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Pick posted:I didn't say you couldn't also be gross having sex with someone 2/3 your age. But 1/2 your age will be gross in every circumstance, every time. It's within the parameter space of gross. I suppose it's the difference between 'gross but you do you' and 'gross and why did you do that'.
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imagine living in 2019 where a furry juggalo alliance is driving out sugar daddy white nationalists from youtube comment threads and giving a poo poo about age differences as an example of weird relationships. y'all we got trans witches making mpreg real with ebay spells. get on this level. nothing is fair, everything is permitted. driving ourselves into a foaming frenzy about other people's sex accomplishes nothing, aside from highlighting how little of it you're having yourself. yeah obviously those minors are getting groomed. minors get groomed all the time, it's basically the only way old fuckin white dudes know how to make money. if you want to protect young folk, literally murder advertisers in the street, and paint your face with their blood. otherwise you only care about this as a backdoor excuse to hate on women.
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tactlessbastard posted:Sympathy for the Devil is a Rolling Stones song Weird wording on my part. They were listening to Tool before they got to "Hooker With a Penis".
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Rubellavator posted:This is the worst derail I still maintain that neutering all male babies at birth will eventually solve all gender issues, including threads getting derailed with rules lawyering about what's creepy and what aint
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:imagine living in 2019 where a furry juggalo alliance is driving out sugar daddy white nationalists from youtube comment threads and giving a poo poo about age differences as an example of weird relationships. y'all we got trans witches making mpreg real with ebay spells. get on this level. nothing is fair, everything is permitted. driving ourselves into a foaming frenzy about other people's sex accomplishes nothing, aside from highlighting how little of it you're having yourself. "Now, about that age of consent..."
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Jun 7, 2019 17:00
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chitoryu12 posted:Weird wording on my part. They were listening to Tool before they got to "Hooker With a Penis". this never would have happened if he just stuck to anime theme songs. like, he never would have been married to begin with, let alone the copulation required to produce an heir. Grape posted:"Now, about that age of consent..." federal minimum of 18 with no marriage licenses issued to anyone before the age of 25. people who host countdowns for celebrities to turn 18 get launched into the sun. ephephobiles confined to one of those south asian islands that only has snakes on it. also gender is abolished and capitalists are turned into hot dogs.
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Bronze Fonz posted:My wife is nearly 20 years older than me and I can assure you there's nothing gross about it. 
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Jun 7, 2019 17:00
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When I was a 25 year old man I lived down the street from a strikingly handsome 50 year old man in excellent shape who I had sex with every weekend for the greater part of a year, ending only when I left San Diego for a job offer. It was a good and uncomplicated relationship devoid of any drama or substance outside of the 2 or so hours of weekly physicality and by comparison every relationship I've had since has fallen short on terms of personal satisfaction.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:01
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College undergrads are babbies. They're babbies. They are legal babbies. But don't think they aren't what they are.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:02
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For me, it was love at first sight with my husband when I saw him on the sonogram (I am not related to the woman who was receiving the sonogram). Even in utero he was a perfect twink.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:02
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Grape posted:But all means just bulldoze over an extremely young guy being preyed on, because yeah no big deal. High five hee hee. Is anyone doing that? Is there literally anyone in this thread who said "high five" to the friend? Grape posted:tldr: this mindset is part of toxic masculinity, or at least the culture that keeps propagating it If the OP was mad at his mom for preying on a younger man, and the rest of the story indicated that happened, then sure. He's mad at both of them. If best friend is a victim OP shouldn't be mad at both of them.
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Mr. Lobe posted:When I was a 25 year old man I lived down the street from a strikingly handsome 50 year old man in excellent shape who I had sex with every weekend for the greater part of a year, ending only when I left the city. It was a good and uncomplicated relationship devoid of any drama or substance outside of the 2 or so hours of weekly physicality and by comparison every relationship I've had since has fallen short on terms of personal satisfaction. Mid-20's on is when age gaps really stop being creepy.
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loving your friends mom is worse than loving his ex and that's already grounds for the end of a friendship.
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Hellblazer187 posted:Is anyone doing that? Is there literally anyone in this thread who said "high five" to the friend? uhhh yeah, my orange haired two dimensional cop friend saw a baby get molested by their teacher and every time it happened he just said "nice" like in a really creepy but memetic way. the baby was canadian and talked by having the top of its head pop off. anyway here are my philosophies about trans people: they want to be Dolphins. this is hilarious, prima facae. Rubellavator posted:loving your friends mom is worse than loving his ex and that's already grounds for the end of a friendship. yeah it's a hugely toxic masculine move to dick down any part of your buddy's family circle. the only appropriate recompense is the friend doing everything to the son that he did to the mom. that's Gawain's Law, and it is a binding part of the Chivalric Code. VVV <3 VVV
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:federal minimum of 18 with no marriage licenses issued to anyone before the age of 25. people who host countdowns for celebrities to turn 18 get launched into the sun. ephephobiles confined to one of those south asian islands that only has snakes on it. Phiz Kalifa 2020. PHIZ KALIFA posted:yeah it's a hugely toxic masculine move to dick down any part of your buddy's family circle. the only appropriate recompense is the friend doing everything to the son that he did to the mom. that's Gawain's Law, and it is a binding part of the Chivalric Code. So, I'm still learning about toxic masculinity and what it means, but I kind of think it's a toxicly masculine move to try to own your mother's body. If there is a victim here, it isn't the OP. Maybe mom groomed/preyed upon the best friend. Story doesn't indicate it but it's certainly within the realm of possibility. But if so, best friend is the victim. All I ever said about this is that it's weird for the OP to feel personally attacked by both people, like they betrayed him somehow. Hellblazer187 fucked around with this message at 17:09 on Jun 7, 2019 |
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Jun 7, 2019 17:06
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Haifisch posted:AITA for telling my mom I think it’s disgusting she is having another kid That lady has been pregnant for like 10 years. 10 years of pregnancy. That's just terrible.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:12
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AITA for crying endlessly at work?quote:I’m a gal in her mid 20’s who works at a restaurant. There was recently an event we were prepping for which featured an assortment of dishes from a bunch of different cultures. My parents are both immigrants from the Middle East, and there was a recipe they taught me (passed down from my grandmother) for a dish enjoyed in my culture that I have always loved. I recommended this recipe to the head chef, and he approved it for this event. For the first time ever, I got to cook my beloved dish myself, for lots of other people to enjoy.
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AITA for telling my 12 yo son I want him to contribute financially towards summer hockey program?quote:So here's the situation. I have 3 children who each play 2 sports at different times of the year. My son plays hockey in the winter and baseball in the summer. Me and the mother of all 3 children are divorced. We also put him in a couple of mini camps throughout the summer for hockey for skills and to stay sharp.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:14
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AITA for asking my boyfriend not to eat dessert at home? Qquote:My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, living together for 2. In the time we have been together, we have both gained weight; I have gained more than him (or at least I’m shorter and it shows more). I am unhappy with my weight. I know that he is mildly concerned about his but not very, and I have no issue with his weight at all.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:AITA for crying endlessly at work? goddamn
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Pick posted:Why do men always say that divorce means losing half of their stuff? It's splitting your shared stuff. I believe part of this is the same reason we still "dial" a phone and the save icon is a glyph of a 3.25" floppy. Memes take a long time to die, if they ever do.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:17
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:AITA for crying endlessly at work? I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that she probably does this all the time everywhere about everything.
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chitoryu12 posted:I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that she probably does this all the time everywhere about everything. Crying is an act of aggression. At least I assume so, my mum once told me to go outside because i was crying too loud.
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Jun 7, 2019 17:31
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:AITA for crying endlessly at work? i get why she was crying and i empathize with that feeling but if you cry uncontrollably over bad feelings then restaurant work is not for you
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Piell posted:AITA for telling my 12 yo son I want him to contribute financially towards summer hockey program? NTA, especially when the ideas for earning it were things like doing more chores and going to grandma and grandpa and helping them
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:AITA for crying endlessly at work? if this was a one-off thing it's whatever. people have bad days and bad days snowball like that when you feel angry at yourself for being dumb. i think just about every job i've worked at i've had at least one really bad day. i agree with the chef though, if you're having active emotional turmoil at work you should probably go home and sleep it off
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Djeser posted:if this was a one-off thing it's whatever. people have bad days and bad days snowball like that when you feel angry at yourself for being dumb. i think just about every job i've worked at i've had at least one really bad day. i agree with the chef though, if you're having active emotional turmoil at work you should probably go home and sleep it off Ah. but capitalism
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Djeser posted:if this was a one-off thing it's whatever. people have bad days and bad days snowball like that when you feel angry at yourself for being dumb. i think just about every job i've worked at i've had at least one really bad day. i agree with the chef though, if you're having active emotional turmoil at work you should probably go home and sleep it off I had one contractor who would cry to get out of anything. You could hardly tell her what she did wrong (which was a lot) because she would immediately start getting upset. The last straw is when I was told that she had tried to spread a rumor that I was having sex with another employee in my office (despite having the door open at all times in full view of other people across the hall) and she had a giant bawling and hyperventilating meltdown when confronted.
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AITA for wanting to kick my partners best friend out of our home because I feel like he sexually harassed me?quote:Some context: My partners best friend came to live with us because he wanted a fresh start and to get away from his lovely situation back at home in another state. We gladly took him in and to his credit he has been flourishing ever since. My partner and him have been best friends for 4-5 years now so we trust him with everything we have.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:AITA for crying endlessly at work? quote:And when I say crying, I really mean crying. I sobbed loudly and hysterically; my face got beet red, and I started losing my footing/balance and stumbling around. That's not crying, that's wailing for attention. Toddlers do this too. quote:But I saw someone dumping a bunch of trash into that same garbage bin, and it triggered the image of my dish in the garbage, and I started bawling again. lmfao, okay.
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What a complete moron. "Hey these kind people gave me a fresh start! How about I, ABSOLUTE BEST CASE SCENARIO, blow the whole thing up for a quick lay?"
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Admiral Ray posted:That's not crying, that's wailing for attention. Toddlers do this too. I did this once in my adult life. It was about 4 days after my mom had passed, I saw a photo of her and my sister at some swim with dolphins thing from when my sister was little. So, my mom as a young woman, a dolphin, and my sister as a young child. Happier times. All the tears that wouldn't come out in the first few days came out then. Something about the photo got me. I fell to my knees a sobbing mess, snot and tears making a mess out of my face and shirt. I've definitely cried since then but that's the only time I can think of myself like, wailing and losing balance. I assume I'll do the same when my dad passes, and again if I outlive my sister or my spouse. I think that kind of crying is OK for like, "death of your mother" type events. Not for "threw away the tabbouleh" events. Maybe that's just me being a mid 30s American male with repressed emotions though.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for correcting my father in law's manner of addressing us and calling him out? Not taking the other spouse's name when you're a published researcher is common, father's a complete shithead about it. Dr. FAUXTON doesn't have my name, partly because it's a dumb tradition and also for the fact that, well, to be honest her name is more valuable than mine, the only things I publish are bad posts whereas she's contributed new discoveries toward scientific efforts to cure HIV and Zika.
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Hellblazer187 posted:I did this once in my adult life. It was about 4 days after my mom had passed, I saw a photo of her and my sister at some swim with dolphins thing from when my sister was little. So, my mom as a young woman, a dolphin, and my sister as a young child. Happier times. All the tears that wouldn't come out in the first few days came out then. Something about the photo got me. I fell to my knees a sobbing mess, snot and tears making a mess out of my face and shirt. Oh yeah, my response in that kitchen would have been "Oh poo poo someone in her family/close friend group died." But in this situation it'd be because she's dealing with immense stress elsewhere or is attention seeking. Given this: quote:I feel like my chef/coworkers should have had more sympathy for me due to the circumstances that made me cry. e: Or some emotional regulation issue. Admiral Ray fucked around with this message at 18:25 on Jun 7, 2019 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:What a complete moron. It's not as uncommon as you may think. A weird point of (bad) roommate culture is the implied chance of random hookups. It's gnarly and I have personally witnessed it in 3 separate individuals and it was mentally emotionally and physically disturbing each time. But that's what you get when you use Craigslist haHAAAA
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ad090 posted:AITA for wanting to kick my partners best friend out of our home because I feel like he sexually harassed me?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for expecting sugarbaby reciprocation? 
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Palpek posted:It's amazing that after all the crazy cheating/opening the relationship stories posted itt there are still new twists out there. Just imagine that you broke up with someone 3 years ago, and your friends/family are currently giving you grief about it. How bizarre
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my SO to maintain low contact with his sister due to their incest past? Text the sister, tell her you know all about what she and her brother got up to and if she doesn't back off then all her social media is getting bombed with incest memes (if there is such a thing. im sure there is) MasBrillante posted:Now I want to read other stories about the old ways people’s relationships used to be destroyed with board games. I’m picturing Monopoly. My dad hates and despises his older brother for many reasons but one of the biggest was that my uncle would force my dad to play hourslong games of monopoly that he would always win (being 5 years older) and then rub it in my dad's face. If my dad refused to play he'd just get slapped or punched or harassed in some way. What I'm saying is, you're right Blade Runner posted:He answered this, he doesn't have the money for a nice hotel exactly? I'm taking the under on that one, thanks
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