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Several pages back I posted a series of pictures of me growing my hair long. One year ago: Now I got a full ponytail: It then occurred to me that none of you guys have seen me at my full size yet: Yeah, I put on weight. Probably a combination of age (36) and a recent relapse into alcoholism. I've been off for a few days but I'm still not out of the woods yet. That's why I'm not looking quite as fresh as last year. You're all making me jealous with pictures of yourselves enjoying the good weather. It's almost summer here in N. Ireland but it has rained lightly but steadily for the past 5 days here. Maybe the depressing weather caused the relapse.
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ChickenOfTomorrow posted:if it sounds like something joe biden would say, dont post it LOL oh wow, that made me giggle. Yeah, giggle. It's 4am soooo... Edit: Valko, man, sorry to hear that man, just try to stick with it. May not mean much coming from Random Internet Guy, but I'd been there too off and on for a long time, so I know it's tough. I'm sure there are other people that can relate as well, and would agree if you ever need an ear, we're here. Also, I enjoy 5 days of straight rain, but then again I'm one of those weirdos from Washington State that enjoys that kind of weather. RandomZero has a new favorite as of 12:16 on Jun 2, 2019 |
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Picnic Princess posted:Oooh missed some drama. I'm not much of a gun guy anymore but that looks like a lot of fun!
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RandomZero posted:LOL oh wow, that made me giggle. Yeah, giggle. It's 4am soooo... Thanks for your kind words but I think it is my burden to bear. I don't know, I got badly criticized for talking about it in a GBS thread (how much alcohol consumption is acceptable before you have a problem) so that put me off talking about on the forums. That thread was full of party animals trying to poke fun of people who were genuinely posting about the misery of alcoholism. I don't want to talk about this anymore because I don't want to bring down the happy tone of this thread. Don't worry about me, my last sober stretch lasted 18 months. I'll get there again.
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 13:05 |
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Valko posted:Thanks for your kind words but I think it is my burden to bear Everyone bears their own burden alone, but they don't have to be alone while bearing it. If you don't want to talk about it here that's fine, but I believe in you, and if you ever need to reach out to talk about things, my PMs are always open
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 13:19 |
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LITERALLY A BIRD posted:Duzzy's post wasn't great either but I am shocked that this passed without more comment. Are you aware that the Me Too campaign arose due to the overwhelming frequency of sexual abuse, assault, and harassment of women both in and out of the workplace? Are you aware that even aside from the women you saw speaking out and posting about it, there are many, many more who have been assaulted or abused and are not in a healthy enough space to speak out about it or perhaps even acknowledge it? Are you aware that posts like this, whether or not your intentions are "genuine," are incredibly dismissive and belittling of women that have experienced these things?
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Valko posted:the depressing weather Hey friend, I've been where you're at, and my pm's are open to you too.
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 15:07 |
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imo keep it classy and old school holy and just yell AWOOGAH when you see a girl to no one in particylar. works for me op
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Serious chat: As a guy who likes guys, I also try to be thoughtful, respectful when complimenting men. It's amazing how when we get to know someone on the inside how much that changes our level of attraction. Because it's what's on the inside that counts. In full disclosure, I've had my lapses in judgment along the way, usually under the influence of alcohol. Those are mistakes I learned a lot from, that I never repeat. Semi-serious chat: I'm looking for tips on how to get better pictures of myself. When I'm dating, I consistently have guys tell me I'm way cuter in person than in pictures. Examples: Not serious chat https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZOOEH9hQfM
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 15:28 |
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EmmyOk posted:imo keep it classy and old school holy and just yell AWOOGAH when you see a girl to no one in particylar. works for me op This is what I do. I also stomp one foot up and down, pump my fists and my bowtie spins like a propeller. The females really appreciate the extra effort. Goober Peas posted:In full disclosure, I've had my lapses in judgment along the way, usually under the influence of alcohol. Those are mistakes I learned a lot from, that I never repeat. Oh god yes. There are things I have done in my life (mostly when a much younger poo poo head) that I am so deeply ashamed of. It's the secondary reason I will no longer have more than one or two drinks when out in public (the primary reason is watching someone die painfully of alcoholism). Proteus Jones has a new favorite as of 15:42 on Jun 2, 2019 |
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Do you make the Zoidberg WHOOP WHOOP WHOOP noises? That’s what really seals the deal.
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 15:41 |
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no bcos I am too busy rolling up my tongue when it rolled out like a a venetian blind. idiot
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I know it's too little and too late, but please accept my sincere apologies to everyone in the thread. I'm an imbecile and my comment was absolutely thoughtless and inappropriate. I almost certainly deserved a probation or a ban for it, but I truly appreciate LITERALLY A BIRD's insightful response and at least something good will come of this: I have learned a valuable lesson. SaS: I'm very sorry. Although no one has requested it I'm going to unbookmark this thread from the Awful app and leave you all in peace.
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 15:56 |
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Goober Peas posted:
The only thing I can think of is that it looks like you're squinting pretty intensely at the camera and that's off-putting. (if that's the way your eyes are genuinely, then I apologize and you should disregard this)
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Goober Peas posted:I'm looking for tips on how to get better pictures of myself. When I'm dating, I consistently have guys tell me I'm way cuter in person than in pictures
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Fatty Crabcakes posted:Same problem. I can never quite get the angle or lighting quite right, the camera on my phone sucks ducks and I constantly tremble like a nervous chihuahua. That's why I get all of my online dating photos done at the mall. Is that cobie smulders?
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RC Cola posted:Is that cobie smulders?
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Fatty Crabcakes posted:I don't know. Cap'n runs a very tight ship and frowns upon familiarity. I have prosopagnosia so I'm really asking. I'm mostly sure that's her given the mall joke but also???
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PizzaProwler posted:The only thing I can think of is that it looks like you're squinting pretty intensely at the camera and that's off-putting. That's fair -- My eyes are fairly sensitive to light, and I'm probably too focused on the camera.
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Goober Peas posted:My eyes are fairly sensitive to light This is why I’m wearing sunglasses (or a polarized mask) in every pic I’ve posted here. Do you sneeze when you walk into a brighter area than you were in before? Because that’s fairly annoying after over 3 decades of it 😤
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Goober Peas posted:That's fair -- My eyes are fairly sensitive to light, and I'm probably too focused on the camera. One trick I used a lot when I was a photographer was: get your shot set up, close your eyes, smile, and open your eyes right when you're ready to snap the picture. You'll have like a split second before your brain yells at you to squint.
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EmmyOk posted:no bcos I am too busy rolling up my tongue when it rolled out like a a venetian blind. idiot I see what you're saying, but only because my eyes are back to normal after extending way out from my head like woah Somehow my glasses stayed on What is this doing here I am not good at solenoids Here's one for COOL CORN Conrad Road is pretty.
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RC Cola posted:I have prosopagnosia so I'm really asking. I'm mostly sure that's her given the mall joke but also???
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Icon Of Sin posted:This is why I’m wearing sunglasses (or a polarized mask) in every pic I’ve posted here. Do you sneeze when you walk into a brighter area than you were in before? Because that’s fairly annoying after over 3 decades of it 😤 I don't - but - my eyes dilate huge. When I had Lasik surgery years ago, they told me they had never seen pupils dilate that much.
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Picnic Princess posted:Oooh missed some drama. I miss dumping cheap ammo off the back porch
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Picnic Princess posted:Oooh missed some drama. I really really love your hair, it's my favorite shade of purple. Dark and vibrant.
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Inzombiac posted:I'm not much of a gun guy anymore but that looks like a lot of fun! It was a real ear ringer! I know nothing of guns but my farther-in law's friend owns some really powerful ones, the recoil on one of them cut his hand on two places. Also with regards to "smile more" I will say that it's not only negging, which is yuck, but also heavily implies that not only does she only exist to entertain and delight you, but she isn't even doing a good enough job of it and you expect her to give you more if what you want. That's not why we're here, my dudes. I get told that on the bus by strangers and it's like "I didn't get on this bus to be eye candy. I'm going home after work just like the men on this bus. Tell them to smile more too, I fuckin dare you."
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 19:12 |
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This is my "Gimme a smile, baby" face: Followed by a raspberry and jerk-off motion
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# ? Jun 2, 2019 19:38 |
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Six of Hearts set a new distance record of six of miles. In my new fav shirt. Set a new speed record too.
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Goober Peas posted:That's fair -- My eyes are fairly sensitive to light, and I'm probably too focused on the camera. You’re a cute guy, you’re fine
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That shirt rules, and you're rockin' it well.
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CannonFodder posted:Here's one for COOL CORN I miss Lewisville so much
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Sometimes I wear glasses But why am I smiling? Well it's because this thread is full of beautiful people and I am glad that y'all are so open with sharing both the good and the bad in your life
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I'm wearing an extremely on brand shirt today
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is your brand made for ants????
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Six-Of-Hearts posted:Six of Hearts set a new distance record of six of miles. In my new fav shirt. That's awesome, congrats!!!
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Six-Of-Hearts posted:Six of Hearts set a new distance record of six of miles. In my new fav shirt. Wow how do you get to nearly 17mph on skates? Is it just a serious downhill? The gap between highest and lowest elevation doesn't seem that great, but I'm also for poo poo at estimating height. Also, from what I can see, cute shorts! Though I guess I'm obviously a sucker for pink.
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Friends, I need help picking a picture for my portfolio according to the stupid newbie programming thread. I was told more casual or a headshot. Can ya'll help me out? Tell me if any are usable, apparently I don't have many pictures taken of just me. I really need some better pictures taken of myself. RC Cola has a new favorite as of 02:16 on Jun 3, 2019 |
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Ice castle (because it’s unique) or puppies (because everyone loves those). I think those are your best 2 in that set.
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Karnegal posted:Wow how do you get to nearly 17mph on skates? Is it just a serious downhill? The gap between highest and lowest elevation doesn't seem that great, but I'm also for poo poo at estimating height. Also, from what I can see, cute shorts! Though I guess I'm obviously a sucker for pink. Flat open ground, sprinting in hi-lo, inline hockey skates, with marginally decent bearings. 20-25mph sprints weren't that difficult to hit with testosterone's assistance Back Then. And pink is the best color.
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