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The whole "Friendzone" thing never made sense to me. How is being friends with a hot girl a bad thing? It just doesn't make sense.
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Solice Kirsk posted:The whole "Friendzone" thing never made sense to me. How is being friends with a hot girl a bad thing? It just doesn't make sense. Because they don't actually want to be friends with her, they just want to be nice to her long enough so that she will have sex with them.
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Aug 31, 2018 21:10
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Piell posted:Because they don't actually want to be friends with her, they just want to be nice to her long enough so that she will have sex with them. Oh. Well, that's what bars are for. What idiots.
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Aug 31, 2018 21:13
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Solice Kirsk posted:Oh. Well, that's what bars are for. What idiots.
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Aug 31, 2018 21:22
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pretty much every girl is a better wingpeep than almost every dude. dude being a better wingman is an exceptional event
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Aug 31, 2018 21:30
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loquacius posted:Anyway yeah a lot of fringe ideologies have a couple of good ideas surrounded by a whole bunch of toxic ones. MGTOW for example has some ideas baked in about how you shouldn't define your self-worth around what a specific hot girl you've decided to fixate on thinks of you, which is good, but the rest of the sentence is "because all women are psychic vampires who live to thrive off of your misery" which obviously ruins it. Anyway, confessor, you are not like Louis CK because you are not famous, and famous people can rehabilitate themselves much more easily than non-famous people.
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Aug 31, 2018 21:44
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Drunken Baker posted:I legit miss when 6 bottles would leave me so drunk my face would go numb. ...what / where is this magical Christmasland? I just paid 11 quid for two pints. 😀.. ..😭
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Aug 31, 2018 23:23
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Solice Kirsk posted:The whole "Friendzone" thing never made sense to me. How is being friends with a hot girl a bad thing? It just doesn't make sense. It is a safe, inoffensive version of what they really believe. What they really believe is horribly toxic. Screaming "she friend zoned ME!" basically means "she refused to gently caress me after I was nice to her and I'm angry." Like sure you can be disappointed if you want but being angry and acting like she owes you sex because you were nice to her is not ok. It's making the problem be her for doing things wrong but it's like hey buddy you might just not be her type. She might already be in a happy monogamous relationship or be gay or something. It isn't like a dating video game where the girl automatically says yes if a certain number is high enough.
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Aug 31, 2018 23:42
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Drunken Baker posted:I base all my American drinking knowledge on the Wade Boggs episode of Always Sunny btw and those tins they had were tiny. (sigh) I have to do this poo poo all the time You know how *big* the country is? Throw that loving thing on top of Europe on one of those comparison websites Talking about 'Americans' doing a thing is like going to Italy and assuming Swedes are social, emotional, and rife with corruption
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Sep 1, 2018 07:25
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my friend I think he might have not been being 100% serious.
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Sep 1, 2018 07:29
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thoughts and prayers posted:(sigh) americans are all the same tho??? 
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Sep 1, 2018 08:14
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much more homogeneous in terms of culture, much less homogeneous in terms of despair and therefore drinkin habits. iirc, including eastern europe
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Sep 1, 2018 08:30
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Solice Kirsk posted:The whole "Friendzone" thing never made sense to me. How is being friends with a hot girl a bad thing? It just doesn't make sense. There's kind of a contrary online thing (and in SA) that says this stuff is completely without merit, but there actually are people who will string someone along out of insecurity and neediness, mixing in social cues that are usually part of a budding sexual relationship, only for an ego and emotional boost. The truth is, though, that it's a minority of people who do that, and it's mostly a thing in adolescence when everyone is an insecure poo poo bag. You see some super-hot types that pull it off until much later in life, but oh well - that's just life, deal with it. Getting taken advantage of happens to everyone in the dating scene, and learning how to see it coming and avoid it is a worthwhile social/emotional skill to acquire. Let's face it - almost everyone is exposed to people like that, but healthy people either a) see it coming and bail or b) have it happen once or twice and go 'well that was stupid I should avoid that in the future' and move on.
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Sep 1, 2018 08:33
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thoughts and prayers posted:
I always liked the phrase "100 miles is a long way in Europe and 100 years is a long time in America". We drove from L.A to Black rock desert for burning man, and were astonished at how you could drive for days and not have the scenery change 'at all'.
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Sep 1, 2018 09:56
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i like having friends who are girls.
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Sep 1, 2018 10:48
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sneakyfrog posted:i like having friends who are girls. They are just using you for your friendship bro
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Sep 1, 2018 11:28
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ToxicSlurpee posted:It isn't like a dating video game where the girl automatically says yes if a certain number is high enough. Bank account might work on some of them.
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Sep 1, 2018 12:32
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Solice Kirsk posted:The whole "Friendzone" thing never made sense to me. How is being friends with a hot girl a bad thing? It just doesn't make sense. Yeah right like I'm just gonna pal around with a psychic vampire 
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Sep 1, 2018 13:09
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Tbh I have never heard of someone getting culture shock from moving to like, maryland from California. The biggest changes I’ve heard of has been like moving from a more rural area to urban. America is loving homogenous culture wise and the argument that just because it’s geographically big it’s got just as much differences in culture as other places is loving lol
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Sep 1, 2018 13:18
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whiter than a Wilco show posted:They are just using you for your friendship bro its cool. they cool.
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Sep 1, 2018 13:54
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Moving from the NE liberal bubble of major urban cities like NYC/Philly/BMore down south to like South Carolina was a brutal culture shock and a year later it still sucks mega bad and the only friends I’ve made are people from up north and we spend all our time talking about how much we hate it here.
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Sep 1, 2018 14:13
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I can't be friends with hot girls because eventually they all want my hog because I am INCREDIBLE
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Sep 1, 2018 14:17
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The concept of friendzoning is ironic because it's actually the woman who is being deceived into thinking she has a friend. "I'm getting fuckzoned"
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Sep 1, 2018 15:25
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thoughts and prayers posted:(sigh) Your beers are about the same size coast to coast tho?
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Sep 1, 2018 15:34
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SciFiDownBeat posted:The concept of friendzoning is ironic because it's actually the woman who is being deceived into thinking she has a friend. Someone on SA once described the concept of "fuckzoning" as when a woman hooks up with a guy who has no romantic interest in her and falls under the impression that they are now dating e: to be clear the woman is the fuckzoned one in this example
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Sep 1, 2018 17:07
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Bust Rodd posted:Moving from the NE liberal bubble of major urban cities like NYC/Philly/BMore down south to like South Carolina was a brutal culture shock and a year later it still sucks mega bad and the only friends I’ve made are people from up north and we spend all our time talking about how much we hate it here. lol "i'm an expat in my own country"
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Sep 1, 2018 18:44
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In my experience people who say things like that are inflicting it entirely on themselves and not even giving people with the "wrong" accent/whatever a chance.
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Sep 1, 2018 18:51
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i knew a black dude who moved to a white part of georgia and basically experienced that. he was originally nigerian so not overly educated on american race politics and then someone told him off and told him to move to a black part of georgia, he went to atlanta, lived happily ever after i'm sort of assuming everyone involved is pasty white tho in this sitch
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Sep 1, 2018 19:01
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You probably get the most culture shock moving from a red state to a blue state or vice-versa and everything else is just kind of a microcosm of thatquote:My wife is out of town for a few days. I decided to buy a sex toy and enjoy myself while she's gone. Harmless, right? No problem, morally, right? I like big women. Not obese women, just large women. Tall, big thighs, big old booty. So, naturally, I ordered a big booty sex toy thing. It's supposed to be a big jiggly plastic rear end. The website said it would weigh about 30 pounds. I thought, oh, that's perfect. My six foot tall wife weighs more than 200 pounds and I pick her up and gently caress her on a regular basis. This should be no problem. NO PROBLEM AT ALL, I thought. lol yeah honestly I heard "30-pound sex toy" and my first thought was "that sounds loving exhausting" but drat what did you even do that you couldn't like clean up your jizz or whatever before summoning an Uber to go to the hospital (lol American healthcare)? Why would you send in this confession anonymously but still hold out on us like this??? More details plz Followup from the guy who was considering whether he was molested by a priest: quote:First, to "Anne Whateley" (if that is your real name): thanks for taking a break from dunking on dudes in the /r/relationship thread to take a shot at delegitimizing male sexual abuse. yeah my rec was to just let it go if you weren't contributing to the arrest of a child-molester, given that he's already busted I say just self-care your way through
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Sep 2, 2018 18:54
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My dude I absolutely wasn't trying to delegitimize anyone's sexual abuse (and fyi all genders have buttholes). If now you remember your priest grabbing your dick at church, check with a lawyer and try to metaphorically murder him. Last time you posted, you remembered none of those three elements, you only referred to "I'd had these weird dreams that someone was trying to do something to my rear end." And you wondered if it were worth trying to uncover more memories, which you didn't believe in. I just offered the possibility that that vague memory -- if it were limited to the butt, as I said -- could possibly be caused by a suppository. If you're now sure about the priest at the church with your dick, then of course that possibility isn't relevant at all, and that's fine.
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Sep 2, 2018 20:23
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i like nice words
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Sex toy dude, send a link to this 30 pound sex toy at least. Ummmmm asking for a friend.
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Sep 2, 2018 20:24
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I moved from Philly to Texas and haven't wanted to kill myself from the chuds yet. Big picture stuff still kinda sucks, but interactions with individual people has been mostly fine. Granted I moved to a left-ish area/college town, so YMMV
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Bust Rodd posted:Moving from the NE liberal bubble of major urban cities like NYC/Philly/BMore down south to like South Carolina was a brutal culture shock and a year later it still sucks mega bad and the only friends I’ve made are people from up north and we spend all our time talking about how much we hate it here. If it makes you feel any better, we Southerners hate having you here too.
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Sep 3, 2018 07:23
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There's a criminal statute of limitations, but is there a civil one? Church has deep pockets
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Sep 3, 2018 07:43
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Drunken Baker posted:Yanks are poo poo at drinking. "20 beers at a ball game" is 20 stubby tins, which is what? 5 pints? Raise your aim. How bitchmade people are at drinking aside, 20 beers at a ballgame must cost an absolute fuckload
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Sep 3, 2018 10:22
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alpaca diseases posted:How bitchmade people are at drinking aside, 20 beers at a ballgame must cost an absolute fuckload Still beats watching a ballgame sober.
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Sep 3, 2018 10:46
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Shiki Dan posted:If it makes you feel any better, we Southerners hate having you here too. Why don’t you go secede about it
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Sep 3, 2018 13:29
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Anne Whateley posted:My dude I absolutely wasn't trying to delegitimize anyone's sexual abuse (and fyi all genders have buttholes). I would like to deligitimize anon's sexual abuse. He's broke brained and trying to invent a good reason for it so he doesn't have to take any responsibility for his state. quote:I have a lot of emotional problems, so bad my friends ask if I had a traumatic childhood. Are your friends all psychiatrists? Or are you just an rear end in a top hat?
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Sep 3, 2018 13:46
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That anon has been trying scientifically sound stuff like watching nicktoons and Simpsons from 91 or 92
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Followup from the guy posting about Masons:quote:runupon cracker: lol thanks for repeating random stuff you read online, i'm so glad i had a man to explain freemasonry to me! This one is short but sweet: quote:When I get stressed I yank out my toe nails and pour hydrogen peroxide in. The little crevices fill with blood and there’s an audible hissing noise as it bubbles. It actually included a picture as an attachment but it's really gross and I kinda didn't want to upload to Imgur to link it unless someone explicitly tells me they want to see it, so if you want to see what appears to be a bloody toenail next to an intact thumb (for scale) let me know
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