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Dienes posted:I [27M] talk in my sleep and my wife [25F] thinks I'm having an affair
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:33 |
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No loving way. Is that seriously the update? Why is anyone over like fifteen taking poo poo like that?
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:35 |
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A 21 and a 19 year old, the loving horror.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:35 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:Update on the grounded adult. yeah so we're all agreed that there's some Get Out poo poo going on here right
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:39 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:Update on the grounded adult.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:40 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:I don't think anyone at all has said that. I think some people are saying the gravity of what happened to him is much worse than a single slap to the face, and that the single slap doesn't remove all sympathy from him. Feel free to criticize anyone who actually said the thing you're pretending I said, though. I guess I don't see a difference between that and your statement that boiled down to "You can't criticize a man for hitting his fiancee out of anger unless you are literally perfect." If he had been able to keep his hands off her I'd give him all the sympathy in the world. But there's a lot of folks skirting way too close to "She deserved it" for my comfort here. Even if you're a piece of poo poo partner that doesn't justify being hit or killing yourself.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:41 |
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Yeah sorry I can’t muster an ounce of sympathy for the serial cheater who got slapped.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:51 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Six Brown Chicks have six really good questions this week. I'm particularly fond of 1 and 2. extreme lmao that nobody in this guy's church is willing to get involved. he's gonna get tased every sunday
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:53 |
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Chairman Mao posted:Yeah sorry I can’t muster an ounce of sympathy for the serial cheater who got slapped. You don't get to hit people just because you're mad at them.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:55 |
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luxury handset posted:extreme lmao that nobody in this guy's church is willing to get involved. he's gonna get tased every sunday Hey look on the bright side, at least his faith in god is gone.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 18:56 |
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extremely online posted:You don't get to hit people just because you're mad at them. It was self defense against his emotional abuser.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:00 |
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Rubellavator posted:It was self defense against his emotional abuser. lol this is amazing
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:04 |
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Rubellavator posted:It was self defense against his emotional abuser. Physically assaulting a woman seems to be a very potent fantasy for goons itt. You'll do anything to cling to it.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:05 |
Rubellavator posted:It was self defense against his emotional abuser. I was with you until this nuclear take
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:05 |
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Chairman Mao posted:Yeah sorry I can’t muster an ounce of sympathy for the serial cheater who got slapped. You can sympathize with someone for hitting a cheater, but not with the person who killed one?
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:08 |
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goethe.cx posted:I was with you until this nuclear take I think it was a joke.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:10 |
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slapping her was wrong, women are surprisingly durable fortunately he realized this and killed her by defeating her in emotional combat
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:10 |
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welcome to hell posted:My husband [31M] very much wants to be a sperm donor and it makes me [28F] uncomfortable You gotta read this long rear end lede she buried in the comments. quote:He's generous, loving and prone to spoiling me for the most part, supportive and affectionate. He's also very quiet and reserved, borderline aloof, and has a somewhat submissive personality. Not that I'm domineering, I just tend to take charge on most things because he either wants that or lets me. He is also very, very insecure and thrives off of validation, mostly from me. Every few months we have this little song and dance that stems from something he's feeling jealous/under-confident/sad over. Otherwise he's great!
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:13 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:Update on the grounded adult. This cannot be real
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:14 |
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:You gotta read this long rear end lede she buried in the comments. She should probably slap him
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:15 |
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Lucrece posted:AITA for saying to my friend who used to be into me that I "wish I could find a guy like him"? hahahaha, what an rear end in a top hat
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:16 |
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Dienes posted:I guess I don't see a difference between that and your statement that boiled down to "You can't criticize a man for hitting his fiancee out of anger unless you are literally perfect." My statement does not say that at all. Feel very free to criticize the man for slapping her. Nearly every person in the thread has done so. I will do so right now. He was wrong to slap her. Slapping her was lovely. He is a lovely person for having slapped her. What I am saying is that there are degrees of lovely things, and doing a lovely thing doesn't mean you deserve any and all other, considerably shittier things to happen to you. I have sympathy for the lovely fiance slapper, because despite being lovely, he had a rain of poo poo fall on him that I wouldn't wish on anyone. Also, please remember that all of us have done lovely things in our lives as well and we would be good to remember that. It's not as though every story has exactly one bad guy, for whom we can never muster sympathy lest it render us impure, and exactly one good guy, who we must clap and cheer for. We don't even need to rank who is worse or better. But we can say "Wow, it's really hosed up that a guy got cheated on and lied to and gaslighted and then blamed for the suicide of his emotional abuser, by his own mother no less. That would be an extremely hosed up thing to experience" and at the exact same time say "slapping your partner is completely unacceptable and never deserved." Hellblazer187 fucked around with this message at 19:25 on Sep 4, 2019 |
# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:21 |
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Dienes posted:You can sympathize with someone for hitting a cheater, but not with the person who killed one? Are you equating someone getting slapped to someone dying?
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:22 |
Dunning Krugerrand posted:You gotta read this long rear end lede she buried in the comments. I’m gonna give that guy a swirly
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:24 |
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Some motherfuckers are just slap happy.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:25 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Care and Feeding - My Friend Equates Her Stepmom Experience With My Natural Motherhood and It Drives Me Crazy I was really hoping for a nuke from orbit beatdown instead of this bullshit reasonable discussion we got here
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:27 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:My statement does not say that at all. Feel very free to criticize the man for slapping her. Nearly every person in the thread has done so. I will do so right now. This was a lot better written than your original hyperbolic statement. I can agree with this. He wants me to stay the night on our first date, opinions? quote:I [20F] have talked to him [21M] for 6 months and he's always been super respectful and sweet, but him suggesting that I should sleep over the first time we meet seems a bit strange to me so I just wanted to get a second opinon! He wants to smash. Girl on the bus quote:So about 4 out of 5 days, this beautiful brunette gets on the bus to head into the small city I work in. Today is looks hot in the skirt she has one, nice legs, but not being too superfluous over looks, I have yet to talk to her, mainly because I noticed the dreaded engagement ring.. Dude, no woman on a bus has ever wanted a strange man to approach her and talk about how much he wants to gently caress her. Leave her alone. Here, something wholesome after slapchat: How to date a guy with a dog quote:I [22F] never had any pets growing up, but now I’m seeing a dude [22M] with a dog. I really like the dog so far, but I’ve also never dated anyone with a pet. Should I offer to take the dog on walks? Buy the dog treats/toys? How much attention (petting, playing, belly rubbing) should I give the dog? What happens if I end up liking the dog more than the dude? Help!
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:28 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:Update on the grounded adult. No loving way.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:40 |
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hmm there is a post up with the n word in it, ill just link it for you: https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/czm1ex/aita_for_taking_my_daughter_off_life_support/ e: its a stupid post
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:43 |
BONGHITZ posted:hmm there is a post up with the n word in it, ill just link it for you: https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/czm1ex/aita_for_taking_my_daughter_off_life_support/ what in god’s name are those edits lol. that has to be fake
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:47 |
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My (F 19) boyfriend (M 21) is a white nationalistquote:To begin this post, I met my boyfriend on tinder and we have been dating for six months. We’re both in college and I’m a finance major and he’s a poly-sci major. He is a major bookworm and loves reading about history. He also likes sharing his wealth of knowledge. Sometimes, the content is very disturbing to me. For example, he thinks being anything non-cis is disgusting (trans, gay, drag), that the newly freed slaves should have been sent back to Africa, thinks interracial couples are gross, and is also an antisemite. We grew up in very different situations, me in diverse very non-violent schools in a metropolitan area and him in a rural area with high racial tensions. He’s also had bad experiences in his youth with people who were gay and other races, so sometimes I see how he was lead down this path. The thing that hurts me the most though is that he brushes off all of my core beliefs about treating people with respect and equality of all classes, creeds, and sexual orientations as “mothering” and that “I just care about other people outside of my group because I’m a woman”. Most of the time he is loving and caring to me but I don’t know what to do about all of his political views. Debating with him is exhausting and has ended in me crying numerous times. Please help me, I’m not sure what to do. Reddit basically gets this one right, saying what the gently caress are you dating this guy for, and she more or less doubles down with "it's just politics!" and I think I hate her almost as much as I hate him.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:49 |
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WIBTA if I pushed to get a friend of mine banned from a GTA roleplay server?quote:Context first;
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:56 |
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I'm wondering what bad experiences he had with gay people and people of other races in his "high racial tension rural area" where people definitely owned slaves at some point. Like he would shout slurs at people in his car and sometimes they would have the gall to throw rocks back at him?
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 19:57 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:"it's just politics!" This line is never not used to excuse someone being a total and complete piece of poo poo.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 20:00 |
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Hobo Clown posted:WIBTA if I pushed to get a friend of mine banned from a GTA roleplay server? What the hell is the point of a GTA server where you don't gently caress with cops and other players?
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 20:01 |
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cumshitter posted:I'm wondering what bad experiences he had with gay people and people of other races in his "high racial tension rural area" where people definitely owned slaves at some point. I figured you would know better than anyone here, but the odds are he couldn't get past the bouncer at C-Frenz.
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 20:02 |
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Chairman Mao posted:This line is never not used to excuse someone being a total and complete piece of poo poo. And in this kind of context reveals the person saying it is also garbage.
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Grape posted:And in this kind of context reveals the person saying it is also garbage. She probably thinks Trump is an aberration and the GOP used to be the respectable party of Reagan and John McCain
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 20:05 |
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lol I knew if I skipped three pages y'all would still be talking about that slap
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# ? Sep 4, 2019 20:06 |
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cumshitter posted:Like he would shout slurs at people in his car and sometimes they would have the gall to throw rocks back at him? Violence is never acceptable. No seriously though, gently caress racists. But not like, literally.
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