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bubblebee posted:Me (20m) just sent my crush (20f) a video of me singing a song i wrote for her. This is quite possibly the most insufferable person I've ever seen. Also he's 20 years old FFS
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zakharov posted:Also from Dear Prudence. Seriously wtf  well at least she knows who to drop along with her awful soon-to-be-ex-husband. What the gently caress is the matter with these people.
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I mean, they're not wrong that she needs to be out of the house, because that is a natural consequence of divorcing a cheater Every other part of it they're wrong on though def
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Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, I'll just trust a stranger to watch my kids. Good plan.
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Anne Whateley posted:Her plan may not work out as-is, but you are both going to lose your loving minds if you never let anyone but yourselves or your family members watch your kids. You're going to give in and have babysitters like any other family eventually, so you may as well start getting over that mental hurdle asap.
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Anne Whateley posted:Her plan may not work out as-is, but you are both going to lose your loving minds if you never let anyone but yourselves or your family members watch your kids. You're going to give in and have babysitters like any other family eventually, so you may as well start getting over that mental hurdle asap. This is technically true and presumably you know this but a ten-eleven day absence is not the way this process starts, especially with a loving one year old. Hot take: if you take more than ten days completely away from your one year old and you didn’t absolutely have to do so, you’re a lovely mother. Edit: or father Fuck Your Website fucked around with this message at 17:38 on Oct 17, 2018 |
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Oct 17, 2018 17:18
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Just give your 2 year old 100 bucks for food and wish them luck, idiots
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burial posted:Hook us up, jeez! There's also a lot of people going "no no, incest is totally fine, stop the shaming", because redditors are one of the most broke-brained groups on the internet.
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Anne Whateley posted:Her plan may not work out as-is, but you are both going to lose your loving minds if you never let anyone but yourselves or your family members watch your kids. You're going to give in and have babysitters like any other family eventually, so you may as well start getting over that mental hurdle asap. Getting a babysitter for date night is fine and not even close to the same ballpark as having a nanny watch them 100 hours. I'm not really sure how you came to the conclusion that I have a mental hurdle. I'm guessing neither you nor Pick have children. Leon Einstein fucked around with this message at 17:24 on Oct 17, 2018 |
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Me and my ex wife were like that. We never wanted to trust anyone else with our kids. Eventually we had to get over it because otherwise you wont get anything done for 18 years.
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Haifisch posted:Most of it is just roll tide/banjos/alabama jokes. That's because the subreddit to use to desperately beg for advice as your life crumbles around you and the subreddit to submit your softcore twincest erotica for critique are one and the same
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Pick posted:no wonder people drown their kids if they forgot that sharing child care is something like every single social primate does. "cooperative" behavior is so 90s 
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Yeah, I go over to watch my brother’s kids when he and his wife travel on a weekend some times. Even when they know you well and mostly like you by the middle of day two their main questions are all about when mom and dad are getting back and they start getting a little cranky. I cannot imagine what a mess they would be ten days in.
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I [27 m] just scared off a girl [26 f] that I was seeing due to a kink, need help coping:quote:So I recently started seeing this girl only about a month ago, she’s super sweet and absolutely gorgeous.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I [27 m] just scared off a girl [26 f] that I was seeing due to a kink, need help coping: Is this diapers
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zakharov posted:Is this diapers It's diaps fam
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I [27 m] just scared off a girl [26 f] that I was seeing due to a kink, need help coping: I saw that one earlier but went 'eh, it's adult babies. Again. Pass.' Dealbreaker fetishes in r/r usually seems to be adult babies.
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If he's willing to ignore his kink to be with her, WHY WOULD HE TELL HER? Was he hoping she'd be the 1 in 10 million woman into it too?
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zakharov posted:Is this diapers I assume its baby behavior in general, meaning diapers AND more. Man, what a letdown that would be, if you found someone attractive and went on a few dates with them only for them to dump a load like that on you.
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Pick posted:uh yeah that's like part of how humans have handled child care since forever, is sharing it among the community. like is there not a single person you know you can trust with your kids for a week or two. This has been phased out, capitalism has found it unsuitable to not involve the exchange of large amounts of money, most of which goes to a manager
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Mr. Lobe posted:I assume its baby behavior in general, meaning diapers AND more. Man, what a letdown that would be, if you found someone attractive and went on a few dates with them only for them to dump a load like that on you. Not the only load he wanted to dump
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I live in a different world of oil & gas where we go offshore for 4-8 weeks at a time so I find complaints that a spouse will be gone for EIGHT WHOLE DAYS adorable. Just hire some dang help, geez. This is the point of money.
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I guess one of the nice things about the 21st century is that people have never been in a better position to find someone compatible with them with websites like fetlife or whatever. Imagine how it just have been like a century ago if you were a woman betrothed to a man who had something like that going on. How dreadful that honeymoon would turn out. And from there, you would be economically and socially coerced into remaining in that relationship, and possibly even humoring their weird desires. That would be what you would live with every day until one of you finally died. And conservatives talk about the divorce rate of the 21st century like its a bad thing.
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Me and my ex wife were like that. We never wanted to trust anyone else with our kids. Eventually we had to get over it because otherwise you wont get anything done for 18 years.  not to provide 100% childcare 24/7 for 10 days but in generalLeon Einstein posted:I'm not really sure how you came to the conclusion that I have a mental hurdle.
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Switchback posted:I live in a different world of oil & gas where we go offshore for 4-8 weeks at a time so I find complaints that a spouse will be gone for EIGHT WHOLE DAYS adorable. Anne Whateley posted:hmm probably the part where you acted like the concept of a babysitter at all was completely unacceptable Leon Einstein fucked around with this message at 17:42 on Oct 17, 2018 |
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I know there was a story in this thread about a guy basically going “it’s the diaper way or the highway” like days after marrying the poor woman writing the post, so kudos to that guy for at least letting her know before she completely changed the course of her life for him.
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Yeah live under a bridge and dont work so you can spend all your time with your kids.
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Mr. Lobe posted:I guess one of the nice things about the 21st century is that people have never been in a better position to find someone compatible with them with websites like fetlife or whatever. Imagine how it just have been like a century ago if you were a woman betrothed to a man who had something like that going on. How dreadful that honeymoon would turn out. And from there, you would be economically and socially coerced into remaining in that relationship, and possibly even humoring them. That would be what you would live with every day until one of you finally died. actually in 1918 he was way more #blessed to survive but you know what I mean
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Yeah live under a bridge and dont work so you can spend all your time with your kids.
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Leon Einstein posted:If he's willing to ignore his kink to be with her, WHY WOULD HE TELL HER? Was he hoping she'd be the 1 in 10 million woman into it too? there's a comment thread going on in the post where to OP says he could be happy never fulfilling this fetish and fine not sharing it. the other posters then devolve into a 3 sided argument where one side says it's fine to hide this if he's really okay with it, and they other 2 both say it's NOT fine, but one side because he should look for someone who he can be fully comfortable with (lmao) and the other saying its wrong to hide his pedophilic tendencies https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/9oourg/i_27_m_just_scared_off_a_girl_26_f_that_i_was/
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houstonguy posted:I know there was a story in this thread about a guy basically going “it’s the diaper way or the highway” like days after marrying the poor woman writing the post, so kudos to that guy for at least letting her know before she completely changed the course of her life for him. I at least remember a no sex before marriage couple, and on the wedding night guy unleashed his food fetish by jamming a piece of cake in her mouth during sex, and eating a chicken leg. And then he basically went 'we don't believe in divorce, so  'E: found the 'foodie' story. My[26F] husband [30M] of 1.5 months saved ourselves for marriage, discovered he can't make love without incorporating lots of food and I hate it. Help! quote:So my husband and I got married about a month and a half ago. We've been together for three years and everything in our relationship has been perfect. Goals and values, religion, he treats me well, the whole nine yards. We're soul mates and we really have had a fairy tale romance. We even saved ourselves for marriage as we're both pretty devoted Christians, not that that's something that's required for all Christians, it was our choice. Saving ourselves for one another for so long has strengthened our bond and been very special for us, so please, don't knock us for that. LadyPictureShow fucked around with this message at 17:59 on Oct 17, 2018 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Again, not wanting to hire a nanny for 10 days is not the same as refusing to ever hire a babysitter. Do you understand the difference? Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, I'll just trust a stranger to watch my kids. Good plan.
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Anne Whateley posted:100+ years ago, there were a lot fewer fetishists, they mostly controlled themselves more, and the fetishes they did have were a lot tamer. You can find a lot of Victorian porn where the ultimate in depravity is like squirting, or spanking, or threesomes, stuff that barely even counts as fetishes anymore. While there were outliers, the average guy was amazed and #blessed that he even got to bone at all. You're absolutely right in the big picture, but you know there had to have been some oaf who showed up at the honeymoon suite with a nappy and, like, one of those puffy sailor suit toddler getups and a big lolly.
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Good way to also create weenie children who are afraid to do anything without specifically mummy and daddy. Get a house with a basement I guess. You see how badly socialized people's dogs are these days, and they do the same stuff with their kids!
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Anne Whateley posted:100+ years ago, there were a lot fewer fetishists, they mostly controlled themselves more, and the fetishes they did have were a lot tamer. You can find a lot of Victorian porn where the ultimate in depravity is like squirting, or spanking, or threesomes, stuff that barely even counts as fetishes anymore. While there were outliers, the average guy was amazed and #blessed that he even got to bone at all. Gargantua is basically the entire 21st century Internet in one incredibly popular 16th century novel so idk man
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Leon Einstein posted:Unfortunately those are the only two options in this world. He works in an oil field. Do you think his career prospects are that great that he can just make that money somewhere else? I doubt he has a business degree and decided to work in an oil field because its his dream.
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Anne Whateley posted:Yes, but if you understand the difference, you should probably say "that won't work for this trip" and not If you'd be willing to put an ad up on CL asking for someone to watch your hypothetical toddlers for 10 days, then you're the broken one.
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:He works in an oil field. Do you think his career prospects are that great that he can just make that money somewhere else? I doubt he has a business degree and decided to work in an oil field because its his dream. unless you're Donald Trump basically no matter what your qualifications are you'd be making more money on an oilfield.
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:He works in an oil field. Do you think his career prospects are that great that he can just make that money somewhere else? I doubt he has a business degree and decided to work in an oil field because its his dream.
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