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Barudak posted:I recommend hiring a red bull and driving them into the sea until you find just the right one nice
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Khazar-khum posted:ESL or Stupid? [uncle]What's the difference?  [/uncle]Happy holidays everyone!
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Husband [27] blames me [29] for our daughters [4] injury To make a long story short, I was out with my family. My husband told me to hold our daughter even though she's getting too big for me. While I was holding her, he thought it would be funny to jump out and grab my waist from behind. I was started and dropped our daughter. She fell and broke her wrist. My husband is very mad at me and keeps telling me it's my fault for dropping her, and it's making me feel terrible. I asked him to stop and he keeps doing it. He also told me I had to pay the copay for her wrist out of my personal account instead of our joint account, which we would normally use to cover this sort of thing. I want to tell him no, but I don't know how he will repond and I don't know if I'm in the wrong. What to do? Tl;dr dropped my daughter and she broke her wrist, husband constantly brings it up and wants me to pay for the injury myself
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My (22F) new roommate (26M) is upset that we aren't sharing finances. How can I explain this to him? I'm not sure if he's never had a roommate situation before or what, but my new roommate seems to think we should be sharing finances. He invited me to go grocery shopping with him which I'd figured was just a nice gesture to get both of our shopping done with one car and one trip. But when we got to the grocery store he put all of his stuff in the cart mixed in with my stuff and expected me to pay for his food and mine! Which I only learned when we were already at the cashier ringing up. He hadn't even brought his money. I gingerly brought it up after the fact that every roommate I've ever had before, we buy our own groceries. And he seemed alright with it. Then about a week later I came home and he has made an entire meal with all of my groceries and offered me some food, as if it wasn't my food in the first place. Again I just kindly asked if he could ask me before using my stuff. Thought he was okay with it. Then two days ago he texts me and says he paid the full amount of rent (since this is the first month we start paying) and I can give him my half to repay him. Every roommate I've had in the past, we paid each half of our rent separately and my one landlord was even adamant about it being that way. So I told him that, he said it was fine and he'd remember for next month. But now he's being passive aggressive and ignoring me. I don't understand why he thinks any of this is anything to get upset over. I make my paycheck to support myself, not him!! How do I get that through his head? And how can I fix this relationship now? TL;DR: New roommate has been ignoring me because I've asked him that we pay rent and groceries separately and for him not to eat my food without asking. How do I get him to understand without ruining this friendship even more? I really don't want to live with someone I don't like being around
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My [33M] son [6M] has started calling my wifes [29F] boyfriend [29M] dad and it's upsetting me. This is a complicated situation and I'm really emotional right now, so please bare with me. I'll try to explain everything as best as I can. I have been with my wife Amy for 8 years and we have a 7 year old son named Bryce. In the beginning our marriage was great but over the last couple years we've had some issues. My wife lost her job 2 years ago and in turn became depressed. I wanted to give her time to work things out and I didn't want to rush her so I got a second job working on weekends. I was extremely exhausted constantly trying to provide for her and my son while also being there for her emotionally. With her being depressed and me working constantly and taking care of our son our sex life was non existent. We went months and months without sex. I figured it would just take time. I didn't want to be aggressive or too pushy so I didn't really say anything. A couple months back, during the summer, she tells me she had been seeing another man for a month or so at that point. I was devastated. I didn't understand why she would do that. I asked her to explain and she said it kind of just happened. She told me she went for a walk one day with our dog and met this guy named Matt at the park. He was super flirty she said and asked for her number. She says she doesn't know why but she gave him her number and they started txting and eventually she went to his place where they had sex. I couldn't believe what she was telling me. Here I am working 2 jobs trying to support her and our son Bryce, and she's cheating on me with some guy. I was so mad I immediately just left and stayed at a friends place. The next day I came back wanting to figure out what to do next. She was very apologetic, saying how sorry she was and how much she loved me. When I asked if she was still seeing him though she said yes. She said she wanted to stay married to me and to also have Matt as a boyfriend. She said having both of us in her life was important to her and that having both of us there for her was getting her out of her depression. I didn't know what to say. I still loved my wife and wanted her to be happy but I felt so betrayed too. Against my better judgement, I decided to stay with her and try to work on our marriage so she could see that she didn't need Matt in her life, which was very stupid now I see. She was ecstatic though of course that she could now see him without hiding it. At this point I'm still working 2 jobs though, while Amy still wasn't working. So while I would be at work Matt would come over and they would spend time together. This has been going on since August. Because I would also be working late on weekdays and working during weekends Amy asked Matt to help bring Bryce to school and pick him up, take him to his after school activities, sports stuff, swimming lessons, etc... They would play games together, go shopping together. Originally when me and Amy spoke to our son about who Matt was we just said she was a friend of Mom's here to help so I guess he didn't really think much of it. Basically though he was doing everything I couldn't as a father because I was working, they even went on a weekend trip together to Matt's cottage. He started staying over too and me and Amy felt like we were drifting further and futher apart. She even asked me if I minded sleeping in the basement when Matt came over so they could have the room and I agreed thinking it made her happy at least. Fast forward to December, I had fly across the country for work so I was gone 3 days. When I got back I overheard Bryce talking to Amy while he was getting ready for bed about how he had such a fun couple of days with dad. I had been out of the country for 3 days so he obviously didn't mean me, he meant Matt. And Amy didn't correct him when he said that, she just told him she was glad he was enjoyed it. I went down to the basement and just cried while Amy went over to Matts I guess because she wasn't home until this morning. I'm guessing Bryce had started calling Matt dad recently because I've been so busy with work and never home while Matt is always around. I'm scared that I've lost my family and I don't know what to do. Please help. TL;DR: My wife cheated on me but convinced me to let her keep seeing the guys while I worked 2 jobs and and my son started seeing the new guy as his father figure because I was never around anymore due to work and he was there to do all the things I couldn't.
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Bf (20sM) thinks I (20sF) have an obsession with a celebrity. So I've been in a relationship for almost a decade with my bf. we've had our ups and downs and are still working on some issues. Over the last few years I have been severely depressed and have had some anxiety issues. The anxiety seems to be getting worse and worse and it went from specific anxiety to a more general anxiety. I basically self-medicated with food (sugary things) locked myself in (due to social anxiety). My bf saw all of that and had a rough time with it. I can go on and on about why I am like this (very difficult family life, bullying at school etc) but I don't think that is the point anymore. Over the years I have tried to keep it together at school and work and remained kind of functioning even though my depression and social anxiety made my life a living hell. Im finishing up my degree and am working an almost fulltime job at the same time. Im trying to lose the depression-weight also which is pretty hard when the depression kind of demotivates you all the time. My only outlet that I had left (since I didn't keep up with friends or had a social life and became a recluse) was basically (Korean) entertainment and reading books. Kpop has become a daily staple and is really something I can kind of unwind to. It might seem stupid to a lot of people but retrospectively I guess I kind of used it as a crutch. When life was hard or my day sucked I could watch my favorite group on some kind of stupid variety show and life didn't seem so bad. I made it through another day. I recently got into this group and im really really infatuated with one of the guys. He is the most precious thing I have ever seen in my life. We call him my "emotional-support-kpop-boy". Watching him perform or do variety shows seriously lifts my mood. I watch his shows daily. Follow his social media, he is the background on my phone and all of that. I do keep up with him more than prior groups, this is true. My boyfriend kind of got irritated with it though. I can partially see where he is coming from. The Kpop guy is attractive and I do find him handsome and there is definitely an.... infatuation, if you can call it that? So this probably contribute to my bf's feelings, but again..... its not like I want to sleep with the guy. Im not dumb and can clearly see that the whole entertainment thing is not real. Im not delusional. I would literally never be interested in someone like that in real life (personality wise). To me at least it is clear that it is not about that. I love my bf more than anything in the world. I don't know, I don't want to derail. I guess he is irritated or feels threatened with this Kpop guy? But I don't want to date the Kpop guy (not that this would ever be possible, but you know what I mean). Im not interested in him for ONLY his looks or whatever. I genuinely find joy and it eases my mind of off the daily struggles and brings a smile to my face when I can watch the shows and see them doing dumb stuff/tell funny stories etc. But on the other hand I don't get it. I have been into Kpop for years. He knows about my mental health. Just because it is Korean doesn't make it weirder? I mean tons of people keep up with Hollywood, it is basically the same thing. He has always kind of poo poo on the fact that I liked Kpop, even before the "Kpop-guy" and it hasn't been until somewhere this year that he kind of stopped making comments about it. I thought he finally got it. So I want to ask reddit, is it weird that I use entertainment as an outlet to my daily stressors? Is it disrespectful to my SO, that im keeping up with a handsome male celebrity? TL/DR: Kpop eased my depression and anxieties over the years. BF never got it and made comments about it. I stared keeping up with a handsome male celebrity and now bf is annoyed. Should I not keep up with male celebrities and just stick to female? Give up Kpop on a whole? edit: to say my bf has not asked me to stop watching Kpop-related things or to stop keeping up with the Kpop-guy. I just came here to ask y'all if I should
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (22F) new roommate (26M) is upset that we aren't sharing finances. How can I explain this to him? he thinks you are married
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Pick posted:he thinks you are married And when she gets her District Manager job and he gets his "smoke weed and play most recent CoD" job, they will still be together
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:Gonna guess here that his flirtation and shoulder tapping is underplayed. I'd call out unreliable narrator but he was kind enough to let us know he's obese. Betting that it's not so much a "tap" as it is "rest whole sweaty pig paw on her shoulder and slowly moves it towards her neck until she cringes away".
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [33M] son [6M] has started calling my wifes [29F] boyfriend [29M] dad and it's upsetting me. My god man 
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [33M] son [6M] has started calling my wifes [29F] boyfriend [29M] dad and it's upsetting me. I'd say this is the most I've ever seen someone own themselves but I know that there'll be a new low next week
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [33M] son [6M] has started calling my wifes [29F] boyfriend [29M] dad and it's upsetting me. Kill both of them but make it look like an auto accident.
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therobit posted:Kill both of them but make it look like an auto accident. And leave that kid without any parents??
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Shrinking Serpent def thread MVP Also Lol at "I dropped my four year old because my husband surprised me." I mean, yes, the dickhead husband is responsible, but how can you not be able to hold a four year old? They loving jerk and spasm all over the place, you gotta be ready to do the UNIMAGINABLE task of, you know, tightening your arm muscles. Like, gently caress, I've held my kids and been super startled at least a dozen times, your first response is to tighten your grip on the kids, what is wrong with people on a neurological level?
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quote:She says she doesn't know why but she gave him her number and they started txting and eventually she went to his place where they had sex. Where’s that one old comic book safe sex ad about like, people tripping while roller blading and falling into the bushes PIV
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Drunk Nerds posted:Shrinking Serpent def thread MVP It's just a classic example of the fight or throw your kid on the ground response.
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tactlessbastard posted:And leave that kid without any parents??
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [33M] son [6M] has started calling my wifes [29F] boyfriend [29M] dad and it's upsetting me. Yeah, that is the good stuff. Whenever I feel down I can come here and realize that at least I am not that guy/girl.
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Me [29 F] with my husband [40 M]. I think I want kids and I think I want to leave my husband, but I am terrified. (LONG)Relationshipsquote:For some background, he is 40M and I am 29F. We met six-ish years ago in Texas and got married last August. We met in my hometown in Texas, but two years ago moved to California. My husband has a lot of family in the area, and he got accepted to a grad school near by. I have zero family in California. I’m also a teacher, and this is my third year. I work at a stressful inner-city school, but I love my job and coworkers and everything about the school; it really has been a great experience. It’s a school that if you put in one year, you can get hired basically anywhere in the surrounding area, but I like where I am. Basically, I love my job, but it is incredibly stressful and I come home crying on occasion. Nonetheless, I have a great job and have made friends with many coworkers and we hang out outside of school (dungeons and dragons ftw!) So you hooked up with a guy over ten years older then you when you were 23, who at the age of 40 is financial dead weight pursuing what is probably a useless PhD, who does not want to go on the fun trips you love, and who is bitter and cynical. The reasons you give for why this is bad is that he will be hurt (normal) and because this 40 year old able-bodied man would not be able to support himself. Better stay. Doubt you can do any better.
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I'm super sensitive about being tickled especially around the waist and if someone did that to me I'd spasm and jump reflexively, so I can sympathise with the woman in that story.
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My boy friend (21 M) has never eaten a single serving of fruit or vegetables in his ENTIRE life..... he refuses to eat anything that’s not loaded with sugar and extremely processedquote:So, some background. My boy friend (21) of four years has always been an extremely picky eater and refuses to eat foods based on how they look or the texture they have. He refuses to eat anything with sauce or liquid for whatever reason, I don’t think he has even tried any saucy foods he just refuses to eat it. He also just refuses to try anything new unless it’s EXTREMELY similar to something he already eats. He also has NEVER in his ENTIRE LIFE had a single serving of fruit or vegetables, this is the most concerning fact for me.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:They believe that my dad can't really help the way he is and that since he's been this way for so long, I should know not to attribute any value to his words. Oh great that means they'll understand why you want to cut someone like that out of your life considering they can't say poo poo that's worth listening to.
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Haifisch posted:My boy friend (21 M) has never eaten a single serving of fruit or vegetables in his ENTIRE life..... he refuses to eat anything that’s not loaded with sugar and extremely processed thats like legit impressive
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Haifisch posted:My boy friend (21 M) has never eaten a single serving of fruit or vegetables in his ENTIRE life..... he refuses to eat anything that’s not loaded with sugar and extremely processed quote:I want to see him live a long and healthy life But why?
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There was a dude like that in a recent video! Weird as hell, but apparently A Thing? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22-bSrS7ICE
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facialimpediment posted:There was a dude like that in a recent video! Weird as hell, but apparently A Thing? what the gently caress
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facialimpediment posted:There was a dude like that in a recent video! Weird as hell, but apparently A Thing? How're you gonna feed someone fruit for the first time and start with a kiwi? Kiwi is good, it just wouldn't be my first choice. Go with an apple or a pear or a clementine. Edit: I've been suckered, the thumbnail says the kiwi is the first fruit ever, but they actually gave him a blueberry.
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facialimpediment posted:There was a dude like that in a recent video! Weird as hell, but apparently A Thing? And the horror example: https://youtube.com/watch?v=IJGIMd3_LfY
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facialimpediment posted:There was a dude like that in a recent video! Weird as hell, but apparently A Thing? How the gently caress you gonna give a no fruit jackwagon like that unripe fruits, what the gently caress
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Biomute posted:I guess I expected people who say they're into "older men" to be into guys in their 40/50's or whatever because of the status these men are afforded in our society. That patriarchy has instilled in people who fetishize men of this age some connotations of power, authority or wealth, in addition to whatever feelings their relationship (or lack thereof) to their own father brings to the table. But 40s is her age. She is a person with daddy issues who has grown to daddy age and thus now requires an older daddy. Guys that are that much older than her still have those connotations. Guys who are her age would not. Drunk Nerds posted:Shrinking Serpent def thread MVP For some odd reason, reflexive responses don't care if you're holding a kid or a teddy bear. Your conscious thoughts don't have much to do with them. Don't startle people while they're holding things you don't want to hit the floor. And don't be pissy when startling someone causes what they were holding to hit the floor. She should punch him in the dick until he's a ken doll.
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Am I The rear end in a top hat for accepting blowjobs from a gay friend and then cancelling? Here's what happened. I'm a straight heteroflexible dude btw. A gay friend, who I'm very good friends with, offered me a blowjob and since I was single and horny at the time I said ok. I said right there that I couldn't reciprocate and it was all on him whether he wanted to suck me or not I let him blow me quite a few times over the coming weeks/months I got a girlfriend at some point, then we stopped this arrangement and he was cool with it. My girlfriend dumped me and we started the BJ stuff again A few weeks ago I felt bad for him always doing it to me so I sucked him but I immediately felt awful and sick with myself and I told him nicely (not in a mean way) that this wasn't what I am and we should stop Since then he's been cold and distant to me. I texted him a huge message over Chrismas and he just replied "thanks you too" essentially. Every time I try to organize something to do with him, like we used to do before this stuff began, he just says he's busy. I asked people in a different sub and they said it's my fault for leading him on... but I didn't, it was clear from the start that I'm straight and wouldn't love him or kiss him or anything like that. They said I should leave him alone but how can I do that when he's like my best friend and we did so much stuff together? Am I really the bad guy here? PS we're both 18 male
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Am I The rear end in a top hat for accepting blowjobs from a gay friend and then cancelling? You know, OP, there is this old thriller movie I watched as a kid where a woman who has been spurned one too many times by the object of her affection has a full on breakdown, culminating in her shouting that she swallowed his cum and that means something and he just can't throw her away when he wants. Now the important part of this story is not that I don't remember the name of this film and that I'm sure as hell not searching on google based on what bare fragments I remember, the important part is she goes on to brutalize this man physically and mentally until he is nothing more than gibbering flesh and I thought of this outcome when you shared your story.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Am I The rear end in a top hat for accepting blowjobs from a gay friend and then cancelling? Everyone in this story is young and dumb, but only one is still full of cum
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Hellsau posted:what the gently caress the midwest
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From our friends at legaladvice $5k Furry Scam quote:Questions: 
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Wait you bought two suits, cash up front, from someone before even getting a single progress report or having bought anything from them before? Your fursona is a whale shark because youre the biggest sucker in the sea.
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LadyPictureShow posted:From our friends at legaladvice  I feel bad for people getting swindled but sometimes I just have to wonder what the gently caress
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Am I The rear end in a top hat for accepting blowjobs from a gay friend and then cancelling? at least his friend got practice sucking dick, which is a useful life skill for a gay man. Too bad it came at the cost of whatever friendship he had, though it looks like his friend made the mistake of expecting that relationship to be something it wasn't. I guess you suck someone's dick enough times you run the risk of developing a case of the feelings Mr. Lobe fucked around with this message at 08:08 on Dec 30, 2018 |
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