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WIBTA if I tell my new roommates that they need to suck it up? I recently helped my roommates move across the country (I paid the security deposit and 4 months worth of rent by myself), and so far everything is fine. Previously, they had a very terrible roommate, and they complained about everything she did, including how loud her and her boyfriend were during sex. I'm a very sexual person and I made it VERY clear when we were first talking about moving in together. I'm bisexual, into BDSM and my boyfriend and are in an open relationship. I definitely get around. When we were looking for apartments together, they said that they wanted to make sure that the bedrooms did not share walls, so we found a floor plan where there is a master bathroom that separates the two bedrooms. I thought this was so that any sex noises would be muffled. Which is fair, no one wants to hear other people having sex. I've lived with at least 12 other people (during college one of my roommates subletted over the summer) and no one has every complained or told me that they heard me having sex. Before they moved in I mentioned that the walls were insulated well and you really couldn't hear someone masturbating or having sex through them. Since moving in, they've made it clear that they don't want me to have sex at the apartment with them there at all but they rarely ever leave the apartment. Had they told me about this before we moved in together, I would never have agreed to live with them. Before this was communicated to me, my boyfriend and I did have sex multiple times while they were home and no one heard anything. I explained that they couldn't hear through the walls if I shut my bathroom door, and I tried to compromise with them. I was fine with limiting my dates to the weekends, and only having loud sex with my boyfriend at his place, but they do not wish to compromise at all. I told my boyfriend about this and he is very angry because he thinks I'm being taken advantage of and he thinks I should be able to do whatever I want in my own home. WIBTA if I tell them that everyone else I've ever lived with has been very much "it's fine as long as I can't hear it," and that they need to suck it up?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:10 |
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# ? May 9, 2024 17:37 |
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AITA for refusing to go to my female co-workers party? Throw away because this probably won't go over well. A female co-worker of mine is throwing a party, but I declined her invitation. When she asked me why, I made up some excuse because I knew the real reason would probably get me in trouble at work. I really have two reasons, but mainly it's because I refuse to participate in any outside of work events with how things are these days. I fear drinking a little too much and saying/doing something that could be interpreted the wrong way and get me fired from work. On top of that, I am semi-attracted to her and she has a boyfriend (I don't believe in platonic relationships). To be fair, I've also declined parties from other male co-workers although I've gone to a few of them because I knew who was going to be there. The issue here though is that this female co-worker has invited me multiple times now to her parties and I've refused them each time for the reasons above and I can tell she is taking it personally, but I refuse to give in. Still, AITA in this situation?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:14 |
Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I tell my new roommates that they need to suck it up? At first I thought this was just going to be some terminally kinky girl refusing to stop screaming in agony while being loudly whipped in the kitchen, but what kind of roommates can't stand even the idea of a dick quietly coming out in a locked room in the middle of the night?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:15 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to go to my female co-workers party? NTA
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:15 |
My (21M) girlfriend (19F) Photoshops her Instagram pictures for hours and it’s a major turnoff for mequote:My girlfriend fits the mold of the typical blonde sorority girl who goes out all the time and posts Snapchat stories with girls she later says she can’t stand. I’m her first ever boyfriend of a long line of thirsty boys who’d invite her over to have sex then never talk to her again unless they’re horny.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:16 |
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HIJK posted:Dress is inappropriate, don’t flash your navel at guests unless its your own wedding and you and your fiance are into that. berth el pup Just get the higharden seamstresses to make her a special dress for the occasion.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:17 |
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chitoryu12 posted:My (21M) girlfriend (19F) Photoshops her Instagram pictures for hours and it’s a major turnoff for me She is acquiring skills that will eventually allow her to photoshop a man drinking a can cream corn into historical photos which, to me, is the most major of turn ons.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:19 |
Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to go to my female co-workers party? What does he mean "I don't believe in platonic relationships"? Is he saying he's either got to date you or he's never speaking to you again?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:21 |
My [25 M] friend [26 M] of a few years thinks he's dating a celebrity and is going to ruin his life over it (might not be a catfish)quote:Because the situation is so specific, I am obscuring some details. If something seems pertinent in a comment I will reply.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:24 |
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chitoryu12 posted:What does he mean "I don't believe in platonic relationships"? Is he saying he's either got to date you or he's never speaking to you again? OP forgot to mention that he's Mike Pence.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:30 |
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welcome to hell posted:Now: No matter what other problems this guy has I want to give him props for not giving us a loving novel of his problems. Seeing "this is kinda long" and then it's just three short paragraphs was a pleasant surprise
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:36 |
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Lol this guy sucks: My girlfriend Dana does a couple things that stress me out mainly because they're illegal and I worry about her. quote:She and one of her friends are into "urbex", breaking into abandoned buildings and taking pictures. I don't really get the appeal but whatever. It stresses me out to hear about it so we had an agreement she doesn't tell me when she's going.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:38 |
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My girlfriend is too awesome for me. Please advise.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:40 |
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cumshitter posted:Lol this guy sucks:
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:44 |
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cumshitter posted:Lol this guy sucks: Reddit, please help, my girlfriend is KICKASS!
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:45 |
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chitoryu12 posted:At first I thought this was just going to be some terminally kinky girl refusing to stop screaming in agony while being loudly whipped in the kitchen, but what kind of roommates can't stand even the idea of a dick quietly coming out in a locked room in the middle of the night? She never mentions the roommate's gender, I wonder if it's a case of a dude who thought rooming with a kinky woman in an open relationship would mean they got to hook up all the time.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 18:56 |
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welcome to hell posted:Now: Do pedophiles often wind up remaining infatuated with people even after they mature out of their preferred age range?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:18 |
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chitoryu12 posted:a dick quietly coming out in a locked room in the middle of the night this is quite haunting
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:20 |
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ffoecaf posted:She never mentions the roommate's gender, I wonder if it's a case of a dude who thought rooming with a kinky woman in an open relationship would mean they got to hook up all the time. Eh, NTA and tell them to suck it up. Or counter by saying she doesn't want them using the bathroom when she is in because it makes her sick or something aggressively hostile to them. Who the gently caress cares what you do behind closed doors jesus
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:20 |
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WIBTA if I asked my GF not to wear the high heels I gave her?quote:Last year, my GF and I were on study tour with the whole class. We were shopping as she saw these wonderful high heels : black and with an at least 3in heel.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:21 |
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cumshitter posted:Lol this guy sucks: It sounds like she's doing a lot of good community work and for some reason the one incident that is defending womens' rights was the "last straw"?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:22 |
FilthyImp posted:Who the gently caress cares what you do behind closed doors FilthyImp posted:jesus
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:23 |
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My [21M] wife [43F] cheated on me, she apoligized and wants me to give her a second chancequote:My wife and I have been together for 3 years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. She’s been a good partner withme since we got together, but I have also tried to be the best partner for her too. I help around the house as much as possible; which inclued doing chores like cleaning, taking care of our daughter, and working around the house. Our relationship was good, things around the house were good, and our sex life was good too.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:27 |
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QuarkJets posted:Do pedophiles often wind up remaining infatuated with people even after they mature out of their preferred age range? It depends on the person. Opportunistic pedophiles can remain infatuated with people as they mature out of the lower age range, while Exclusive pedophiles will lose interest.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:34 |
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chitoryu12 posted:What does he mean "I don't believe in platonic relationships"? Is he saying he's either got to date you or he's never speaking to you again? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8kpYm-6nuE
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:37 |
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dudeness posted:She is acquiring skills that will eventually allow her to photoshop a man drinking a can cream corn into historical photos which, to me, is the most major of turn ons.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:38 |
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SpaceViking posted:It depends on the person. Opportunistic pedophiles can remain infatuated with people as they mature out of the lower age range, while Exclusive pedophiles will lose interest. You know I always figured there was something like this but I never really wanted to go looking.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:40 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to go to my female co-workers party? Do not get involved with your coworkers personal lives. He seems weird but it’s also smart to never get involved with your coworkers personal lives. This isn’t even a “this day and age” thing, that’s an anytime thing.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:42 |
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Piell posted:WIBTA if I asked my GF not to wear the high heels I gave her? Obviously the sensible answer is to just get therapy to overcome insecurities like this, but the better answer is to wear 6 inch platform shoes and keep escalating until you're eventually just on stilts 24/7
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:46 |
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AITA For enabling my boyfriends fantasyquote:Throwaway because I post quite a lot on my main.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:47 |
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AITA for (WITH PRIOR CONSENT) taking advantage of my girlfriend's friskiness when she's been drinking?quote:I (25M) have been completely sober for about nine months now. My girlfriend (24F) and I have been together about six months, and she has helped immensely with my sobriety. She doesn't drink that often herself, but definitely does not make it a point to avoid alcohol. She will drink moderate amounts maybe twice a month. That's fine, it works perfectly for both of us.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:50 |
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Tythas posted:AITA for (WITH PRIOR CONSENT) taking advantage of my girlfriend's friskiness when she's been drinking? What good is an outside opinion gonna do here? She said it’s ok so if you aren’t comfortable with it that’s your issue my man. Anyway NTA.
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 19:57 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to go to my female co-workers party? "drat, its like I really like Eric, but he never wants to hang out. Maybe he's just too much of a weirdo loser for me."
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:01 |
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I winder if it's a self-esteem thing. Like "well, she wont just jump in my lap and ask me to eat her out when she's sober so maybe..."
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:04 |
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Tythas posted:AITA for (WITH PRIOR CONSENT) taking advantage of my girlfriend's friskiness when she's been drinking? I want to say this is bait but honestly he sounds like the kind of guy who is that dumb
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:06 |
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cumshitter posted:Lol this guy sucks: Boyfriend: Please, you've got to stop breaking into abandoned buildings and singing Dragula. Dana: Dead I am the one Boyfriend: Please. Dana: (spraypaints conquering the worm on a pro life billboard.)
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:07 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [28F] wife to be is accusing me [26M] of giving her yeast infection either because I’m uncircumcised or because I gave her oral. Wants me to get circumcised and only have missionary sex in marriage. What...what did God do to you on that walk?
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:09 |
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Tythas posted:AITA For enabling my boyfriends fantasy Every. Goddamn. Time!
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:09 |
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HMS Beagle posted:Boyfriend: Please, you've got to stop breaking into abandoned buildings and singing Dragula. This girl loving rules Help, I'm a loser poindexter and my girlfriend is too bad rear end for me
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# ? Jun 24, 2019 20:09 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to go to my female co-workers party? This guy is an rear end in a top hat, but he's like, handling his assholeness well or something. He's an rear end in a top hat for "not believing in platonic relationships" and for being the type of guy that even could conceivably drink too much and say something stupid at a co-workers party (just don't drink or have a single beer socially it's not that hard). But knowing that he wants to get drunk and creep on coworker, he's staying away. That's pretty smart and good, so I'll give him an NTA for his handling of it. I kinda feel like I wouldn't be friends with him, though.
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