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The dad seems like he kinda sucks but frankly they were retarded for assuming he'd pay in the first place If you don't have the money for a big wedding, don't have one
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zakharov posted:Wedding chat via Prudence I still don’t understand the “blow a down payment on a house” style weddings. It’s one thing if you’re independently wealthy or have a silver spoon but people who are like “were barely keeping it together, driving ourselves and our loved ones into debt, should we uninvite Uncle Rebus’s +1 for his new girlfriend” need to take a step back and re-evaluate their priorities
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:13 |
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Willfrey posted:Which loving state has a 30k wedding be below average cost I would bet New York based on my own experience. Catering is insanely expensive.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:14 |
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Eat the rich, but also, learn what "budget" means.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:14 |
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Dad sounds completely normal. Yeah, let me pay this arbitrary bill that was handed to me by idiot children who assumed that because I'm rich I'm paying no matter the cost no questions asked.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:15 |
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zakharov posted:I would bet New York based on my own experience. Catering is insanely expensive. Actually that does make sense. I live in one of those barn-wedding states and cant fathom dropping over 10k for a wedding Then again I am unmarried and you can hear my cheeks clap while I talk outta my rear end
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:17 |
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Palpek posted:Dad sounds completely normal. Yeah, let me pay this arbitrary bill that was handed to me by idiot children who assumed that because I'm rich I'm paying no matter the cost no questions asked. What really happened is he initially told them he’d pay for everything and they came back to him with the swan labyrinth
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:18 |
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areyoucontagious posted:I still don’t understand the “blow a down payment on a house” style weddings. It’s one thing if you’re independently wealthy or have a silver spoon but people who are like “were barely keeping it together, driving ourselves and our loved ones into debt, should we uninvite Uncle Rebus’s +1 for his new girlfriend” need to take a step back and re-evaluate their priorities
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:20 |
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30k isn't even that outrageous to be honest. The entire industry is nothing but a ripoff. The lesson though is don't go into debt for a wedding.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:22 |
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AITA for kicking my wife's family out of our basement, making them homeless? basement_family posted:
WIBTA if I go to Disneyland without my son because of his actions? IIIIIIII321 posted:I'm using an alt to save me some trouble. This summer i'm taking my family to Disneyland. We have been planning for almost a year to go and all 3 of my kids are ecstatic. Everything has honestly been great so far and it looked to be a great vacation, until recently. This is where my 13 year old son James comes in. James has been a problem child as of recent. He's been acting up in school, getting in trouble around the house, and been an overall headache for me. I've always had the mindset that "kids will be kids". Hating school is fine, I get it. And he's getting to that age where he's going to push back a little but he has tested my every nerve.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:28 |
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If you tell a kid they're getting delayed punishment like months out and there's nothing they can do about, of course they're going to act out more
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:34 |
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Dad's saying "each parent should pay for a quarter of the wedding" though, to me, that sounds like he's trying to get one over his ex-wife so I struggle to take daddy's side. Lower the budget and see how quickly he changes his mind when his fellow millionaire friends get invited to a hobo wedding. Or just cut the dad's friends. Renegret fucked around with this message at 16:38 on Apr 16, 2019 |
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Renegret posted:Lower the budget and see how quickly he changes his mind when his fellow millionaire friends get invited to a hobo wedding. Or just cut the dad's friends.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:39 |
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Willfrey posted:Then again I am unmarried and you can hear my cheeks clap while I talk outta my rear end PM me
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:45 |
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zakharov posted:Wedding chat via Prudence Joke: siding with millionaires
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:49 |
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My mom wanted $3k worth of her friends who I never met to come to the wedding, which put us $3k over budget. You'll never guess where we found that $3k. I'm not saying the dad should pay for the whole wedding, but the OP hosed up by relying on his initial contribution in the first place. The real power move is to only budget for what you can afford, and if a parent or guest wants something selfish then they gotta pay for it themselves. Worst case, your wedding is a magistrate coming to a restaurant. If that's too embarrassing to your millionaire dad, then gently caress you dad you pay the difference. OP is hosed though because they're already in over their head financially and they can kiss that $7.5k goodbye if they don't even let him walk his own daughter down the isle.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:52 |
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UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Joke: siding with millionaires Rich Dad doesn't sound wonderful but the couple not having that conversation as a first step was unwise.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:54 |
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The real trick is to wait so long but your father offers you more money because he's afraid now that you'll never get married
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:56 |
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You at 18: Dad: I'll give you $500 You at 35: Dad: I will fly everyone to Tahiti
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:57 |
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We can imagine a lot of scenarios where the dad is the rear end in a top hat but one thing that we don't have to imagine that makes those divagations pointless is that the kids didn't ask him about it first, just made the deposit and assumed all is well. poo poo, they've even invited guests before clearing the financial side lmao. Given the tone of the post I guarantee they'd have written "and he promised to foot the bill too!" if it was the case.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:59 |
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areyoucontagious posted:What really happened is he initially told them he’d pay for everything and they came back to him with the swan labyrinth ...? Please tell me this is a labyrinth full of angry swans.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 16:59 |
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My dad offers me money for each additional grandchild.
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Scathach posted:...? Please tell me this is a labyrinth full of angry swans. Just one, the Minocyg
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:03 |
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Leon Einstein posted:My dad offers me money for each additional grandchild. My dad still complains about only having one grandchild (He has 9 granddaughters)
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:06 |
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The millionaire offering to split everything exactly evenly 4-ways with working people is absolutely an overstuffed colostomy bag of a human being
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Clark Nova posted:The millionaire offering to split everything exactly evenly 4-ways with working people is absolutely an overstuffed colostomy bag of a human being
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tactlessbastard posted:My dad still complains about only having one grandchild (He has 9 granddaughters)
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:14 |
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Leon Einstein posted:I think you overestimate the wealth of your average millionaires. "the Fair Thing is equal contributions even though im fully aware that we don't all have equal resources" isn't fair and is a sign of being a regressive poo poo, hth
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InediblePenguin posted:"the Fair Thing is equal contributions even though im fully aware that we don't all have equal resources" isn't fair and is a sign of being a regressive poo poo, hth Do you compare financial statements when splitting the bill with others at a restaurant?
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:19 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Nobody is obligated to pay for the wedding. The bride and groom can pay for their own party. Hth i see your point in this post, but i still don't see your point in the last one about "overestimating the wealth of millionaires" tbh
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AITA for refusing my wife sex after she refused me?username1770 posted:Had the day off today, much needed time to stay home and hangout with my wife and 2 year old daughter.
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Leon Einstein posted:I think you overestimate the wealth of your average millionaires. It's less an issue of wealth and more an issue of liquidity (because most nominal millionaires are horrendous at personal finances so they might pull down 250k per year but have no savings and spend 200k in debt service) as illiquid assets usually represent hoarded wealth regardless, even when liened to the hilt.
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InediblePenguin posted:i see your point in this post, but i still don't see your point in the last one about "overestimating the wealth of millionaires" tbh
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Tythas posted:AITA for refusing my wife sex after she refused me? You're an rear end in a top hat because you communicate like a 10 year old. Your wife isn't any better but that's unrelated to your question.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:24 |
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So many guys are such babies about sex. Like it's a travesty that they're not getting laid as often when they've got young kids.
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:26 |
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I can't, I've still got to make him love me by creating sons which is getting exceedingly more unlikely by the second
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Tythas posted:AITA for refusing my wife sex after she refused me?
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# ? Apr 16, 2019 17:27 |
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Palpek posted:Give me a nickle for every zero-communication keeping-score marriage post on reddit complete with crab mentality OP. Fun for everybody involved including the kid. Just don't try to go halfsies when your kids are getting married, OK?
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Coming off the heels of my lost post Is it right of me [19M] to think of sex as a necessary part of a long-term relationship with my SO [18F]? LeonCovacs posted:This may be a really messed up way of thinking, but I would like to hear what you guys have to say. I think that people have certain things that they want to have in a relationship. One of those things for me is sex. I want to have sex that is enjoyable for both me and my SO. If my SO hypothetically is unable to have sex, is it justified to tell them that the relationship would not work for me? My SO made me feel really bad about me saying this and I feel awful for thinking this way. My SO thinks that a relationship has sex on the side as a bonus, while I think that it is a large part of being comfortable with your SO. I would like to know if my thoughts are justified or not and why.
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Tythas posted:AITA for refusing my wife sex after she refused me? No one is going to have a good time at that point, because he was watching TV and not helping her while she cleaned. He should have started helping, then make a move when the cleaning is finished. Anyone is going to get ticked off if they are doing something necessary for their household and their spouse is laying around not helping, then tells them to stop early cause they wanna fool around.
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