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loquacius posted:It kind of seems like the "puff self up all loud and scary" tactic would have worked if she didn't have the Internet to double-check with too; her tone indicates he successfully scared the poo poo out of her probably if he'd stopped short of the weirdass attempt to shoo her out of the house like a raccoon she'd have just let him steamroll her on the assumption she had no rights yeah
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loquacius posted:It kind of seems like the "puff self up all loud and scary" tactic would have worked if she didn't have the Internet to double-check with too; her tone indicates he successfully scared the poo poo out of her
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Haifisch posted:Peacock Lane Portland post alert Edit: there are probably many Christmas lights streets called Peacock lane, that's just what leaped our at me from that boring man's tedious description of his lame girlfriend and the dumb poo poo they fight over andrew smash fucked around with this message at 21:37 on Dec 4, 2018 |
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andrew smash posted:Portland post alert Can’t believe anyone actually read that boring garbage argument
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My [26M] girlfriend [24F] of six months is upset because she found my folder with pics of cute East-Asian girls text extraneous
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:My [26M] girlfriend [24F] of six months is upset because she found my folder with pics of cute East-Asian girls I disagree because I have an intense sense of dread over the word "girls"
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I found my FWB reddit account and it seems like he's been sleeping with someone other than me...quote:Throwaway because I (26f)don't want him(34M) to find this. 
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Dec 4, 2018 22:39
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If that was the conversation I had with a girl about being exclusive, i'd have assumed she dropped the subject because she didn't want to be and was gauging my reaction.
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LadyPictureShow posted:I found my FWB reddit account and it seems like he's been sleeping with someone other than me... Lmao what a dodge
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LadyPictureShow posted:I found my FWB reddit account and it seems like he's been sleeping with someone other than me... “I’m so safe about sex” that I do everything short of actually talking to my partner about it. Who could have foreseen this happening?!?!??
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:Boyfriend Choices Can't in good conscience criticize this girl due to how envious I am of her
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LadyPictureShow posted:I found my FWB reddit account and it seems like he's been sleeping with someone other than me... "He said he didn't want to be exclusive and then wasn't exclusive, wtf!!!!"
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [20F] mother’s friend [43F] friend acts wierd/inappropriately towards my younger brother [18M] your brother is being molested by the family friend but really you already knew that
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gently caress Your Website posted:Gurl, u dum as fuk Wait, was she having u protected sex with him? So serious about sexual safe practices. EDIT: she was using condoms yet still talked poo poo about the other woman he's loving and how she's exposing her to bacteria. Ooook. Leon Einstein fucked around with this message at 00:07 on Dec 5, 2018 |
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You can still get herpes and HPV despite using condoms
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Anne Whateley posted:You can still get herpes and HPV despite using condoms The venereal disease that could!
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Anne Whateley posted:You can still get herpes and HPV despite using condoms in before the sluts come Kramering into the thread to tell us herpes is perfectly normal
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hpv i didnt even know existed back when i was slutting it up 
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I feel uncomfortable with my [28F] boyfriend [30M] playing drums in our apartmentquote:I live in a high-rise apartment with my boyfriend, Jim. He works away on 2-week-on/2-week-off rotations. Jim is a musician. Previously, when he was home, he'd play some acoustic guitar in our apartment, and go to a friend's place or jam space to play louder/heavier stuff like his electric guitar, bass, and drums.
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Haifisch posted:I feel uncomfortable with my [28F] boyfriend [30M] playing drums in our apartment i lived directly downstairs from a drumming rear end in a top hat for six months (bongos in my case). he loved the cocaine and slammed on them for twenty hours a day. it was a nightmare. her apartment complex should evict her if she doesn't get him out
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InediblePenguin posted:........... why isn't he wearing headphones quote:Even if Jim is playing with headphones, the guitar and drums are loud. He is. But the dirt is another matter, and neglecting the dogs is evil.
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The White Dragon posted:i lived directly downstairs from a drumming rear end in a top hat for six months (bongos in my case). he loved the cocaine and slammed on them for twenty hours a day. it was a nightmare. Not should, but will.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:
There are many words missing here, like 'parent' and 'work'. Realistically she should say No to both of them. But she's stupid, so she'll pick the jerk. Fill a room with 100 decent guys and one rear end in a top hat, and they'll pick the rear end in a top hat. Every. Single. Time.
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Khazar-khum posted:There are many words missing here, like 'parent' and 'work'. Realistically she should say No to both of them. But she's stupid, so she'll pick the jerk. Fill a room with 100 decent guys and one rear end in a top hat, and they'll pick the rear end in a top hat. Every. Single. Time. Her best choice is a juggalo, her dating pool needs some chlorine
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It was funnier when I thought that it was the same OP as the person who likes Creed, Nickelback, and Imagine Dragons. Like, somehow even a Juggalo has better taste in music.
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I know I am very late to the mother's day/wedding conversation, but the very obvious solution would be for ex-husband and new wife to postpone the ceremony by one year. New wife gets her dream date and doesn't make any waves by screwing around with OP's mum-related holiday. If it really is all about the date, this shouldn't be that big of a deal. It's a shame they waited until only 5 months before the date to tell the OP their plans, since it's probably too late to plan around it now. HazCat fucked around with this message at 01:44 on Dec 5, 2018 |
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I don't even have a dog in the fight but uh, in what way does moving the wedding off of the "Dream Day" allow the wedding to happen on the "Dream Day"
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I don't even have a dog in the fight but uh, in what way does moving the wedding off of the "Dream Day" allow the wedding to happen on the "Dream Day" Mother's day isn't the same day every year because it's a non holiday and that mom's being a lovely mom using her kids like this.
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It's me, I'm the broad who is gonna be totally cool with taking a pass for a year on getting married because it's inconvenient for my fiance's ex
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Dannywilson posted:and a 40th anniversary just happens once every year huh? You can just cryptically refer to this one as “The Shadow Year” and not count it.
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tactlessbastard posted:It's me, I'm the broad who is gonna be totally cool with taking a pass for a year on getting married because it's inconvenient for my fiance's ex Maybe if your partner has an ex-wife/ex-husband that they have children with you should consider a longer engagement a good investment anyway  Also just get married on the 12th this year in a court ceremony (sans kids), and then have the main event on the 12th next year (with kids and no drama with the OP). If the new wife cares more about nailing things down ASAP she can suck it up and pick a different date.
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I (23f) work full time while my boyfriend (35m) stays at home and looks after the home/pets. Is this a terrible idea?quote:My boyfriend is a wonderful person who I love very much. He is definitely going through a tough time in his life where he really doesn't know what he wants and has had a hard time finding a job that works for him. He has had a few odd jobs in the four years we have been together, and has been unemployed for the past 8 months. 
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Based on the title, I came into this expecting to be extremely annoyed by a dreamcatcher-weaving white girl dreadlocks and crystals girlfriend. Buuut… My [F, 20] GF [20] of seven months constantly goes on solo trips to “meditate and discover herself and other cultures” and it’s starting to make me feel insecure My gf and I have been in a relationship for 7 months now, and she has already taken 3 solo trips, to Indonesia, Peru and Italy. She always stays for very short amounts of time, a week or two max, and she does constantly text me and talk to me during the time that she has access to the internet, but the fact that she enjoys those trips only if other people she knows are not there, including me, is really hurtful. The trips aren’t the only things she does solo. She constantly goes to coffeeshops, parks, libraries and remains there for hours without contacting me in any way. Then later she will text me something like “I got so absorbed im reading this book” or “I got lost in my own thoughts again” and proceed to tell me about all the conclusions she has come to after her spiritual journey, as if there was nothing wrong with not talking to your SO for hours at times. I did consider the fact that she might be cheating, but I genuinely cannot believe it because she is a loyal and trustworthy human being, always pays for the trips with her own money and books either single hotel rooms or hostel dorms with like 10 other people, but obviously it could be a possibility too. It’s just really hard to believe. For her next trip, she is planning to go to Vietnam and Myanmar, it is going to be a longer trip and I asked her if I could go with her. She said that she would be honest and admit that she would rather go alone, since that is her only way to seriously meditate and find her path intuitively, whereas with other people she would have to coordinate plans and be less spontaneous. She suggested that she goes to that trip alone, and after she returns, we would make travel plans together and she would only travel alone in case of me being unable to go with her. It is true that I am much less spontaneous than her and I am much less of a free spirit, but I simply would rather stay in a decent hotel than go and work on a farm somewhere. She did tell me before our relationship that she is a person who needs breaks from the world she lives in sometimes, I knew that before we even started getting romantic, and at first that seemed like such a mysterious and attractive trait about her, but now it’s starting to bug me more and more. Would you guys feel the same? I just feel undesired and uninteresting in these situations, why would she need a break from me if she loves me as much as she says? TL;DR girlfriend of 7 months constantly does things alone, goes to long-ish solo trips, refused to take me on the next one with her EDIT Many of you guys told me the same thing, basically that I am too clingy and that we are not compatible. While I agree with the first part, I disagree with the second. I think that I am too clingy as a result of my past relationships and the fear of losing her, which even if it happens, would be sad, but probably meant to happen. So I am just going to chill a little, and start getting more independent myself. Does anyone have any tips on how to do that, other than travel alone, which I think I am going to do anyways? 2. EDIT When I said “for hours” I didn’t mean 2, 5, or even 10 hours, it’s literally me texting “ everything alright?” at noon, just to check if she is living, and getting a response at 11 p.m. I am not saying I’m not clingy, but sorry, I do get worried about the people I love.
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Anomalous Blowout posted:My [F, 20] GF [20] of seven months constantly goes on solo trips to “meditate and discover herself and other cultures” and it’s starting to make me feel insecure I want to see the parallel "my SO freaks out when I go to a coffee shop for a few hours. What should I do?" post.
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HazCat posted:Maybe if your partner has an ex-wife/ex-husband that they have children with you should consider a longer engagement a good investment anyway
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Guys her feelings are a little hurt because her ex is marrying a new woman on Mother’s Day. She might not be acting totally rationally, but it’s understandable. Have we not dissected this one enough?
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New wife can 100% have everything she wants (anniversary shared with her parents), she just has to wait a bit (or split the legal marriage from the wedding party). Versus the OP getting nothing she wants and just giving up something she cares about to appease a woman who is making zero effort to meet her halfway. The kids don't have to miss out on the wedding, the new wife is 100% able to accommodate having them in the wedding if she wants to. Apparently having her anniversary be one number instead of another matters more to her than including the kids in the ceremony I don't celebrate mother's day and I don't want to ever get married, so I think both women are dumb for caring about their respective trivial nonsense. I just don't see how "wait until almost literally any 12th of May except this exact one" is such an unreasonable request.
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Depressio111117 posted:Guys her feelings are a little hurt because her ex is marrying a new woman on Mother’s Day. She might not be acting totally rationally, but it’s understandable. Have we not dissected this one enough? the Takes abate for no man, there is no rest until we've settled for all eternity which of these tedious whitenoise motherfuckers has the most correct opinion on Mother's Day v wedding etiquette
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