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Midnight Voyager posted:
It's always interesting to compare what or wasn't acceptable in my upbringing to other peoples'. My parents were very typical American Baby Boomers who wanted to be friends with their kids as well as parents, and were successful at it, IMO. In a lot of ways, they were definitely a Cool Mom and Cool Dad. The idea of using expletives as a severe behavior issue worth the most severe punishment made me do a double take, because my mom and I had a relationship where when I was a teen my mom and I would use a lot of ironic cursing like, "You can go out to ______ Catalina, but be back before 9PM" and I'd answer back like (completely ironically), "Yeah, yeah, just 9PM? That's cause you're a real bitch, mom" and she'd reply something like, "Yeah, yeah, you know I am" Just the other day, she accidentally dropped a soda bottle, and shook-up soda came bursting out of it. It was getting everywhere, and I started to say, "Motherfu--" and stopped, but when things had calmed down a bit, she looked me dead in the eyes and said, "You didn't have to stop on my account. That was a situation where you should say, 'Motherfucker!''"
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Scathach posted:I think he realized too late he had kids with a moron, and was hoping to take them all out in one fell swoop of wasps. I mean, he locked the door and made a sandwich. that's basically taunting a wasp, no wonder they stayed angry
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# ? May 29, 2018 02:53 |
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Milotic posted:Lmao, nice job imploding your marriage idiot I imagine this dude looks like and acts like Jerry from Rick and Morty.
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# ? May 29, 2018 02:57 |
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Salty Josh posted:I imagine this dude looks like and acts like Jerry from Rick and Morty. Hahaha I couldn't put my finger on it but that's exactly who he is
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# ? May 29, 2018 03:17 |
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lmao at this comment (bolding theirs)quote:If those wasps had gotten ahold of your children, they could have DIED. No exaggeration. He could have KILLED YOUR BABIES. He needs to understand just how serious this situation is.
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# ? May 29, 2018 03:55 |
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oh my god they're just wasps jfc get a GRIP
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# ? May 29, 2018 03:56 |
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Posted byu/friendbabythrow1 1 year ago My [22M] gay friend [21M] wants to get a girlfriend, have a bay and split with her. I'm lost for words.Personal issues https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4qw9w9/my_22m_gay_friend_21m_wants_to_get_a_girlfriend/ quote:If this was a random reddit post I came across I would assume it's a troll, however I can assure you it's not and I need some advice.
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# ? May 29, 2018 03:56 |
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it's a loving baby not an abandoned burrito the wasp isn't that into it!!
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# ? May 29, 2018 03:56 |
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I like Dirt Dobbers. Those are the friendly wasps.
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# ? May 29, 2018 03:56 |
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Scathach posted:Well she had another adult with them. I guess the other adult was a pansy-rear end too. I still think Gina’s OK. Scathach posted:I think he realized too late he had kids with a moron, and was hoping to take them all out in one fell swoop of wasps. I mean, he locked the door and made a sandwich. Whoa. I had not considered that. What if he planted the wasps? No one else saw him disturb the nest, right? He just ccame flying across the yard with the wasp militia in hot pursuit. Salty Josh posted:I imagine this dude looks like and acts like Jerry from Rick and Morty. I didn’t realize that’s what I was picturing, but that is aboslutely what I was picturing. value-brand cereal posted: Feed this guy to the wasps.
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:02 |
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Salty Josh posted:I like Dirt Dobbers. Those are the friendly wasps. Yeah they're wannabe wasps who keep trying to gentrify the northwest corner of my place.
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:07 |
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But they eat the bad bugs.
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:08 |
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git gud scrubquote:Me [21/M] and my girlfriend [20/F] got in a fight over Fortnite. I love that after this guy cockblocks himself and goes to the Internet for advice, his primary concern is explaining why his girlfriend's win doesn't actually count
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:20 |
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Straight White Shark posted:git gud scrub That post annoys me for what a dipshit that guy is I hope they break up Maybe she can fling a beehive at him or something
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:26 |
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quote:And you know what happened? She won a loving game. Owned, hard. Lmao
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:31 |
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I'm [26F] pregnant for the first time with husband's [36M] baby. His daughter [7F] from his first marriage is ruining my life.Personal issues https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2cg1kl/im_26f_pregnant_for_the_first_time_with_husbands/ quote:I'm sure my husband doesn't even know that reddit exists, but I'm sure we have friends who go on this sub so I'm using a throwaway for this one. I feel like the worst person in the world for typing this out to begin with but I need some reassurance or some practical ways I can handle this situation. UPDATE 1: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2cio4x/update_im_26f_pregnant_for_the_first_time_with/ quote:Since I've started walking around with my hands casually on my belly when around Ava, she hasn't been hitting me as much as she used to. This morning over breakfast, in front of both my husband and me, Ava told me that "I hope your baby dies." My husband had been asking her what she thinks we should name the baby - we came up with ways to try and include her in the pregnancy - and she said "nothing." After my husband and I both took turns asking her "Come on, you can think of a boy name and a girl name!" she told me "I hope your baby dies." UPDATE 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2d4cyr/final_update_im_26f_pregnant_for_the_first_time/ quote:Since my last update, we have put Ava into therapy and began attending marital counselling. Ava is going to therapy twice a week, and my husband and I are attending once a week. I'm glad that we managed to get everything out during our very first session, as we have the remainder of the sessions to work towards resolving the marriage as well. I feel bad for the 7 yo kid. You got poo poo parents all around.
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# ? May 29, 2018 04:48 |
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therobit posted:Just to be clear I think they are both giant retard babies for being scared of wasps. Wasps are not an emergency, and being afraid of them once you are no longer a child means you are a weakling and deserve your lovely life of fear. I weep for their children, who will have to be raised by these idiots, despite the fact that said children are clearly of defective genetic stock. What if I am a grown adult that is afraid of wasps and spiders but rather than cower like a weakling I respond as any white man does to things I fear and don’t understand? What I’m saying is that I’ve ordered drone strikes before and I’ll do it again.
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value-brand cereal posted:I'm [26F] pregnant for the first time with husband's [36M] baby. His daughter [7F] from his first marriage is ruining my life.Personal issues I'm not sure what stepmom is doing wrong here. She's in kind of a lovely situation and the main problem is her doormat husband.
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Hellblazer187 posted:I'm not sure what stepmom is doing wrong here. She's in kind of a lovely situation and the main problem is her doormat husband.
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Straight White Shark posted:I know that we both are at fault for last night... I'm not sure who shares most of the blame for last night lol glad he independently decided *actually it was BOTH sides*, and is probably hoping that all the r/r replies will be supporting him and the sanctity of video game turn-taking protocol.
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Hellblazer187 posted:I'm not sure what stepmom is doing wrong here. She's in kind of a lovely situation and the main problem is her doormat husband. “Rent a womb” and “Peanut” mostly Also hating a seven year old from a bad home for being a seven year old from a bad home. But mostly peanut. I do agree that there’s nothing she can do while pregnant, and getting out is the best option, but she’s going to have to work with her husband on parenting the little girl and not just foist it off on him like she’s been doing. And it’s going to be hard work. I don’t see her putting up with that level of effort for a kid she already admits she hates.
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# ? May 29, 2018 05:48 |
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It's just fun to read a story from the evil stepmother's point of view. This child is UNRULY, she needs to GO (to the woods, with my trusted huntsman).
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# ? May 29, 2018 06:19 |
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On the one hand the stepmom is totally disrespectful of the 7 year old daughter as a human person. On the other hand saying "I hope your baby dies" and trying to kick a pregnant woman in the stomach is absolute poo poo tier behavior. On top of all that the husband just keeps going "yeah I know she keeps saying she wants my next kid to die but do I reeeeaaaally have to ground her? " They're all lovely hooray
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# ? May 29, 2018 06:24 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Completely lacking sympathy for the 7 year old. From her post I'd say the things she's done are ok (no hitting, trying to set boundaries, moving out for her own mental health and for father and daughter to bond, going to therapy) but the post is dripping with an incredible amount of resentment and there's no way, no matter how well she thinks she's hiding it, that the daughter who already has lovely habits and was abandoned by her mother isn't sensing it and reacting to it. Mother's clearly got some unresolved issues getting into a relationship with a divorced 30M at 20F. With that said, having a Developmentally Delayed/Emotional Behavioral Disorder kid dropped on your home life with little or no advanced notice would strain even the strongest of well-functioning relationships. I've done individual sessions and facilitated group with DD/EBD kids before. Even with formal training and guidance, its a helluva challenge. pidan posted:It's just fun to read a story from the evil stepmother's point of view. Sometimes, a child poses a safety threat to their caregivers. There is a line between unruly child because of potential unmedicated ADD/ADHD or behavioral issues resulting from developmental/neurological disability, and a child attempting to induce an abortion on their step-mother.
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# ? May 29, 2018 06:33 |
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dude even a kid can legit kill a baby by kicking mom. it's not unheard of, at all.
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Pick posted:dude even a kid can legit kill a baby by kicking mom. it's not unheard of, at all. A lot of the likely future outcomes for the kid depend upon the state they live in. At 7, the kid's too young to qualify for SPED services under EBD, however if they are in a competent district are likely to have been referred for SPED services under Developmental Delay. DD is kinda a catch-all category for SPED qualification. Basically, it means 'we supect somethings here, and can't give a formal eval/assessment to qualify for SPED until you turn 8.' Qualifying for SPED as DD, the kid may qualify for colocated mental health services depending upon their level of functioning in the school environment, district priorities, and persistence of the parents or guardians in advocating for services. For a kid like that 7 year old, I'm gonna guess they'd need at least 6 - 12 months of day or residential treatment, depending upon a whole lot of variables such as how they respond to treatment, the role of the birth-mom in their life, and the full extent of abuse and trauma suffered. If you're in a red state, for the most part its sorry kid, gotta pay your own way for treatment. If you're in a blue state, its possible that funding may be found to provide the kid with an opportunity to access adequate treatment for the trauma they've suffered.
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# ? May 29, 2018 06:52 |
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I don't want to go all but I think there might be some sort of maternal instinct involved and I think a pregnant woman has a right to begrudge anyone who attempts to repeatedly and violently abort their unborn child regardless of their age or mental capacity. I mean it's a lovely, lovely situation for everyone but she comes across as at least trying to make things work.
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Pick posted:dude even a kid can legit kill a baby by kicking mom. it's not unheard of, at all. The woman was right to leave and protect her new baby under the circumstances. But given how she talks about the 7yo, I think their animosity developed on both sides, and this baby-hating situation could probably have been prevented if she had been more accepting to start with. And the father could have been more strict tbh. This is just based on her writing though. It's also possible the child was already aggressive and dangerous when they got her.
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pidan posted:The woman was right to leave and protect her new baby under the circumstances. But given how she talks about the 7yo, I think their animosity developed on both sides, and this baby-hating situation could probably have been prevented if she had been more accepting to start with. And the father could have been more strict tbh. For parents and other primary caregivers of children with EBD, you're gonna be seeing elevated rates of objective caregiver strain, internalized subjective caregiver strain, externalized subjective strain, and financial strain. To talk about animosity of the caregiver is not only unproductive, its actively harmful towards the ultimate goal of having the child attain a successful transition from SPED services to adulthood. Nothing the pregnant poster has done could have prevented the behavior of the child. What would have prevented the behavior is if the child had not experienced trauma during their time with their legal caregiver. Reading the OP and updates again, my hunch is that the mother was neglectful while also exposing the child to sexual trauma. Potentially insecure housing, insecure food, social transitions inhibiting the formation of secure attachments. From what the pregnant lady mentions of the legal caregiver sleeping around while in custody of the child, I highly suspect the kid had to witness their biological mother hooking, experiencing sexual trauma such as rape, or both. A kid that witnesses their mom being raped for half their life is going to have animosity and behavioral issues towards everyone and everything they come in contact with.
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LadyPictureShow posted:A friend and I once accidentally disturbed a wasp or hornet nest. It sounds like he learned his lesson.
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# ? May 29, 2018 07:39 |
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Milotic posted:My(32F) husband (35M) , married 2 years together for 7, saved the dog and ran when me and our twins (1F) were in danger. Reading this story I don't understand how she knows he has locked the door from across the yard, do they have a panic button that causes blast doors to slam shut over the main door? Even if she somehow knew he had locked the door, why does she assume he wouldn't open it for them if they went over?
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Pick posted:Are you saying Catholics can't be supervillains? whew, francis' PR team is really cleaning up Hey now, I specifically left an exception for the Catholic clergy, they already have the costumes and all.
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# ? May 29, 2018 12:59 |
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And jesus christ, that 7 year old's almost certainly been abused to all hell.
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# ? May 29, 2018 13:09 |
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(Update) My(22M) family doesn't believe I'm gayquote:OP: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/8meetr/my22m_family_doesnt_believe_im_gay/?st=JHPE8ZM7&sh=2f39ed0b Becoming gay to get that sweet sweet.....discrimination??
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# ? May 29, 2018 13:23 |
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Lol that stepmom is a saint compared to how most people would react. That 7 year old would be swallowing my fist.
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# ? May 29, 2018 13:25 |
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FAGGY CLAUSE posted:Lol that stepmom is a saint compared to how most people would react. That 7 year old would be swallowing my fist. But would you also punch a dog?
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# ? May 29, 2018 13:32 |
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Bro... hardcore
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# ? May 29, 2018 13:34 |
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I took another look at that Indiad Dad post and despite everyone telling him he's a shithead, he is still just repeating that 'she made her choice'. As long as he can live with completely alienating her, that's his choice too, I guess. Not sure what he expected from that post.
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# ? May 29, 2018 13:38 |
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Me (29M) with my girlfriend (24F) dating for 11 months thinks its ok to make-out with other guys while drunkquote:Hello everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for 11 months now and our relationship is great. Something she recently said totally caught me off guard. She told me about her male friend was asking for nude pics but she refused to send him any because we're in a relationship. She tells me that nothing has ever happened between them, just phone sex through video chat before she met me. eleven months? really?
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One of our managers ruined a job interview for a candidate we really liked. How/should I try to rectify this situation?quote:Backstory: I [25F] was recently promoted and started interviewing candidates last week to fill my position. We need to get this new hire working by the third week of June, so I am feeling a little stressed. Out of 100+ applicants, we interviewed eight. Out of those eight there were three people we really really liked: Sarah, Emily, and Jackie. Sarah [late 20s F] is our unanimous favorite out of the three, and has the most work experience. She is the perfect fit for our office and I really enjoyed speaking with her.
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