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64bit_Dophins posted:The internal combustion engine was actually a gift from Satan And Satan Himself designed the Audi I5 as you can hear the wails of the damned from it
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CAT INTERCEPTOR posted:And Satan Himself designed the Audi I5 as you can hear the wails of the damned from it And on the 8th day Beelzebub himself created VTEC, and it was good.
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CAT INTERCEPTOR posted:And Satan Himself designed the Audi
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I'm having an idea that I think is a bad one, but I'm not sure. When my fiance left, it was so sudden and we didn't even talk about what was happening for 5 minutes. No joke, the music I was listening in my headphones (yes I took them out) before she gave my ring back and subsequently left had only gone forward by one song I want to kind of confront her, get a chance to get some closure over this thing. I feel I deserve that much, at least I feel like it's a bad idea because I don't want us to get back together and this might be a result of our actually sitting and talking, but I need to get some of this poo poo out of my head. It's keeping me up at night
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Nov 11, 2018 19:30
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The Door Frame posted:I'm having an idea that I think is a bad one, but I'm not sure. When my fiance left, it was so sudden and we didn't even talk about what was happening for 5 minutes. No joke, the music I was listening in my headphones (yes I took them out) before she gave my ring back and subsequently left had only gone forward by one song
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Nov 11, 2018 19:40
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Rhyno posted:He didn't do anything dramatic, there's no drugs, violence or jail time. He just made a promise that was somewhat important and broke it. People are generally unreliable. This is a newsflash special update. You got married and are buying a house. Give a gently caress about them, give no fucks about people that are unreliable or untrustworthy. Move on.
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Nov 11, 2018 19:48
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Fo3 posted:People are generally unreliable. Yeah, life goes on. Still sucks. I'd done a fairly good job weeding out the rotten people in my life, I didn't expect one of my inner circle to do lovely stuff.
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Nov 11, 2018 19:51
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Rhyno posted:Yeah, life goes on. Still sucks. I'd done a fairly good job weeding out the rotten people in my life, I didn't expect one of my inner circle to do lovely stuff. Disillusionment is a particular kick in the guts when you already felt like you were overly cynic.
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Nov 11, 2018 20:01
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The Door Frame posted:I'm having an idea that I think is a bad one, but I'm not sure. When my fiance left, it was so sudden and we didn't even talk about what was happening for 5 minutes. No joke, the music I was listening in my headphones (yes I took them out) before she gave my ring back and subsequently left had only gone forward by one song The most powerful thing you can do Ian move on and let them think you dont give a poo poo. A girl broke up with me in October and she is great and I have nothing bad to say but man I wish I had not sent a single text after even though it was nothing bad. Just move on and take power and comfort in it nothing good will come from contacting her. I’m old and I know please don’t if you can but if you do I understand.
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The Door Frame posted:I'm having an idea that I think is a bad one, but I'm not sure. When my fiance left, it was so sudden and we didn't even talk about what was happening for 5 minutes. No joke, the music I was listening in my headphones (yes I took them out) before she gave my ring back and subsequently left had only gone forward by one song No. Don't. It's been two years and I'm just starting to heal closed. The brain is dumb and takes time but it's worth it over the potential lifelong mistake. Humans are set apart by complex learning. You've just been given the answer. Don't throw that value away.
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Rhyno posted:Yeah, life goes on. Still sucks. I'd done a fairly good job weeding out the rotten people in my life, I didn't expect one of my inner circle to do lovely stuff. My inner circle consists of about 8 people, including my wife, kids and parents. Anything outside of that? Suspect.
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meatpimp posted:My inner circle consists of about 8 people, including my wife, kids and parents. Anything outside of that? Suspect. My groomsmen plus 3 more and my sister. I have other friends but I don't feel bad about not seeing them regularly. So. house stuff. The service tech at one of the properties my wife worked at is having a rough time financially. He mentioned he was looking for side jobs and he's a licenced contractor so we're having him do the wall repair and he's gonna toss a quote at us to paint the whole house. He's also going to demo the french doors and wall up the hole. As we have access they've also given us the go ahead to start cleaning so I'm going over tomorrow to clear the junk out of the attic and garage.
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Rhyno posted:So. house stuff. The service tech at one of the properties my wife worked at is having a rough time financially. He mentioned he was looking for side jobs and he's a licenced contractor so we're having him do the wall repair and he's gonna toss a quote at us to paint the whole house. He's also going to demo the french doors and wall up the hole. As we have access they've also given us the go ahead to start cleaning so I'm going over tomorrow to clear the junk out of the attic and garage. Rhyno posted:Um, they gave us the key lock access code. So we have full access to the house.
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tetrapyloctomy posted:You are right: it probably is a bad idea. Closure will occur, but it may take time. Certainly no conversation stemming from a confrontation will provide you with the answers you need. You might be able to have a productive, mutual conversation in a neutral location, but probably not when feelings are raw. everdave posted:The most powerful thing you can do Ian move on and let them think you dont give a poo poo. Queen Combat posted:No. Don't. Ok, it's good to know that my gut feeling about being a loving idiot is 100% accurate I have strong opinions and like to argue, but I rarely get genuinely angry about anything. I'm a very easy going person in real life, despite what my posts might suggest. When I think about how cruel our break up was, I get this deep resentment that I don't know how to deal with because I don't normally get angry. Or even hold on to anger for more than a few hours. I was hoping that telling her how I felt would make the anger stop, but I'm clearly grasping at straws here My friends are telling me that I need to talk to her about this, but I'm going to maintain radio silence for the time being. Maybe give it a couple months before I try to find out what the gently caress actually happened. Find some other way to get this festering mass of emotions out of my head
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The Door Frame posted:Find some other way to get this festering mass of emotions out of my head Make something.
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slidebite posted:Weren't the current owners doing the wall repair before possession? Or is this a different repair? This is the same repair and the sellers are still footing the bill for the wall repair. We just want to have that wall work done asap.
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The Door Frame posted:
1) Write everything down in a letter. Don’t hold back. 2) Burn the letter
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Tomarse posted:1) Write everything down in a letter. Don’t hold back. This can actually be quite cathartic.
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Tomarse posted:1) Write everything down in a letter. Don’t hold back. 3) _________ 4) profit
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The Door Frame posted:Ok, it's good to know that my gut feeling about being a loving idiot is 100% accurate https://youtu.be/--1LBnOcHhQ
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Tomarse posted:1) Write everything down in a letter. Don’t hold back. Wrote a letter once maybe 2002-3? It actually worked and we got back together only to break up even worse shortly after. And then she got married on tv (not making this up)
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NumbersMatching320 posted:Make something. I agree. Case in point: the 323. It was going to be an exe's car to learn to drive on, now it's just awesome.
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A new j mascis album just came out and its v good
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Remembrance Sunday. Always good to stop and take a moment to remember how lucky our generation is and think about those who made sacrifices for us. I think about what my experience would have been if I were a young man at the time of the Great War and realise that it probably would have been to die in an utterly pointless fashion. spog fucked around with this message at 22:58 on Nov 11, 2018 |
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The Door Frame posted:My friends are telling me that I need to talk to her about this, but I'm going to maintain radio silence for the time being. Maybe give it a couple months before I try to find out what the gently caress actually happened. Find some other way to get this festering mass of emotions out of my head Tomarse posted:1) Write everything down in a letter. Don’t hold back. Going to Nth this one here. There is no way to describe how cathartic it is, even though it sounds childish in a way. Just do it and it'll help you move on. spog posted:Remembrance Sunday. "Had he and I but met By some old ancient inn, We should have sat us down to wet Right many a nipperkin! "But ranged as infantry, And staring face to face, I shot at him as he at me, And killed him in his place. "I shot him dead because — Because he was my foe, Just so: my foe of course he was; That's clear enough; although "He thought he'd 'list, perhaps, Off-hand like — just as I — Was out of work — had sold his traps — No other reason why. "Yes; quaint and curious war is! You shoot a fellow down You'd treat if met where any bar is, Or help to half-a-crown." I support and love our troops, but I am against war. It's always started by some idiots in power that won't have to fight themselves, nor have their children fight, and they won't bother spending money to help the VA care for the soldiers who haven't fully come back yet.
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everdave posted:Wrote a letter once maybe 2002-3? It actually worked and we got back together only to break up even worse shortly after. And then she got married on tv (not making this up) This is the kind of thing that piques my curiosity. TDF I’m so sorry for your situation. It takes a long time to get over a relationship. I had some that were progressing towards marriage but when they ended it sucked. Usually lost weight (and sleep) and generally didn’t know how to re-enter the dating world. Take time and work on yourself. Like someone else said make something with your hands, go get one of those bitching LEGO sets and a membership to a gym or something. (Im not very good at internet advice)
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The Door Frame posted:Ok, it's good to know that my gut feeling about being a loving idiot is 100% accurate Ignore her completely, this is the only way you can get 'closure' out of this that isn't not-closure, or not-the-closure-YOU-wanted. Also she'll be wondering where all the begging and pleading texts are, and you'll be busy having a good life moving on.
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Somewhat Heroic posted:This is the kind of thing that piques my curiosity.
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fridge corn posted:A new j mascis album just came out and its v good One of my coworkers went to his show here in Seattle on Friday and said he was amazing.
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Tomarse posted:1) Write everything down in a letter. Don’t hold back. Strangely enough, I already did the "write a letter no one will read" part last night. I guess it's time to light it on fire Sgt Fox posted:I agree. Case in point: the 323. It was going to be an exe's car to learn to drive on, now it's just awesome. I'm building a capri, which is kind of a 323
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I'd say give it at least a month before talking and clear your head as best you can. If you still want to have that conversation later, then just do it and get it over with. It'll probably make things worse having it, though.
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TDF: I know the desire to have closure, but seriously, even after some time opening up communications again is iffy at best because it brings everything back. Just let the emotions happen, accept them and try to move on.
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fridge corn posted:A new j mascis album just came out and its v good I went to this today. It was awesome. I’m still not sure who some of the bands were: 
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Somewhat Heroic posted:This is the kind of thing that piques my curiosity. Would answer anything life gets strange sometimes
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Fender Anarchist posted:
MrsAdiabatic showed me this very same image once. It's one of his favorite metal bands.
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Fender Anarchist posted:
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Tomarse posted:I went to this today. It was awesome. I’m still not sure who some of the bands were:
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