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Salty Josh posted:The way I look at it: I'm pretty sure the someone that she finds will be an actual horse.
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Regardless of being a mandated reporter or not, if you see a child getting abused it is your moral duty to report that poo poo to the proper authorities (CPS, police) immediately.
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and then go all john wick on the situation
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sneakyfrog posted:and then go all john wick on the situation what, it's just a bunch of kids come back to this when it's a dog who gets hurt.
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spacetoaster posted:I lost my poo poo at "After a couple of months". Sounds like he was kicked out for being a little poo poo. At age 24.
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spacetoaster posted:I lost my poo poo at "After a couple of months". I wonder if mom took the bigotry hit as the only way she could get rid of him.
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Renegret posted:what, it's just a bunch of kids oh for some reason had the impression it was an adult abusing a child. don't beat up kids atomic wedgie them.
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Renegret posted:People who get paid minimum wage put in the minimum amount of effort. I totally understand that attitude if you’re working retail or some other lovely job like that, but I’d hope people would care a little bit if they saw a child or other vulnerable person being abused at their job, regardless of how much they’re getting paid. I’m overestimating a lot of people here, I know. Edit: childcare workers and anyone involved in social work deserve to get paid way way more, both for the importance of the work and for how much bullshit they have to put up with. wizardofloneliness fucked around with this message at 16:49 on Jan 15, 2019 |
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It's insanely hosed up that people are so scared of making a fuss that they'll let someone literally beat a child rather than speak up.
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# ? Jan 15, 2019 16:53 |
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spacetoaster posted:I lost my poo poo at "After a couple of months".
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Boiled Water posted:Sounds like he was kicked out for being a little poo poo. Darkhold posted:So they decided they were a manbaby trapped in a woman's body? Didn't know that was a thing. Or it's some anti-trans propaganda written up by some chud, it certainly fits in with their whole "trans people are the ultimate snowflakes" angle.
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# ? Jan 15, 2019 17:01 |
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yeah thats gotta be a LIE! a human cant be lovely?!
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# ? Jan 15, 2019 17:09 |
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sneakyfrog posted:oh for some reason had the impression it was an adult abusing a child. It was an adult abusing a child. I'm saying you should only go john wick if it was an adult abusing a dog. Dogs are more important. Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:Edit: childcare workers and anyone involved in social work deserve to get paid way way more, both for the importance of the work and for how much bullshit they have to put up with. Like I said, the industry is baffling. The teachers are always part time, underpaid, and underemployed. You need a minimum of a bachelors in education to be hired to change diapers for 8 hours a day at minimum wage without benefits. Tuition is crazy expensive and for a dual family income, it sometimes costs the entirety of one of the parent's incomes, yet they run on paper thin margins and aren't very profitable. To actually manage a center properly requires a poo poo ton of knowledge about the ins and outs of the regulations, but there's no real way to get trained other than being thrown to the wolves. Especially in cases of small shops like in the OP, they get their start because the "owner" is a stay at home mom who likes kids and thinks they're in expert in raising children because they turned 2 kids into functional adults. In reality, running a center is a corporate hellscape just like running any other business, and a lot of people who find themselves in that position are woefully unprepared. The only solution to that is to hire a full time director who (hopefully) knows how to do it, but now you just cut into your already thin margins. The job that my wife got where the owner had a CPE case opened on her? The owners were a husband/wife combo, the wife was a stay at home mom who had a dream of owning a business while the husband already owned a car dealership which he used to funnel money into the new business. My wife fled to a new job in less than a year because she was getting dragged into the middle of their divorce. The dumbest part of all is that the success of a center relies on it's location and not the quality of the education they're providing. So you could dump a ton of money getting every accreditation under the stars, but it won't boost enrollment at all because parents need to drive an extra 5 minutes to get there. And that's why so many places are so dysfunctional but get away with it. Parents have no idea how bad the corners are being cut until the state steps in and shuts the place down.
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there are many things deserving of pencil deaths.
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Moon Atari posted:I'm pretty sure the someone that she finds will be an actual horse. I couldn’t figure out from the post whether the woman’s fantasy is about her, a human woman, having sex with a horse, or if it’s about actually being a mare and having sex with other horses.
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An ‘orse
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Pirate Radar posted:I couldn’t figure out from the post whether the woman’s fantasy is about her, a human woman, having sex with a horse, or if it’s about actually being a mare and having sex with other horses. she is zorro and he is tornado
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Pirate Radar posted:I couldn’t figure out from the post whether the woman’s fantasy is about her, a human woman, having sex with a horse, or if it’s about actually being a mare and having sex with other horses. Maybe its a Centaur thing? Look, the one thing we can sure about is that it isn't her as a horse having sex with a human man.
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spacetoaster posted:I lost my poo poo at "After a couple of months". wtf
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Kinda curious about the overlap of people calling out that dude who went nuts for not getting head and the people who minimized that dude griping about not wanting to bang his wife for a hour a day, tbh
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Biomute posted:Or it's some anti-trans propaganda written up by some chud, it certainly fits in with their whole "trans people are the ultimate snowflakes" angle. slate.com the chudliest of sites.
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Business Gorillas posted:Kinda curious about the overlap of people calling out that dude who went nuts for not getting head and the people who minimized that dude griping about not wanting to bang his wife for a hour a day, tbh No one should have to do something sexually they don't want to do. If someone and their partner aren't compatible sexually, split up or shut up.
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Drunk Nerds posted:Looks like UberEats just lets drivers scam whenever they want and doesn't compensate the victims, according to this well-researched, if really annoying article writer How do these people not simply chargeback their credit cards if Uber tries to pull this? It wouldn't take a whole lot of people doing this before Visa/Mastercard come down on Uber and tell them to cut the poo poo or go out of business.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA If I expose the Mormon church for the fraud it is to my entirely-mormon family? Lmao that he thinks he's gonna blow the lid off the Mormon church. They will absolutely ignore everything and just cut you out of their lives
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Biomute posted:What is the definition of "demanding" here? Would "state that you require" be a synonym? I don't think either of your statements are wrong or anything, but it takes some effort to integrate them with each other. The dude was acting very entitled and childish, but just how should one try to negotiate these kinds of situations under patriarchy? Demand, require, now we're getting into semantics. The guy acted like his wife had no right to refuse to give him a BJ. When I said I wouldn't "demand" sex from an SO, I meant I wouldn't try to make them do something they did not want to do. quote:
If my wife suddenly quit wanting to have sex with me, I would try to have a discussion with her as to why the sudden change. I wouldn't scream at her and tell her she owes it to me, then stomp out of the house. Sex is part of a normal, healthy adult relationship. If you are not compatible in that way and can't come to some kind of agreement that you both can be content with, then you need to break up.
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datajugend posted:yeah thats gotta be a LIE! a human cant be lovely?! I figured it was from Reddit, who has a lot of users who engage in that kind of creative writing, but it appears to be from Dear Prudence, so I guess that is less likely. MightyJoe36 posted:When I said I wouldn't "demand" sex from an SO, I meant I wouldn't try to make them do something they did not want to do. Cool, yeah, I also think that's the way to go. thotsky fucked around with this message at 18:30 on Jan 15, 2019 |
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Business Gorillas posted:i mean its pretty reasonable to ask for a paternity test when you have a medical procedure that's supposed to make you infertile You could and should start with a sperm count not a loving "you cheated on me you whore probably I mean I guess this lab will tell us you BITCH but if it's mine love ya honey pizza tonight?" test
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andrew smash posted:You could and should start with a sperm count not a loving "you cheated on me you whore probably I mean I guess this lab will tell us you BITCH but if it's mine love ya honey pizza tonight?" test That's what a normal person would do but what if OP was just itching for the opportunity to call his wife a whore? Is he supposed to just give up that low and slow one right over the plate??
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"Why won't anyone help me [20s/m posted:instead of just brushing me off and giving me generic advice to my very specific situation?"] quote:Well you're just being a jerk. Stop projecting on me. quote:Whatever. You're wrong. Blocked. OP is very receptive to advice about his extremely unique situation that noone has ever gone through before, ever. I'm sure getting a Christmas gift from your ex boyfriend isn't weird at all!
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SourceI'm not racist I just love dogs. posted:I just love dogs: I live in the downtown area of a gentrifying city. I have worked intentionally to become part of the community I joined, while respecting its roots—supporting local business, volunteering, etc. I know I have lots of unconscious racial biases, but I try hard to listen and not cause harm. I also really love dogs. I have an awesome dog. He is cute and friendly, and we know lots of people in our neighborhood who I wouldn’t otherwise have any reason to interact with. Having a cute, friendly dog, I am very used to people paying attention to him and not talking to me. Not only do I not mind this, it brings me joy to see people dote on him. I also talk a lot at my job and can sometimes feel burned out from any more conversation than I’m
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Here is a fun fact ( at least in CA and I assume all over) you can't just walk in to a fertility clinic and get a sperm test lol. Like you have to have a doctor order it for you and it can actually be a pain in the rear end. Yes the dude hosed up by not going back after and seeing if it was done right but it can be a huge pain in the rear end if you just wanna check it.
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Dr. Video Games 0135 posted:Lmao that he thinks he's gonna blow the lid off the Mormon church. They will absolutely ignore everything and just cut you out of their lives Add in that the CES letter is well known amongst many LDS and that it is not considered a very good critique even by most of their opponents and you torpedo your family relationships for nothing. Passive aggressive grandstanding.
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I don't get why people think dogs are community property. I've seen all sorts of videos of people having public meltdowns because they were told not to pet service dogs. Ffs, engage the human before the dog. This isn't tricky.
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My Lovely Horse posted:That seems presumptuous if you're there for a sperm count. There's a whole range of very obvious responses from "let's not get ahead of ourselves" to "not anymore there isn't" that would take the wind right out of your sails. "Blanks sound the same as regular ammo, baby."
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MarcusSA posted:Here is a fun fact ( at least in CA and I assume all over) you can't just walk in to a fertility clinic and get a sperm test lol. Like you have to have a doctor order it for you and it can actually be a pain in the rear end. It would have been covered as routine follow up care for the procedure. As many as 40% of women who have a baby don’t make it to a postpartum visit. I’d bet the post-op visit rate for an uncomplicated vasectomy is much worse, because people don’t like being inconvenienced.
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If you know someones drat name you can say hi to them when you pet their dog.
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GamingHyena posted:Even if he hadn’t gotten one after the procedure he could have taken one now and at least knew if it was possible the kid was his. Seems like a pretty reasonable first step instead of launching directly into a marriage destroying accusation of infidelity. I mean wouldn't hearing the news that she's pregnant and going "oh well let me just go ahead and check (again) I still got swimmers" basically the same thing? I mean the result is you performing a medical test that will in your mind either confirm or rule out cheating. Going back for the test is perhaps more subtle but its the same overall message.
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No it isn’t, since presumably they’d still like to actually accomplish what the procedure was meant to do.
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:"I will take additional steps if I'm not compensated properly" sure sounds like a request for hush money, even if his intended message was that he'd let it lie if he just got the last proper paycheck. Yeah, I only read it as the latter, but that could certainly raise the bosses' hackles.
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I had something similar happen to me a few years back. I've always had pretty severe social anxiety, so when I see one of my neighbors walking down the sidewalk I'll cross the street to calm my nerves. A black family moved into the neighborhood at one point and, well, you can imagine what happened next. I didn't want them to believe I was racist so I tied a note explaining my anxiety issues to a brick and the next time I saw them I threw the brick toward them and ran away. I'm pretty sure they read it, because the next time I saw them on the street they waved. Unfortunately, I don't know what happened after that because I panicked and ran several miles until I collapsed in a forest preserve.
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