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Taima posted:You dismissed her concerns despite 1) not even understanding the familial relationship in the first place and 2) your anecdotal evidence was that people in your school had the same name as you and it was ok then? dude arbitraryc's comment does not attempt to justify the aunt or dismiss the niece's concerns, which are that a specific family member is being an rear end and stealing her future baby's name, not that other children in general may have the same name
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:17 |
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QuarkJets posted:dude arbitraryc's comment does not attempt to justify the aunt or dismiss the niece's concerns, which are that a specific family member is being an rear end and stealing her future baby's name, not that other children in general may have the same name It just wouldn't be an arbC post if he didn't partially agree, then say something tangentially related but mindblowingly dumb.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:21 |
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"in situations where more than one kid had the same first name we'd usually use their last name or last initial to help differentiate them" - a mindblowingly dumb sentiment
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:25 |
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Poor Navaeh and Neveah, they never stood a chance
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:29 |
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They don't have this problem on Marklar.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:35 |
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Lmao. Father of bride speech. Would this offend? quote:u/Fob48 No, no, it’s really perfect as it is.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:43 |
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Husband (38m) attacked me (38f) while drunk. Do I have to leave if he's doing everything he can to prevent this from happening again?quote:My husband has at times turned to drinking after work when he's really had a stressful day. We've been having some marital issues as of late. We had a heated argument one morning and then he went to work and apparently a project he'd been working on fell apart. We continued to have a few words via text throughout the day. He went out after work drinking and didn't come home until about 1 am. loving run.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:45 |
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The most important thing about knowing those type of statistics is not becoming one yourself.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:48 |
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This is fine.quote:My girlfriend [30] constantly picks fights with tough-looking guys in public so that I [26M] have to step in and defend her honor Yes, this is perfectly normal behavior for a 30 year old woman. Chivalry demands it. Gentlemen of the Victorian Era prized a woman who would get drunk and poo poo talk guys to provoke duels. The Trojan War started because Helen was taking the piss out of guys at the local market.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 08:59 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I have two close friends with the same first name and I've never been able to settle on a good naming scheme. Alpha/Beta, good/bad, 1/2, Prime, etc, nothing seems to stick. I only have one friend with the same first name as me, but he’s gay so this problem solved itself. (I get to be “straight [first name], obviously.)
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 09:06 |
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Xenocides posted:This is fine. quote:She has a degree in dance from the community college. I'd take that information to the grave rather than share it with another soul.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 09:11 |
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Theophany posted:Husband (38m) attacked me (38f) while drunk. Do I have to leave if he's doing everything he can to prevent this from happening again? I'm a firm believer that alcohol reveals ones true self. Xenocides posted:This is fine. 'Dance degree from community college,' named after a champagne. As brother Huey once asked, "Cristal, that sounds like a stripper name. Might you be a stripper, Cristal like the champagne?
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 10:48 |
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lol, I'm sure this will go down well. I (22M) have been secretly dating my soon to be step-sister (20F) and we dont know what to do quote:My father started dating a very nice woman around 2 years ago and after a few months I met her daughter. Over the course of the next few months we found ourselves falling for each other and eventually started dating. We have been keeping it a secret for about a year so as not to have to deal with the interactions with our families in an akward way, but now this life of secrecy is starting to take its toll on us.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 11:09 |
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Theophany posted:lol, I'm sure this will go down well. Marry her first. Your move, dad.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 11:32 |
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They should get married immediately, that'll make the parents the creepy ones. edit: are you fucken kidding me
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 11:33 |
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Xenocides posted:This is fine. Little Miss Daddy Issues over here is going to get her squeeze deported.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 12:26 |
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Our [26f, 26m] neighbor [30s f] of 1 month is VERY extroverted and VERY clingy. We feel trapped in our apartment. She is being clingy even after talking to her about it. Help!quote:We're introverts, we don't like being around people generally and desperately want to be left alone. We come home from work exhausted only to be bombarded by The Friendly who will literally wait to listen to see if we're moving around so she can "accidentally" stumble upon us in the hall and try to talk to us. We'll be about to go out in the hall to go somewhere and she'll hear our keys jingling -- we will hear her unlock her door and open it a little to look so she doesn't miss us. Lately we've been opening and shutting the door, then listening for her to run downstairs and open her door and say "oh hi!" then silence when she realizes there's no one there, then she runs back upstairs and THEN we sneak out. It's like a freaking horror movie or scary game.
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TheSoulian posted:Our [26f, 26m] neighbor [30s f] of 1 month is VERY extroverted and VERY clingy. We feel trapped in our apartment. She is being clingy even after talking to her about it. Help! She's crazy, but also it owns to imagine that they're being dunked on this hard by their inability to tell someone to gently caress off "T-t-this woman, she keeps...talking to us!!! Please help, internet"
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TheSoulian posted:Our [26f, 26m] neighbor [30s f] of 1 month is VERY extroverted and VERY clingy. We feel trapped in our apartment. She is being clingy even after talking to her about it. Help! She could have literally solved that problem at one go by letting her dog puke on the obnoxious neighbor.
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TheSoulian posted:Our [26f, 26m] neighbor [30s f] of 1 month is VERY extroverted and VERY clingy. We feel trapped in our apartment. She is being clingy even after talking to her about it. Help! They're gonna feel pretty lovely when the neighbour's loneliness and depression gets the better of her and she takes a couple of fistfuls of ambien.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 13:33 |
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I had a neighbor exactly like this once. Being polite didn't help, so I finally got frustrated and literally slammed my door in her face. Rude, I know, but at least she finally got the message.
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Blade Runner posted:She's crazy, but also it owns to imagine that they're being dunked on this hard by their inability to tell someone to gently caress off I mean they did tell her to chill, it made things worse to the point that she literally chased the OP down like a really chatty Michael Myers. Telling her to gently caress off is going to end with OP taxidermied in the neighbour's living room
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 13:47 |
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I don't think someone who eavesdrops and chases their neighbor down the hall is going to be persuaded to stop with a firm conversation.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 13:59 |
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Danaru posted:I mean they did tell her to chill, it made things worse to the point that she literally chased the OP down like a really chatty Michael Myers. Telling her to gently caress off is going to end with OP taxidermied in the neighbour's living room I instinctually side against anyone who describes themselves as introverted
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:23 |
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Introversion is not the same as anti social. These people are not introverts.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:28 |
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Sorry but they called her “The Friendly” and don’t think introversion is a disease. Automatic sentence: guilty
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Theophany posted:lol, I'm sure this will go down well.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:33 |
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Xenocides posted:This is fine. The only possible way you could think constantly creating fights is normal is if someone in your life does this so my question, OP, is what is like to have Don King for a mother?
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:33 |
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ArbitraryC posted:If they both name their kids the same thing will the kids really care? They're second cousins not sisters I doubt it'll really be a thing. yea this. I think the main issue with the op on this one is her being surprised a 19yo is acting like this like it's a faux-pas and is obviously going to generate some drama, but it doesn't loving matter. Generic Monk fucked around with this message at 14:39 on Aug 21, 2018 |
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TheSoulian posted:Our [26f, 26m] neighbor [30s f] of 1 month is VERY extroverted and VERY clingy. We feel trapped in our apartment. She is being clingy even after talking to her about it. Help! There's your problem right there. Let her cry herself out. She's a 30yo goddamned adult.
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TheSoulian posted:Our [26f, 26m] neighbor [30s f] of 1 month is VERY extroverted and VERY clingy. We feel trapped in our apartment. She is being clingy even after talking to her about it. Help! this has nothing to do with her being extroverted and everything to do with being a loving basket case
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:40 |
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Just LOL when people complain about not having a social safety net and yet don’t know how to network. I know this one lady who is totally irresponsible but has a lot of friends, and it one point I tallied it up and she has “borrowed “ over $60,000 worth of money from people that she knows. All of them know that they’re not going to get it back, and probably anyone of them would give her some more. If the hallway lady is that desperate for friendship, you could probably get some goods or services out of it
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Pick posted:Just LOL when people complain about not having a social safety net and yet don’t know how to network. I know this one lady who is totally irresponsible but has a lot of friends, and it one point I tallied it up and she has “borrowed “ over $60,000 worth of money from people that she knows. All of them know that they’re not going to get it back, and probably anyone of them would give her some more. If the hallway lady is that desperate for friendship, you could probably get some goods or services out of it You really think it's normal for poor people to be able to hit up friends for 60k? Jesus, you're so out of touch with reality.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:42 |
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Haiiiii guuuurl Wow you are such a good gardener, my roses have all these aphids, and I just don’t know what to do about it. Do you know how to get rid of aphids? Can you help me? *watches her do it for 3 seconds before going inside* thaaaaaanks!!! you’re such a good friend!!! And yeah hey if you could do that every Tuesday oh my gosh that would be so cool, I would be so super grateful. Also please walk my dog
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:42 |
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I'd ask why Pick continues to blatantly troll this thread but people keep biting so
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:45 |
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Generic Monk posted:yea this. I think the main issue with the op on this one is her being surprised a 19yo is acting like this The 19 year old is being mature though? The OP stole the unique name she chose for her baby and knew full well what it meant to her. It's a supremely lovely thing to do with someone you're close to and the post indicated that the OP probably pulls similar poo poo often enough to be called out on it. Of course the kids won't care, but that's not the issue at all. It's just really loving disrespectful to do that to a close family member.
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Pick posted:Haiiiii guuuurl Wow you are such a good gardener, my roses have all these aphids, and I just don’t know what to do about it. Do you know how to get rid of aphids? Can you help me? *watches her do it for 3 seconds before going inside* thaaaaaanks!!! you’re such a good friend!!! yep, everybody has this friend (except most of us aren't Pick so usually that friend just conveniently never has cigarettes despite being a half-pack-a-day smoker but oh look, TK the Cigarette Fairy always has an emergency pack, I'm sure she won't mind)
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Ouhei posted:The 19 year old is being mature though? The OP stole the unique name she chose for her baby and knew full well what it meant to her. It's a supremely lovely thing to do with someone you're close to and the post indicated that the OP probably pulls similar poo poo often enough to be called out on it. Of course the kids won't care, but that's not the issue at all. It's just really loving disrespectful to do that to a close family member. yeah tbf the 19yo is just not talking to her which is prob the most mature way of handling a situation like this. i mean personally i think it's a dumb thing to be mad about and that you can't really steal a name, but yeah it could have easily been avoided by picking literally any other name.
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# ? Aug 21, 2018 14:54 |
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TheKennedys posted:yep, everybody has this friend (except most of us aren't Pick so usually that friend just conveniently never has cigarettes despite being a half-pack-a-day smoker but oh look, TK the Cigarette Fairy always has an emergency pack, I'm sure she won't mind) I don’t actually condone being this kind of friend, but if you do have somebody that won’t leave you alone, you might as well cash out
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Generic Monk posted:yeah tbf the 19yo is just not talking to her which is prob the most mature way of handling a situation like this. i mean personally i think it's a dumb thing to be mad about and that you can't really steal a name, but yeah it could have easily been avoided by picking literally any other name.
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