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Ms. Twiggy posted:apparently my dad thinks i’m making the wrong decision and that i’m “committing career suicide” and won’t even tell me that directly so things are going great two years after i came out at work i am on a new team doing even cooler poo poo and i have things likely in the works once i am back from medical leave if anything it made me career easier because i am not driving myself into the ground with burnout anymore
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Lain Iwakura posted:two years after i came out at work i am on a new team doing even cooler poo poo and i have things likely in the works once i am back from medical leave this 1000x. yes being a woman and a queer in the workplace makes things more challenging, but you'll also be more equipped to fight through it and forward when you can project confidence in yourself and who you are. caveat this is less true if you're poor and brown but you're posting in yospos soooooo
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i forgot what my mens shoe size used to be lmfao
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Poniard posted:i forgot what my mens shoe size used to be lmfao my shoe size is the same in either because I break the scale. 15 all around lol
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Is the scale different for men's and women's? In the EU it's just one number for both.
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spankmeister posted:Is the scale different for men's and women's? In the EU it's just one number for both. in us sizes women's size numbers are larger than men's for a given size of foot until a certain point where they converge for some reason.
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Hows the stuff going.... ...everyone?
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Synthbuttrange posted:Hows the stuff going.... i am hospitalized with liver death unrelated to my surgery
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Wait, seriously? Oh jeez no
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oh yeah and I had an allergic reaction to the nausea med they gave me so I'm a hot itchy blistering tomato
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well that's quite bad! hope you don't end up needing to be on transplant poo poo cuz I can tell you from experience that dealing with a transplant organ sucks like hell
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fishmech posted:well that's quite bad! hope you don't end up needing to be on transplant poo poo cuz I can tell you from experience that dealing with a transplant organ sucks like hell they don't think it's that bad. slightly enlarged and elevated enzymes. nevertheless I am admitted until they figure out wtf. I initially went in because of vomiting and cramps. now I'm an itchy lobster with a cranky liver
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Oh wait so your liver is not literally dead
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Synthbuttrange posted:Oh wait so your liver is not literally dead yeah just metaphorically. I'm having a bad weekend.
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jit bull transpile posted:yeah just metaphorically. I'm having a bad weekend. get better <3 eight weeks to taco tuesday
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Lain Iwakura posted:eight weeks to taco tuesday I am stealing this (  )
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my liver counts are trending down so they're going to send me home and monitor me via appointment. I'm at a demi lobster status as far as that allergic thing.
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Lain Iwakura posted:get better <3 good luck
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jit bull transpile posted:my liver counts are trending down so they're going to send me home and monitor me via appointment. the liver is really loving weird but regenerates from damage quickly. hope it goes well.
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Shifty Pony posted:the liver is really loving weird but regenerates from damage quickly. hope it goes well. I always found it interesting that the two largest organs in your body, your skin and the liver, are the two organs capable of repair.
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jit bull transpile posted:I'm discharged from the hospital. my liver numbers started to go back down so they kinda shrugged and said to get another blood test at the end of the week. you can stop holding your breathe yall also my mom bought a plane ticket to come help us without even asking which is really sweet
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jit bull transpile posted:you can stop holding your breathe yall
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jit bull transpile posted:also my mom bought a plane ticket to come help us without even asking which is really sweet Same, when I mentioned I was planning my srs in August. I mean with my own mom, not yours.
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my mom sorta surprised my brother and i with a trip here to work remote and help my brother move this week??? she’s even willing to help me clean my apartment. prolly so she can ask more questions about me bein trans and poo poo but it’s cool, at least she’s trying, unlike my dad who i am getting the feeling never wants to visit california again because it “made me trans”??? moms are the best dads are the worst
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Ms. Twiggy posted:my mom sorta surprised my brother and i with a trip here to work remote and help my brother move this week??? she’s even willing to help me clean my apartment. prolly so she can ask more questions about me bein trans and poo poo but it’s cool, at least she’s trying, unlike my dad who i am getting the feeling never wants to visit california again because it “made me trans”??? i don't know details about your personal situation or anything but just from what you've described in this thread i kinda get the feeling your dad will chill out eventually  jit bull transpile posted:you can stop holding your breathe yall yay
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Shame Boy posted:i don't know details about your personal situation or anything but just from what you've described in this thread i kinda get the feeling your dad will chill out eventually honestly i still are hopeful in the long run but yeah it’s hitting him a bit hard right now since he was super invested in and proud of me living what was, up until recently, a pretty decent life now, of course, it’s an even better life, but he’s in his seventies and doesn’t quite grasp why being trans today isn’t quite the same as it was at the time of stonewall. marinating in fox news and other small-town-culture poo poo for years hasn’t helped matters, but despite all that he’s got no religious dogmas weighing down his opinions, which goes a long way toward giving him a chance to come around in the end
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turns out I can’t get a referral to surgery until October but whatevs
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I like how dysphoria never really goes away, it just changes shape and nature did I say like, I meant 
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I can't figure out which branch of these clinics is the informed consent one I'm gonna go sleep instead
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Which general area are you in?
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the dumb state of md
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having some body dysmorphia but it’s generally way less extreme than gender dysphoria
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I got a new skirt but it just barely doesn't fit so I'm gonna get drunk about it
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I'm going to be taking a sewing class at the LGBT center and alterations for different body types is a big focus. Maybe there's something like that you could look into?
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Also how goes, Jitters?
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