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girl pants posted:I [28f] am pretty convinced I have “supernatural” experiences regularly. My fiancé [29m] who I’ve been with for 5 years makes fun of me for believing in what I feel I see and and experience.  I was all set to write a seriouspost about how if your "reality" gives you sweating hyperventilating near-panic attacks, regularly, you need to do something to address it because that's no way to live but that loving ending  just lol
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Comments, unsurprisingly, are 95% Redditors telling the OP to see a drat doctor and OP's replies are 100% trying to steer the conversation back toward how her boyfriend is a jerk They're pretty harsh on the boyfriend too but honestly refusing to seek help for an issue as major as this is a huge red flag and he's a loving saint for just making fun of her for it instead of walking out over it
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May 23, 2018 15:12
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Just sounds like sleep paralysis happening to a moron
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May 23, 2018 15:13
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loquacius posted:Comments, unsurprisingly, are 95% Redditors telling the OP to see a drat doctor and OP's replies are 100% trying to steer the conversation back toward how her boyfriend is a jerk She sounds like shes big enough to be blocking all the exits
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May 23, 2018 15:14
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [16M] with my lady [41F] I'm unsure what is going on in this "relationship" quote:But then as you can imagine things kinda got confusing in my head because she was attractive and i had hormones. Ah to be a teen again.
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May 23, 2018 15:28
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True story: I have a friend who, when he was in his 20s, hooked up a few times with a woman in her 70s that he met on Fetlife. He said she kept complaining about her kids and casually mentioning that she had these boxes that needed to be taken up to the attic. Cheaper than hiring a mover I guess.
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May 23, 2018 15:31
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failing forward posted:Went over to a friends' place. Thought we were going to watch an Attenborough documentary. Turned out to be porn. Some guys I went to college with were renting a house near where I live and I dropped by to visit one evening and they were all sitting in the back yard drinking beer and watching hardcore pornography on a laptop, just right there in open view of about 5 other houses. Just 4 dudes watching 4 dudes run a train on Sasha Grey. I left pretty quick, it was odd.
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May 23, 2018 15:34
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May 23, 2018 15:38
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girl pants posted:True story: I have a friend who, when he was in his 20s, hooked up a few times with a woman in her 70s that he met on Fetlife. He said she kept complaining about her kids and casually mentioning that she had these boxes that needed to be taken up to the attic. Cheaper than hiring a mover I guess. what fetish would that be ab...you know what nah. just nah, y'know?
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Jeza posted:what fetish would that be ab...you know what Sometimes you've gotta clean out an old box. 
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May 23, 2018 15:41
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tactlessbastard posted:Some guys I went to college with were renting a house near where I live and I dropped by to visit one evening and they were all sitting in the back yard drinking beer and watching hardcore pornography on a laptop, just right there in open view of about 5 other houses. Just 4 dudes watching 4 dudes run a train on Sasha Grey. I left pretty quick, it was odd. Remember all the stories of the early Goon Meets where theyd 'ironically' put on gay porn and watch it together and talk about how hilarious it was
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May 23, 2018 15:41
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once when I was a college freshman I went to a dudes apartment for a small-ish party and he decided to put on the pirates porn and he was really bummed and confused when like half of us left as soon as it he actually started the movie lol
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May 23, 2018 15:43
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:once when I was a college freshman I went to a dudes apartment for a small-ish party and he decided to put on the pirates porn and he was really bummed and confused when like half of us left as soon as it he actually started the movie lol the Pirates porn: funny to talk about the concept of, awkward to discuss the specific details of, super awkward to actually put on to watch with people
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May 23, 2018 15:52
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Meme Emulator posted:Remember all the stories of the early Goon Meets where theyd 'ironically' put on gay porn and watch it together and talk about how hilarious it was In high school at a party someone put on a bestiality video they had stolen from one of their parents or something, it was very weird.
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May 23, 2018 15:55
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What is it with all these people watching porn in large groups
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May 23, 2018 15:57
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La Brea Carpet posted:Haunted At Every Size
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May 23, 2018 16:01
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girl pants posted:What is it with all these people watching porn in large groups Decadent western society, if I had to guess
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May 23, 2018 16:02
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Once at a college party I went to, someone put on a weird porn he had found involving pterodactyl costumes It was one of the host's roommates and I suspect he was trying to make everyone leave so he could get some sleep He also spent a while discussing a horrific injury he had suffered to his scrotum while biking
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May 23, 2018 16:02
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La Brea Carpet posted:Sometimes you've gotta clean out an old box.
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May 23, 2018 16:03
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loquacius posted:Comments, unsurprisingly, are 95% Redditors telling the OP to see a drat doctor and OP's replies are 100% trying to steer the conversation back toward how her boyfriend is a jerk Yeah, the boyfriend does kind of sound a bit mean here, but if she's actively refusing to do anything about her problem then he's clearly just at his breaking point on the issue (especially since she insists on framing it as paranormal instead of some sort of medical issue).
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loquacius posted:Once at a college party I went to, someone put on a weird porn he had found involving pterodactyl costumes If I had friends I would totally do this.
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May 23, 2018 16:05
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girl pants posted:True story: I have a friend who, when he was in his 20s, hooked up a few times with a woman in her 70s that he met on Fetlife. He said she kept complaining about her kids and casually mentioning that she had these boxes that needed to be taken up to the attic. Cheaper than hiring a mover I guess. You know i dont think this was the intention but the way youve presented it this reads like a gothic horror novel
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May 23, 2018 16:07
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Ouhei posted:Yeah, the boyfriend does kind of sound a bit mean here, but if she's actively refusing to do anything about her problem then he's clearly just at his breaking point on the issue (especially since she insists on framing it as paranormal instead of some sort of medical issue). Sounds like she has sleep apnea and it's giving her night terrors
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May 23, 2018 16:10
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CheesyDog posted:Sounds like she has sleep apnea and it's giving her night terrors I actually hope it is sleep apnea, because then the doctor's advice would be "lose weight," he would be 100% correct, and OP would absolutely melt down about it and lose her boyfriend
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May 23, 2018 16:14
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Barudak posted:You know i dont think this was the intention but the way youve presented it this reads like a gothic horror novel Fetlife Gothic
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Ouhei posted:Yeah, the boyfriend does kind of sound a bit mean here, but if she's actively refusing to do anything about her problem then he's clearly just at his breaking point on the issue (especially since she insists on framing it as paranormal instead of some sort of medical issue). Sounds like she's waking him up every night after returning from her abduction by faeries. I'd be pretty pissed off too.
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May 23, 2018 16:19
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CheesyDog posted:Sounds like she has sleep apnea and it's giving her night terrors This is the first thing I thought of after reading her post. When I was fat I had very severe sleep apnea and it caused all sorts of hosed up issues with my sleep. I lost 120lbs and the problem went away. Or I was haunted by a ghost who just really wanted me to lose weight. 
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May 23, 2018 16:20
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I was once hanging out with a male friend and a female friend, and the male friend put on an MMF video so I suspect he was trying to send a signal to the girl. She just said "gross" and he turned it off. Also yeah one time my friend showed me a weird dinosaur porn, because of the weird humor of it. Once at a poker game someone had a girls gone wild video playing on the TV in the background. That's about all I can think of as far as seeing porn with other people around.
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May 23, 2018 16:22
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In college one of my friends was dating this selfish annoying girl that we all hated. Eventually we found out that she gets transfixed by porn and will just sit there in silence and watch the whole thing. So every party we had when she was there we had a laptop playing the longest porn videos we could find just so we could ignore her all night.
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May 23, 2018 16:23
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loquacius posted:I actually hope it is sleep apnea, because then the doctor's advice would be "lose weight," he would be 100% correct, and OP would absolutely melt down about it and lose her boyfriend I bet this is exactly what happened
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taint toucher posted:This is the first thing I thought of after reading her post. When I was fat I had very severe sleep apnea and it caused all sorts of hosed up issues with my sleep. I lost 120lbs and the problem went away. Unrelated, but what was your key to losing the 120? I've also lost 120 but put like 70 back on. I'm doing the same thing I did before but it works less good 6 years later. Who would have thought 29 and 35 could feel so different!
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May 23, 2018 16:24
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girl pants posted:Fetlife Gothic A Rosebud for Emily
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duck trucker posted:In college one of my friends was dating this selfish annoying girl that we all hated. Eventually we found out that she gets transfixed by porn and will just sit there in silence and watch the whole thing. Hahaha this owns
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duck trucker posted:In college one of my friends was dating this selfish annoying girl that we all hated. Eventually we found out that she gets transfixed by porn and will just sit there in silence and watch the whole thing. This is incredible. Did she just sit there unblinkingly staring at it, did she drool, was she like a dog with a mirror?
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Hellblazer187 posted:Unrelated, but what was your key to losing the 120? I've also lost 120 but put like 70 back on. I'm doing the same thing I did before but it works less good 6 years later. Who would have thought 29 and 35 could feel so different! It's super different for everyone but for me it started with therapy to address my issues with emotional eating and then lots of dedication to eating right and exercise. I took up weight lifting and running, quit drinking so much and started paying more attention to my portion sizes. I've kept the weight off for around 3 years now.
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May 23, 2018 16:28
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Erotica triggered micro seizures are no joke.
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May 23, 2018 16:29
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Lol just lol at having the options of: a) go to the doctor and follow his/her advice (i.e. lose weight), or b) keep suffering from terrifying nighttime experiences that are poisoning your relationship, and choosing b).
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May 23, 2018 16:32
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I think some guys think that putting on a porn in a group setting will trigger people to spontaneously start loving.
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Bogus Adventure posted:Lol just lol at having the options of: a) go to the doctor and follow his/her advice (i.e. lose weight), or b) keep suffering from terrifying nighttime experiences that are poisoning your relationship, and choosing b). You must be new to the Health At Every Size concept
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Barudak posted:You must be new to the Health At Every Size concept Oh no, I'm quite aware. I'm a former fat person, and I hate this movement with a passion.
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