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I (27m) walked in the apartment and heard my girlfriend (24f) crying to her sister because her ex didn't tell her happy birthday on snapchat. At work atm so this will be short and I probably won't see responses until later tonight. My girlfriends birthday is today, and we celebrated a little last night, and then we are going to dinner tonight. I woke up, kissed her, told her haply birthday then left for work. I was staying at her apartment for her birthday. I was at work for about half an hour and realized I'd left some important papers I needed for a meeting today at her place, so I went back home to get them. I expected her to not even be home, but as soon as I opened the door I heard her crying. Then I could hear her sister talking. I was gonna get what I needed, and check on her and leave. I went to get my papers, and on the way back I heard her saying "but he looked at my story, why wouldn't he of at least said happy birthday? It's all I wanted. I've been looking forward to this day just for that!" And her sister kept trying to calm her down, and telling her it wouldn't really make sense, he broke up with her. And her sister said" Didn't you even say you messaged him a week ago and he left you on open? Shouldn't that of been a sign? "my girlfriend said" yeah, but it's my birthday. It's different. And if he didn't ever plan to talk again, he would unfriend me. But he hasn't. He's still there, still looking at what I do." I didn't realize until today that she even still tries talking to her ex. He cheated on her, and broke up with her and she still wants a happy birthday? I left and didn't say anything, and now I'm sitting here feeling a little upset. What do I do? Tl;dr; walked in to hear gf crying that her ex didn't say happy birthday on snap, but that he looked at her story. I didn't even know she still tried talking to him period.
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How long have you been dating? Also, why is your poo poo not packed already?
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Aug 24, 2018 23:17
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phasmid posted:I was hoping we'd get an update on the guy with the therapist and his *misunderstood* wife. Smirking_Serpent posted:I (27m) walked in the apartment and heard my girlfriend (24f) crying to her sister because her ex didn't tell her happy birthday on snapchat. Fuck Your Website fucked around with this message at 23:34 on Aug 24, 2018 |
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Aug 24, 2018 23:31
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gently caress Your Website posted:That was the update, and no she didn't. She "had the opportunity". There's no reason to believe her.
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Aug 24, 2018 23:32
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McDragon posted:If you have someone who has never eaten meat and they only try it after five years, would they be completely fine with it or would the digestive system wig out, or just need a bit of getting used to new thing? Is it just the same sort of nutrients and stuff only it is from animals and not plants, or are they somehow fundamentally nutritionally different? Depends on the kind of meat you eat, but it's definitely possible for it to go really badly. I gave up meat for a while as part of a diet, and and after a couple of months a single hotdog had me dry heaving.
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Aug 24, 2018 23:36
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phasmid posted:She "had the opportunity". There's no reason to believe her. That's your take and nothing more. Don't state it as if it was a fact from the story, because you know full well that's misleading and part of what leads to multipage derails where two morons sperg their nearly identical hot takes at each other to the dismay of everyone else who has this thread bookmarked. Edit: see above post Fuck Your Website fucked around with this message at 23:39 on Aug 24, 2018 |
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Aug 24, 2018 23:36
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Haifisch posted:Should I [21F] reconnect with my childhood best friend [21M] in prison? Hey that's a really lovely thing to joke about.
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Aug 24, 2018 23:38
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gently caress Your Website posted:That's your take and nothing more. Don't state it as if it was a fact from the story, because you know full well that's misleading and part of what leads to multipage derails where two morons sperg their nearly identical hot takes at each other to the dismay of everyone else who has this thread bookmarked. Oh, gently caress I didn't realize we had to actually know these people in order to pass internet judgement on them. I thought the purpose of all these inflated, half-true stories was for our amusement, now I see that it's people like me who cause all the problems. Thank you for enlightening me. Who says they want to cheat and then says they have both the right and the "opportunity" and then acts innocent? Ridiculous.
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Aug 24, 2018 23:45
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:Hey that's a really lovely thing to joke about. is this your first time on the internet?
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the chick who wanted an open relationship and her fiance left her-- she's taking very little responsibility it feels like. so her therapist pushed her into the open marriage, but then when she begs him to take her back she says he can have access to her devices and bank accounts, and the whole fact shes manipulating the families to push them together.. idk its weird. shes sorry but her actions dont seem like it, but i also dont think id say shes manipulating everyone on purpose??
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Aug 24, 2018 23:49
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Lotsa reports on derails folks. It’s cool to chat about dumb relationship poo poo, but try to stay fresh and not beat dead horses.
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Aug 24, 2018 23:53
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Edgar Allan Pwned posted:the chick who wanted an open relationship and her fiance left her-- she's taking very little responsibility it feels like. so her therapist pushed her into the open marriage, but then when she begs him to take her back she says he can have access to her devices and bank accounts, and the whole fact shes manipulating the families to push them together.. idk its weird. shes sorry but her actions dont seem like it, but i also dont think id say shes manipulating everyone on purpose?? If she's doing it by instinct rather than design, that's (slightly) less despicable but harder to cure. I wonder if the guy has ever had to stump for her, to mediate a dispute with a friend or a coworker. Because it seems like something she would do. Any way you slice it, he should drop her like a bag of bricks.
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Aug 24, 2018 23:54
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cumshitter posted:Based on how involved the families are, it reads like the OP's family are a bunch of peanut butter magnates and his fiance's family runs a jelly empire and this marriage absolutely must happen for business reasons. That, and the giant backyard of intrigue with multiple plot exposition benches that are easily obscured from each other. I'd check out the first episode. They should hire the people who did the sets and costumes for "pushing daisies".
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Aug 25, 2018 00:07
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My girlfriend loves my poetic talking in bed. Does it have a name in sex? (self.sex) submitted 2 days ago * by throwawaypidbelly1 quote:Hi,
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It's called the dialogue from a romance novel. I like how he added that he tried speaking the people's common dirty tongue, but that he and his girlfriend are of too noble an upbringing to enjoy it. "Pray good sir, mightst thou tell me where my wife and I might find lodging so that I may plow her cooch as t'were time to plant the harvest?"
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Aug 25, 2018 00:16
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CheesyDog posted:My girlfriend loves my poetic talking in bed. Does it have a name in sex? (self.sex) The juxtaposition between the love novel crap and "my bitch, I'll destroy you tonight" slayed me
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Aug 25, 2018 00:20
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cumshitter posted:It's called the dialogue from a romance novel. Seriously, the butchering of Edwardian English is the biggest turn off. You know, the people who think thou, thee, thy and thine etc. are interchangeable. Makes you want to run them through with a poisoned rapier.
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Aug 25, 2018 00:27
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Usually we go until morning? Do they have sex maybe twice a year or only save it for the weekends?
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phasmid posted:Seriously, the butchering of Edwardian English is the biggest turn off. You know, the people who think thou, thee, thy and thine etc. are interchangeable. Makes you want to run them through with a poisoned rapier. It's been a while but I think one of my English teachers basically said it's thou if you're addressing someone, thee if you're telling them what you're going to do or what is going to happen to them.
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Aug 25, 2018 00:35
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He'll have to start doing the dirty talk in high elf soon, really class it up
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Aug 25, 2018 00:35
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50 shades of LARP.
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Bored posted:Sounds like rehab brainwashed her. She said she'd been self-medicating with speed. I'm not sure she ever got an adderall 'script before poo poo went down.
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Aug 25, 2018 00:43
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I think all of those women are stuck in a bad place. It sucks that people who are raised in super controlling households freak out when given freedom.
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cumshitter posted:It's been a while but I think one of my English teachers basically said it's thou if you're addressing someone, thee if you're telling them what you're going to do or what is going to happen to them. "thou" is the subject pronoun, "thee" is the object pronoun. like "who" vs. "whom." another fun fact about "thou," it was originally the familiar second-person pronoun, and "you" was the formal. like tú vs. usted, du vs. Sie, etc. but because it sounds archaic we equate "thou" with formality
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phasmid posted:Who says they want to cheat and then says they have both the right and the "opportunity" and then acts innocent? Ridiculous. I know!  I didn't cheat, but I sure could have! Good job, I guess. Here's your ribbon. Burt Sexual posted:Lotsa reports on derails folks. It’s cool to chat about dumb relationship poo poo, but try to stay fresh and not beat dead horses. Yet another goddamn vegetarian protecting those grass-eating horse motherfuckers
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Aug 25, 2018 01:02
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tactlessbastard posted:You read this thread and chose to be in a relationship? This is abuse.
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tater_salad posted:This is abuse. It wasn't sincere, don't take it as a gift 
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tactlessbastard posted:It wasn't sincere, don't take it as a gift At least it's not a prank
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Dienes posted:Looks like someone ran out of money for the commissary. mmmhmmmm
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:sorry they made a horseshit movie about his delusional power fantasies but he was guilty as hell
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Haifisch posted:grief text
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Update: I (24F) think my dad’s ex girlfriend (50sF) is stalking mequote:First I want to clear some things up about my job. I work 4AM-8PM Monday through Friday. I get paid for driving, so the 2 hour commute to and from work is included in those hours, not on top of them. I don’t work for any school - my company is a contractor with many different schools. It is illegal to make employees work so many hours where I live, but most of the people who work here either don’t care because the money is so good or they quit early on. I don’t want to say what I do specifically because from there it would be easy to find out what company I work for which I imagine could get me in legal trouble. Happy ending!  We still talk and hang out, even though she broke up with me. I'm not sure what to make of this. (27M) (33F) quote:Background  She made the right call, you two need to go no contact and you need to work on your addiction without a coenabling relationship.
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phasmid posted:I was hoping we'd get an update on the guy with the therapist and his *misunderstood* wife. I like how she's the victim even though she constantly lures him into places where parties unconcerned are there to ambush him. Oh, no, dude. She's not "manipulative"! That would be a terrible thing to say about the future mother of your equally stupid children! I can't think of anything that would make me end a relationship and go no-contact faster than an ambush like that. gently caress that manipulative poo poo and gently caress anyone that does that.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Update: I (24F) think my dad’s ex girlfriend (50sF) is stalking me Improbable Lobster posted:I can't think of anything that would make me end a relationship and go no-contact faster than an ambush like that. gently caress that manipulative poo poo and gently caress anyone that does that.  Although from the sound of his last edit, I'm not sure our dubious protagonist is going to make the wise choice.
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Aug 25, 2018 05:32
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He (30M) says I'm (31F) "something better than nothing" u/meltedsugarcubes quote:This is a long one. Thanks for sticking through it, for those who do. I’m pretty sure I couldn’t carry on with a relationship if someone wrote that about me, whether they were having “a difficult time” or not. She, however, clearly sees more possibilities than I do.
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burial posted:He (30M) says I'm (31F) "something better than nothing" That’s a nice one for “spot the deeply buried lede”. Racing to hook up with his ex-gf that he’s still pining for when they tried an “open relationship”
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Aug 25, 2018 07:34
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Burt Sexual posted:Lotsa reports on derails folks. It’s cool to chat about dumb relationship poo poo, but try to stay fresh and not beat dead horses. Yeah, horse chat belongs in the BFC BWM thread.
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My (36F) husband (36M) of 6 years promised to try to lose weight but now wants to participate in a competitive eating contestquote:My husband was slightly overweight when we got married. Since then his weight has steadily increased to the point he weighs nearly 350 pounds. There are a few factors for it including familial predisposition (both parents were obese...now they're dead), his job is sedentary, his hobbies are sedentary, and he eats out of boredom. He also eats a lot of unhealthy foods. So the classic pair of not enough exercise and too much unhealthy snacking.
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Aug 25, 2018 10:24
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He won't win, fat people are at a disadvantage in eating contests. The fat restricts stomach expansion, which is why really skinny people are always winning those hot dog challenges and the like.
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Aug 25, 2018 10:27
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The prize is a trip halfway across the world. I say bring me the dumplings
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