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Sagebrush posted:2) if you think that black kids only have black parents and fat parents only have fat kids i think you should go outside for a bit This drama idiot ought to transport themselves to another world... a world called outside, fool!
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thatguy posted:the fact is she should have never handled it openly via email, that is the nuclear option. There's a hierarchy of how you handle bullshit from cunts in a professional environment, and she never even talked to her boss about it, just a colleague. The moment Mary climbed into her toilet stall to check if she was taking a dump was the moment the OP should have documented with HR. That is just crazy.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:03
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Jerry Cotton posted:All old people suck. therobit posted:White and has money, no longer a social pariah, FYGM. Does that help? Yea not that super complex really. Tons of people in the LGBTQ movement as a whole suck rear end because they A) have always been in privileged positions despite having to face discrimination in other ways and/or B) are VERY focused on a narrow assimilationist view of 'progress' where the goal of all queer people is to get a nice suburban home with a spouse and 2.5 kids. Unfortunately what with capitalism being a cancer even among the oppressed those people tend to be in leadership positions in the community due to wealth, so you get a lot of 'LGBTQ' groups that are, say, more than happy to toss the 'T' under the bus as soon as the fight for progress becomes more complex than 'we want to get married and adopt kids'. It's really no different than countless other groups deal with, it's like when you see some older respected feminist figure all 'well I don't know why we're worrying so much about sex workers' rights in feminist communities honestly' or whatever, they're just being old and kinda lovely because it's not really an issue that affects them any more and they don't...give a poo poo?
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Jul 8, 2019 04:04
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thatguy posted:nah I just really don't get it, I'll be the first to admit it. I don't understand the dynamic between old trans and new trans, because old trans dudes spend all their time trying to pass with varying success while new trans might or might not, sometimes they'll just self-identify as whatever they feel fits them. But I also don't understand the standard bigotry between old gays and trans people either, because you'd think if there was one group unwilling to immediately discriminate against an already discriminated group you'd think it'd be gay dudes who grew up in the 70s and 80s. There's a long and storied history of formerly-persecuted minorities pulling up the ladder once they've climbed to a respectable levels of society.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:08
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shovelbum posted:I've never lived in a state that could afford much supervision of teachers lol That's the funny thing because I'm pretty sure states like Texas don't pay teachers much, or fund schools well, but apparently the resources are there for making sure their backwards rear end textbooks are followed lol.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:14
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thatguy posted:nah I just really don't get it, I'll be the first to admit it. I don't understand the dynamic between old trans and new trans, because old trans dudes spend all their time trying to pass with varying success while new trans might or might not, sometimes they'll just self-identify as whatever they feel fits them. But I also don't understand the standard bigotry between old gays and trans people either, because you'd think if there was one group unwilling to immediately discriminate against an already discriminated group you'd think it'd be gay dudes who grew up in the 70s and 80s. Usually people are doing the best they can to relieve dysphoria, but what makes someone dysphoric varies from person to person. Also, it's more acceptable to be non-conforming to gender roles, I think, so if someone is able to get taken seriously as the gender they identify as without having to go brawny he-man or super feminine sometimes they're just not going to bother.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:18
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chitoryu12 posted:He was "starving" an hour after eating a foot-long and admits to an eating addiction, so I'm chalking it up to a serious lack of self-control and being 400+ pounds. That sounds like a legit medical problem. Jesus, I’m 400+ and I’d be done after a 6” (or maybe a footlong if I hadn’t had lunch). Hell I had a large fast food combo about six hours ago and I’m still loving stuffed.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:19
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Haifisch posted:AITA for pretending to be gay so I could make non-romantic female friends? Making platonic friendships with women as a straight dude is easy, at least once the teen years are gone. So I'm not really sure what this dude's issue is, but ten bucks says he must be coming off a lot less platonic in his socializing than he thinks he is. thatguy posted:I tell women I'm gay when I'm really just totally focused on getting our business running smoothly ...why don't you just... do business?
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Jul 8, 2019 04:22
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for referring to a coworker as “the larger one”?
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Pvt.Scott posted:That sounds like a legit medical problem. Jesus, I’m 400+ and I’d be done after a 6” (or maybe a footlong if I hadn’t had lunch). Hell I had a large fast food combo about six hours ago and I’m still loving stuffed.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:25
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sweet thursday posted:*drama teacher pokes his head through the house curtain before the show* This is the actual internal monologue of half of the high-school drama teachers on Earth; the other half is burnouts or just hilariously laissez-faire. This doesn't affect the quality of the school's drama program, just the degree of micromanagement.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:27
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Me [28F] with my fiance [32M] -- I feel like I'm a hostage to his dream wedding.quote:I don't know precisely where to start, so I'm sorry if this rambles. I guess I'll start with explaining myself. I have always hated both most everything about weddings and being the center of attention at events. I can remember several events in my childhood that cemented this: being forced to be a flower girl for an uncle and hating it as a small child, being forced to have large, fancy birthday parties by my father (parents divorced; my Mom respected my wishes on this stuff, my father did not and it eventually cased a huge rift), etc. I did not walk at graduation (HS or college) for similar reasons, and my father and other family members blew up at me, etc. So similar things have been an issue my entire life, I think. I'm not shy or anything (was as a kid) but I am introverted and not keen on being the center of any "day" in particular. I don't want "my day" and really hate the whole idea of a wedding spotlight on me in any way, shape, or form. I also hate a lot of marriage/wedding traditions: diamonds, roses, frill/lace/cutesy stuff at all, white clothes, matching clothes, etc. I don't enjoy planning events or attending big events.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:30
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How is anyone involved in theater professionally under the impression that you even remotely need to cast like you're making a film.
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MasBrillante posted:I thought this only happened on tv. LOL at a school spending money on educational resources. Not in MY America. I took Home Economics and had to do the baby thing. The school didn’t have enough of the dolls to go around, so I had to carry around a gallon jug of water with some food dye in it. It was signed by the teacher so I had to look after it/wouldn’t be easy to make a replacement. Since I’m a dude, my entire child-rearing experience involved dodging every single friend I had trying to constantly dump Scott JR (it was a girl) out of my hands. She only died twice.
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:Me [28F] with my fiance [32M] -- I feel like I'm a hostage to his dream wedding.  for being excessively “funky”
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Jul 8, 2019 04:31
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Pvt.Scott posted:I took Home Economics and had to do the baby thing. The school didn’t have enough of the dolls to go around, so I had to carry around a gallon jug of water with some food dye in it. It was signed by the teacher so I had to look after it/wouldn’t be easy to make a replacement. Since I’m a dude, my entire child-rearing experience involved dodging every single friend I had trying to constantly dump Scott JR (it was a girl) out of my hands. She only died twice. Ohhh noooo. Scott, Jr RIP
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Jul 8, 2019 04:32
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Pvt.Scott posted:That sounds like a legit medical problem. Jesus, I’m 400+ and I’d be done after a 6” (or maybe a footlong if I hadn’t had lunch). Hell I had a large fast food combo about six hours ago and I’m still loving stuffed.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:34
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rip in peace, pvt scotts food dye baby. I’m [F 28] at a crossroads following nanny cam incident [M 32 together 10 married 3] [1 baby] quote:Let me start off by saying I had the best relationship. Best friends in love who made an awesome baby, life was excellent.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:35
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Grape posted:Making platonic friendships with women as a straight dude is easy, at least once the teen years are gone. I get asked because I'm an ok looking dude, I'm under 40, we own our own business with employees and I work in an outdoor field in National Parks and forests and get to travel a lot. I work closely with my partner (who's gay), and get sick of the conversations that are long and drawn out explaining our odd couple dynamic, so it's just easier to say we're both gay so I don't have to worry about it again. If we did tons of small purchases like a brick and mortar or whatever, it'd be different but we spend 2-4 months per contract usually so we spend time enough we have to routinely deal with the office people. Because most of the parks and forests we work for are in rural areas we're new blood. It's just out of expedience.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:36
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Is there a complete index of fight man's antics?
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Jul 8, 2019 04:37
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nankeen posted:i believe the fighting manlet is real I believe in him. I knew a little manlet with three baby mamas who would constantly get in fights at parties and get wrecked. He’d also get wrecked for loving other people’s girlfriends.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:37
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My [32F] husband [33M] doesn't want our nanny to teach our daughter Spanish. Feel like I'm seeing an ugly side of him.quote:]My husband Eric and I have been married for 5 years. We have one child, a four-year-old little lady named Katherine. We both work busy jobs but I'm a writer and I usually work from home or from my office down the street. Our live-in nanny, Ella [45F], has been with us for about six months. She is INCREDIBLE at her job, and she's honestly become part of the family.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:46
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Spaced God posted:Is there a complete index of fight man's antics? I believe it’s all under this one account? https://www.reddit.com/u/IJustwantmygirl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
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Jul 8, 2019 04:47
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Spaced God posted:Is there a complete index of fight man's antics? Here you go https://www.reddit.com/user/IJustwantmygirl However, the saga may have come to an end quote:I’ve been banned for some reason from most subreddits. I’ll still be around and I’ll post here and there on ones I’m not banned from but other than that I can’t post anymore so I guess I can’t update you guys much on what goes on in my life anymore. I’m sorry to disappoint. I know some of you found amusement in my misfortunes. Farewell to you all. I’ll be here and there. We’ve had fun over the past year. I’ll see you guys on the other side
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:My [32F] husband [33M] doesn't want our nanny to teach our daughter Spanish. Feel like I'm seeing an ugly side of him. If your first instinct is to say he's racist, chances are you've seen other things too. Gotta love all the secret racists that show up in relationships posts.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:50
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MasBrillante posted:Ohhh noooo. Scott, Jr RIP Eh it wasn’t really a big deal because of sexism. I wasn’t expected to actually do good at any of the child rearing stuff in class because obviously I’d be working and my wife would be handling the kids! Bringing in dead water babies just got me a roll of the eyes from the teacher.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:52
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:My [32F] husband [33M] doesn't want our nanny to teach our daughter Spanish. Feel like I'm seeing an ugly side of him. gently caress this guy. I wish I had been taught Spanish when I was a kid because lol at doing it now.
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Jul 8, 2019 04:52
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If you don't wanna raise your kids at least let the person you hire to do it do it without your worthless input you loving guillotine bait.
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Another nanny story then! My (41F) neighbors are making my nanny (24F) really uncomfortable and I am not sure where to go from here. quote:So I am a single mom of 2 twin boys that well call Luther and Donovan (3). My husband died of cancer 4 months after they were born after being diagnosed for 48 hours. It was obviously a huge shock but luckily I have amazing family and friends that all rallied together and took care of me and my boys. I still see a therapist but the years are passing and can feel the pain fading more and more with each year.
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Jul 8, 2019 05:01
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:Another nanny story then! god damnit this is the worst.
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:Another nanny story then!  I hope the nanny sticks printouts of those messages in the mailbox of those assholes.
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Jul 8, 2019 05:04
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:My [32F] husband [33M] doesn't want our nanny to teach our daughter Spanish. Feel like I'm seeing an ugly side of him. "Te disculpas con la ninera o quiero el divorcio." Here's another good one for dumbfuck old dad: "Mas linguas, mas dinero."
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:So I am a single mom of 2 twin boys that well call Luther and Donovan why, though
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Jul 8, 2019 05:13
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Sagebrush posted:why, though At least they're names and not letters or acronyms
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Jul 8, 2019 05:18
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MarcusSA posted:gently caress this guy. I wish I had been taught Spanish when I was a kid because lol at doing it now. Spanish for an English speaker in the US is learning a foreign language on easy mode. You'll always have an accent but if you start with a community college class or two it is easy to get to where you can at least communicate. Spelling is super easy when compared with english and you don't have to learn a new script.
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Jul 8, 2019 05:21
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Luthers a good name if you happen to be the loving devil. which as it turns out...
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:Another nanny story then! Why you would just choose to up and move right away is beyond me, but please, post on the Meetup app why you are leaving and name names.
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therobit posted:Spanish for an English speaker in the US is learning a foreign language on easy mode. You'll always have an accent but if you start with a community college class or two it is easy to get to where you can at least communicate. Spelling is super easy when compared with english and you don't have to learn a new script. This is false.
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ScentOfAnOtaku posted:Why you would just choose to up and move right away is beyond me In a few years, those bitches will be the parents in her kids' schools. She'll have to attend birthday parties and other crap and deal with the endless backbiting and petty squabbling. And, if she's ostracised, it's not like the kids would be immune to it.
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FilthyImp posted:Because as a single mom in an (apparently) affluent area, the local bullshit just gets ingrained i to every bit of your life. As lovely as it is this is correct. She absolutely shouldn’t have to move but it’s probably the best choice.
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