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Smirking_Serpent posted:buying my (27f) first home, seeking advice navigating finances and cohabitation with boyfriend (36m) - too many secrets - his weird dynamics with a close friend - financial slave/master situation. I'm going to take a wild guess and say the boyfriend is a trafficker/drug dealer. Problem is: she can't remain surface happy with the situation as it is. He can't be honest maybe for fear of incriminating her. The other issue is revolving around the control of the relationship. This outside dude (scumbag) is outside her knowledge so it's a variable she can't control. Girlfriend: Leave him if you can't take this at face value, and he won't be honest with you. gently caress this other dude. Boyfriend: Leave her or tell her the truth. Honesty is always my policy as personally, I hate lying.
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Salty Josh posted:I'm going to take a wild guess and say the boyfriend is a trafficker/drug dealer. Nah, it probably is like she says it is - a sugar daddy situation. The question is, what is the other dude getting out of it? Does he just enjoy the fact that he's handing over money to the boyfriend? Even if the bf denies it's financial domination, it kind of is, the other dude just gave the bf enough leeway to pretend it isn't. Or, is the bf giving the other dude his used underwear? Blowing him? making GBS threads on his face? The world will never know.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 21:36 |
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Simply Simon posted:I usually like taking OPs itt at face value because there's more than enough selfowns and obvious assholery going around without interpreting sinister motives into everything, but that guy is claiming that "the bitcoin game" makes him financially secure without ever divulging HOW secure exactly? He's 101% in way over his stupid head and doesn't actually have any money that's not tied up in gaga money that's constantly losing value. Considering this, he probably said "nono love don't worry about the latest bitcoin, some OTHER guy is playing with them and giving me his profit for free, so I'm super safe!!! Really!!!!!". And she bought it because she bought all his other crap before. Pffft wow spoken like a good fudster you know bitcoin is up to $6000 now, if you would have bought in when it was cheap, you would have made a pretty good return oh but never mind that let’s just get into a big circlejerk and laugh about how worthless bitcoin is as everyone else starts getting into it this guy has the right idea, he’s probably loaded but he has to hide that from his wife cause oh no it’s bitcoin!!!
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LabyaMynora posted:Nah, it probably is like she says it is - a sugar daddy situation. The question is, what is the other dude getting out of it? Does he just enjoy the fact that he's handing over money to the boyfriend? Even if the bf denies it's financial domination, it kind of is, the other dude just gave the bf enough leeway to pretend it isn't. Yeah my first statement was kind of a joke. I agree with you on the sugar daddy situation. I can understand the financial domination as it always feels good to give to someone or take care of a good woman. However, in this case, the domination is one in which the only reward is that feeling and not the intimacy of a relationship. The boyfriend should just come clean with her. I think her distress comes from the lack of being 'in on the loop'. She should reward his honesty with acceptance but give him an honest answer back whether she can deal with the arrangement he has with this other guy. That said, it takes a pretty broken person to want to make a couple financially 'happy' while not experiencing the benefits. Unless, he's projecting himself into the boyfriends life. At which point this becomes more like that movie 'One Hour Photo'.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 21:43 |
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My Linux Rig posted:Pffft wow spoken like a good fudster you know bitcoin is up to $6000 now, if you would have bought in when it was cheap, you would have made a pretty good return Lol little defensive of your worthless digital money.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 21:44 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Lol little defensive of your worthless digital money. Yeah worthless, I guess 6435.10$ per bitcoin is worthless. I guess a total value of 1.2$ trillion is worthless. I guess being recognized by several Fortune 500 companies as the future of distributed databases is worthless face it, you and the rest of the people here made the wrong prediction. bitcoin is here and it’s the future
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 21:52 |
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My Linux Rig posted:Pffft wow spoken like a good fudster you know bitcoin is up to $6000 now, if you would have bought in when it was cheap, you would have made a pretty good return https://twitter.com/mtsw/status/953381478330716162
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My Linux Rig posted:Yeah worthless, I guess 6435.10$ per bitcoin is worthless. I guess a total value of 1.2$ trillion is worthless. I guess being recognized by several Fortune 500 companies as the future of distributed databases is worthless How many people have successfully cashed out. Also who believes it’s the future? No one has made that claim since like 2014 when it was last relevant.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 21:56 |
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Y'all are some dense motherfuckers. This is bottom tier trolling and you're just eating it up. calzones are sandwiches
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:00 |
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Bitcoin trolling in r/relationships? Really?
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:03 |
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Not everything is trolling Jesus goons
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:09 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Not everything is trolling Jesus goons I choose to believe that someone is trolling about bitcoin, because the horrible alternative is that someone is seriosposting about bitcoin in this, the thread making fun of other people's relationship failures.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:10 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:How many people have successfully cashed out. Hundreds of people have, and that logic has never made sense to me. Wouldn’t you think that people would have stopped buying bitcoins by now if nobody was able to cash out And tons of people think it’s the future, enough that it’s convinced Microsoft to sell blockchain services on its azure platform and for ibm to write up white papers about it. But never mind that, bitcoin is dumb cause goons said so
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:11 |
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My Linux Rig posted:Hundreds of people have, and that logic has never made sense to me. Wouldn’t you think that people would have stopped buying bitcoins by now if nobody was able to cash out People are buying Tesla stocks despite is being a train wreck. The market is not and has never been rational. Also couldn’t give one example but it’s the future sure
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:14 |
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what kind of ram does bitcoin have
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:15 |
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My Linux Rig posted:Hundreds of people have, and that logic has never made sense to me. Wouldn’t you think that people would have stopped buying bitcoins by now if nobody was able to cash out So your boyfriend's fiancée finally found you out
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:17 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:People are buying Tesla stocks despite is being a train wreck. I would say taking a relatively unknown car company and making it a national name means Tesla has been pretty successful but I guess I must be wrong cause goons know so much about business My Linux Rig fucked around with this message at 22:21 on Oct 21, 2018 |
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My Linux Rig posted:I would say taking a relatively unknown car company and making it a national name means Tesla has been pretty successful so far but I guess I must be wrong cause goons know so much about business Yes you do know very little about business on that we agree. As ironically selling cars and making money is kind of important.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:19 |
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LabyaMynora posted:Nah, it probably is like she says it is - a sugar daddy situation. The question is, what is the other dude getting out of it? Does he just enjoy the fact that he's handing over money to the boyfriend? Even if the bf denies it's financial domination, it kind of is, the other dude just gave the bf enough leeway to pretend it isn't. Hoboken squat cobbler.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:21 |
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I’m (21F) hurt that my boyfriend (22M) is excluded from my friendship group even though the group is formed from couplesquote:I know this sounds petty and juvenile, but it’s really starting to bother me. Everyone in our friendship group, around 15 people, is around the same age, and we all met at university. Yes.
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My Linux Rig posted:Hundreds of people have, and that logic has never made sense to me. Wouldn’t you think that people would have stopped buying bitcoins by now if nobody was able to cash out This is the type of autism story that is constantly told.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I’m (21F) hurt that my boyfriend (22M) is excluded from my friendship group even though the group is formed from couples Your friends do not want you in the group, any more. Cut them out of your life before you embarrasss yourself further.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:26 |
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I got dragged to DW several times as a kid and it loving blew and I'll never abuse my children like that.Pick posted:Women's feelings don't matter I wish someone would tell them
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:30 |
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quote:Dear Prudence,
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:36 |
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I went to Disneyworld when I was 7 and I don't remember any of it. All I remember is the super long drive to get there and that the place we stayed at had a nice pool. I do have vague memories of liking Space Mountain, but that's it as far as the actual park. Neither of my parents particularly like theme parks so I'm not even really sure why we went. But adults who are super into Disney are always really weird, without exception.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 22:43 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I’m (21F) hurt that my boyfriend (22M) is excluded from my friendship group even though the group is formed from couples I feel like she's leaving out that everyone involved in this story is white EXCEPT for her boyfriend. That's some typing with one hand bullshit right there.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:15 |
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My Linux Rig posted:Yeah worthless, I guess 6435.10$ per bitcoin is worthless. It's kind of worthless to the all the people who bought it for twice that or greater during that bubble a of couple years ago... Blockchain technology has promise and will be used in some capacity. Bitcoin is just scam bux for child pornographers and international organized crime.
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LabyaMynora posted:It's kind of worthless to the all the people who bought it for twice that or greater during that bubble a of couple years ago... A couple years ago, bitcoin was worth around $200 Now it’s worth $6k How exactly is that a worthless investment? (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:24 |
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My Linux Rig posted:A couple years ago, bitcoin was worth around $200 These are good questions. Why not ask the bitcoin thread about them?
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:27 |
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:30 |
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They will just tell you what has been said here. Bitcoins don’t really have a purpose other than being traded by people who want them to be a thing. They are basically stock without a product.
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My Linux Rig posted:A couple years ago, bitcoin was worth around $200 Sorry, I thought the whole Bitcoin bubble where it went up to $20k and then crashed was a couple years ago. It was 2017 through early 2018. Time flies. People who spent $7k to $20k on their Bitcoins probably don't think their $6k valued Bitcoins are really worth it right now.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:33 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Bitcoins don’t really have a purpose other than being traded by people who want them to be a thing. Don't forget the drug trade, child pornography, and human trafficking.
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LabyaMynora posted:Don't forget the drug trade, child pornography, and human trafficking. Please don't put drugs in with the other two. Drugs are cool and fun.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:43 |
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bitcoin is a hot potato with no intrinsic value, if you sell it for a profit then you have exploited another sucker in a chain of suckers that will eventually end with a final sucker who sells at a loss until the bubble starts inflating again. People have made a lot of money buying and selling bitcoin and people have lost a lot of money buying and selling bitcoin, it's literally gambling where the nature of the bet is "will someone be willing to give me more money for this than I paid". Unlike regular stocks there are no real-world factors like "company performance" or "successful product or service" governing the outcome of that bet just the fragile beliefs of other people in the market. it's a mugs game where some of the mugs make profits by finding a bigger mug before everything deflates.
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# ? Oct 21, 2018 23:52 |
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People who bought Enron a couple years before the story broke quadrupled their money (before it spontaneously evaporated)
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# ? Oct 22, 2018 00:05 |
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Bitcoin started as internet libertarians slowly rediscovering the reasons our banking & economic systems are the way they are(and constantly forgetting those lessons as new suckers came into the fold). Bitcoin is going to end with them rediscovering the lessons of tulip mania.
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# ? Oct 22, 2018 00:16 |
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My Linux Rig posted:Hundreds of people have, and that logic has never made sense to me. Wouldn’t you think that people would have stopped buying bitcoins by now if nobody was able to cash out By that logic, Ponzi/pyramid schemes must be legit because people keep buying into them
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jobson groeth posted:Please don't put drugs in with the other two. Drugs are cool and fun. my(33) husband(38) had inappropriate conversation with my sister(27) and is still contacting her. He’s blaming it on the drugs. How do I leave with two kids? quote:I’ve never posted on here before and I’m on my phone. I apologize if I’m not doing it right.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:
Open the relationship* *To cocaine** **And your sister
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