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cock hero flux posted:fibromyalgia is a real disease however it is also the easiest disease to fake having because there's no way to test for it and the symptoms are just pain and tiredness which means that a sizable percentage of the people who have it are just pretending to get out of having to do things I thought it was major depressive disorder on first read but fibromyalgia also sounds quite possible. * She says she's disabled but it's possible she doesn't work and is applying for/already got rejected for SSD.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my sister I don’t want to hang out, AFTER she walked almost 6 miles in the cold to get here and she brought me a donut? quote:“Okay don’t hate me but I’m going ahead and walking over. I know it’s far but I feel antsy and the walk should help me mellow put before I’m there”. Yeah you really loving are.
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Feb 11, 2019 23:33
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Leon Einstein posted:Lol, they're both women in the story. I'm taking the sister's side. I'm not saying you only choose the man's side or whatever, stupid, I'm saying you always jump to the worst conclusions when a woman's actions are in question. She said she was on disability and has weird hours (because some people who don't work just keep weird hours) and you immediately jumped to 'dumb bitch is faking it and staying up all night writing supernatural fanfiction' loving seriously?
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Feb 11, 2019 23:35
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Leon Einstein posted:B-b-but her disability is what makes her stay up until 6 AM every day. That is not in the post quote:The sister said she hasn't seen or talked to her in months. No she didn't, that is not in the post CheesyDog posted:Keep fibro sister's story the same but with the single additional detail of her playing RDR2 and this thread would be scalping her There is no Fibro Sister story because there is no mention of the nature of the disability in the post Leon Einstein posted:The sister clearly had something she wanted to talk with her older sister about. Suck it up and help out your sister! This is not in the post. When the OP tried to walk back her initial surprised/annoyed reaction and asked then more or less begged the walking-sister to stay she refused.
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big dyke energy posted:I'm not saying you only choose the man's side or whatever, stupid, I'm saying you always jump to the worst conclusions when a woman's actions are in question. She said she was on disability and has weird hours (because some people who don't work just keep weird hours) and you immediately jumped to 'dumb bitch is faking it and staying up all night writing supernatural fanfiction' I don't know what posts you've been reading, but Leon has been the source of some of the better "dude bein' lovely" stories in general imo.
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Feb 11, 2019 23:38
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Admiral Ray posted:Yeah you really loving are. not necessarily, if I decide to massively put myself out to do something that ends up being something you really didn't want me to do in the first place, you are not at fault if you don't appreciate my unasked and unwanted effort I feel there is a lot of poor communication, passive aggression and general taking of offense to excess all over the place with this relationship, but I fully admit to that being me reading between the lines, the OP is fairly sparse and I don't think anyone comes out of this brilliantly, the husband included
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Feb 11, 2019 23:41
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Admiralty Flag posted:She's on disability* so it means she really does have symptoms that are massively disrupting her life or her faking game is absolutely en flique. SSD is relatively tough to get for disorders/conditions that don't offer physical evidence. Fibro shares a ton of symptoms with depression and the only things found to help fibro also happen to be the same treatments found to be effective with depression. I wouldn't be shocked if it was re-categorized as a form of depression in the next DSM. Fibro diagnosed by medical professionals is one thing. Its the multitudes of people that self-diagnose themselves with fibro because sometimes they feel tired or bummed that make people think fibro is a joke.
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Feb 11, 2019 23:41
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As penance for my lovely snipe please enjoy: AITA for calling my brothers girlfriend "miss piggy" for eating our food after we told her not too? quote:So last year my brother moved in with me and my roommate. When he moved in his girlfriend started spending a lot of time at our place. This isn't a problem as my roommates girl friend comes over too. Here's the thing though. My brothers gf pretty much eats all our food. No matter who's it it she will eat it. Me and roommate have told her multiple times to stop eating the food we buy and only eat the food brother buys but she ignores us and eats our food anyway.
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Is depression also made up? Those of you who are implying that fibro is not "a real/physical disease" or at the very least that there is a good chance people who claim to have it are just acting lazily and making excuses... Do you feel the same way about depression? Does it matter what reason people give for not being able to get out of bed as long as they don't? Are there no excuses for apparently "lazy" behavior? Where do you draw the line.on physical disabilities? Posters here are very happy to attack whatever they see as less than ideal behavior, yet are constantly found out to be living in filth or masturbating on buses. I guess the pessimism is understandable, but giving people the benefit of the doubt might make for a better community. thotsky fucked around with this message at 23:53 on Feb 11, 2019 |
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Feb 11, 2019 23:45
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Well your plan worked OP and hopefully your brother finds it too difficult to go to his fat girlfriend's house instead
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Feb 11, 2019 23:47
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Admiralty Flag posted:en flique Is that the highfalutin form of on fleek?
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Feb 11, 2019 23:47
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Fatkraken posted:not necessarily, if I decide to massively put myself out to do something that ends up being something you really didn't want me to do in the first place, you are not at fault if you don't appreciate my unasked and unwanted effort That lady's younger sister obviously needed her in that moment and she flat rejected her. Her only backtrack was "Hey I wish you waited til I was awake so I could have rejected you sooner." She sucks.
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Feb 11, 2019 23:51
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Biomute posted:Is depression also made up? Those of you who are implying that fibro is not "a real/physical disease" or at the very least that there is a good chance people who claim to have it are just acting lazily and making excuses... Do you feel the same way about depression? Does it matter what reason people give for not being able to get out of bed as long as they don't? Are there no excuses for apparently "lazy" behavior? Where do you draw the line.on physical disabilities? Of course they do, have you ever even looked at the state of mental healthcare?
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Feb 11, 2019 23:53
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Here's an rear end in a top hat everyone can agree on: Every time I [27M] babysit my son [6 month old] while my wife [27F] goes out she criticizes my parenting. I think she is too demanding, but I can't get her to see that she is not giving me a fair chance. quote:We've been married 3 years but we've been together since we were in high school. My wife has a tendency to be a perfectionist (always has been that way), and that has been amplified ever since she became a mother. She thinks that her way is the only way to parent and if I try something different or don't do things exactly like she would I am wrong. I feel like nothing I try or do is ever good enough for her in regards to caring for our son, and it makes me dread having to babysit.
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Feb 11, 2019 23:55
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If you click on her post history, she talks a lot about her BPD diagnosis, and talks about how she's dealing with it with a psychologist who diagnosed her. I don't see anywhere fibro came up except here, unless i missed something. Not saying that she's automatically right or anything but I'd guess that's her disability, and there's no way of knowing if that's a title she's given to herself to avoid responsibilities, or if she's suffering from emotional issues that make managing a normal life & schedule difficult. Unless her doctor and sister write a follow-up about her condition and the interaction it's unknowable.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:04
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Haifisch posted:Here's an rear end in a top hat everyone can agree on: Hmm i wonder if video games are involved in his decision not to ever leave the house or to let his crying infant son interrupt "something" he's in the middle of.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:07
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i dont get the criticizing of baby fashion though. its a baby. who is it even trying to get laid with? hell "baby currently not dead" is a solid goal for babysitting i dont get why the lady is mad
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Feb 12, 2019 00:08
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Baby lives, all good.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:09
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Not once while under his care has that man's baby been attacked by predators or a hostile tribe. He has fulfilled his duty as the man of the house.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:10
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sneakyfrog posted:i dont get the criticizing of baby fashion though. Dude might be trying to dress the kid in construction paper and glue (organic, of course) for all we know.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:12
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Admiral Ray posted:That lady's younger sister obviously needed her in that moment She SAID wanted to hang out because she was bored and didn't wanna do homework. You can choose to read between the lines and say the walking sister was in some kind of emotional turmoil and the one person who could help her in that moment was her disabled sleeping sister, or you can not choose to do that. There's not enough information in the post to get anything approaching a clear picture of the personalities and relationship of these two women (other than there clearly being issues of some kind) so all of us are going to being our own lovely hot takes based on our own biases. Myself included, clearly, so I'm bowing on of this one
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Feb 12, 2019 00:13
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LadyPictureShow posted:Is that the highfalutin form of on fleek? Not worth reading because it turns out to be a heartwarming story of how a family comes to accept their large male child is pegging himself sprawled on a towel in the middle of the living room, but: I suffered a mild stroke while masturbating and had to call 911. First responders and several family members saw my "setup" and I'm still struggling with how to deal with the embarrassment of it all. AMA
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Feb 12, 2019 00:15
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Fatkraken posted:She SAID wanted to hang out because she was bored and didn't wanna do homework. You can choose to read between the lines and say the walking sister was in some kind of emotional turmoil and the one person who could help her in that moment was her disabled sleeping sister, or you can not choose to do that. There's not enough information in the post to get anything approaching a clear picture of the personalities and relationship of these two women (other than there clearly being issues of some kind) so all of us are going to being our own lovely hot takes based on our own biases. Myself included, clearly, so I'm bowing on of this one I'm not reading between the lines, I posted the lines I took my statement from. In particular: quote:"I know it’s far but I feel antsy and the walk should help me mellow put before I’m there”.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:16
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Haifisch posted:Here's an rear end in a top hat everyone can agree on: Ah, the good old "My wife told me 80 times what I'm doing wrong but she didn't give me step by step instructions on how to do dishes/wash my taint/not neglect our child so I just can't figure out what she wants from me??" sneakyfrog posted:i dont get the criticizing of baby fashion though. He's probably just leaving the kid in PJs all day.
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sneakyfrog posted:hell "baby currently not dead" is a solid goal for babysitting i dont get why the lady is mad Fathers cannot babysit their own children, when they do so it is called "parenting" LOL t this lovely dad tho, "I never take him out, do games or activities, I leave him crying if I'm engrossed in some stupid poo poo and sometimes forget to bathe him before she gets home late and tired while I've been "taking care" of him. UGH it's like I can't do ANYTHING right!"
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Admiral Ray posted:I'm not reading between the lines, I posted the lines I took my statement from. In particular: "feeling antsy" doesn't necessarily mean that, when I "feel antsy" sometimes going for a run on my own starting at my house and ending at my house is all I need. Doesn't automatically mean there's some pressing thing that means she needs her sister and only her sister. Or it could do, not enough info to say for sure! which is my point
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Fatkraken posted:Fathers cannot babysit their own children, when they do so it is called "parenting" Gamer parents deserve to have their kids taken away from them.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:21
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Anne Whateley posted:When do you see someone next? Oh good the cop defender is on to mock the mentally ill.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:21
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Is WoW better than me?quote:I (27F) have been with my partner (35M) for nearly a year (our anniversary is in two days, in fact). We met on tinder, and our first date was a folk concert at a local pub. We then went on several dates, and I in effect moved into his place in May, and officially moved in with him in June. I am having several issues (about which I have spoken to him). We both have jobs, though he makes about 2.5x more than me.
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Feb 12, 2019 00:24
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Admiralty Flag posted:Ehh, I was doing it more in the vein of people talking about going to "tahr-jay" "Suffered"? I thought having a stroke was the whole point. 
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Feb 12, 2019 00:28
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LadyPictureShow posted:Is WoW better than me? Who the gently caress still plays wow
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I’m glad that guy escaped whatever 90s sitcom that trapped him.
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Turtlicious posted:Oh good the cop defender is on to mock the mentally ill.
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Anne Whateley posted:It does make the news, that's how you know about it. E; this was your response when I said getting cops involved is dangerous, and I don't think you even really realize whats wrong with what you said. I'm speaking from experience when I speak on these things. Things that happened to me, or things that happened directly to people I know. e2: LAPD and NYPD are different departments as well, that handle things differently. Turtlicious fucked around with this message at 00:50 on Feb 12, 2019 |
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Zero of that was defending cops in any way. Getting cops involved is dangerous and should be avoided in many situations, but that very specific situation is about as low-risk as it gets.Anne Whateley posted:If you go down to the police station and file a report about a property dispute, that doesn't trigger SWAT raids on white people huffy about toys. e: this is a dumb slapfight but anyway I'm not mocking you, I really hope you have people irl aware of what's going on with you Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 00:56 on Feb 12, 2019 |
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Anne Whateley posted:I'm not a cop defender, I constantly say acab. Your posting has changed a ton and it's genuinely concerning if you don't have anyone irl aware of it. Are there posts somewhere else that are alarming? Because saying that someone who had a traumatic childhood might have BPD and should look into therapy when you, yourself, have BPD doesn't seem that odd to me. Edit: Also, isn't Turtlicious' fiancee on here as well? Message a mod and they can reach out to them if you're really that worried. Edit 2: Was way too confrontational Edit 3: Forgot content Posted byu/HeartbrokenImp14E88 8 hours ago (Ex) GF cheated on me, now threatening to involve police for (BS) allegations Question Of The Week quote:Found out my GF of three years has been cheating on me. For practical reasons we didn't formally live together but I practically lived at hers with her family many weekends and vice versa she stopped with mine, hanging around and helping people out. Both of us work so we'd be around at separate times and reserve our time for the weekends. To cut a long story short while at hers while she was out I borrowed 'her' Micro-ATX PC (I built it for her from some spare/old parts I had as a Christmas gift) because I'd hosed up and left mine at home and needed it for something. She normally kept the password from me (she was very insistent on privacy, she respected mine so generally I respected hers) but I had figured it out from watching her enter it and figured she wouldn't mind it as a one off. Unfortunately when I was trawling through her images folder to find something I accidentally dug up a photo of my GF performing fellatio which I didn't recognise (we do have a few photos of each other) taking and it bothered me enough that I searched for it and found more in another folder, including photos where the male body obviously wasn't mine (tattoos) and a video clip of a bloke masturbating that definitely wasn't mine. Went onto her email and found stuff for dating/hookup sites and emails from this same bloke. Araenna fucked around with this message at 01:01 on Feb 12, 2019 |
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I'm being defensive, most likely because I'm upset at something else. I have people invested in my emotional well being helping me get better. I'm sorry I judged you, that's lovely.
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Haifisch posted:Here's an rear end in a top hat everyone can agree on: The trick is to knock her up another two or three times and then your individual failures get lost in the crowd as she's too busy to notice.
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life is a joke posted:Hmm i wonder if video games are involved in his decision not to ever leave the house or to let his crying infant son interrupt "something" he's in the middle of. quote:I am in the process of building a car right now, so I spend a lot of time on Saturdays with that. Plus I have some other projects around my house going on right now.
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what the gently caress is with this nice gbs i find it alarming. explain yourselves right now
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