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It was KM but the gigantic moral debate about it has been done to death so please let's not do it again
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Drunk Nerds posted:Yeah! That's wrong! It was the mod, Koalas March
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Snow Cone Capone posted:It was KM but the gigantic moral debate about it has been done to death so please let's not do it again Could you link me to an iteration of it? I followed it when it first popped up but didn’t catch the finale.
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Jan 25, 2019 23:04
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Spanish Manlove posted:Brother Aziz This was the LF pants guy who turned out to be a complete fake/scammer, right? I don't remember that one all that well.
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Antivehicular posted:This was the LF pants guy who turned out to be a complete fake/scammer, right? I don't remember that one all that well. If memory serves he said he was a homeless muslim guy that needed money to get his life back together and to find a job. He raised maybe $1000 and then bought one pair of pants with it and was just a regular ol' dude who had a job and home and stuff. The TGRS thing wasn't what most people think it was. A bunch of posters were just venmo'ing money to each other to help. They were originally thinking of making it some sort of actual charity or something and asked for help in the BFC subforum, but for the amounts they were working with it wasn't worth something that official. I think Koala's March was one of the people that got help and was the one that asked for advice in BFC, but that was it. It wasn't some fund that a bunch of people contributed to just to have one person take it all or something.
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Jan 26, 2019 01:29
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I'm pretty sure it was and then the thread was deleted. The FYAD thread was amazing.
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Jan 26, 2019 01:32
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It was and it wasn’t. There was a thread where people in TGRS could post if they were in need of money and people could donate. But instead of doing the obvious thing and just having them post a gofundme/Venmo/Patreon or whatever and whoever wants to help them can, it was set up so that everyone would donate to a central fund that KM had control over and would decide how to dish it out. Also KM was one of the people asking for donations. Eventually they changed it to the obvious thing mentioned above. FWIW I don’t think she had bad intentions but that was the worst way to set it up and I don’t blame anyone for raising their eyebrows at it.
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bradzilla posted:Can't remember where this started, but goon Nessa posted in various threads about wanting to spice up her sex life with her husband by bringing in their "best friend" in for a 3some. The husband declined. Predictably, she cheated with said friend and the husband found out. lol that the first post is just "I'm sorry you're going through that", as if it were not the incredibly predictable consequences of her own actions
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Jan 26, 2019 01:49
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Yeah that was a rough read because Jesus just no don't support that behavior it's awful ):
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[quote="bradzilla" post="491988788"] Can't remember where this started, but goon Nessa posted in various threads about wanting to spice up her sex life with her husband by bringing in their "best friend" in for a 3some. The husband declined. Predictably, she cheated with said friend and the husband found out. I think her husband is also a goon https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?action=setseen&threadid=3531359&index=3111
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Jan 26, 2019 03:26
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Oh my. Was gonna kinda ignore that whole thing, but now it might be too good.
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Jan 26, 2019 03:36
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loving  at him photoshopping her bad art and making her cry herself to sleep because of it. That's hilarious.
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Jan 26, 2019 03:42
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What am I missing in that thread that ties into cheater goonette?
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Jan 26, 2019 03:45
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Len posted:What am I missing in that thread that ties into cheater goonette? Looks like Spiffo is her husband. Also has this gem in there: quote:wtf why did you edit out the posts making fun of her. pussy I'm starting to have second thoughts about reading too much into this poo poo show.
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Jan 26, 2019 03:50
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It's especially hard because, as mentioned several times, Nessa is a good poster. Hell, just being honest about her blowing up her marriage is a fascinating read and I'm glad for her candor.
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Jan 26, 2019 06:15
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Being lovely to your SO doesn't become better because you're honest to your internet friends about it.
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Jan 26, 2019 06:30
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Drunk Nerds posted:It's especially hard because, as mentioned several times, Nessa is a good poster. Hell, just being honest about her blowing up her marriage is a fascinating read and I'm glad for her candor. her honesty would be more noble if she wasn't opening up to a place that responds to "hey I hosed my husband's friend and now my marital situation is best described by footage of russian nuclear tests" with "wow I'm so sorry for you" and "cheating is a thing that just happens"
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Jan 26, 2019 06:48
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Cheating is not a thing that "just happens", and especially not in the way she went about it. You don't slip and fall onto someone else's dick.
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If there's one thing betraying my husband and loving another man has taught me, it's that I give too much, and need to think of myself.
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Cheating is not a thing that "just happens", and especially not in the way she went about it. You don't slip and fall onto someone else's dick. Och laddie, I dinnae how or why me knickers just flew off like that, but errything's fine so long as I dun slip on that banana peel next to me best friend's erect penis *slips on banana peel*
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Jan 26, 2019 07:04
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I'm not going to link because A I'm lazy and B I think it would be too helldumpy, but two other big parts of Nessa's story were that she was currently trying to have a baby with her husband, and that she posted a number of times about how wonderful this friend was in a totally platonic way, he definitely didn't want to be with either of them so he was just being nice because he was nice, she wasn't actually into him as more than a friend, their friendship proved men and women could be normal platonic friends, etc. I do think men and women can be friends, but their situation specifically sounded like a total timebomb. I didn't think she would post about it blowing up, but I'm not in ladythread (it moves too fast for me). Honestly I'm just super glad that she didn't get pregnant first.
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i like nice words
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cock hero flux posted:her honesty would be more noble if she wasn't opening up to a place that responds to "hey I hosed my husband's friend and now my marital situation is best described by footage of russian nuclear tests" with "wow I'm so sorry for you" and "cheating is a thing that just happens" I dunno if you stopped reading after one page, but it didn’t take long for the people in ladythread to start raking her over the coals.
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Cheating is not a thing that "just happens", and especially not in the way she went about it. You don't slip and fall onto someone else's dick. Maybe you haven't.
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Vincent Van Goatse posted:Maybe you haven't. I was gonna say One in a million, my rear end
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Anne Whateley posted:Honestly I'm just super glad that she didn't get pregnant first.
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Jan 26, 2019 08:37
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Thst sucks but I want to clarify it sucks only because Nessa was a good poster. If she had been a poor or even middling level quality poster, I would condone all the events in question.
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cock hero flux posted:i read a bit more of the thread and apparently her current plan is "keep trying to have a baby" which is notable for being the actual worst possible decision that anyone could make in this scenario oh no gently caress aw geez oh no
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Jan 26, 2019 08:59
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Cheating is not a thing that "just happens", and especially not in the way she went about it. You don't slip and fall onto someone else's dick. The r/relationships thread just had a fun little discussion of that and similar phrases, specifically 'and then one thing led to another' glossing over some rather significant details. tactlessbastard posted:That's my favorite, especially when the one thing should never have led to the other at all, like 'and then I found myself alone in the room with my girlfriend's mom and one thing led to another so I was balls deep in her while her dad filmed and her cat was licking my taint'
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Jan 26, 2019 09:13
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Anne Whateley posted:I'm not going to link because A I'm lazy and B I think it would be too helldumpy, but two other big parts of Nessa's story were that she was currently trying to have a baby with her husband, and that she posted a number of times about how wonderful this friend was in a totally platonic way, he definitely didn't want to be with either of them so he was just being nice because he was nice, she wasn't actually into him as more than a friend, their friendship proved men and women could be normal platonic friends, etc. All of those things come up in posts after admitting she cheated so anyone who read the trainwreck already got the crash course about how awesome and platonic their relationship was
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it really looks like that this was a decision at the end of a road filled with potholes and speedbumps that both of them have been travelling down for quite some time without either of them stopping to get directions. it's sad to see relationships break like this, but i think it's why it's really important to keep communicating with and challenging each other often so that in the even that you arrive at a destination like this you can make good decisions and get back in the car, or amicably hop on motorcycles. it's not a good metaphor. also the art is bad and i hope babby not get formed.
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Ghostlight posted:it really looks like that this was a decision at the end of a road filled with potholes and speedbumps that both of them have been travelling down for quite some time without either of them stopping to get directions. it's sad to see relationships break like this, but i think it's why it's really important to keep communicating with and challenging each other often so that in the even that you arrive at a destination like this you can make good decisions and get back in the car, or amicably hop on motorcycles. it's not a good metaphor. she said that she doesn't like having sex with her husband, what she actually wants is to have him and a boyfriend on the side, and that her current plan is to have kids with him and then go on birth control and hope the side effects make her never want to have sex again this indicates to me that the this relationship is not heading towards "rough patch followed by reconciliation or reasonably amicable break up" but rather towards "screaming death spiral ending in murder-suicide"
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Jan 26, 2019 14:48
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Jan 26, 2019 14:51
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The initial terrible decision has already happened and there's really nothing any of us can do except see if it starts a chain clusterfuck reaction, so
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Xarbala posted:Och laddie, I dinnae how or why me knickers just flew off like that, but errything's fine so long as I dun slip on that banana peel next to me best friend's erect penis Dramatisation, may not have happened. https://soundcloud.com/stanley-swanson-150846885/accidental-cheating
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this is why anybody who wants to open their relationship needs to sign a waiver stating that they have read at least ten pages of the r/relationships thread. what a hosed up situation. and honestly if husband takes her back and actually knocks her up after this he deserves anything that happens after that. too bad the kid will suffer all the consequences! hooray!
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Jan 26, 2019 15:11
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maybe they should read each others posts
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Jan 26, 2019 15:15
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sneakyfrog posted:maybe they should read each others posts They should probably consider logging off at some point I mean I'm not a relationship expert but they should consider the risk to their accounts if they get banned for drama
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Jan 26, 2019 15:33
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that would be the lamest loving ban reason banned for relationship issues
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frankee posted:
I remember when this happened. Nessa was trying to maker her own Madoka Magica-like webcomic and posting test pages into the CC thread for feedback. FYAD had a thread going at the time making fun of kind of corny/bad art SA posters shared around the forums and Nessa became a recurring feature. Spiffo is her husband, yeah. They were just engaged at the time though. Nessa was justifiably upset when she found out he was making fun of her art with FYAD, and he got banned by FYAD. That thread has a lot of amazing quotes, especially in light of this new event Surprisingly Dope posted:forums user spiffo,, i hope you and nessa get married and have kids and make a life together and the entire time the events of this thread hang over it like a spectre. Swelter Discharge posted:i hope nessa cucks you spiffo Seizon posted:panning shot of Nessa's egg #3 anne frank fanfic posted:i dunno about you but when it comes to the pink forum or to my fiance, i choose the one im going to spend my entire life with: the pink forum
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