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Play posted:I got the impression that it was an electronic key card of some kind, not a normal metal key. Could be wrong though However, if it’s a physical metal key, then there’s no way to make that lost key useless except physically replacing every affected door with a new one. Still doesn’t justify $15,000 (!) unless it’s some crazy skeleton key that opens every door in the building, but makes it more reasonable to have at least some cost involved.
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as someone who works in the dungeon that holds the seventh instrument necessary to wake the wind-fish what the gently caress else do you expect us to do when the hero of destiny could show up at any moment
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Oct 29, 2019 21:32
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AITA for how I rejected a barista?quote:Went to a local coffee shop. I'm left handed so when I paid my wedding ring would have been clearly visible. I got my coffee and I saw a phone number on the napkin. I sat down and that's when I saw a phone number on the napkin. My friend arrived a bit later and sat with me. I showed him the napkin and he laughed.
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Oct 29, 2019 21:46
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i vomit kittens posted:AITA for complaining to the management team about all of the LGBTQ posters, flags and signs they have hanging in the lobby at work? You have a hard time believing that people are publicly progressive and privately homophobic?
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Oct 29, 2019 21:56
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Seems fine to me. Besides, even though it's not quite the power imbalance you'd get with Customer/Employee in the other direction, it's still not great to hit in customers in the first place I think. I would have at least asked her straight out if she noticed the ring, I guess
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:My [27M] girlfriend [26F] of 5 months won't speak to me after finding out I have a work phone. Time to end things? Girlfriend freaked out about the second phone because she has already been snooping on his primary phone. She either had past guys cheat on her and can't cope, or she is currently cheating on him.
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Oct 29, 2019 22:11
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for how I rejected a barista? Dear wife: someone hit on me today. I just thought you should know. 
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Oct 29, 2019 22:23
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tactlessbastard posted:Dear wife: someone hit on me today. I just thought you should know. I'd tell my wife about a story like that, it's kinda funny and unusual. 
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Oct 29, 2019 22:29
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MagusofStars posted:Nah, it only makes sense as a physical key. If it was an electronic key, it costs nothing to replace a keycard - you can just remove access for that swipe card in about 30 seconds of effort. No locksmith required, just literally opening up the database and clicking a few buttons. Sure, the key card is still floating around somewhere, but it’s just a useless piece of plastic. This is why hotels barely even glance at the key cards when you checkout, because their system automatically re-programs the door locks anyways so it doesn’t matter. Could be they didn't do their electronic keys that smartly and all of them are equivalent? Meaning if one is lost then the whole lot need to be replaced. I don't know, either way whatever kind of key it is the 15,000 makes no loving sense. That could be just something they told people to try and get them to take the keys seriously and not lose them
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Grape posted:I'd tell my wife about a story like that, it's kinda funny and unusual. Don’t worry, we know it’s unusual, you didn’t have to say that part
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Oct 29, 2019 22:34
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tactlessbastard posted:Dear wife: someone hit on me today. I just thought you should know. Eh, I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt. Since he brought up the ring being visible (at least he thinks she saw it), he could have taken it as a slight against his wife. That would explain why he didn't just try to play it off.
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Oct 29, 2019 22:36
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I could see being a bit of a jerk if he thought she saw his ring but really who the gently caress looks at peoples hands?
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Oct 29, 2019 23:47
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I mean I notice people's rings/jewelry all the time, that's not really weird.
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dudeness posted:I could see being a bit of a jerk if he thought she saw his ring but really who the gently caress looks at peoples hands? If you're not willing to get shot down, don't hit on people. It's not like he publicly embarrassed her, or tried to get her in trouble with her boss.
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Oct 30, 2019 00:17
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He definitely didn't go above and beyond in shooting her down, he just... shot her down. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.
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men don't have to be unfailingly polite in turning down women just like the other way around
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Oct 30, 2019 01:04
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my GF to wear different clothes due to frequent nip-slips? I can understand why you feel upset, but she isn’t wrong. Women’s nipples are way too overly sexualised. I think you could have approached it better TBH
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Aule posted:I can understand why you feel upset, but she isn’t wrong. Women’s nipples are way too overly sexualised. I think you could have approached it better TBH Nice sentiment, but we live in a society where nipples are judged as "inappropriate" by the vast, vast majority.
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Oct 30, 2019 01:14
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Big nipples, big life
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AITA for using the Japanese way of writing "lol" when texting with my friends/gf?quote:In Japan, they use the symbol 笑 the same way that we would write "lol". So you can write something like "I went outside and realized I forgot my keys 笑".
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for using the Japanese way of writing "lol" when texting with my friends/gf? lol
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for using the Japanese way of writing "lol" when texting with my friends/gf? He's not like an rear end in a top hat rear end in a top hat, but that's pretty asinine.
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Oct 30, 2019 01:51
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Probably because using stuff even in other kinds of alphabets (nevermind entirely different writing systems like that) mostly just scans as completely unintelligible and not as shorthand for what they mean you dingus weeaboo. Also that's def a Chinese character adapted into Japanese, which makes him pathetic even as a weeaboo goes.
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Oct 30, 2019 01:53
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My (37/M) girlfriend (28/F) exterminated a litter of stray kittens that she found in the back yard? I'm watching TV in the living room when she comes in ( from cleaning the back yard ) through the sliding glass door holding a small kitten in her hand by the scruff. She said "I found these" When I asked her where she got it she said " they were behind the shed that we have on the back " then she went back outside About 30 minutes later she comes walking back inside through the living room holding a black trash bag and continued to walk to the front door. Thinking it looked odd, I asked her what was that and she just looked at the bag and shook her head and said "we don't need any stray cats prowling around here and making more babies so I just nipped it in the bud." Now my girlfriend doesn't think she did anything wrong. She insists that random cats are annoying and can be a pest animal. I know she's not a bad person but she acted as if she just killed a spider or something like it wasn't a big deal. I thought that was kinda intense like she couldn't have given them away or something like that. I can't stop thinking about how she just killed 6 kittens like its nothing. This was about an hour ago. Am I being too sensitive?? tl;dr My girlfriend just liked a bunch of stray babies and dosent think it's a big deal.
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Oct 30, 2019 01:59
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i vomit kittens posted:AITA for complaining to the management team about all of the LGBTQ posters, flags and signs they have hanging in the lobby at work? Actually I think there really is an issue these days with large companies going out of their way to virtue signal their LGBTQ friendliness while not being perceived by their employees as LGBTQ friendly at all. I have a good friend that works for an organization with 20k+ employees and mentioned to them how I had seen some of the stuff they had been doing publically around pride awhile back and said that it must feel great as I also work for an LGBTQ friendly organization. They told me that everyone that had ever known that had ever displayed any overt queerness had suddenly had "performance issues" that they had never had before and left shortly thereafter even after their workplace started saying how LGBTQ friendly they were. I've mentioned that to other people that work in large organizations and many of them feel the same way.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (37/M) girlfriend (28/F) exterminated a litter of stray kittens that she found in the back yard? Now that is a  being opened right there.
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Three Olives posted:Actually I think there really is an issue these days with large companies going out of their way to virtue signal their LGBTQ friendliness while not being perceived by their employees as LGBTQ friendly at all. I have a good friend that works for an organization with 20k+ employees and mentioned to them how I had seen some of the stuff they had been doing publically around pride awhile back and said that it must feel great as I also work for an LGBTQ friendly organization. Corporate pink washing is definitely a thing but the overlap between people who complain about it happening at work and the people who give a poo poo about the ethics of pinkwashing is vanishingly small.
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Oct 30, 2019 02:09
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Inceltown posted:Now that is a Rural/Urban divide is my guess.
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Inceltown posted:Now that is a Here goes! Either she does it or the pound does it. I think feeding stray cats is bad TBH.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (37/M) girlfriend (28/F) exterminated a litter of stray kittens that she found in the back yard? Jesus loving christ. Can we put animal abuse/murder in the same category as sex crimes?
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Beachcomber posted:Rural/Urban divide is my guess. My wife comes from an island with more cats than people so spare me with the "city slickers just don't understand" crap lol.
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AITA for being upset that my special needs sister in law ruined my dancing at my wedding?quote:I just got married last month and my new sister in law has Down syndrome. She’s very very sweet but she doesn’t understand boundaries on her own. However, if you tell her things like “our friend needs some personal space right now, can you please back up?” she’s normally pretty good at following.
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Oct 30, 2019 02:13
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for being upset that my special needs sister in law ruined my dancing at my wedding? She can always do it differently at her next wedding if she thinks making people watch her dance with her husband at her first was so goddamn important.
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MarcusSA posted:Here goes! Yeah, it's a bit  but it's better than putting them in a box in front of a Pet Smart and thinking you've done something useful. Full disclosure: my cat's litter was left in a box in front of a Pet Smart and somehow wound up with a friend who found homes for all of them. He was a wonderful kitty but also very lucky and the exception.
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My(26f) husband(29m) has a nearly psychotic anger episode every single morning and idk what to do anymore. Every morning, without fail, when my husband wakes up for work(after only 6 hours of sleep) he immediately within like 30 seconds is just furious. I can’t even think of a rational example of why someone would ever get that mad. He scoffs, throws off his blanket, starts slamming poo poo(doors, the bathroom mirror, shoes, drawers, etc), goes into the bathroom and yells a big “gently caress” or something similar, gets in the shower and laughs hysterically while simultaneously banging something which I assume to be his fist or maybe his head. All I know is it used to give me horrible anxiety and still does but I mostly just feel annoyed now. I just roll my eyes and I’m like, really? Here we go again. He has had anger issues forever but during the day he’s gotten better. In my opinion it’s a combination of unresolved emotions, nicotine addiction, weed addiction, video game addiction, and lack of sleep. I try to get him to get more sleep, at least on weekends, but he wakes up early to play video games and stays up late to play video games because he is just always so desperate for “alone time” apparently. We have a one year old that has learned to sleep though his morning temper tantrums but I am so over it. My son and I have a trip to visit my family coming up and I don’t know if we are even going to come back for a while. I’ve tried to get him into therapy but unfortunately we live in such an expensive area that even with his good job we can’t find anyone that takes our insurance. He’s tried a couple mental health apps and I think they helped but he just still wakes up every morning and you would think he absolutely hates his life. tl:dr My husband has a full on mental breakdown 5-6 mornings out of the week and I feel like no matter what I do it doesn’t help. Any advice would be appreciated.
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I don't think the issue is culling the cats, but how she was able to casually do it in the backyard while giving completely zero shits about killing six kittens. I feel like most people would at least be upset or would cope with compartmentalising it in a professional setting or whatever, killing them in your backyard without blinking is enough to unnerve anyone.
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Oct 30, 2019 02:26
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA For telling my friend her cooking sucks after she quit her job to become a chef?
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AITA for telling my GF to wear different clothes due to frequent nip-slips? Because you know I'm all about that breast, 'Bout that breast, no nipple
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Oct 30, 2019 02:32
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for giving my boyfriend a bedtime ultimatum?
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Three Olives posted:She can always do it differently at her next wedding if she thinks making people watch her dance with her husband at her first was so goddamn important. I don't think one dance is a big ask. She actually needed to have asked, though.
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