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DragQueenofAngmar posted:if you have a destination wedding, you’re saying that the location you say your vows is more important to you than the people witnessing the ceremony/attending the reception. which I guess is fine, but it seems weird to me, especially since the expense of a destination wedding could almost always fund a local party and also an awesome honeymoon. the party to celebrate your marriage is something that you presumably would want your closest friends and family at, regardless of their net worth, and then you go to an amazing place with your new spouse, after having celebrated with the people you love most. it’s odd that what you want most is a party in this one specific place, and who makes it doesn’t really matter to you I had understood that for the bride and groom, destination weddings were often cheaper than regular weddings, since the cost of travel and so on is offset by the fact that they are much smaller and held at an all inclusive (where guests are effectively paying for their own booze).
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My (32F) boyfriend (35M) got in an accident in my car, didn't tell me, and now refuses to do anything about it.quote:Throwaway because this poo poo is embarrassing af. UPDATE: (35M) CrashBandiChild claims I was merely setting a fire for attention. quote:You guys? I can't.
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Jul 26, 2019 04:40
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I swear we had the girl's perspective on the boyfriend destroying the BJJ belt before, months if not years ago. I can't find it. Found it: https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3792330&pagenumber=4886&perpage=40#post496191984 I (20f) just got my blackbelt in BJJ. My BF (24m) of 6 months took it had it stitched with pink Japanese characters that he doesn't even know what they mean. He wont apologize as he was "thinking of me."
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Jul 26, 2019 04:43
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quote:*SECOND UPDATE* So. He contacted. The text I just got was "we have the kind of love that was forged in adventure, and sealed in the bedroom" What!!? No mention of the accident or the fight? HOW DO I EVEN RESPOND TO THIS?
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Jul 26, 2019 04:50
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PancakeTransmission posted:Found it: https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3792330&pagenumber=4886&perpage=40#post496191984 holy poo poo, I searched reddit with like twenty different search terms. You're a hero.
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Jul 26, 2019 04:54
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Smirking_Serpent posted:holy poo poo, I searched reddit with like twenty different search terms. You're a hero.
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Jul 26, 2019 04:55
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:if you have a destination wedding, you’re saying that the location you say your vows is more important to you than the people witnessing the ceremony/attending the reception. which I guess is fine, but it seems weird to me, especially since the expense of a destination wedding could almost always fund a local party and also an awesome honeymoon. the party to celebrate your marriage is something that you presumably would want your closest friends and family at, regardless of their net worth, and then you go to an amazing place with your new spouse, after having celebrated with the people you love most. it’s odd that what you want most is a party in this one specific place, and who makes it doesn’t really matter to you You could offer to pay for close friends and family to come, if needed. I imagine it's about getting married in a cool place while discouraging everyone from attending except the closest friends and family
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Jul 26, 2019 05:02
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"kind of love that was forged in adventure, and sealed in the bedroom" I'm sure some variation of this could fit in the title because just lmfao
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Jul 26, 2019 05:13
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DemoneeHo posted:My (32F) boyfriend (35M) got in an accident in my car, didn't tell me, and now refuses to do anything about it. This guy thinks he's hot poo poo in a champagne glass when he's actually cold diarrhea in a dixie cup, what a pretentious narcissistic rear end in a top hat
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Jul 26, 2019 05:15
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Xik posted:"kind of love that was forged in adventure, and sealed in the bedroom" /r/relationships: forged in adventure, sealed in the bedroom, crashed in the parking lot
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Jul 26, 2019 05:15
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to use a “trading” system in my own home? As soon as the TP ran out, I would poo poo on the brothers bed and wipe my rear end with his clothes; everything would change very quickly one way or another.
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Jul 26, 2019 05:34
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MisterOblivious posted:Even before HIPPA it was wildly unethical for a therapist to even acknowledge somebody was a patient. HIPPA gives it teeth. Language is constantly evolving, and if you say it the wrong way long enough, it becomes literally, the right way to say it. :101:
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Jul 26, 2019 05:39
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DemoneeHo posted:My (32F) boyfriend (35M) got in an accident in my car, didn't tell me, and now refuses to do anything about it. quote:Speaking of his mother, I did listen to you and craft a very detailed email to her with him CC'd. I explained what happened, and then asked her for his Driver's License number and policy name and ID number just in case its needed. Her response was, "I am very sorry that you are having to deal with all this, but I don't see how this is our problem if it was your car".
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Jul 26, 2019 05:41
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Turtlicious posted:Language is constantly evolving, and if you say it the wrong way long enough, it becomes literally, the right way to say it. :101: quoting this in the hope that it becomes a valid smiley in a few years
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Jul 26, 2019 05:46
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QuarkJets posted:You could offer to pay for close friends and family to come, if needed. I imagine it's about getting married in a cool place while discouraging everyone from attending except the closest friends and family I think this question is hugely variable depending on you, your friends, and your families' income. But most of the people who make it work are all rich so  Edit: that's not an emote?  but it's extremely class dependant that you can just assume the closest are able to come because they're closest. No amount of closeness will make your poor family able to afford a wedding in the Bahamas or even a few states away.
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Jul 26, 2019 05:51
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quote:AITA For comparing my wife to a cow? 
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MF_James posted:As soon as the TP ran out, I would poo poo on the brothers bed and wipe my rear end with his clothes; everything would change very quickly one way or another. Brother is a control freak and I don't understand why anyone in that house is letting him get away with it. bell jar posted:quoting this in the hope that it becomes a valid smiley in a few years   
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Jul 26, 2019 06:12
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"spreads happiness like a cow spreads its milk." What kinda cows you been looking at????
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Jul 26, 2019 06:20
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PancakeTransmission posted:Well at least we know where he learned this attitude Just gonna reply to this email with the subject line "your crimes"
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Jul 26, 2019 06:21
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Girlfriend [26F] Broke Up With Me [28M] and is Furious I Went No Contact Without Telling Her. Hey relationships: I've been sitting on this for a while, but I need some solid advice. I was seeing my partner for over a year and a half at the time of the breakup. It was incredibly sudden, and what followed was a rollercoaster of emotions and a week where I was being strung along while my ex wouldn't talk to me. She was convinced I had cheated while I hadn't. Eventually, a sit-down conversation was had. It did not go well. I don't want to go into too much detail, but it was very berating and there was an audience of friends alongside her. When it was clear we weren't seeing eye to eye, she told me to "get the f*$& out". She went to cry with her friends, and I left her apartment key on the table. I immediately stopped communication at this point, despite her sending me a text asking if I got home safe, and a follow-up text the next morning stating that "In case it wasn't clear, we're done." That is when I blocked and deleted. The next few days I received messages from all members of her family asking me to talk to her and reconcile. Apparently she had gone home to her family and was stricken with grief. Her family messaged me saying that this "misunderstanding can be fixed" and to talk to her. It eventually accumulated into her changing her number to contact me again, telling me she still loves me and doesn't want to break up, but that I should let her know if "I want to make the breakup permanent." A week later, I received an angry message saying that my family is manipulating me for convincing me to not talk to her, and that she never agreed to No Contact. Therefore I was ghosting her. She then tried to hack my social media (I noticed when my login IPs registered at her apartment). A final call to her parents ended this. Now, almost a year out, I still have trouble dealing with whether or not I should feel guilty. I guess it ultimately comes down to the No Contact rule and whether I should've stated "I'm not talking to you." Tl;dr: Ex breaks up with me after bringing her friends to the public execution, gets mad when I won't reply afterwards, and has her family attempt to establish contact before harassing me over text for going no contact without "authorization." Should I feel guilty for not contacting? Edit: Since a few commenters are mentioning that she reached out to apologize, I should make it clear that never once did she actually apologize. She simply said she didn't want to break up, but not once rescinded her accusations or said that she was sorry for what she said and did. And yes, some things she said during the breakup were incredibly harsh. Edit 2: Since there's a lot of conversation going around about me feeling "guilty", let me better explain. What I want to ask is whether or not I did the right thing, and whether or not I should've sat down after the fact and told her that No Contact will occur. I should also add that after the harassment she sent me, I don't feel guilty for No Contact, as her messages clearly showed me that I wouldn't have wanted to talk to her again anyway.
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Jul 26, 2019 06:28
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Girlfriend [26F] Broke Up With Me [28M] and is Furious I Went No Contact Without Telling Her.
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I (F21) starting seeing a guy (M25) for a couple of weeks and I do not enjoy the sex even with opening up about what I like. How do I talk to him more about it without upsetting him? Am I shallow for not wanting to see him again cause it’s bad sex? So we’ve caught up and hanged out about three Rome’s now. Each time it leads to sex. First time I thought it was just nerves but I’m always left unfinished. We’ve talked about what we both like and I cater to him but it seems like he doesn’t do the same for me. It feels like there’s no effort involved, he started to use energy but it drops straight away and just lies completely on top of me. Exactly like that scene of Will from the inbetweeners. Every time we have sex i have to ask him to finish me off or insinuate it, and there’s still no effort. It’s like he’s asleep while doing it. One time he even said “wow that’s a lot of work” afterwards. He’s not blessed downstairs either, and I don’t believe that’s an issue if you know what you’re doing. I’ve tried telling him how I like things but it’s like he doesn’t even want it? Even when we hyped sex up all day over messages. I don’t want to be shallow but sex is important to me and I really like this guy and I want to see how we go but it’s been bugging me. I don’t want him to feel bad if I bring it up. TL;DR: I (F21) like guy M(25). Guy very bad at sex. Tried telling what I like and working around stuff, doesn’t get better. Am I shallow about thinking this could be a reason to not see him again? How do I talk about it without coming across like a bitch?
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Jul 26, 2019 06:33
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:and has hours of downtime (how does that even work?) Actual ceremony is at place A, reception to follow at place B three hours later to give the photographer time to take pictures of all possible combinations of the wedding party and guests time to make the 45 minute trip between the venues.
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Ex sent me all—AND I MEAN ALL—their savings through PayPal. His family wants it back. Do they have a case?quote:Hey gang,
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Geoj posted:Actual ceremony is at place A, reception to follow at place B three hours later to give the photographer time to take pictures of all possible combinations of the wedding party and guests time to make the 45 minute trip between the venues. The wedding party usually pregames before the reception away from the guests, this op has not been to a wedding. It’s normal poo poo.
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chemtrail huffer posted:Ex sent me all—AND I MEAN ALL—their savings through PayPal. His family wants it back. Do they have a case? gently caress that keep it but yes they absolutely could get a lawyer and try and pursue some legal action so just be ready to get a lawyer for your self.
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Jul 26, 2019 07:01
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Turtlicious posted:Language is constantly evolving, and if you say it the wrong way long enough, it becomes literally, the right way to say it. :101: It's hardly any difference than being taught "i can has cheezburger" meme speak during English classes. Sure, whatever, Pennsyltucky teachers that accepted their bullshit have a Pennsyltucky education. I know I'm being prescriptive but I'm never going to accept their bullshit and, frankly, the other 49 and 7/10ths states shouldn't either. They loving wallow in their simplified language like pigs in poo poo in their wrongness until it's warm and comfortable. They have chosen their battle: to fight against the language the rest of the English speaking planet uses. It's a form of language that has has decided to cast off all descriptors or any unnecessary embellishments whatsoever, and make it so simple even a child with an elementary Pennsyltucky education could understand it. It's hardly better than a Pidgin Sorry, let me translate for that last bit for the Pennsyltucky dumbfucks,: "they chosed argue words." Were you not taught what a loving past tense is? It means it happened in the loving past, not the future. Jesus Christ, this isn't difficult. "The car needs washed" is mixing tenses, you idiot. Either the car needs washing in the future or the car is already washed. You can't mix the two in the same sentence and say "the car needs washed" like you assholes do. It's one or the loving other. Either the car needs washing, in the future, or the car has been washed in the past. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Jul 26, 2019 07:09
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It’s not textbook English but nobody who’s a native speaker actually speaks textbook English
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My wife and I just bark at each other and figure out what we want based on the tone we use.
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The car needs red, cuz red wunz go fasta 
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I had a tweaker in a giant diesel pickup sideswipe my car last year as I was driving a date to the movies. I was like, "Oh well. Insurance will take care of it." My date was like, "Oh no he loving didn't! Gun it!" So we chased him down, gunning through several red lights (in a more suburban part of LA at 11 PM) until somehow I run down his massive diesel work truck with my dinky Elantra. My date and I step out of the car and my date starts taking pics of the plate and parts of the car with my paint on it while shouting at them and I walk up and calmly say, "Hey, hope you're all right." Anyway we didn't get a police report or anything and because the tweaker dodged his insurance agency's calls for months I got a de facto judgment and a full refund of my deductible. No dash cam, no police report, just his word against mine and I was the only one to speak with the adjusters. That guy is a loving idiot for dodging their calls.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:The car needs red, cuz red wunz go fasta You forgot to gently caress up the tense: To translate this statement: "The car need redded", cuz red wunz go fasta "
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MisterOblivious posted:It's hardly any difference than being taught "i can has cheezburger" meme speak during English classes. You are very angry about things that don't matter.
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HMS Beagle posted:I feel we've seen one exactly like this before but it's still funny. One of these AGAIN? Lol Thinking of it, are there any posts like *she gets diploma at uni* and *dude signs diploma with black sharpie*
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MisterOblivious posted:It's hardly any difference than being taught "i can has cheezburger" meme speak during English classes. This says a lot more about you and nothing about people who speak a regional dialect. Also, your views on pidgins, creoles, vernacular languages - yeah get hosed (or get to be hosed) you pedantic little tightwad.
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Jul 26, 2019 08:15
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This might be the weirdest derail.
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the cum needs shat
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teen witch posted:This says a lot more about you and nothing about people who speak a regional dialect. yes, but at least it says it in proper english
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nankeen posted:the cum needs shat The cums must be shat, just as there are Attorneys General or Whoppers Junior.
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