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Being unlikeable to trigger the libs. e: weak, terrible page snipe, here's a random story sorting by new Wife(F31) and I(M30) get into small arguments when it comes down to asking her to do her share of chores like putting away her clothes, picking up her clothes she throws in down in loving area, etc.. So to put it into content, my wife is currently half way through her 2nd pregnancy. I am the one who tends to take the initiative and clean our home, do laundry and dishes, etc...but whenever I do the laundry and fold our clothes, she never puts away her stuff, it takes about week or two or until I get fed up and tell her to do that and in which I shouldn't have to as well. Or when it comes to sweeping/vacuuming the floors or dishes I have to ask her to please do some of those chores. And she always ends up upset or states that it makes her feel like she doesn't do anything around the house. Now this also happend before being pregnant as well and with our current child, she always brings up the fact that we should be spending most of our time with our child. I understand that but it shouldn't also mean that we should just let our home turn into trash. Am I overreacting? TLDR: My wife and I argue sometimes when I have to ask her to do her share of chores or put away clothes she throws in the area for weeks. She gets upset about that and it makes her feel like she doesn't do anything around the house when I ask her to do some chores. --- I mean I guess it's frustrating to have stuff everywhere, but that doesn't sound dirty or gross to the point where he can't take a little extra initiative considering her pregnancy. life is a joke fucked around with this message at 21:37 on Dec 31, 2018 |
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I said something to my girlfriend that made her think im not interested in her at all, i have tried everything to fix itquote:Im 19, my gf is 20, we (were?) are together for 1.5 month quote:She just wrote "For me this is the end. Unfortunately breaking up through message isn't a proper way to do it so I can't do it yet right now.". Thank you all folks, im gonna go cry now, bye.
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Dec 31, 2018 21:50
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Smirking_Serpent posted:[46 F] overpowered partner [47 M] in play-fight and revealed a lot issues. Meanwhile this would give me a raging erection.
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Dec 31, 2018 21:55
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Those pregger hormones get more wild with each pregnancy and also the age of the woman during pregnancy can further influence the potential for a very, very emotionally sensitive term. Just wait for the baby to be born and the post-partum rears its ugly head. Buckle in, man. It doesn't matter if you're simply asking her to do chores or hey you can be doing nothing at all and upsetting her will be like shooting fish in a barrel. Bitch needs to pick up her goddamn socks and poo poo, though. I agree with you. Unfortunately, I think this is a time where you may have to begrudgingly do the chores and be an emotional foundation to help that lady you happened to marry. Edit: Could have sworn I hit quote to the first post on this page but, ah well. That's what my post is ranting about, if any clarification is needed. Papa Emeritus III fucked around with this message at 21:57 on Dec 31, 2018 |
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Dec 31, 2018 21:55
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Papa Emeritus III posted:Those pregger hormones get more wild with each pregnancy and also the age of the woman during pregnancy can further influence the potential for a very, very emotionally sensitive term. Just wait for the baby to be born and the post-partum rears its ugly head. Buckle in, man. It doesn't matter if you're simply asking her to do chores or hey you can be doing nothing at all and upsetting her will be like shooting fish in a barrel. all of this is extremely true, I became progressively more of a rage monster with each pregnancy (#3 lost me some friends) and postpartum depression got worse with each as well. Pregnant women are exhausted, emotional, hormonal, angry, nervous, terrified, impossibly hateful people and if he hasn't learned that by now and wants everything to be exactly the way it was when she wasn't pregnant (with another small child as well) then hooooo buddy, have I got some news pick up the laundry, bro. it's the least you can do since you're not the one carrying a child in your body.
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Dec 31, 2018 22:20
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christmas boots posted:I said something to my girlfriend that made her think im not interested in her at all, i have tried everything to fix it He needs to call her bluff and take that loss. No one knows how to take rejection anymore.
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Dec 31, 2018 22:59
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life is a joke posted:Being unlikeable to trigger the libs. drat it's almost like a pregnant woman with a small child doesn't have 'put clothes away' as a top priority I wonder why? I wonder how much child care this dude does.
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Dec 31, 2018 23:06
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I'm curious why you guys ITT don't post links to these stories. Is it just to dissuade ppl from heading over to Reddit to comment?
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Dec 31, 2018 23:28
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That's essentially it. Also  , I assume.
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Dec 31, 2018 23:32
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Also stories that get linked from offsite can get deleted by bots, so there's that too.
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Dec 31, 2018 23:43
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Ah, okay, thanks
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Dec 31, 2018 23:46
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How was I Supposed to Feel?quote:My wife (40/f) just admitted to having had an "emotional affair". Being on the spectrum, I (40/m) don't really understand emotions, unless they're very obvious. I don't see any reason to "punish" her, either by withdrawing affection or kicking her out of the bedroom or any of the other things I've read that will happen during fights. 
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Dec 31, 2018 23:46
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We call it Poop Protection. .....okay, we dont and I made it up just now. But some goons were reaching for turds and this helps deter that. Sorta. TheKennedys posted:all of this is extremely true, I became progressively more of a rage monster with each pregnancy (#3 lost me some friends) and postpartum depression got worse with each as well. Pregnant women are exhausted, emotional, hormonal, angry, nervous, terrified, impossibly hateful people and if he hasn't learned that by now and wants everything to be exactly the way it was when she wasn't pregnant (with another small child as well) then hooooo buddy, have I got some news I've never been pregnant and I never plan to be but I salute those who endure the physical agony and psychological meltdown that happens to be the blessing of life. You have more nerve than I. Also, with your post in mind here about how out of touch this man is, I'm getting the impression he wasn't around for the first pregnancy. It's the only thing I can think of because whenever I say "come on, no one is that dumb", I end up eating my words.
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Dec 31, 2018 23:49
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LadyPictureShow posted:How was I Supposed to Feel? Marriage dead, so what
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Dec 31, 2018 23:51
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Motherfucker posted:Meanwhile this would give me a raging erection. Your mom hold you down a lot?
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Dec 31, 2018 23:55
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Husband and I are having our longest fight ever and I don't know what to doquote:tl;dr My husband and I got into an argument and he left for almost 2 days.
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Jan 1, 2019 00:00
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Beachcomber posted:Your mom hold you down a lot? Only developmentally.
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Jan 1, 2019 00:05
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christmas boots posted:Husband and I are having our longest fight ever and I don't know what to do Jesus christ what an rear end in a top hat.
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Jan 1, 2019 00:09
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christmas boots posted:Husband and I are having our longest fight ever and I don't know what to do I smell a few missing pieces! Omitted: She really is an absolute nag and he responds by being a childish rear end in a top hat. They're perfect for each other. Edit: or, nah, hes an rear end having an affair Papa Emeritus III fucked around with this message at 00:12 on Jan 1, 2019 |
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Jan 1, 2019 00:09
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SirSamVimes posted:Jesus christ what an rear end in a top hat. do NOT say those things in front of MY child
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Jan 1, 2019 00:13
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so i found the reddit post that the thread title is from and DAYUM
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Jan 1, 2019 00:13
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christmas boots posted:do NOT say those things in front of MY child Jokes on you, it's not your child.
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Jan 1, 2019 00:18
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OMGVBFLOL posted:so i found the reddit post that the thread title is from and DAYUM it should really be linked in the OP by now
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Jan 1, 2019 00:25
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I (M36) found out about my wife’s (F35) one nighter.quote:Guys, me and my wife had been separated for almost three months. During this time I had a thing with another girl which is not the point I’m asking here. Anyways, we reconciled for Christmas, spent Christmas together and since then we have been together. The thing is she has been too protective about her phone, always leaves it upside down, disables WiFi when not using it. The other night when she was sleeping I enabled WiFi and she got a lot of notifications from some dude. I confronted her and after having lied about not having anything with anyone in these three months she admitted having sex with him at this dude’s apartment pior to the week we reconciled. In your opinion, what should I do here? Stay separated. E: quote:In early October me and my wife separated and since then we’ve had one fight after the other. We did try to reconcile in the middle of November but I was involved with other woman who at the time made me think I could be happier with her so I decided to stay with her. In the meantime I stayed over my parents’. At the beginning they were treating me very well, specially my mom but last week I had an argument with my father over a small thing and he ended up kicking me out of his house. My ex-wife took me in out of pity and we seem to be reconciling again but in these past few days I found out she’s having an affair with some dude, she slept with him a week ago and they can’t stop talking to one another over social media. LadyPictureShow fucked around with this message at 00:53 on Jan 1, 2019 |
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Jan 1, 2019 00:49
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Papa Emeritus III posted:I smell a few missing pieces! Omitted: She really is an absolute nag and he responds by being a childish rear end in a top hat. They're perfect for each other. He's 36, she's 29, they've been together "more than a decade" which suggests they got together at 26/19 at the latest, and he's really self-righteous about their daughter being "HIS child" Armchair diagnosis: controlling rear end in a top hat!
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Jan 1, 2019 00:58
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LadyPictureShow posted:I (M36) found out about my wife’s (F35) one nighter. This reads funnier if you imagine he is married to a fighter jet.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:18
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My older brother (25M) is now my (16M) legal guardian and I don't know how to interact with him because he doesn't show emotions. non romantic quote:So I have an older brother (OB for short) and an older sister (22F, OS for short) who are actually my half-siblings. Their mom died when OS was 2 (OB was 5) in a car accident. We share the same dad. My mom is in jail and has been for most of my life (she has no contact with me). Two months ago, our dad committed suicide and OB took me in as my legal guardian. I've never really interacted with OB a lot, he's always been closed off and quiet and doesn't really talk a whole lot. When we were younger we didn't like the same things and I was always loud and annoyed him, so he always seemed to avoid me. He was in the car when the accident happened that killed his mom and Dad for the longest time always just told me to give him his space, so I never made much of an effort to connect with him as a kid since OS was always more willing to play and enjoyed sports as I did. This ones big and sad, like me.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:19
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Guy with strong horsewife could just like, life weights for a few months. He would likely eclipse her strength drastically in a fairly short period of time if he really cared about how strong he was.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:19
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jobson groeth posted:This reads funnier if you imagine he is married to a fighter jet. This could apply to every story posted here though.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:20
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Antivehicular posted:He's 36, she's 29, they've been together "more than a decade" which suggests they got together at 26/19 at the latest, and he's really self-righteous about their daughter being "HIS child" drat. I rarely get it right on the first try. They really had the same 'tit-for-tat" one-upmanship behavior that some young married couples harbor all the way into their twilight years. This is the most  moment in my life.I'm starting to wonder why people hang onto that childish trait and typically only unleash it on the spouse. My next guess is something like "God... I could have totally been a rock star, getting loads of poon and money as I tour the world. But, noooo. Had to knock up goddamn Shelly. I wish I never did that--- oh god. No. Wait. I didn't mean that, I cherish my little girl." in his head and then "That's MY child." aloud and out of context as he morphs that guilt into bitter, by-pass inducing rage. Some couples just don't need to keep poisoning themselves with each others presence, just split.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:36
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Hellblazer187 posted:Guy with strong horsewife could just like, life weights for a few months. He would likely eclipse her strength drastically in a fairly short period of time if he really cared about how strong he was. Sure. And the guy who makes a quarter million a year in equity could just save money for a year and then quit his job and live off savings until his kid is like 4 or 5 and he and his wife can go back to work together then. But these problems are not about practical solutions. The real problem is misogyny. They just don't respect their SOs.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:37
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christmas boots posted:Husband and I are having our longest fight ever and I don't know what to do You change the locks on the doors is what you do.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:42
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Papa Emeritus III posted:I smell a few missing pieces! Omitted: She really is an absolute nag and he responds by being a childish rear end in a top hat. They're perfect for each other. Papa Emeritus III posted:drat. I rarely get it right on the first try. They really had the same 'tit-for-tat" one-upmanship behavior that some young married couples harbor all the way into their twilight years.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:42
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i like nice words
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Anne Whateley posted:This is a really weird take. She wasn't nagging at all, and she wasn't doing any kind of tit-for-tat or oneupmanship. This didn't kick off when she asked him to wash dishes or something, it started when she told her husband he was sexy. Their relationship is garbage for sure, but it appears to be flowing in one direction; she wasn't poisoning him. Yeah but she said it in front of sleeping baby so who’s the real monster?
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Jan 1, 2019 01:57
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Hellblazer187 posted:Guy with strong horsewife could just like, life weights for a few months. He would likely eclipse her strength drastically in a fairly short period of time if he really cared about how strong he was. He's too much of a wuss to work out and he's being such a passive aggressive bitch right now that if actually did he would become *whipcrack* you have come to a land called Gor. The optimal solution here is for her to ask for help opening a pickle jar or something and then swoon over how great he is. She would have to loosen it up for him though.
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Jan 1, 2019 01:57
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strong horsewife
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Jan 1, 2019 01:58
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christmas boots posted:Husband and I are having our longest fight ever and I don't know what to do Add this one to the "You're better off without him" pile. Running away for two loving days because he couldn't get his leg over. I cannot even put into words how pathetic that is.
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Jan 1, 2019 02:04
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Better than a strong-smelling fishwife
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Jan 1, 2019 02:05
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the male ego is so loving exhausting
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Jimbozig posted:Sure. And the guy who makes a quarter million a year in equity could just save money for a year and then quit his job and live off savings until his kid is like 4 or 5 and he and his wife can go back to work together then. Yeah, exactly. He doesn't care about how strong he is. How strong he is has nothing to do with how strong she is. If you're a man who cares about how strong you are, you're lifting weights or some similar activity. If you're a misogynist dork, you wait until you get pinned and then whine about it.
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