted:I [19F] need some advice on dealing with my face Oh god I worked with a woman like this. There’s layers and layers and layers to why everyone found her supremely obnoxious, ranging from how vain she was to how obsessed with appearing “perfect” she was to how she made literally every other woman in her zip code look frumpy by comparison to the fact she’d happily throw you under the bus the instant she thought it’d make her look good. It was 10% jealousy and 90% “omg this vapid rear end in a top hat again.” She’s currently working for Big Tech Company in silicone valley and carries around a tripod and a drone to take pics of herself with for her Instagram.
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Doggles posted:I'm [30m] and she's a [31f] she just found out she's pregnant and were keeping it Sounds like they need to start experimenting with buttsex after they get an additional abortion ofc
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girl pants posted:counterpoint: it will make dating for him difficult in the future-- imagine being on a date with someone who tells you they Just Friends had a child with their friend and they're coparenting? i would definitely run from that. Counterpoint he has a portfolio to demonstrate to prospective mates
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Doggles posted:I'm [30m] and she's a [31f] she just found out she's pregnant and were keeping it
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