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Baronjutter posted:I've met a couple people who strongly believe what rear end-grab sister thinks. Even in a committed relationship, any sort of touching much be expressly consented to beforehand each and every time or it's sexual assault. That sounds insufferable and really not how healthy relationships work.
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have u considered that every relationship in the history of humanity might have been a power-imbalanced misbegotten monstrosity tho??
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whats with this obsession with touching in a relationship? seems a bit counterproductive to me
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Haifisch posted:He's [21m] accusing me [21m] of sabotaging him at a career networking event, because of some poo poo that went on years ago So is this actually a man? I gotta assume the title is a mistake because it really seems to be written by a woman
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Jan 15, 2019 02:03
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Play posted:So is this actually a man? I gotta assume the title is a mistake because it really seems to be written by a woman How exactly?
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SciFiDownBeat posted:How exactly? because the OP sounds like a little bitch
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SciFiDownBeat posted:How exactly? a man, in a physical relationship with another man?! unheard of
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SciFiDownBeat posted:How exactly? The guy randomly saying "You look beautiful today" to someone who is in the middle of a conversation with someone else. Yeah it's possible they're both guys, but that definitely seems like something that was directed towards a woman.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:have u considered that every relationship in the history of humanity might have been a power-imbalanced misbegotten monstrosity tho?? Nope.
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:The guy randomly saying "You look beautiful today" to someone who is in the middle of a conversation with someone else. Yeah it's possible they're both guys, but that definitely seems like something that was directed towards a woman. I didn't notice it was two men, and totally thought it was written by a woman. Regardless of gender, you don't say that to someone in a professional setting.
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Leon Einstein posted:I didn't notice it was two men, and totally thought it was written by a woman. Regardless of gender, you don't say that to someone in a professional setting. what if you're a real man, a real go getter type of dude
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AITA for not giving my Husband a Blowjob? So let me say right off the bat, me and my husband enjoy a healthy sex life, with the exception of blowjobs. I hate giving them and as a result I only give them on special occasions (his birthday, anniversary). Last night, he came home after what he proclaimed to be a “rough day at work”. Not even 5 minutes after walking in, he started begging me for a blowjob, saying how he needed it to feel better. I told him no, and then said we could have sex later if he wanted. He got all pissed and avoided me the whole rest of the night. This morning before he left for work, I tried talking to him about what happened but he burst out at me and yelled that “as his wife I’m obligated to give him blowjobs whenever he wants”. I was pretty shocked by this and in the spur of the moment I yelled at him that I don’t owe him anything and that he has no right to my body. He stormed out and went to work, he texted me a few hours later that he would be staying with a friend for a few days and that I shouldn’t expect him at home. I’m really panicking now, I have no idea what to do. AITA for refusing to give him a blowjob?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not giving my Husband a Blowjob? Fun fact: Blowjobs are why penises are shaped the way they are. Like rats teeth, penises constantly grow and if not shaved down with blowjobs they will eventually curve in on themselves and pierce their own shaft, leading to blood loss, mental anguish, and a convenient coat rack. If you ever see a real curved dick that indicates a lack of blowjobs. To handle this, most folks simply learn to blow themselves, which is a lot more like giving a blowjob than receiving one, but it is a necessary act if you want to retain a mostly straight cock instead of being a quiver dick.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not giving my Husband a Blowjob? I like how she capitalizes 'a Blowjob' like it's some huge event. Regardless, they sound sexually incompatible. She's got every right not to like giving oral, he's got every right to like getting it, but demanding it is dumb. If it's that important to him, he should've broken up with her a long time ago.
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Meme Emulator posted:Its further up the quote chain: Congrats on being the one who can't read.
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Man he threw a massive tantrum over that. Bets on poor hygiene being a huge part of why she hates to go down on him?
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Gf has extreme political views. I (M 50) have issues with my gf’s (F 47) political views. We live in Denmark. We are in a relationship for 6 yrs now, and on personal level we have a stable relationship. Sexual intimacy is becoming less last 2 years. My gf displays more and more extreme right wing political views and even mentioned that ethnically cleansing (aka purging) the country would be a good thing. This scares me a lot, we have had several arguments about this, one escalating in a verbal fight and I’ve lost my physical desire for sex with her, pretending that I am ill or busy or otherwise not interested. I definitely do not share her political views and can’t convince her otherwise, or continue a normal discussion about it. It makes me very uneasy and worrying where this will lead to. What should I do? Just leave the subject alone, knowing that it will pop up later? TL;DR gf has extreme political views that concerns me and makes me uneasy and reduces sexual desire
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Xenocides posted:I [29M] can’t shake the feeling that I’m being monitored by my girlfriend [31F] and I’m becoming a bad person because of it. I've been with someone almost this bad and got sick of it and left about 3 weeks after the bullshit started lmao sever hard
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Smirking_Serpent posted:he burst out at me and yelled that “as his wife I’m obligated to give him blowjobs whenever he wants”. 
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(edit) ^^^^ yes, that exactly (/edit)call center manager posted:I like how she capitalizes 'a Blowjob' like it's some huge event. He 100% went in to the marriage thinking that she would change to meet his needs after. Guy's an rear end in a top hat, anyone who thinks that marriage entitles them to ownership of their partner's body is a sentient red flag.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not giving my Husband a Blowjob? On the one hand it's kinda lame not to go down on your SO except in special circumstances. On the other hand this dude doesn't deserve them because he is a unstable horrible child man.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not giving my Husband a Blowjob? I don't think she knows what a "healthy sex life" is if she hates giving blowjobs. (I'm assuming this is an actual dislike and not something like PTSD from rape by forced irrumation.) The point isn't that she likes it; it's that her husband likes it. On the other hand...I imagine there are few things as unsexy as your pissbitch of a husband melting down and alternately begging for and demanding a blowjob. She's absolutely not obligated to service him in any way, but I think that if anyone avoids giving oral sex to a partner who wants it without a better reason than "hating giving [it]", there's not a lot of recipociality or sex-positiveness there in the first place. He's not asking her to poo poo on him or dress up in a fur suit. e:f;b and more pithily too ^^^^^ Admiralty Flag fucked around with this message at 03:11 on Jan 15, 2019 |
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in comparative mythology, many stories appear across cultures – the great flood, the dying-and-rising-god, a titanomachy, etc. But perhaps none is as enduring as the eternal legend of a man who demands a paternity test of his faithful wife... I(33m) told my wife(31f) I wanted a paternity test on false premises. How do I make amends? I love my wife deeply. She is a good wife and mother and a hell of a lot of fun. We have two kids, a boy and a girl, but she isn't like a lot of moms who lose themselves in their kids. She has a lot of fun hobbies, basically made her own business with two toddlers. Both kids weren't planned, but birth control mishaps. We were already married, so it was a little earlier than anticipated but not bad news. The kids are only a year apart and have just entered school age. When our boy was 3, I got a vasectomy. It was a harder decision for her than me. She shines as a mom, whereas I am a good dad but have to really try and think about to make sure I'm doing a good job. This is my rambling way of saying I screwed up. She told me last week that she was unexpectedly pregnant, had thought a lot about it and wanted to keep the baby. I was shocked. She told me bluntly my vasectomy hadn't worked and I said I would want a paternity test. She was not happy and said some not nice things and I still shocked said statistically it was more likely to have a partner cheat than to have a failed vasectomy. Things fell out from there and for the past week, we've been fighting mildly. More just not flowing, not shouting after that first night. After that night I knew she hadn't cheated but I also knew that I needed to get it resolved (1. I didn't want any fraction of a doubt, 2. I need to get it fixed, because who the heck has 4 kids in 2019?) Today I got the results that I am ridiculously fertile and it sort of compounds how much of a jerk I was. I always thought I was the kind of man who could walk in on my wife with two men in bed and still believe her. But evidently, I'm not. My wife still isn't happy and I'm at a loss at how to take away the feelings my reaction caused. Advice? tl;dr I(33m) told my wife(31f) I wanted a paternity test because I have a vasectomy. She was understandably upset. How do I make amends? Smirking_Serpent fucked around with this message at 03:16 on Jan 15, 2019 |
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Grape posted:On the one hand it's kinda lame not to go down on your SO except in special circumstances. Nah if you're open about not liking certain things sexually during the relationship and they choose to stay (and marry you), maintaining your clearly communicated preferences is fine. Maybe that wasn't the case (we're only getting her side) but it certainly seems like this has always been the situation. Nonvalueadded User posted:The point isn't that she likes it; it's that her husband likes it. That's stupid, you aren't obligated to do/put up with a sexual thing just because your partner likes it. There's plenty of women who enjoy giving BJs, and many more others (probably the majority) that tolerate it on a either a quid pro quo basis or just to be nice.
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If a vasectomy made Cosmo Kramer more fertile, it can happen to anyone
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EDIT: I am bad at reading the last page. Just repeating the horse sex post.
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quote:I (32F) hate visiting my sister (30F) Went into it expecting r/childfree nonsense, came out of it realizing sis and hubby are just really lovely parents.
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quote:My [25M] father [60M] has recently announced he's getting married to his 26 [F] girlfriend of two weeks. I think he's having another manic episode but he justifies everything to the extent he's blind to all else. Help? Dad suddenly sexually interested in cats maybe, so what?
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13Pandora13 posted:Dad suddenly sexually interested in cats maybe, so what? Let him enjoy himself while he still got it.
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quote:Gf has extreme political views  what the gently caress dude break up and  what are you waiting for-quote:I mean, if ethnic cleansing isn't a deal breaker, then what would be? Goddamn it. 100% of the comments are calling the guy out for not dumping her so naturally OP has ghosted the thread. 13Pandora13 fucked around with this message at 03:38 on Jan 15, 2019 |
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Boyfriend (24M) doesn't like my (20F) erotic modeling career. First off, I want to apologize for any mistakes, I'm not a native English speaker. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 years. He met me on tinder where he was really interested in me because I model for the erotic website SuicideGirls. After about 6 months he started having problems with me getting undressed in front of photographers (Male and female). But during that time, modeling went very great for me and I became somewhat popular. We also have problems and go to couple therapy because of my BPD and his porn addiction (which hurt me a lot, he stopped watching now 1 month ago because our relationship started to suffer and I wasn't comfortable with him looking at nudes of solo girls. I was okay with normal porn though. Just the thought that he masturbates to other girls specifically wasn't so cool to me). Now I'm really starting to miss doing the Photoshoots because I also made good money from it and it gave me lots of confidence. What do I do now? I have no idea how to initiate a conversation regarding that topic... Besides all of that our relationship is amazing and we really want to have a future together. Tldr: Boyfriend doesn't want me to do erotic (not pornographic) photoshoots anymore but I miss it.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Boyfriend (24M) doesn't like my (20F) erotic modeling career. He just has a fragile ego.
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AITA for being upset at my mom for stealing food from Uber Eats? Ok, so I want to start this post by stating two things: 1) I'm sorry if the title is wrong or confusing, english is not my first language and I had trouble making that sentence, if you could correct me I'd appreciate it. 2) I love my mom more than anything in this world, we've had some problems and we're going through a rough situation but I don't blame her at all for this. 3) There's a TLDR at the bottom. So my mom and my siblings have been in a pretty rough situation for a couple of months now. My mom lost her job and our father is a crackhead good for nothing, our family doesn't really help us and we've been all alone for a good time, my grandfather (who was the only one that helped us) passed away recently, and left my mom his motorcycle, my mom, not being able to find a job, decided to work for Uber Eats and has done so for a couple of months, it's not like we can live from it because we don't have Wi-Fi or anything like that but she makes it work. God I love that woman. Now, the problem started about three weeks ago. We got our light and water services cut off, we couldn't even afford food and if we did, we couldn't cook it but, magically, out of nowhere, big buckets of chicken would appear out of nowhere, pizza, tacos, all sorts of food. My brother and little sisters were happy because we haven't been able to eat that delicious food in a long time, so I just let it slip and thought she bought it. After a week or so of that I asked her where she got that food from and she confessed to me she accepted Uber Eats trips and when she got the food she cancelled them so we could eat something, she said she felt terrible but if she didn't do that we wouldn't be able to eat. I got pretty upset and exploded over this, we got into a big argument and I called her a thief, I went to my room and I could hear her cry. I told her if the problem was so big I could get a day job and study at night but she said if I do this I won't be able to graduate and to see me do it it's her biggest dream. I feel really lovely and I don't know if I'm right or what. I know she's just doing what she has to do, but I feel extremely disappointed and embarrassed so, AITA? TLDR; Family has been in a lovely spot for a few months, my mom has been cancelling Uber Eats trips after getting the food so we can eat something to eat, I exploded and called her a thief. AITA?
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[Serious] My (35M) girlfriend (24F) wants me to act like a horse when we have sex, and I’m not into it at all.quote:So, tiny bit of backstory, my girlfriend of 6 months loves horses, has all her life. An additional, seemingly relevant point is, during sex, she sometimes says stuff like ‘f*** me with that horse cock’. I’ve never thought much of it, I thought that was just a way of her saying it’s big. But she’s started to take it further and it’s turned into a bit of a fetish that I’m not entirely comfortable with. A few days ago, she told me she wanted to roleplay, and at first I was pretty on board, but then she said as horses. I laughed, thinking it was a joke and she took it the wrong way, and said she was tired and then went to sleep. I said gently caress it and, trying to make her feel better, said I’d do it the following day. Honestly it was okay but very, very weird, she got so into it and said it was the best she ever had, and next time wanted to buy costumes, and maybe do it on some hay. I told her no, and I didn’t want to do it again and she’s back to being mad at me. Am I being a dick here? I don’t know what to do. Sorry if wrong sub, just wanted a second opinion
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being upset at my mom for stealing food from Uber Eats? Yeah you're an rear end in a top hat, eat the food your mother provides you fuckin ingrate
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quote:My husband (34M) wants us to have a child together, I (26F) am traumatized by my first experience and am dreading going through it again I'll take "poo poo that should have been discussed years before marriage" for $1000, Alex.
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How does the Uber Eats scam even work? I thought the drivers put it on their cards and were reimbursed after delivery.
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Xik posted:[Serious] My (35M) girlfriend (24F) wants me to act like a horse when we have sex, and I’m not into it at all. The way I look at it: You either join her in her kink or she will find someone that will. Horse isn't the worst thing I've heard.
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I feel like "accept money, then don't bring food," should be a stunt the app only lets you pull once?
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