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chitoryu12 posted:My only problem with that shirt is he's pulling out the joke too often. That's a shirt for special occasions a few times a year. Ugh.
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chitoryu12 posted:AITA for getting my boyfriend a couple of shirts and tanktops with my picture on it and a funny text to wear at the gym? Why doesn't she just put his cock in a cage whenever he goes out, like a normal person?
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FilthyImp posted:Yeah, though that was kind of lovely that she reduced the thought that was put into it to "huurrr cartoons" Yeah sure, it's lame for her to discount his feelings, but I can't understand people who don't bring their partner in important decisions like choosing an engagement ring. It's kind of a huge deal and dude keeping the ring secret and not involving his girlfriend closely is a sign of immaturity on its own. My partner and I have discussed getting married several times and have agreed we choose a ring that works for both of us when the time is right. I would never assume in a scenario like that!
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Chairman Mao posted:Why doesn't she just put his cock in a cage whenever he goes out, like a normal person? I was thinking "pee on him like a normal mammal". Thats the usual way to mark territory.
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Aug 17, 2019 19:36
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Chairman Mao posted:Why doesn't she just put his cock in a cage whenever he goes out, like a normal person? Cock cages can't be seen under clothing. You can't effectively emasculate your boyfriend in public if other people can't see it
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My (26f) maid of honor (26f) is transgender and my BIL (19m) told my in conservative inlaws. My fiancee (28m) is debating about kicking them out of our wedding.quote:Just for backstory my relationship with my in-laws has never been great, they do not approve of me being Jewish and think I am after my fiancee for his money. They were happy to hear we got engaged only because they expected us to get married right away because they thought I was pregnant. They were even more upset when we decided we weren't having kids until we were in our mid 30's. We've been together for 4 years and engaged for 1. My career has been less advanced than his, I am a vet assistant and he is a IT specialist, yet we have had times in our relationship where we have had to help each other out financially. His relationship was rocky when we first got together but has gotten better over the years. He truly does love them but hates how they behave sometimes.
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Aug 17, 2019 20:04
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Just buy him a pink t-shirt with BADMAN on the back.
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DemoneeHo posted:My (26f) maid of honor (26f) is transgender and my BIL (19m) told my in conservative inlaws. My fiancee (28m) is debating about kicking them out of our wedding. It would be handled long ago if they would stop insisting on involving his trash family. He doesn't want them there, honour the husband's wishes.
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AITA for not telling my wife I can speak Mandarin to avoid having to deal with in-laws?quote:This is an issue I'm legitimately torn on.
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Aug 17, 2019 20:13
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AITA for being unnecessarily cruel to my girlfriend in Mario Cart?quote:Literally just happened minutes ago and now she's not talking to me. Nintendo claims yet another relationship
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My boyfriend and I aren't compatible when it comes to many things. Do I change myself? (M48) (F21)quote:These are my questions. If anyone has any thoughts about them, please tell me. My boyfriend and i may not be compatible in what we want out of life. But surely, love is the most important? Or is it not? Should i sacrifice my own wants, is it possible? Should I stay with him? Should I talk to him about this? Is dating for half a year too early to even be thinking like I do? Am I just not worthy? Not sure if we want the same things out of life My age is his life expectancy and vice-versa
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AITA for taking down my son’s door.quote:I(44M) have 16 year old son.He’s a moody teenager now of course. Hm, my son clearly has depression, better punish him more DemoneeHo fucked around with this message at 20:31 on Aug 17, 2019 |
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for being unnecessarily cruel to my girlfriend in Mario Cart? nothing about blue shells here, ruling on the field is NTA
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for not telling my wife I can speak Mandarin to avoid having to deal with in-laws? good loving lord. you do you with your in-laws but how the gently caress did you keep up this lie for several years, and through a marriage with children? out of such a ridiculously selfish reason as "i don't want my inlaws to bother me?" you dug your own grave here mister e: actually this is so absurd, it's so stupid to imagine that she'd never figure out he understood chinese when he absentmindedly commented on something she and her parents said to each other or whatever, that i think it's fake
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Aug 17, 2019 20:24
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for being unnecessarily cruel to my girlfriend in Mario Cart? tbf mario kart is like japanese game show levels of arbitrary, meaningless punishment and humiliation. it's not a game you play with friends you value
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Aug 17, 2019 20:28
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Yeah sure, it's lame for her to discount his feelings, but I can't understand people who don't bring their partner in important decisions like choosing an engagement ring. It's kind of a huge deal and dude keeping the ring secret and not involving his girlfriend closely is a sign of immaturity on its own. People are specifically weird about engagement rings. I've known many people who really want them to be a surprise but also have very specific ideas about what they want. Like... I don't get how those go together, guys! DemoneeHo posted:My (26f) maid of honor (26f) is transgender and my BIL (19m) told my in conservative inlaws. My fiancee (28m) is debating about kicking them out of our wedding. They think a Jewish lady wants him for his money because THOSE GREEDY JEWS. None of the rest of this is a surprise after that first line.
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Aug 17, 2019 20:35
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Yeah sure, it's lame for her to discount his feelings, but I can't understand people who don't bring their partner in important decisions like choosing an engagement ring. It's kind of a huge deal and dude keeping the ring secret and not involving his girlfriend closely is a sign of immaturity on its own. Eh, his feelings are based on a cartoon. They're already suspect. I can't help but think of that deviantart image of a photoshopped a pony in a holocaust setting. And the comment about how now this person can finally relate to the horror and tragedy of genocide because poor pinky pie looked distressed. If you can't relate to other people without needing media or cartoons as a focusing point, you should be alone forever.
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for taking down my son’s door. quote:My son left the party at midnight but came home around 3 am.
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AITA for refusing to replace my brother’s iPad I accidentally broke? A couple hours ago I get home from work and head straight up to my room wanting to crash on my bed. I get there and collapse on my bed on top of the covers. As soon as I hit the bed I fell something hard under my duvet. Pulling it back, I see my brother’s iPad which has great big gap in the display and is bent out of shape. I call him over and ask him what’s going and why the iPad was in my room, under my covers. He said that the plug point in his room was busted so he wanted to charge it in mine since it’s right across the corridor and he didn’t want to go downstairs to the front room. He then asked me to replace it but I refused. My reasoning is that I had no idea the iPad would be there, nor could I expect reasonably that there would be something that doesn’t belong to me in my bed. Also, I wasn’t doing anything out of the ordinary and in the end it was his carelessness that got the iPad broken. He says that if I broke it, I should be paying, and that intent doesn’t matter with these things. My dad is in my side, saying that there’s no way I could’ve known about the iPad. My mum says it’s odd I didn’t lie down under my duvet (not sure why that’s relevant) and that if I had I’d have seen the iPad. She told me it’d be right if I pay half, because even though it was an accident ultimately I did break it. I said no to that as well, because in my eyes I didn’t do anything wrong.
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AITA for getting McDonald’s drive through while my boyfriend was fasting for surgery? My boyfriend was scheduled to have his wisdom teeth removed at 12pm, and he had to fast from 6am that morning. He got up at 5.30am to have breakfast, whereas I slept in until 10am, got up to have a coffee and a shower, and we were in the car at 11.30am to head to the hospital. As we headed off, I realised that not only was I hungry, but I was probably going to have to wait around with him before he went in for his surgery so I wouldn’t have any time to get food once we arrived (ended up waiting 3 hours with him). So as we went past a maccas, I told him I was hungry and could I quickly grab an egg McMuffin in the drive through, and he said yes. As we drove off and I started to eat it, he wound down the windows a bit without saying anything but I didn’t take much notice. I then asked him a random question and he gave me a snarky response. I asked him what was wrong and he said it was inconsiderate of me to have complained about being hungry and then gotten food when he obviously would have been hungry and not allowed to eat, especially because it smelled so strong in the car. I asked him why he said yes to us going through the drive through and he said he’s not going to tell me I can’t eat. I asked him if he expected me to fast with him and he said no but I could have made the effort to get up earlier and eat while he was in the shower or another room so it wasn’t tempting for him. I do understand where he is coming from, however not enough for me to believe I am in the wrong. AITA?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to replace my brother’s iPad I accidentally broke?
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for being unnecessarily cruel to my girlfriend in Mario Cart? This is exactly the right amount of cruel for Mario Kart.
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for taking down my son’s door. Oh, the estranged parents thread is leaking  (Parental door theft popped up for a number of us commiserating in there)
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to replace my brother’s iPad I accidentally broke? if someone hides something in your bed and you flop down on it and break it, it's their fault. it doesn't make any sense why it would be under the covers anyway unless Peaceful Anarchy posted:Ipad was already broken, brother put it there to blame OP so yeah e: possibly also it wasn't broken but he just wanted a new ipad and figured this would be a good trick, like that guy's wife who kept driving over her iphone accidentally the week after a new one went on sale Sagebrush fucked around with this message at 21:27 on Aug 17, 2019 |
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AITA for telling my grandma she looks like Ronald McDonald because she wouldn’t stop telling me I look like a bull with my nose ring in?quote:Edit: getting a lot of comments about this so thought I’d make an edit. My piercing is NOT a septum which makes the weird insult even more stupid. Septum piercings are usually tagged as “looking like a bull” (I don’t agree with that) but I have my hoop in my nostril.
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Sagebrush posted:tbf mario kart is like japanese game show levels of arbitrary, meaningless punishment and humiliation. it's not a game you play with friends you value then especially laugh at the guy who was talking poo poo only to get hit by seven lightning bolts in a single stage
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If you cant play mariokart and poo poo talk and remain friends you weren’t actually friends to begin with
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Sagebrush posted:AITA for telling my grandma she looks like Ronald McDonald because she wouldn’t stop telling me I look like a bull with my nose ring in? I've never understood how, at some point in our society, that apparently fighting back became a bad thing to do, but the initial (repeated) abuse always gets a pass?
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Sagebrush posted:tbf mario kart is like japanese game show levels of arbitrary, meaningless punishment and humiliation. it's not a game you play with friends you value It’s designed to equalize players so that everyone remains close enough that it remains fun. It’s a casual game to play with people who aren’t always on insecure hyper competitive assholes. If you can’t play video games or sports without feelings getting hurt then friends isn’t the right word
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Kite Pride Worldwide posted:I've never understood how, at some point in our society, that apparently fighting back became a bad thing to do, but the initial (repeated) abuse always gets a pass? Rar respect your elders even if they insult you!
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Kite Pride Worldwide posted:I've never understood how, at some point in our society, that apparently fighting back became a bad thing to do, but the initial (repeated) abuse always gets a pass? Which leads to 2) These things don't happen in isolation. Instigator is known to be an rear end, the person who fights back is known to be a pushover. People don't care about so much about what actually happens as someone disrupting the established dynamic. Which leads to 3) Don't underestimate that those judgers might not mind the established dynamic because either they secretly agree with the instigator or they've been so cowed by them over the years that they've normalized it. In short,  isn't about action and reaction, it's about disruption. It doesn't matter what you do, just how much you defy expectations in an uncomfortable way.
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It’s always been that way, see every civil rights movement or every genocide. A guy who gradated from my (ironically super right wing southern) university got murdered stopping a guy who tried to lynch a black 12 year old girl in the Deep South and even though my school covered in statues of confederate fucks idolizes him alongside them, contemporary news articles were hardly sympathetic.
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SpaceSDoorGunner posted:It’s designed to equalize players so that everyone remains close enough that it remains fun. It’s a casual game to play with people who aren’t always on insecure hyper competitive assholes. If you can’t play video games or sports without feelings getting hurt then friends isn’t the right word This is why my house Mario drinking game punishes winners, not losers.
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SpaceSDoorGunner posted:It’s designed to equalize players so that everyone remains close enough that it remains fun. It’s a casual game to play with people who aren’t always on insecure hyper competitive assholes. If you can’t play video games or sports without feelings getting hurt then friends isn’t the right word exactly - it's so kids and parents can play together and it can actually be fun and keep you on your toes, instead of the adult having to hang back and let the kid win or risk clobbering them every time
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Miserable Maid posted:AITA for buying my girlfriend a wedding ring based off something that means something to us instead of an expensive diamond. To a normal person, a cartoon doesn't mean anything. "I like this cartoon more than most TV shows" doesn't mean anything in the context of your relationship. That's where you hosed up, you poor idiot manchild. But at least it all worked out in the end OP is further proven a validation-seeking idiot by presenting this is a choice between an expensive diamond and a goofy piece of cartoon-inspired jewelry. Lots of people choose not to buy diamonds, there are a billion good reasons to go that route and if you had any kind of brains you'd be able to come up with 1.
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Kite Pride Worldwide posted:I've never understood how, at some point in our society, that apparently fighting back became a bad thing to do, but the initial (repeated) abuse always gets a pass? In my experience that happens when some weak-rear end poo poo gets a sick burn in response; the response is seen as disproportionate even if it's deserved. That's definitely the case here, the Ronald McDonald thing is a legit funny sting whereas the bull thing is what you'd expect an incompetent old person to say. When the response is well-scaled then no one cares.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for getting McDonald’s drive through while my boyfriend was fasting for surgery? maybe? no? yes? who cares? is there any event small enough that even a redditor will not memorialize it
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charity rereg posted:I'm just waiting until my employee goes out on Maternity leave in Oct to do it.  gently caress them don't be loyal to a company who isn't loyal to you
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QuarkJets posted:To a normal person, a cartoon doesn't mean anything. "I like this cartoon more than most TV shows" doesn't mean anything in the context of your relationship. That's where you hosed up, you poor idiot manchild. But at least it all worked out in the end That's what I take from this as well. He's the unreliable narrator of a twee love tale that happens in his own head. He had no idea that she didn't place the same amount of importance on the show. I doubt the breakup was as mutual as he claims.
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ParserGirl posted:That's what I take from this as well. He's the unreliable narrator of a twee love tale that happens in his own head. He had no idea that she didn't place the same amount of importance on the show. I doubt the breakup was as mutual as he claims.
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