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jobson groeth posted:Racist trash is actually a worse person than you thought. Ah, good to know her "best friend" is in a horribly abusive relationship with the same racist who almost ruined their trip too... but I saw it coming with how controlling that rear end in a top hat seemed. 
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oscarthewilde posted:My rear end in a top hat crushed his hopes and dreams This whole story is amazing on several levels from start to finish and please make this the new thread title. 
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Mar 10, 2019 21:40
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Me [20sF] with my scientologist SO [30sM] of 3 years won't stop giving all his money to the church.quote:My bf is a scientologist and has been his entire adult life. He told me about this early on in our relationship and I was fine with it because people in my family have alternative beliefs as well (not scientology) and that's never impacted my relationship with them so I figured scientology would be the same with my BF. That has been the case for most of our relationship outside of him encouraging me to take classes at the church, but I've made it clear to him that I'm not interested in scientology or any other religion and I never will be.
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Mar 10, 2019 21:46
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Haifisch posted:Me [20sF] with my scientologist SO [30sM] of 3 years won't stop giving all his money to the church. http://www.xenu.net Hopefully that’s like the first reply.
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Mar 10, 2019 21:57
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"I can't break up with him or make him choose, he'd hate that!"
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Mar 10, 2019 22:07
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Lol at a Scientologist thinking they were being unfairly persecuted
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Mar 10, 2019 22:09
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Power Khan posted:Have I ruined my chances by being too competitive? Lol, then lol again at, "I don't think I mind." She minds.
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Mar 10, 2019 22:26
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Haifisch posted:Me [20sF] with my scientologist SO [30sM] of 3 years won't stop giving all his money to the church. Watch Leah Remini's Scientology and the Aftermath and realize this is what you are signing your future kids up for if you decide to stay.
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Mar 10, 2019 22:29
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Haifisch posted:Me [20sF] with my scientologist SO [30sM] of 3 years won't stop giving all his money to the church. That was her only post on that account, 3 years ago. 
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Pirate Radar posted:I will always support artists in their art. She should do it. I don't shitpost for the sake of my adoring fans but I would still like to thank you for your support
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Haifisch posted:Me [20sF] with my scientologist SO [30sM] of 3 years won't stop giving all his money to the church. Those ages are so vague because she's 21 at most and he's 38 at least, aren't they?
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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:Lol, then lol again at, "I don't think I mind." She minds. Why would you want to salvage something with a manbaby that pouts when he's beaten by a girl?
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Mar 10, 2019 23:59
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Haifisch posted:Me [20sF] with my scientologist SO [30sM] of 3 years won't stop giving all his money to the church. Simple alternative belief Scientology.
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Mar 11, 2019 00:28
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Mar 11, 2019 00:30
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AITA for “tattling” on my boyfriend to his mother. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, and things were great until our daughter was born 6 months ago. Since then, our relationship has gone down the tubes because he refuses to care for her. He’ll sit on the couch and play video games and he’ll only tend to her while she’s screaming if I tell him to. Even then, unless I’m in the middle of doing something right then, he’ll ask me why I can’t just do it instead. On top of that, he only holds her if I hand her to him while he’s watching tv and she’s calm. He stays up late playing video games but still won’t get her when she cries, so I have to get up with her. We’ve talked about it multiple times, to the extent that I’ve told him I can’t handle it anymore, and he improves for a week and then goes back to his old ways. I’m honestly considering filing for custody but tried one last ditch effort. I put the baby in his gaming room and told him I was going out. In reality, I just went to the gas station because I felt like I couldn’t trust him, and sure enough when I got back the baby was screaming and he was ignoring her. I took a ~10 second video of this and after I comforted the baby, I sent it to his mother with an explanation of what’s going on. She called him and absolutely reamed him for it and now he’s upset with me for involving his mother and for “taking a video out of context.” I’m at my wits end and will probably leave him at this point, but AITA for sending the video? Edit: the pregnancy was an accident but my boyfriend wanted me to keep it.
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That is loving it, Im investing my money in producing romcoms where characters get abortions in situations like this and then go on to lead happier healthier lives
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Mar 11, 2019 02:17
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for “tattling” on my boyfriend to his mother. i would love to see the "context" of a man ignoring his screaming child that somehow makes this okay.
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Mar 11, 2019 02:19
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LOVE LOVE SKELETON posted:i would love to see the "context" of a man ignoring his screaming child that somehow makes this okay. The child is 21 years old and upset that you filmed it ignoring its own child to play videogames
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AITA for taking bets at a wedding as to what year the couple would divorce? (not as bad as it sounds...I hope!) This happened over the weekend and I feel pretty bad about how it went down, but my intentions were honorable here. I was the Best Man at my pal's wedding. I got the idea to start up a bet and collect a pool from other people attending the wedding. The basic idea is that participants guess a year in which the couple will divorce and put in a certain amount of money (minimum bet $50), and IF they end up divorcing during that year whoever guessed that year wins the whole pot. So for example, if 2 people guesses the year 2025, if the couple actually divorces in 2025, those 2 people would split the whole pot. (We raised a little over 3 grand total, so like $1500 each in this example.) BUT, if the couple is still married after the latest bet in the pool (somebody put 2040) then the couple gets the entire pot. So that was kind of the twist that I meant to convey to them, that yeah sure it was a real bet, but that if they stayed together they could expect 3 grand in 2041. When I was explaining the bet during my best man speech that was how I was going to end, kind of with a charming/corny line that "But we all know none of us are going to be winning the bet, because you two will be together forever, so you can look forward to cashing in in 2041!" Yes, if they actually divorced and if somebody in the betting pool nailed the right year we would follow up and that person would get the winnings. But I don't think these two will get divorced, they're perfect for each other. That was supposed to be my intended message, it was supposed to be a kind of fun silly thing. Before I could even get to that part the bride started crying and the parents and bridesmaids and all that were almost yelling at me, and the groom (my best friend of decades) was furious. Even later that night when I explained to him my intent he wouldn't even listen to me. The bride especially apparently "feels betrayed by everyone" who participated in the bet. Even though I explained that I had misled all of them by saying the bride and groom knew about it in advance that wouldn't make them less angry. So needless to say I feel extremely bad. But I meant it all as a nice gesture and I feel if they could just see they have a near certainty of getting a free 3 grand in 2041 they could see this intention. I think by then it will be a fond memory and a "look back on it laugh" kind of thing when we get to the 2040's, plus a nice little bonus of a 3 grand prize. I keep trying to explain this but my friend isn't hearing it, especially when I told him that I still had to follow up with whoever "wins" on the off-chance they do get divorced. But I really doubt they'd ever get divorced. I know I went about it the wrong way but I don't feel I was the A here, but I want to see what reddit thinks. tl;dr - Collected bets to see what year my friends would divorce at their wedding, but if they don't get divorced they win, I meant it to be nice/sweet but they are both furious at me.
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Mar 11, 2019 02:22
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What are things that are funny in movies and devestating in real life? Thank you, Ill take potent potables for 300
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Mar 11, 2019 02:26
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It's generally frowned upon for the best man to try to torpedo the marriage before the wedding is even over
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Mar 11, 2019 02:29
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It's like that classic 90's rom com, "Honey I blew up the wedding"
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for taking bets at a wedding as to what year the couple would divorce? (not as bad as it sounds...I hope!) my grandfather on my dad's side put $1000 down as a bet my parents' marriage wouldn't make it five years. none of us talk to him unless absolutely necessary because he is a hateful lump. (they divorced after 20 years)
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Smirking_Serpent posted:The bride especially apparently "feels betrayed by everyone" who participated in the bet. Even though I explained that I had misled all of them by saying the bride and groom knew about it in advance that wouldn't make them less angry. oh word???
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jobson groeth posted:Racist trash is actually a worse person than you thought. quote:yes the group and I have noted and brought up to her his abusive ways and she doesn’t see it because it’s not overt. speaking to her alone will be an issue/impossible at least for this trip because he will be with her 24/7 and i know for a fact he reads her texts. no matter how this ends I’m always going to be there for her. Christ, who even has the time and energy for this poo poo?
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M.C. McMic posted:Christ, who even has the time and energy for this poo poo? Abusers dont usually have a lot of hobbies that arent abusing people. Thats how they get their 10,000 hours
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I (20M) slept with one my senior managers (42F). She is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She asked for my permission.quote:I just so happened to sleep with one of my senior managers (Claire) after a company night out a while back. I had never known her beforehand. I'm just a temporary employee at my company and she a senior manager. We work in completely different areas. She called me out of the blue using the work email. I seriously thought I made a major gently caress up as my direct manager had no clue what it was about.
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Haifisch posted:I (20M) slept with one my senior managers (42F). She is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She asked for my permission. Dude, you just scored yourself a sugar momma what is there to think about?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:When I was explaining the bet during my best man speech Absolutely never has any story containing this phrasing ended well.
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Mar 11, 2019 04:16
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You should basically never allow the best man a speech at a wedding, nor should there be any speeches at any family event. They end in disaster to frequently to be worth it.
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therobit posted:You should basically never allow the best man a speech at a wedding, nor should there be any speeches at any family event. They end in disaster to frequently to be worth it. Yea, but if Bilbo never gave that speech then it wouldn't have set off the events leading to the destruction of the One Ring and triumph over evil.
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therobit posted:You should basically never allow the best man a speech at a wedding, nor should there be any speeches at any family event. They end in disaster to frequently to be worth it. I completely disagree with this based on an extended family wedding drunk bride speech that it still seared into our collective memories from over a decade ago. All of the forgettable ones as well as the ones that caused just minor problems are well worth the glory that was her incoherent, drunken rambling while having an excellent view of both sets of parents and the wedding party, all of them unable and unwilling to be the one who put her out of her misery, all looking to each other for strength - for the one strong one - who never turned up until the bulbbery, sobbing, tipping over and spilling a drink end of it all. This made up for the groom's family's "surprise gift" which was some creepy dude in a phantom costume going around from table to table singing to people. I'm pretty sure the bride was loaded BECAUSE of this wonderful gift she had to endure.
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Mar 11, 2019 04:24
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Haifisch posted:I (20M) slept with one my senior managers (42F). She is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She asked for my permission. That's a nice humblebrag about having mega-potent sperm
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Motronic posted:This made up for the groom's family's "surprise gift" which was some creepy dude in a phantom costume going around from table to table singing to people.
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Feel like this story is a humblebrag about potent spermtherobit posted:Dude, you just scored yourself a sugar momma what is there to think about? I mean, child support and what ever paternal feelings he may have.
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Motronic posted:I completely disagree with this based on an extended family wedding drunk bride speech that it still seared into our collective memories from over a decade ago. All of the forgettable ones as well as the ones that caused just minor problems are well worth the glory that was her incoherent, drunken rambling while having an excellent view of both sets of parents and the wedding party, all of them unable and unwilling to be the one who put her out of her misery, all looking to each other for strength - for the one strong one - who never turned up until the bulbbery, sobbing, tipping over and spilling a drink end of it all. From the standpoint of the person planning and hosting an event though, this is externalizing the benefits and internalizing the cost. Which is the exact opposite of how you want to do it.
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wheatpuppy posted:Like, Phantom of the Opera? Or just a sheet with eyeholes in it? Yes, Phantom of the Opera. He was making his best attempt at gliding across the room with the music blaring, mic in hand singing to individual tables and sometimes individuals. He was not a good singer.
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My fiance(F27) just introduced me to her Dad(M48) and he hates me(M30)quote:Made this account because my fiance knows my main handle and is active in the other relationship subreddit
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Motronic posted:Yes, Phantom of the Opera. He was making his best attempt at gliding across the room with the music blaring, mic in hand singing to individual tables and sometimes individuals. He was not a good singer. I was really hoping for 
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Van Kraken posted:I was really hoping for That would have been better in every way.
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