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Angepain posted:see, this is why twitter is terrible for discourse. by the time you've removed enough details to fit the exact scenario you're annoyed about in a tweet, it's vague enough that people who aren't following your exact point in the current discourse can assume you're talking about something else slightly different, and then make wildly vague subtweets of their own, and then everybody's mad and everyone's blocking each other and people are posting 2 minute kpop videos for some reason The only upside is it got a bunch of racists and nazis sacked when they didn't realize that. e: 417 is about 3x Dunbar's number, and about twice the median number of Facebook friends. Guavanaut fucked around with this message at 20:01 on Nov 30, 2019 |
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https://twitter.com/nadinebh_/status/1200850733387698176 Andrew Marr will make absolutely no mention of this, bet you anything.
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gh0stpinballa posted:bit of a tangent but i like it when i find a take that is completely correct and perfectly reasonable but you know a lot of tiresome people will try to find a problem with it anyway I don't get what talking about sex in public or having loud sex has to do with consent. Yes, it's creepy if someone initiates a conversation about sex with you, but you don't get to police other people's conversations because your delicate ears might overhear them say something scandalous.
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Guavanaut posted:Who's actually doing that though? Is this a twitter thing? idk who she's referring to but as i say i have 3 people at work who are really bad for it, and it isn't pleasant at all. to the point where one of them has been reported by a younger member of staff because they were made to feel so uncomfortable. quote:And is it a violation of consent to any other degree than any other chat that might make people uncomfortable, like gunchat or carchat or pregnancy chat? um yes? if you're making someone picture you loving or wanking or whatever when they have made it clear they don't want to think or talk about it, that's an order of magnitude more creepy than not wanting to hear about a ford focus or a pregnancy. jfc. quote:If the answer is yes, maybe we should be asking what that says about us as a society and our values rather than whether any individual is "repressed" it says, i have a lot of work to do/things on my mind/more interesting stuff to do and think about, i don't want to think about your dong or your gross arse pumping up and down, please respect that. quote:but I'd suspect it's a huge part situational too. I'm not about to chat about guns in the same way at a playgroup as I would at a rural pub with stuffed ducks on the wall. well, good. that means you understand boundaries and personal space. quote:Also I have a suspicion that a lot (by no means all, but they ride on the coattails) of the objections aren't to a horde of hypothetical sexhavers going around pressing the intimate particulars of their sex lives on strangers and demanding reciprocity, but are on a social level shoring up heteronormativity, just...no. let's not do this. quote:otherwise we'd have been having the same conversations about a lot of our society's performative heterosexuality being "shoved down our throats" for a long time. The vast majority of public sexchat I've heard has been straight lads boasting and probably making poo poo up, and that predates sex-positivity (and feminism) by a few centuries, but I have a feeling that the tweets weren't pointed at them. this is all terrible and is exactly the kind of thing i hate and why i make sure to set my boundaries with people around me so they do not do this. i get it's harder when its strangers but that doesn't make it okay for them to talk like this. we should all be mindful of other people. gh0stpinballa fucked around with this message at 20:07 on Nov 30, 2019 |
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RockyB posted:Oh god this turned into an effort post. Wow thanks! Shall bookmark for detailed examination later. I figured it was something that was to do with bringing dividend income in line with income income. erm. If you know what I mean.
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Jaeluni Asjil posted:Wow thanks! Shall bookmark for detailed examination later. I figured it was something that was to do with bringing dividend income in line with income income. erm. If you know what I mean. Yeah I've tweaked it a little since then, as I realise £14,000 - £12,500 is actually £1,500 not £3,500. Someone please check my maths before you go posting this to facebook. E: And again, now I've refined this, the primary effect of this change is to bring draw-down pensions inline with annuities. RockyB fucked around with this message at 20:25 on Nov 30, 2019 |
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And there goes the Lib Dem Brexit policy formally Would love a post-mortem sometime about how they've quite hosed it this badly
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RockyB posted:Yeah I've tweaked it a little since then, as I realise £14,000 - £12,500 is actually £1,500 not £3,500. Someone please check my maths before you go posting this to facebook. I've bookmarked the actual post instead of copying and pasting so edit away! Don't worry, I shan't post to facebook, just want to understand it myself so I can go 'nur nur ni nur nur' to people.
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I'm convincing myself to go canvassing tomorrow for Ali Milani, in Johnson's constituency. Never done this before but I'm assuming they need all the help they can get.
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Barry Foster posted:I didn't consent to sex chat chat What about sex dwarf sex chat chat chat? These are the first 5 Google image search results for "Sunday Sport sex dwarf". There are many more
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Apraxin posted:‘Not only are we utterly blameless for yesterday’s terrorism, it’s actually Labour’s fault’ is a bold argument, but if anyone’s shameless enough to run with it, it’s her: quote:Usman Khan, 20, and Nazam Hussain, 26, also from Stoke-on-Trent, were ordered to serve at least eight years. quote:In its judgement, the Court of Appeal said that it was replacing the IPPs with fixed terms and extended licences. The halfway point of the fixed terms - at which point the men are eligible for release on licence - matches the minimum the men would have originally served before they could seek to leave prison. quote:Sentences of Imprisonment for Public Protection (IPPs) were introduced in 2005 and given to violent or sexual offenders who posed a risk to society.
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Is all this pissing and moaning just you laying the groundwork for a meltdown next time the thread gets horny?
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Poll question for you guys: why was the yougov poll saying that a 7-point tory lead was hung parliament territory? In 2017 there was only a 2 pt tory lead, and it looked like it just barely ended up as a hung parliament (with some seats being decided on the order of dozens of votes). Has the balance of public opinion shifted across seats? Or is something else up?
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Pesky Splinter posted:
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wocobob posted:Poll question for you guys: why was the yougov poll saying that a 7-point tory lead was hung parliament territory? In 2017 there was only a 2 pt tory lead, and it looked like it just barely ended up as a hung parliament (with some seats being decided on the order of dozens of votes). Has the balance of public opinion shifted across seats? Or is something else up? FPTP metrics : win half the seats with 100% of the vote, lose half of them with 49% of the vote. If the swing doesn't quite win a seat it may as well never have occured there. also they'll be increasing their vote share by a greater amount in areas they already do well in, less so in areas they don't Chuff McNothing fucked around with this message at 20:26 on Nov 30, 2019 |
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wocobob posted:Poll question for you guys: why was the yougov poll saying that a 7-point tory lead was hung parliament territory? In 2017 there was only a 2 pt tory lead, and it looked like it just barely ended up as a hung parliament (with some seats being decided on the order of dozens of votes). Has the balance of public opinion shifted across seats? Or is something else up? Wasn't the 2pt Tory lead from the final vote count, but the polls on the day had them on 12pts or something?
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mfcrocker posted:And there goes the Lib Dem Brexit policy formally Can't wait to hear the fubpees howling about how they're politically homeless again, mostly so I can rub the idea that Labour should have obviously called for revocation in their stupid loving faces.
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Pilchenstein posted:Is all this pissing and moaning just you laying the groundwork for a meltdown next time the thread gets horny? Sex chat in someone's presence absolutely is used as a common kind of sexual harassment and bullying. Obviously context matters and there are millions of occasions when it's fine. But if someone's response suggests they're sore you should stfu, I reckon.
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Guavanaut posted:otherwise we'd have been having the same conversations about a lot of our society's performative heterosexuality being "shoved down our throats" for a long time. The vast majority of public sexchat I've heard has been straight lads boasting and probably making poo poo up, and that predates sex-positivity (and feminism) by a few centuries, but I have a feeling that the tweets weren't pointed at them.
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I have...had sex.
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Braggart posted:What about sex dwarf sex chat chat chat? There's always more where that comes from
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Firos posted:I have...had sex. But not as much as your sex dwarf.
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jabby posted:Yes, it's creepy if someone initiates a conversation about sex with you, but you don't get to police other people's conversations because your delicate ears might overhear them say something scandalous. Maybe think about people who have PTSD from getting abused as a child and get triggered by conversations about sex, and you have no idea about it, yes? Don't talk about sex unless you know you're talking with people who are fine talking about sex with you. It's not that goddamn hard.
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mfcrocker posted:And there goes the Lib Dem Brexit policy formally the big surprise here is they're admitting the possibility they won't be a majority government. surely some still believe in the glorious dream of Jo;650
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Angepain posted:what are they even doing with that toothpaste. do i want to know. what do they have planned for us https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h97jt1XtnGQ I'm not a kpop expert but I think it's about putting something else in the toothpaste to get revenge on a lovely boyfriend
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A Buttery Pastry posted:Obviously this depends a lot on social groups, but "straight lads boasting" brings teenagers to mind for me, not grown adults. Which as a teen you might think you just have to accept, while as an adult you decide that no, you really don't need that poo poo in your work life. I think Angepain hit the nail on the head there though, that's why Twitter is terrible for discourse, not why sexchat is universally bad. It's the focus on 'consent' that seemed off to me though, like some libertarian saying "I do not consent to this dialogue" more than actual people talking, which is a situational thing. Some conversations are situationally appropriate or inappropriate, and where policing those we need to be careful we're doing it fairly. Otherwise it's more a case of "this conversation is gross, y'all gross, I'm out" than consent. Again, Twitter bad.
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I think it's annoying and gross when men announce they're excited about something like a new videogame or a film or what have you by saying they're hard or talking about how big of an erection they have. that's my sex chat opinion
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I'm enjoying the Lib Dem collapse but they still need to hold the line in some places, like Raab's constituency. https://twitter.com/britainelects/status/1200855757362782209
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peanut- posted:I'm enjoying the Lib Dem collapse but they still need to hold the line in some places, like Raab's constituency. That explains why I saw a petition on Facebook asking Labour to step aside in that constituency. If those numbers are real I wouldn't totally be against it - lib dems are tories but they may be slightly less awful tories than Raab.
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Thanks for your replies, all. Your range of thoughts pretty much reflects my own. I've not been responding by rolling my eyes back into my head and doing the Bodysnatcher squeal, so don't worry about about me appearing in the local rag next to an aggrieved pensioner who only wants to herd the foreigns into the North Sea. Mostly wanted to sanity check what I'm doing. Honestly I try to sow the seed of doubt but I've got a much lower threshold for disengaging and moving on than some fellas. I'm on firmer ground hunting centrists and they're-all-the-same types. No wonder the Tories have no ground game like. Just the thought of having to cultivate these lost ones with 'hmm yes legitimate concerns' chinstroking shrivels my bollocks. Re: polls I'm not letting that +7 swing into my zone. I am NOT stoked. I'm in my zen dreamstate, unperturbed. Why concern ourselves with such things? The Poll that can be told is not the eternal Poll. The Jez that can be named is not the eternal Jez. (the wind whispers, 'winning here')
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Maugrim posted:That explains why I saw a petition on Facebook asking Labour to step aside in that constituency. If those numbers are real I wouldn't totally be against it - lib dems are tories but they may be slightly less awful tories than Raab. Eh it doesn't really help Labour in any way just to stand down and Raab is poo poo but not exceptionally poo poo for a Tory so it's not really any reason to want to kick him out at any cost.
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crispix posted:Have I actually mentioned police, at all? ah, the jordan peterson approach to discussion
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just seen someone rip down some conservative signs, which I assume is some sort of theft or criminal damage but also p lol e: not that I endorse it but they're on my drive home and I'd been idly fantasising about it and then I saw someone else actually do ir XMNN fucked around with this message at 21:00 on Nov 30, 2019 |
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Maugrim posted:That explains why I saw a petition on Facebook asking Labour to step aside in that constituency. If those numbers are real I wouldn't totally be against it - lib dems are tories but they may be slightly less awful tories than Raab. if I were the Labour candidate I'd want a bit more information than a single poll before I stood down my entire election campaign e: also loving lol at the idea of any petition shared on Facebook achieving anything, ever Julio Cruz fucked around with this message at 21:11 on Nov 30, 2019 |
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Coohoolin posted:ah, the jordan peterson approach to discussion (Peterson, he's not in the 'ra)
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The one thing I will say is that yes, the Lib Dems may be yellow Tories, but every Tory seat they do snipe in the South-East is one more seat towards Labour being the largest party in Parliament. Now of course that wouldn't stop the Lib Dems stabbing the country in the back and coalitioning with the Tories, but it would at least make it more embarrassing for them
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Maugrim posted:That explains why I saw a petition on Facebook asking Labour to step aside in that constituency. If those numbers are real I wouldn't totally be against it - lib dems are tories but they may be slightly less awful tories than Raab. Strategic voting is a poison that rots the core of our country. Those labour voters aren't owed to the piss dems. The most important thing isn't stopping the conservatives, it's electing good people - If you wear yellow on your coat you have piss in your heart.
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Paul.Power posted:Now of course that wouldn't stop the Lib Dems stabbing the country in the back and coalitioning with the Tories, but it would at least make it more embarrassing for them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSS1FIkGOX8
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XMNN posted:just seen someone rip down some conservative signs, which I assume is some sort of theft or criminal damage but also p lol Except labour will get the blame whether or not it was labour supporters. Last GE we had tory posters defaced and lots of complaints about labour members doing it. But no one ever saw it being done. We were sure it was tories doing it themselves to get the publicity. (A bit like the brick thrown through the window into the stairwell at the back of a building in which Angela Eagle happened to have her office the other side of the building along with several other organisations. Blamed on momentum thugs, never the slightest evidence that it was anything other than kids who had been going round the area doing the same to other buildings. What happened to her anyway? Does she still exist?
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Pilchenstein posted:Is all this pissing and moaning just you laying the groundwork for a meltdown next time the thread gets horny? it behooves you as a self-described leftist not to sneer at issues like consent and sexual harassment, imo
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