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Pick posted:Men are so gross Half of your persona is having been literally dick-crazy.
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Just lie, make them prove it.
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Jun 8, 2018 20:43
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And the other half would be a lot more pleasant if you’d ever got it.
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Jun 8, 2018 20:43
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Pick posted:Men are so gross You keep lion bones in a dvd case. Everyone knows that laserdisc cases are the sophisticated choice. tactlessbastard posted:Who the gently caress is going to be the guy to pipe up at a family get together, 'hey! I recognize that stripper!' Lmao you know there’s just the one guy who prides himself on his comprehensive stripper experience and finds a way to bring it up in every conversation somehow.
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Jun 8, 2018 20:47
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Haifisch posted:Me [40 F] with my husband's son [23 M]. He married a stripper in secret. His aunt found out and wants to tell people she's a stripper. My husband [52 M] unsure how to handle a potentially messy situation. The best part of this is the crazy mom pressuring her sons into horrendously stupid, instantly-regrettable marriages, and both of them being dumb enough to go for it
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Jun 8, 2018 20:48
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Such Fun posted:Half of your persona is having been literally dick-crazy. I have never been motivated by the sexual dimension of a person Affection preceded lust, and should
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Jun 8, 2018 20:54
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Are strippers really "sex workers". At the very least phrasing it like that is pretty misleading and makes it sound a lot worse than it is. The stripper thing is gonna come out and cause a bunch of pointless drama, drama because people are prudes and pointless because the only thing that matters is how they feel about each other now
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Jun 8, 2018 20:58
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Haifisch posted:Me [40 F] with my husband's son [23 M]. He married a stripper in secret. His aunt found out and wants to tell people she's a stripper. My husband [52 M] unsure how to handle a potentially messy situation. My mom has a cousin who is some sort of weirdo born again. Her daughter got married to a guy and the night of the wedding he told her, 'things are going to change now' and started beating her. Eventually, he held a gun to her head and basically held her hostage. She escaped and ran back home, on the opposite coast. My mom's crazy cousin and her equally religious husband told their daughter she should try to 'work it out' with the husband. She didn't thank god. Religion. 
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Jun 8, 2018 21:00
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I (25M) Have started to see a new girl (22F) and I’m worried about the baggage she is bringing with herquote:First off: I used the word “baggage” in the title because I couldn’t think of a better word. I don’t mean that word negatively, merely acknowledging that she’s bringing some issues with her.
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Jun 8, 2018 21:04
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If the boy is 23 and still letting his mother rule his entire life, his fuckups are kinda his business at this point. Marrying a stripper isn’t necessarily a fuckup. Marrying a stripper after six months when you’re already dealing with jealousy issues is.
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Jun 8, 2018 21:05
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fruit on the bottom posted:I (25M) Have started to see a new girl (22F) and I’m worried about the baggage she is bringing with her You thirsty motherfucker
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Jun 8, 2018 21:05
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I like how people are scandalized that she USED to be a stripper. Not that she's now married but still working at the strip club, which I could understand making some folk uncomfortable, but that she's a former stripper.
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Jun 8, 2018 21:21
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Baronjutter posted:I like how people are scandalized that she USED to be a stripper. Not that she's now married but still working at the strip club, which I could understand making some folk uncomfortable, but that she's a former stripper. A tainted woman remains forever unclean
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Jun 8, 2018 21:24
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fruit on the bottom posted:A tainted woman remains forever unclean Look pal, the guy at the dealership told me this red tent would fix that and I dont wanna march back there for a refund just on your say so.
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Jun 8, 2018 21:30
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tactlessbastard posted:We were sitting on bar stools and he reached over, turned me toward him, leaned in, put a hand on my knee and ran it up to my hip and said 'let's go back to your room so I can suck your cock.' I (truthfully, but also jokingly) told my boyfriend on our first date that I had never wanted to make out with someone in the back of an Uber more in my entire life. And he agreed and we did and then banged a bunch and have been together for awhile now. I’m a girl though and I guess that makes it different?
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Jun 8, 2018 21:33
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Sigh, time to add another poster to the list of known trollops.
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Jun 8, 2018 21:58
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Play posted:Are strippers really "sex workers". At the very least phrasing it like that is pretty misleading and makes it sound a lot worse than it is.
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Jun 8, 2018 22:12
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Anne Whateley posted:"Sex worker" doesn't mean prostitute, it means someone who works in the sex industry. So it includes strippers, camgirls, dominatrixes, phone sex workers, people churning out terrible erotica ebooks, etc. If you're getting paid because someone has a metaphorical boner, it's you. Yeah as a wide category that makes sense, but I still think in this case going around telling family members that your nephew's new wife was a "sex worker" would make anyone jump to the more extreme sense of that word. If they're interested at all in limiting the drama from all this, they should just stick with "stripper" or even "worked at a strip club"
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Jun 8, 2018 22:19
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Haifisch posted:Me [40 F] with my husband's son [23 M]. He married a stripper in secret. His aunt found out and wants to tell people she's a stripper. My husband [52 M] unsure how to handle a potentially messy situation. quote:So we learned recently that Matt secretly married a girl after dating her for 8 months. Their mother pressured them into getting married because they were going to move in together. Her reasoning was that that if they were going to "live together in sin", then why not be married so that you "don't offend God's eyes by having intercourse without the marriage being sanctioned". Those statements are in parentheses because those are her thoughts, according to what Matt told us. Matt sounds loving stupid. 
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Jun 8, 2018 22:23
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I don’t even let celebrities touch me until the second time we meet
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Jun 8, 2018 22:26
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Living in sin is what most people do everyday, and they arent even loving outside of marriage
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Jun 8, 2018 22:29
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We're all buried in sin. Covered in it. It's caked in every orifice
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Jun 8, 2018 22:31
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tactlessbastard posted:You thirsty motherfucker Don't gently caress the developmentally disabled unless you're prepared to handle it. If you want to end a dryspell, lower your standards til ya build your self confidence up again. Plenty of fat, non-disabled chicks out there in the world. Admiral Ray posted:Matt sounds loving stupid. I'm guessing the mom has some financial control over Matt, because otherwise thinking about Matt's behavior is a huge  Also, from a few pages back, its pretty easy to get propositioned as a dude. Just ride public transit near a women's prison. I'm from Chicago, and in Illinois our universities and prisons are downstate along the same rail lines. When I would ride Amtrak up to Chicago from downstate, I'd get propositioned on the reg.
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Jun 8, 2018 22:32
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I am without sin and I start every morning by going out to my balcony and chucking rocks at passerby, parked cars, birds, etc.
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Jun 8, 2018 22:44
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I have my faults but I’m 100% sexually aboveboard
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Jun 8, 2018 22:48
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Pick posted:I have my faults but I’m 100% sexually aboveboard ma'am this is a Piggly Wiggly's.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:03
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Pick posted:I have my faults but I’m 100% sexually aboveboard What, you mean like second base? Anyway, I owe this thread some closure UPDATE: I [28M] wrote a song. My girlfriend [28F] listened to it without knowing I created it, and called it trash. When she found out I created it, she got extremely mad at me. quote:Hi everyone. My old post can be found here. A few points. 1. Still no song provided 2. He comes off better here imo but I think he should have realized when she wasn’t comfortable critiquing and either accepted that or realized they were incompatible. 3. Nevertheless, because I have already made a stand and as a man an honorbound to die upon my hill, and in light of point 1, I still find him to be the relationship villain in this case.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:03
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Pick posted:I have my faults but I’m 100% sexually aboveboard All my sex is beneath the boards. The tell tale hard-on
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Jun 8, 2018 23:08
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fruit on the bottom posted:What, you mean like second base? Actually I think you can find that they are both villains and the real hero in this story is the stand-up folks at Verizon ®️ Wireless who helped keep the cellular network strong and stable for their break up phone call
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Jun 8, 2018 23:10
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fruit on the bottom posted:What, you mean like second base? I don't really agree with 2 at all, I feel like her being uncomfortable with simply being honest with him was entirely the problem. The update p much confirms all my suspicions from the original, there were basically two options: he was a big baby and had reacted badly in the past to negative criticisms, or she was kind of an rear end in a top hat who'd rather lie to his face than simply help him with something he felt was important. It was the latter. I honestly do not understand her "predicament" at all because I feel like helping your SO better themselves is a core fundamental of actual relationships, I help my gf all the time with her grants and papers and it's weird to me someone would be able but unwilling to do that. It's understandable that like an acquaintance or such would be hesitant to give an honest review of something because they're just being diplomatic, but it's super insulting and condescending if it comes from a friend or loved one who feels they need to placate you for no reason. If there had been a history, sure, but there hadn't been. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 23:25 on Jun 8, 2018 |
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Play posted:Yeah as a wide category that makes sense, but I still think in this case going around telling family members that your nephew's new wife was a "sex worker" would make anyone jump to the more extreme sense of that word. If they're interested at all in limiting the drama from all this, they should just stick with "stripper" or even "worked at a strip club" Yeah, I agree ‘sex worker’ can cast a wide net, but that term in itself probably makes most people think of prostitution. And if that guy’s family are extreme religious weirds, I wonder what poo poo the guy that said ‘hey I recognize that stripper’ got. Speaking of sex work: Me [26 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] 1 year, she said she loves me and adores me, its just I'm not sure I'm comfortable with her past. quote:I met N a year ago she used to be a waitress and when I was drunk and feeling confident I asked her out. She's from Russia and came here 4 years ago to live a better life. I feel bad for the girlfriend in this story, and surprisingly for Reddit, 99% of the comments are sympathetic to her. Except this genius. quote:Bremple R/relationships: Who really knows if she was forced into it
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ArbitraryC posted:I don't really agree with 2 at all, I feel like her being uncomfortable with simply being honest with him was entirely the problem. The update p much confirms all my suspicions from the original, there were basically two options: he was a big baby and had reacted badly in the past to negative criticisms, or she was kind of an rear end in a top hat who'd rather lie to his face than simply help him with something he felt was important. It was the latter. I honestly do not understand her "predicament" at all because I feel like helping your SO better themselves is a core fundamental of actual relationships, I help my gf all the time with her grants and papers and it's weird to me someone would be able but unwilling to do that. While good talk is better than no talk, bad talk is still really bad. The way I read it, girl lacks self-confidence, boy lacks ability to take criticism. Dude knows his poo poo stinks and is mad that girl doesn't have the backbone to call him out. Relationship ends when girl grows a backbone.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:50
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My Imaginary GF posted:While good talk is better than no talk, bad talk is still really bad. where do you get the impression he can't take criticism? That was a valid concern with the initial post, but this one made it clear he had been gunning for an honest review the entire time and she had never provided one.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:52
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I Was The Fury posted:Actually I think you can find that they are both villains and the real hero in this story is the stand-up folks at Verizon ®️ Wireless who helped keep the cellular network strong and stable for their break up phone call They’ve sure as hell been better at phones than Comcast this week.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:53
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LadyPictureShow posted:Yeah, I agree ‘sex worker’ can cast a wide net, but that term in itself probably makes most people think of prostitution. Yeah that's a pretty hot take, but it's good that most of the rest of the comments are sympathetic. I also find this to be one of the less ridiculous and/or offensive OPs that have been brought up here... I've never been in this particular situation but I think it's pretty natural to be confused about how to cope with that situation. I always raise an eyebrow when people get told about that sort of situation and say things like "but I find sex with her kinda.....gross now", though I get that it's probably a knee-jerk reaction that you can't just willpower away, it's something you have to work through. Which it sounds like maybe this guy is genuinely trying to work through it?
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LadyPictureShow posted:Yeah, I agree ‘sex worker’ can cast a wide net, but that term in itself probably makes most people think of prostitution. Given the timeless, I'm guessing the girlfriend began sex work at 13-15 in Russia. Sounds like the guy met an awesome girl who he should continue to support through encouring her to get some therapy to address any potential affects of past sexual abuse. ArbitraryC posted:where do you get the impression he can't take criticism? That was a valid concern with the initial post, but this one made it clear he had been gunning for an honest review the entire time and she had never provided one. "I had been asking her for a long time to provide me with honest critique to my music. I've approached her before about why her answers are so vague and placate-y when it comes to my music. I told her I can obviously see the contrast between that, and how she critiques all music, whether she likes it or not. She outright denied that she was just placating me, and that there's nothing to worry about, and all my music is great, and that I'm being crazy about it." Ex-gf gave the dude criticism. It wasn't the criticism he wanted, so he pestered her for months about it.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:56
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I have never, in my entire life, ever, ever met a creative person who is actually good at taking criticism. Not once, not a single time.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:58
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I take it well. Outwardly. Inside is a different story.
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Jun 8, 2018 23:59
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I am not saying that it is impossible, there might be some species out there, somewhere in the galaxy, some strange variety of bacterium, a blind shrimp in a dark cave, that is able to take it, but that is an exception not the rule
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If you want to know if someone can really take criticism, take a look at their output, and laugh at it. Don’t harsh on it, just laugh. Be like, are you loving serious? You thought this was good? Ha ha ha! Of course, only do this if you need their tears for some sort of witches brew.
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