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Beachcomber posted:Do you think they'd come over and clean if I let them condescend and guilt me while they do it? 
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UPDATE: AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their motherquote:A month ago, I shared this story - https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/be78v7/aita_for_sleeping_with_someone_to_spite_their/. Tl;dr I have a homophobic boss, met her son on Grindr, he hates her, we would pretend to be a couple at his birthday party to piss her off, my friends dumped me because of it.
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May 23, 2019 20:10
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What is it about weddings that turns people stark raving mad?
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May 23, 2019 20:10
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FoolyCharged posted:What is it about weddings that turns people stark raving mad? They're often expensive, emotional, and logistically complicated. And ideally something you do only once.
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May 23, 2019 20:11
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and a lot of people get raised being told that it's ~their daaaay~ when the whole world is supposed to be about them and all of their whims must be catered to and it's perfect, absolutely perfect, so any indication otherwise is taken as a calculated plot to ruin their one day
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May 23, 2019 20:14
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In my experience with family/friends that have gotten married, sometimes the parents work up a sander over what they envision being perfect for their kids. I had a cousin that got eloped because her mother was being a total buttinski about what would be ~perfect~, i.e. what she though would be perfect, not what her daughter actually wanted.
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May 23, 2019 20:18
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MasBrillante posted:Totally not a narcissist. Also apparently this was published in Good Housekeeping? That always did seem like the magazine choice of control freak housewives everywhere. Elle Decor. Not trying to scry into the journalistic goals of said mag, but I wonder how much the writer or editor was expecting readers to read betwen the lines. The headline at face value implies they're on the mother's side.
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May 23, 2019 20:20
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:and a lot of people get raised being told that it's ~their daaaay~ when the whole world is supposed to be about them and all of their whims must be catered to and it's perfect, absolutely perfect, so any indication otherwise is taken as a calculated plot to ruin their one day And then sometimes weddings get hijacked by relatives of the people getting married and make it about themselves instead, like with the two grooms from that last story. ad090 posted:UPDATE: AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother "We're just dating to spite mom, but oh whoops we developed feelings for each other" Screw that guy's ex-friends though
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May 23, 2019 20:20
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Beachcomber posted:Do you think they'd come over and clean if I let them condescend and guilt me while they do it? almost certain this is my partners stepmothers kink
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May 23, 2019 20:22
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kimbo305 posted:Elle Decor. Not trying to scry into the journalistic goals of said mag, but I wonder how much the writer or editor was expecting readers to read betwen the lines. The headline at face value implies they're on the mother's side. At the bottom of the article it says “original published in Good Housekeeping US”
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May 23, 2019 20:27
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If your friends abandon you for being on Grindr they're lovely fun hating friends anyway. Keep having fun, guy.
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May 23, 2019 20:28
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DemoneeHo posted:"We're just dating to spite mom, but oh whoops we developed feelings for each other" It would be  but because of the whole cross country moving thing its 
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May 23, 2019 20:30
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Picnic Princess posted:If your friends abandon you for being on Grindr they're lovely fun hating friends anyway. Keep having fun, guy. Having gay friends on grindr is amazing because you get to hear about all the loving insane poo poo that happens on Grindr. My personal favorite time was the weekend the Furry convention was in town
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May 23, 2019 20:33
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FoolyCharged posted:It would be I was looking in the comments and OP says it's not too far away, so he can visit on weekends. So it's not all bad. It will probably go the way of most LDRs, however
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May 23, 2019 20:36
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DemoneeHo posted:It will probably go the way of most LDRs, however Hey that just means more content for the thread.
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May 23, 2019 20:37
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You guys are missing the obvious outcome that he is not getting that job after they call his boss for a reference.
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May 23, 2019 20:40
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Paul Zuvella posted:Having gay friends on grindr is amazing because you get to hear about all the loving insane poo poo that happens on Grindr. My personal favorite time was the weekend the Furry convention was in town You ought to be banned for hinting at some juicy deets like this and keeping them all to yourself.
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May 23, 2019 20:41
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AlBorlantern Corps posted:You guys are missing the obvious outcome that he is not getting that job after they call his boss for a reference. She wants to get rid of him.
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May 23, 2019 20:42
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Vim Fuego posted:men dont plan weddings drat i know some gay dudes who would be furious and would of went for the juggler if their family tried to tell them that poo poo.
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May 23, 2019 20:45
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snergle posted:would of went for the juggler Lol, this is good.
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May 23, 2019 20:46
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Llab posted:I’m never prepared for the heartwarming ones. I’m glad they worked it out in a good way I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop, the unforgivable sin, the buried lede...nothing. Just a good bro and a good teen making things ok. Leon Einstein posted:Omitting what caused the estrangement makes it very clear who is at fault. Yeah, it's just like anyone complaining that they got ghosted/estranged/kids taken away/thrown out of Burlington coat factory over 'one mistake'.... You know it's drugs. Every time.
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May 23, 2019 20:51
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snergle posted:would of went for the juggler Never been to a wedding with a juggler despite having been to many that were loving circuses.
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snergle posted:drat i know some gay dudes who would be furious and would of went for the juggler if their family tried to tell them that poo poo. What do gay dudes have against the circus arts?
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13Pandora13 posted:Today in "Unreliable as gently caress Narrators": https://www.elledecor.com/life-culture/a27558969/sheri-mcgregor-estrangement-mother-son/ quote:It was close to midnight when the phone rang, and I grabbed it fast. My husband was sick and had just settled down to sleep and I was afraid it would wake him. I honestly don't remember most of what was said in that conversation, but thinking about it now still puts my stomach in knots. I do remember Dan explaining, in a very clear, very matter-of-fact tone that he'd never used with me before, that his fiancée's family would not be coming to the rehearsal dinner we'd planned. At first I was so shocked that I didn't even reply. That's when he put his fiancée on the phone and she said something like, "That's my family." To which I responded that I didn't know what she meant. Dan came back on and said something about me being unfriendly at the bridal shower the month before. I was stunned. Hearing his accusation hurt, and Dan knew me better than that. What the gently caress is this timeline. 1) She said something to the fiancee's family. 2) Fiancee's family says they aren't coming to the rehearsal dinner. 3) ??? 4) Call to confirm that she won't be at the wedding. What?
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Admiral Ray posted:What the gently caress is this timeline. It's hard to recount events in a logical manner when you're omitting anything that paints you as anything but the victim.
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May 23, 2019 20:59
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Oh and the best part of that is quote:I honestly don't remember most of what was said in that conversation, 
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tactlessbastard posted:What do gay dudes have against the circus arts? Circuses have too many lions and tigers, not enough bears
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May 23, 2019 21:01
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Admiral Ray posted:Oh and the best part of that is It was seventy three pages worth of carefully researched and supported grievances with times dates and cross references
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May 23, 2019 21:02
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Admiral Ray posted:What the gently caress is this timeline. What has always fascinated me is the question of whether they actually experience memory like this - as a series of disjointed events with all their actions erased - or if they just narrate it that way.
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MasBrillante posted:What has always fascinated me is the question of whether they actually experience memory like this - as a series of disjointed events with all their actions erased - or if they just narrate it that way. One of the symptoms of borderline personality disorder is that a person with bpd will automatically edit their own memories of events, mostly to omit the incredibly hosed up and hostile actions they perpetrate against loved ones. This results in them being unable to understand other people's natural and normal reactions to them- pulling back, ceasing to trust, and cutting off contact.
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quote:The number of guests grew from 32 to 86 and every time we tried to fight it, our parents said: "Don't worry, we're paying for it!"  My MiL tried this when we got married (we were shooting for 60-75 total, she wanted to invite literally everyone in the extended family address book, which would have pushed the list up above 150.) My wife had to draw the line at "if I can't recall interacting with someone in the past five years I don't want to invite them" and MiL was suuuuuuuuuuuuper butthurt.
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Edit: Okay that one was lame. Here's a replacement. AITA For getting extremely mad with my wife because she got a tattoo on her hand when we both agreed since the start of the relationship that was the only place I would mind her having a tattoo? quote:She loves tattoos and I knew that from the start of the relationship and I’m totally okay with it, I have nothing against it, many people from my family has it including my own brother, but the only place I asked where I would mind very much was on her hands, face and neck and she was totally okay with it and said she wouldn’t never get any tattoos on those places. chitoryu12 fucked around with this message at 21:20 on May 23, 2019 |
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May 23, 2019 21:18
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Wife totally did that on purpose as a power play. His best way to deal with it is to not give a poo poo and then her play was a failure.
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May 23, 2019 21:29
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chitoryu12 posted:Edit: Okay that one was lame. Here's a replacement. NTA.
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May 23, 2019 21:36
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AITA for refusing to stop drinking for my boyfriend?quote:Okay, I know the title is very incendiary so let me explain. Takes this guy no time at all to hold his girlfriend's happiness hostage so he doesn't have to stop smelling like rear end.
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May 23, 2019 21:41
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chitoryu12 posted:Edit: Okay that one was lame. Here's a replacement. fuckin Mcdonalds shift manager of a husband
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May 23, 2019 21:51
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chitoryu12 posted:Edit: Okay that one was lame. Here's a replacement. I hope she torpedoed their relationship to get a tattoo of a mustache on her finger.
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Sex addict and my marriage....quote:Ok so I am married with a child and a second coming In a few weeks. I started posting pics on Reddit few weeks ago and liked the attention and honestly I just love dicks. Been having a sexual awakening recently and me and my hubby have been trying lots of new things. I love giving him BJs like ALOT! But I keep obessessing over dicks! I like them, I want more of them but I love my husband's too alot, but I just want more..... I had a few BJ sessions with a co-worker a year ago with my husband's permission cause we were experimenting with things..... I didn't have sex with him but I wanted to bad.... So that's how I knew I liked doing it so much. And since then I've had trouble not thinking about it. I love going down on my husband and making him cum, and love loving him..... But I just keep thinking about that guy. Not all the time but often enough..... I wish I had hosed him for the full experience, but that was against me and my hubby's agreement..... But I loved feeling the guys dick in my mouth and tried to take it all, (couldn't cause he was about 2 or 3 inches longer) but I just loved the way it felt and how it made him feel. I just loved the attention, the ability to make some guy feel so good! I mean he was calling my name and made me feel sexy tired once. He came in my mouth all 3 times and he usually only lasted like 2 or 3 minutes.... I also enjoyed the challenge of trying to fit his bigger cock in my mouth which us just a different experience. I still wish I could gently caress him just to see what sex with a BBC is like but my hubby is not ok with that at all. I also am obessessing about threesomes with my husband and other men as well as other women but especially other men. Like I just get wet thinking about my husband and another taking turns loving me and I want to give them BJs at the same time and have them cum all over me...... I also just want try sex with a woman. The problem is that my hubby asked me to stop and I did. But now I am obessessing about dicks, loving them, sucking them, holding them.... And the size and such isn't that important, I just want dicks..... I don't know exactly why but I do. And it bothers my husband that I like it so much and want more. He keeps feeling like I don't particularly want him anymore, which I certainly do, but I just want this in addition. But I absolutely can not lose my husband and love him to death. I don't know why I have this new obsession or what it means, and I'm not sure what to do about it...... I just want to be able to move beyond this.....
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chitoryu12 posted:Edit: Okay that one was lame. Here's a replacement. goddamn i wish we could hack a Gibson to find these photos.
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