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You can’t set rules and expectations for your children’s behavior, or not buy them $300,000 educations. That’s abuse.
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value-brand cereal posted:"I have been a handsy parent so when she threatened to not visit us for a week(she has 4 weeks off), " I’m guessing just a typo/autocorrect for hands-on.
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Pick posted:I was really disappointed you weren't in the last game, you would have been great on the orca case.  me too.Edit: wait, there's been one more since then. The Apollo's step-brother one. I liked it. Bored fucked around with this message at 19:41 on May 28, 2018 |
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Boyfriend [25m] keeps being contacted by his mother’s landlord/friend [35F] at odd hours of the nights.quote:My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and a half now. We have great communication, and I have no doubts about his fidelity and commitment to our relationship. We went on vacation to Vegas, and his spending habits while there really raised a red flag to me. He gambled a lot, I am not a gambler at all. I’m a “single mom” who works really hard and goes to college so I can’t splurge. I mentioned to him this was a concern and that I wasn’t happy with this situation since we have been saving to buy a house and move in together before the fall next year. He didn’t see an issue since we were on vacation and didn’t understand where I was coming from. This led me to take a step back and we went on a “break” for two weeks per my request. This is relevant because his mother mentioned to her landlord(35 yo female) that we were on a break. How badly does the boyfriend's mom hate the girlfriend that she is pushing a serial killer on her son?
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May 28, 2018 19:47
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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:You can’t set rules and expectations for your children’s behavior, or not buy them $300,000 educations. That’s abuse. If the normal kid brought a dude with her during the week visit, what kinda guy do you think would piss off the dad the most? African-American? Sub-Saharan African? Pakistani with 2 wives?
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May 28, 2018 19:58
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Dienes posted:Boyfriend [25m] keeps being contacted by his mother’s landlord/friend [35F] at odd hours of the nights. Now I really want to know how much he blew on gambling. Was it $500 or $10,000?
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May 28, 2018 20:00
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That guy whose parents sued to evict him.
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My Imaginary GF posted:If the normal kid brought a dude with her during the week visit, what kinda guy do you think would piss off the dad the most? African-American? Sub-Saharan African? Pakistani with 2 wives?
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May 28, 2018 20:03
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My Imaginary GF posted:If the normal kid brought a dude with her during the week visit, what kinda guy do you think would piss off the dad the most? African-American? Sub-Saharan African? Pakistani with 2 wives? this is a conversation that definitely won't go into any weird directions
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May 28, 2018 20:06
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kathmandu posted:Now I really want to know how much he blew on gambling. Was it $500 or $10,000? enough to be single for two weeks i guess? like did she schedule it? "ok from now until next sunday or so we aint together, but ill text you next sunday ok" did she see it as two weeks of punishment? two weeks in the single corner for you mr
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quote:My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and a half now. We have great communication, and I have no doubts about his fidelity and commitment to our relationship. We went on vacation to Vegas, and his spending habits while there really raised a red flag to me. He gambled a lot, I am not a gambler at all. I’m a “single mom” who works really hard and goes to college so I can’t splurge. I mentioned to him this was a concern and that I wasn’t happy with this situation since we have been saving to buy a house and move in together before the fall next year. He didn’t see an issue since we were on vacation and didn’t understand where I was coming from. This led me to take a step back and we went on a “break” for two weeks per my request. Oh man. Takeaways: 1) The boyfriend is the one saving up for the house, not the single mom going to college, if this wasn't already incredibly clear. 2) The girlfriend takes an ultra-manipulative relationship "break" when she realizes that the boyfriend is spending some of his own money gambling (while on a vacation in Vegas - the horror of it all) despite having no intention of breaking up, like she's punishing her pet dog for pooping on the rug. 3) The girlfriend has earmarked all of boyfriend's spare income after expenses as "house money" so she flips a poo poo every time he drops some cash. In essence, she regards it as her money, not his. 4) The boyfriend's mom is down with the landlady trying to break up the relationship. Not a great look on her part, but desperate times call for desperate measures I guess. Girlfriend seems like a sociopath. Taima fucked around with this message at 20:35 on May 28, 2018 |
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May 28, 2018 20:26
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Taima posted:Oh man. Takeaways: If you stretch any harder, you're going to break something.
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May 28, 2018 20:40
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I [28 M] suggested an open relationship, my girlfriend [26 F] of 2 years is really into the idea and I'm not.quote:I will start by saying I know I was in the wrong for my behavior and I feel terrible. I need to know how to fix this because I can't let one mistake ruin the best relationship I've been in. Gotta love a classic. Might as well  because there's no closing that Pandora's Box now that you opened it.
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May 28, 2018 20:49
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Generally speaking, who the gently caress wants to bang a coworker? It's pretty much a guarantee, unless they're a huge idiot who doesn't understand office politics, that they're not the person they appear to be based on professional interactions.
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May 28, 2018 20:58
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If you don't have a completely different reputation and personality among the dispassionately demarcated social subsets of your life, maybe you're just like some kind of complete failure idiot.
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May 28, 2018 20:59
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I dunno, I think he should just come clean and tell her how he feels. It's PROBABLY not going to fix anything but he's living in hell if he says nothing. Edit: He should have come clean on the night he DIDN'T gently caress the coworker. "I thought I wanted this, but I just want you." Either she appreciates it or she really wants to bone her coworker and doesn't appreciate it.
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Hellblazer187 posted:I dunno, I think he should just come clean and tell her how he feels. It's PROBABLY not going to fix anything but he's living in hell if he says nothing. quote:I told her that I didn't sleep with my coworker and why but she insists I still can.
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Pick posted:Generally speaking, who the gently caress wants to bang a coworker? It's pretty much a guarantee, unless they're a huge idiot who doesn't understand office politics, that they're not the person they appear to be based on professional interactions. I mean, one of my coworkers is a former NFL cheerleader
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May 28, 2018 21:10
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Bobby Digital posted:I mean, one of my coworkers is a former NFL cheerleader you liar, robin williams is dead
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:This guy sounds like he's bad with words, but no matter how badly he expressed his change of heart it's clearly the second. Oh, I missed that. The relationship is done unless he decides to develop a cuck fetish.
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May 28, 2018 21:15
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Dienes posted:I [28 M] suggested an open relationship, my girlfriend [26 F] of 2 years is really into the idea and I'm not. Remember, monogamy is an unnatural institution forced on people completely against their wills, and if you don’t want your partner loving literally everything that moves all the time, it’s a sign that you’re a weak-minded square who has been brainwashed by your despicable culture. As such, this guy needs to suck it up and learn to enjoy having a girlfriend who fucks other men. Alternatively, if he’s a moral coward who can’t get control of his emotions, he can just sever. “I wanted to gently caress someone else, so I suggested an open relationship, but it turns out that means we both get to gently caress other people, and now I don’t like it,” is pretty much neck-and-neck with “premature sports celebration” as my favorite form of schadenfreude.
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My [23f] boyfriend [23m] thinks he is talented but he is not. this sounds awful, i know. we have been dating for a year and a half and i love him so much, we are best friends and get on great. i've always known that he was into writing music but he never got round to singing or performing to me, which i assumed was out of shyness. last night, me, him, and about four of our friends went to a bar to drink. there was an open mic and a guy was singing with an acoustic guitar. we were sitting drinking and he started laughing at him - the guy was very off key so we all quietly giggled for like 2 seconds but obviously made sure the singer didn't see us because that's rude. but he loudly laughed at him and didn't applaud when he finished. i thought this was extremely out of character as he is usually very polite and kind to everyone.we were about two rounds in at this point, so i thought maybe he was just a bit tipsy (?). then they asked if anyone wanted to sing, and he enthusiastically volunteered. the previous guy (poor kid) politely offered his guitar if my boyfriend wanted it, to which he laughed in a really patronising way and declined. what happened next is gonna be hard to type out because i'm still cringing. he proceeded to (acapella) sort of chant/moan and sing a song that weaved a tale of him doing ayahuasca and cutting his hair, then digging up a grave and setting up a tent. there was a brief interval where he went "yesyesyes, oooooh". it was like a comedy skit, and i honestly thought he was joking until i heard the ayahuasca part and remembered he'd showed me a poem with that line in it. i don't know how you can be out of tune when it's acapella, but he managed it. he was out of tune with himself. with the air. when he was done, after like five whole minutes, there was applause (two guys in the bar looked like they were in tears from laughing) and my boyfriend sat back down and said "yeah, that's how it's done." and smiled. since then, he asked me if i enjoyed the performance. i said yeah, but it was so different from what i expected. he smiled and said "yeah, it's the only thing i'm good at". i'm honestly so confused. this seems so out of character, i see him kind of in a different light now? but he's perfect in every other way. but he was so cocky and almost delusional. i feel like if i tell him he was bad he'd just say that i didn't understand his vision or something. what should i do? i think he's planning on doing it again at some point soon and i honestly don't think i could handle that. i don't want him to feel bad but i also don't want to lie to him. tl;dr boyfriend performed at open mic and was awful but he genuinely thinks it was great, don't know how to tell him i didn't like it
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [23f] boyfriend [23m] thinks he is talented but he is not. This is one of the best posts ever made in r/r and I hope the OP brings him crashing back down to earth somehow and records his reaction.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [23f] boyfriend [23m] thinks he is talented but he is not. Hooooly poo poo. We need to keep an eye on this one. He was out of tune with himself, the air. Lol.
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Dienes posted:I [28 M] suggested an open relationship, my girlfriend [26 F] of 2 years is really into the idea and I'm not. One better approach to open relationships as a man in a male/female relationship may be to establish strict boundries during exploratory discussions. For instance, that it only applies to individuals of one gender whom both parters feel attraction, desire, or willingness for exploration towards. Another good boundry may be that the exploration only move forward when both partners mutually agree on a collaboratively developed plan of action. Of course, even with an initial acceptance and respect for these boundries, an open relationship can still go to poo poo if one partner crosses established boundries. NYPost posted:“[Natalya] was like, ‘Wait a minute. I thought this was only OK when it’s the three of us,’” says Sexton. “And he was like, ‘Oh, she wouldn’t mind.’ That’s when Natalya basically went to the wife and said, ‘Look. I don’t like this guy, I don’t think he’s got good intentions, and you deserve better. I could treat you better.’ Sure enough, the two of them took the kids and left.”
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [23f] boyfriend [23m] thinks he is talented but he is not. 
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Lmao, nice job imploding your marriage idiot My(32F) husband (35M) , married 2 years together for 7, saved the dog and ran when me and our twins (1F) were in danger. quote:u/leftouts1de On a separate note, if you’re having to involve a third party in your marriage to resolve issues on a regular basis, you are not in fact getting on well.
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Lmao, all the comments are “You should definitely bring this up with your therapist”. Jesus, someone has really done a number on your country. You cannot therapy your way out of being married to a man who leaves you and his children exposed to wasps and makes himself a sandwich and does gently caress all.
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Lol He made a sandwich Hahahah gently caress that’s good.
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Milotic posted:Lmao, all the comments are “You should definitely bring this up with your therapist”. Jesus, someone has really done a number on your country. You cannot therapy your way out of being married to a man who leaves you and his children exposed to wasps and makes himself a sandwich and does gently caress all. also it's going to be really awkward when you go in there and your therapist is a wasp
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Milotic posted:Lmao, nice job imploding your marriage idiot Ah, ha ha ha. Everyone in that story sucks, except Gina. Her: “We’re loving twice per week with infant twins in the house, so obviously we have intimacy problems.” “He’s a kind, sensitive, perceptive, loving man, but I also need him to be a masculine superman who knows how to keep his head and take charge in an emergency. Also, I’m not sure how sensitive he is, since he left our children to die at the hands of an insect swarm.” Him: [Hauls rear end into house, locks door leaving wife and children to die; saves dog] [Makes sandwich] Gina: “Gringos.”
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May 28, 2018 22:40
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Also awkward to let people know that, besides the fact you married/hosed a dipshit, you also hung out in a shed for an hour instead of making a break for it to call someone to rescue your stupid asses so your kids don't fry. Good parenting all around.
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yeah no one has to hide an hour from Polistes, ffs when I was in grad school I let them nest inside my apartment because it was funny because my apartment was lovely so it was like this whole thing we shared, me and the wasps. only one time a family member came by and tried to hit them with a shovel and this was the only time they ever stung anyone. they were my friends.
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