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I mean, he was definitely taking the piss and it's worth severing over if he's only a casual friend, but if you don't want someone to min-max your rules, something a little better than "eat whatever you want and treat the place like your own!" is wise when you keep $300 of food in the freezer.
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InediblePenguin posted:yes Honestly the real solution is to make therapy a lot more accessible for pedophiles and not try to go 'well I guess we have to allow them access to cartoons as a form of therapy' because that's pretty ridiculous.
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It seems there's nothing wrong with cartoon child porn as long as we can systematically eliminate all of the children first. Get to it folks. [GOON PROJECT]
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sneakyfrog posted:despite the perils of firing a a broadside into a thread when way behind half cocked any child exploitation apologists even fictional can go gently caress themselves agreed 10000000000% and i still don't think thats entirely what Petra was trying, but it's really easy to assume that anything short of this ^^^ exact sentiment is in fact child-ex-apologia.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:It seems there's nothing wrong with cartoon child porn as long as we can systematically eliminate all of the children first. Get to it folks. [GOON PROJECT] I thought not reproducing was the project？
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Ugh I made myself way more vulnerable than I told myself I was going to get on these dumb gay forums but if I delete that post I'll feel worse, so I guess I'll post content. My [22F] boyfriend(?) [26M] wants to postpone our breakup for another 3 months quote:My boyfriend and I have been in a LDR for a year now. We only see each other on holidays or when he's off from college. The distance itself isn't a problem, but throughout our relationship we have discovered many deal breakers and incompatibilities that have left me in tears. Sometimes he'll reassure me that there is no such thing as a perfect match and that we were the best each other could do. A few instances he has given me the option to end things with him, which I always felt was unfair because he was putting all the responsibility on me.
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PetraCore posted:Ugh I made myself way more vulnerable than I told myself I was going to get on these dumb gay forums but if I delete that post I'll feel worse, so I guess I'll post content. If you take out a boyfriend loan, you gotta pay it back on the terms areed even if the piece of poo poo falls apart on you
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yeah that wasnt pointed at you petra more a just a general koolaid man oh yeah when breaking into a thread you are 11k posts behind on
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:agreed 10000000000% and i still don't think thats entirely what Petra was trying, but it's really easy to assume that anything short of this ^^^ exact sentiment is in fact child-ex-apologia. sneakyfrog posted:yeah that wasnt pointed at you petra more a just a general koolaid man oh yeah when breaking into a thread you are 11k posts behind on
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Jun 10, 2018 18:12
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Don't get lost in the details: you should get therapy if you're importing any kind of porn for your friend
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PetraCore posted:Ugh I made myself way more vulnerable than I told myself I was going to get on these dumb gay forums but if I delete that post I'll feel worse, so I guess I'll post content. I don’t get how you’re supposed to have a proper relationship with a set in stone expiration date like that.
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CheesyDog posted:Don't get lost in the details: you should get therapy if you're importing any kind of porn for your friend Look, it’s hard to find a US site that carries the later entries in the Tuvan Deepthroat Singing series.
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sneakyfrog posted:despite the perils of firing a a broadside into a thread when way behind half cocked any child exploitation apologists even fictional can go gently caress themselves
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it was my kneejerk response, my apologies big jeff
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Ugly In The Morning posted:I don’t get how you’re supposed to have a proper relationship with a set in stone expiration date like that.
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What if, and I'm spitballing here, she breaks up with him? Now?
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But he said he loves her! I feel like ‘first relationship at 25’ is a red flag in and of itself. Well, that and ‘let’s delay it, because I want to bang you one last time!’
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Jun 10, 2018 18:37
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Jun 10, 2018 18:38
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On what grounds?? This will never hold up in relationship court.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:My real feelings are that everyone should have this emotional response, but how a society handles pedophiles should be decided in a way that minimizes the amount of children hurt empirically. That emotional response is good up until the point where some other response would work better at curbing the abuse of children. Right, but I think the issue is that nobody knows how to do that. Remember, that in the past, it was advised to people, for example, to take out their anger by punching a pillow. They stopped recommending that what it turns out that this caused people to default to violent reactions in frustrating situations. People thought that it would allow them to “vent “, but it didn’t, it had the opposite effect of conditioning people to violent reactions. No one meant any harm, and people who receive the treatment didn’t want to be more violent, necessarily, but it still wasn’t the right way to go. Nobody is sure whether allowing pedophiles to “vent” by indulging their fantasies is good or not. And saying that one way or the other is “more logical “misses the fact that you can’t really logic your way into knowing which of these approaches is more correct.
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I mean this entire thread should prove that most people don’t really Operate by logic as it is commonly understood in western cultures
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PetraCore posted:I don't like it when children are hurt and exploited and even though I think behavior is what matters and not hardwired, terribly dysfunctional urges are what matters I don't want anyone wired that way to ever be left with power over kids. Sorry if I sounded like I was making excuses for anyone. Especially in the context of the post that sparked that, anyone who feels it's 'not a big deal' and 'shouldn't be shamed or whatever' is not in a safe position. you definitely didn't and i definitely didn't mean to imply that you were. everyone posting on this derail seems 100% above board so far, very good work everyone. here's my hot take: sew up teenagers in burlap sacks so no one can harm them.
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Pick posted:Right, but I think the issue is that nobody knows how to do that. Remember, that in the past, it was advised to people, for example, to take out their anger by punching a pillow. They stopped recommending that what it turns out that this caused people to default to violent reactions in frustrating situations. People thought that it would allow them to “vent “, but it didn’t, it had the opposite effect of conditioning people to violent reactions. No one meant any harm, and people who receive the treatment didn’t want to be more violent, necessarily, but it still wasn’t the right way to go. Nobody is sure whether allowing pedophiles to “vent” by indulging their fantasies is good or not. And saying that one way or the other is “more logical “misses the fact that you can’t really logic your way into knowing which of these approaches is more correct.
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PetraCore posted:Honestly the real solution is to make therapy a lot more accessible for pedophiles and not try to go 'well I guess we have to allow them access to cartoons as a form of therapy' because that's pretty ridiculous. whether that's strengthening the existing laws to get people committed or destigmatizing other mental health concerns and just hoping that they happen to attend therapy for "other" reasons (I'm talking about the ones that don't see anything wrong with it here) now I will shut up again because this thread deserves to be slightly less gross 
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:here's my hot take: sew up teenagers in burlap sacks so no one can harm them.
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Pick posted:I mean this entire thread should prove that most people don’t really Operate by logic as it is commonly understood in western cultures Or Eastern, Southern, or Northern. People in all cultures suck at understanding human behavior.
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PetraCore posted:Ugh I made myself way more vulnerable than I told myself I was going to get on these dumb gay forums but if I delete that post I'll feel worse, so I guess I'll post content. kick him to the curb
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Fatkraken posted:I mean, he was definitely taking the piss and it's worth severing over if he's only a casual friend, but if you don't want someone to min-max your rules, something a little better than "eat whatever you want and treat the place like your own!" is wise when you keep $300 of food in the freezer. I doubt he actually ate the food, he probably just took it home. And no sane person would actually think "feel free to hang out and rummage around the fridge" would include defrosting steaks and corking expensive wine so dude probably woulda just swiped the poo poo regardless of the suggestion.
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My [26F] brand new colleague who is training me [35M] went on a drunken tirade last night about how I played him via textquote:I'll keep it short and sweet. I started a new job one month ago. I have a bubbly personality and I'm friendly with everyone in the office. This is a big reason I was hired and a big part of my job is liaising between teams to manage projects, so being cool with everyone is a must if you want to meet tight deadlines.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [26F] brand new colleague who is training me [35M] went on a drunken tirade last night about how I played him via text quote:I honestly really don't want to go to my bosses or HR yet because he's really good at his job and they'd probably side with him before siding with me, since I'm so new. But truthfully, it freaks me out how angry he was at me over him thinking we had something, when we were literally only colleagues and nothing more. I don't think anyone has told me to go gently caress myself before ? Take the texts to your bosses and savor being able to report a trainwreck.
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Lol at this dude, a lady was nice to him so it must be because she was flirting. Curious what her actual job is though.
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You just know it was a slippery slope situation too. He definitely took like... a piece of salmon, then the next day talked himself into a couple steaks... before you know it the whole loving freezer and the wine cabinet is gone. Not to lessen that guy's actions- he's a sociopath for sure. But that being said, anyone who has been in college- PHD or no- can think of several reasons why letting some naive, perpetually poor career student into your house and saying "eat whatever" could turn out terribly. For numerous reasons.
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Taima posted:You just know it was a slippery slope situation too. He definitely took like... a piece of salmon, then the next day talked himself into a couple steaks... before you know it the whole loving freezer and the wine cabinet is gone. Not really? I've taken care of animals and such for friends all the time and literally everyone says "make yourself at home and feel free to have some food", that translates to like fruit that's hanging around or a can of coke, not dethawing a leg of lamb and roasting it.
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Admiral Ray posted:Take the texts to your bosses and savor being able to report a trainwreck. reddit seems to be successfully convincing her to go to HR with it so hopefully we get a juicy update.
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ArbitraryC posted:Not really? I've taken care of animals and such for friends all the time and literally everyone says "make yourself at home and feel free to have some food", that translates to like fruit that's hanging around or a can of coke, not dethawing a leg of lamb and roasting it. Grad students are a special brand of naive, entitled and often desperate (financially, emotionally, or otherwise). We are talking about people that, on the whole, are the emotional equivalent of children. Many have literally never had a job or really anything that would build emotional intelligence. Pro tip: don't give grad students carte blanche on your expensive rear end food. I feel like anyone who has been around grad students would inherently understand this. Again, it doesn't make that dude's actions right, but there's a lesson to be learned here. You're also misrepresenting the situation, for the record. The OP didn't say "feel free to have some food". He said "treat this place as your own and cook here, with my food". He says as much in the post. If you are told to cook, specifically, then you might actually dethaw the lamb because cooking often involves a centerpiece protein. Again, NOT trying to minimize the actions of this colossal retard who ate all of the food. Just explaining why he should have been a LOT more wary, especially as a fellow grad student.
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Taima posted:Grad students are a special brand of naive, entitled and often desperate (financially, emotionally, or otherwise). iirc we had a similar story a while back with some winos that had a friend housesit and offered to let them have some and when they got back the person had like plowed through their whole rack or cellar or whatever. Some people just do that kind of thing.
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