Pick posted:

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Ever since we started getting intimate and she noticed I wasn't circumcised she always made it a point to ask me why I wasn't and to tell me that I should have it done. Basically she's always made me feel very uncomfortable and ashamed with it.

I personally don't think I want to have it done but I feel like she won't start treating me better unless I do it. Any advice?

I just wanted to add that she doesn't treat me well in general; I'm an immigrant and she often makes me feel somewhat bad about it. She'll say things like "shut up, you're not even from here" when I try to have opinions on law or politics of the USA. She acts like she's joking but it isn't really funny to me deep down.

I don't like the way she treats me and sometimes I think about if there's people out there that might treat me better, but I don't think women find me attractive and I can't imagine any other woman ever wanting me. I've never had any other girlfriends but I feel like most women I would meet would have similar attitudes.

Maybe it's my fault too, I put up with a lot of it when I could just be alone because I have a pretty high sex drive and don't want to resort to things like soliciting working girls etc.

chitoryu12 posted:

My girlfriend wants me to get circumcised

chitoryu12 posted:

Pizza guy made me think of this dude who's only eaten pizza for 25 years (despite being a diabetic who regularly suffers from low blood sugar and has crashed his car from blacking out before) because of childhood trauma.

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I wasn't okay with their relationship from the start, she's known him since he was 4 for crying out loud, I have repeatedly reiterated to her that he should be out there meeting and interacting with girls his own age, and she as someone who I trusted dearly should not be betraying that trust by starting an initmate relationship with my child.

I found out indriectly when looking through his phone when he was napping after studying all night and saw the texts he and her had been exchanging with her almost always being the instigating party. Needless to say I was furious and went to speak with her immediately, she had the audacity to call me out for invading both my son's and her private life and has since declared it's none of my business.

We've been on pretty icy terms since then and she frequently comes over to the house to hang out with him, he's taken her out spending his limited income on dinner dates with her and despite my objections he won't listen to reason. His studies have suffered as a direct result of this relationship and I'm just not comfortable with what she's doing to with my son.

TL;DR; : Former close friend has started an intimate relationship with my son that is having a net negative effect on his life that I am not comfortable with. How should I proceed?

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I really wish I could, but I'm trying to be civil about this, I know he feels something for her and she's a very attractive women and you know how boys his age are, but if I ban her from the house he'll just circumvent it and go to her apartment or let her in when I'm at work.

The one thing I don't understand is why neither my son, nor my would-be friend seems to care about the longer-term implications of this relationship, the time he's spending with her is leaving him little time to focus on the other aspects of his life and he often tries to cram everything he misses during the day in at night which has led to him being exhausted.

I'm just really concerned and I'm frightened that my little boy is going to suffer as a result of this relationship, I do not foresee a way in which it pans out well, even disregarding my personal relationship with her, she's old enough to his mom and that sort of thing has never really turned out well long term.

chitoryu12 posted:

[UPDATE] I [29M] Caught My Wife [27F] Letting Our Male Neighbor Rub Lotion On Her Pregnant Stomach

Megillah Gorilla posted:

So, was he ruined by porn?

Or by anime?

chitoryu12 posted:

My girlfriend wants me to get circumcised

cumshitter posted:

Even assuming anyone cared the best you can do as "that pizza guy" is probably fall short of Mr. Big Mac AKA Don Gorske, who at least had a multinational brand to piggy back off of.

chitoryu12 posted:

For some reason the r/relationship_advice subreddit has way better stories.

My boyfriend (21M) hates my (20F) vagina with a passion

Best Bi Geek Squid posted:

that's how I found out both that I was not circumcised and that some penises have horrifying flesh jackets

Chomp8645 posted:

It sounds like you are still confused.

Best Bi Geek Squid posted:

I thought I was circumcised until I was like 17. I understood that circumcision removes the foreskin. I just thought that the head of my penis was my foreskin.

PHIZ KALIFA posted:

Fascists will reproduce exclusively with uterine-bearing transmen rather than soil their lineage with the weakness of womanflesh.

Grape posted:

I don't really think porn does as much mind warping as people say, not severe cases anyway.

Now ANIME porn on the other hand...

i vomit kittens posted:

if you thought that you were circumcised and believed that the head of your dick is your foreskin... is your schlong just a geometric cylinder?

Grape posted:

I don't really think porn does as much mind warping as people say, not severe cases anyway.

Now ANIME porn on the other hand...

Best Bi Geek Squid posted:

I thought that there was still a tip - a featureless one that matched the circumference of the main shaft. like if you just cut off the squishy part of the head

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I'm a 21 year old with limited sexual experience mostly due to a very religious upbringing and not being able to let loose till college.

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I've only really had 3 sexual partners 2 of which have been long term gf, so safe to say i'm not very versed in hook up culture and the such.

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Okay so I'm on this tinder date with this girl (our first and after tonight last date) who happens to be in the same program as me and we've hit it off, she made multiple references to loving during dinner and on the ride home so I was quite aroused and excited by the time we hit my place. We're making out while heading up to my room and she whispers in my ear "I want you to gently caress my rear end"

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Now i'm not sure about most guys (which is why i'm on here asking) but to me gently caress my rear end sounds like she wants butt stuff, I wasn't sure at that point so when we get to my room, starting tearing off each others clothes and making out in my head I still wasn't going to attempt butt stuff since I guess the vulva is located very near the rear end when in doggy so she could be using short hand. When she gets into position however she moans "gently caress my rear end, yes gently caress my rear end" and that was enough for drunk horny me to be convinced (maybe anal sex was more common in hook up culture was the thought in my head due to knowing christian girls in my high school who would do anal instead of regular sex to maintain being a virgin) so I went for the poop chute. Immediately she yelped and says stop so I stop immediately since I'm not a rapist and jump off the bed and she's screaming at me over how retarded i have to be to gently caress the wrong hole. I told her I thought she was telling me to gently caress her rear end in a top hat when she was saying gently caress my rear end and she called me autistic for taking it literally. I get a little testy and say it's not that common to say "gently caress my rear end" as something meaning regular sex and why she couldn't just say gently caress my pussy instead and that made her really mad so she got dressed while yelling at me claiming I did it on purpose and left.

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She's in the same program as me so I'm kinda worried she's going to start going around telling other girls and maybe my friends that I tried to gently caress the wrong hole on purpose but honestly I just thought she meant rear end in a top hat when she said "gently caress my rear end". Am I the rear end in a top hat here?

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edit: added clarification of why i mentioned hookup culture and fixed up some minor writing mistakes

chitoryu12 posted:

AITA for farting on my boyfriend during sexy time?

Haifisch posted:

AITA for taking a comment too literally during sexy times?

Haifisch posted:

AITA for taking a comment too literally during sexy times?

goethe.cx posted:

uh yeah, “gently caress my rear end” does not mean regular doggystyle

Haifisch posted:

AITA for taking a comment too literally during sexy times?

luxury handset posted:

just kramering right into the butthole

Pick posted:

really think about how you'd feel if someone twice as strong as you did that to you. take a second and genuinely think about it like a person.

chitoryu12 posted:

My girlfriend wants me to get circumcised

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My GF and I were out at a club to see a DJ. We were dancing, drinking, having a good time. My GF has been doing yoga for a few years and when she’s especially sauced she likes to throw in some splits and stuff on the dance floor. Well, we got sauced and as she’s doing her 3rd split or so a guy comes up and “makes it rain” on her - literally like 4 dollars. Obviously he was making a joke that she was dancing like a stripper. Whatever. This happened and in the moment I just loving started laughing. I thought it was legitimately funny in the moment. My girlfriend gets up and says “we’re loving leaving” and basically storms out. Get outside and she’s basically telling me that I should’ve punched the dude out or something and that he made her feel like a whore and I’m an rear end in a top hat for laughing. I’m loving 31, I’m not punching anyone out at a bar unless they’re actually getting physical or threatening to get physical. While I agree that it might’ve been somewhat demeaning, I also think it was objectively funny. AITA?

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...Get outside and she’s basically telling me that I should’ve punched the dude...

chitoryu12 posted:

For some reason the r/relationship_advice subreddit has way better stories.

My boyfriend (21M) hates my (20F) vagina with a passion

Lucid Nonsense posted:

I am so glad I grew up with woods porn rather than the internet.