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My Mother says I am not to get any money after my father's death but I think his Will says different. Can she (as agent and POA) "kick me out" of the Will? u/eringrace7311d As title says, my Father passed Sept 26 and as expected it's been so hard. To make matters worse, my Mother sent me a text the other day that says "oh and just FYI you are not getting any money from Dad as he paid for stuff when he was alive." OK, I can deal with this HOWEVER, I got passed down my Dads phone after he passed because its nice than mine and I was gonna use it. Upon looking through the phone, his Will and a form stating my mother as his agent are in his saved documents. I read both out of curiosity and sure enough it says I get a split of 40% of something (I forget rn). So a couple questions: Can my mom change his will and kick me out of it? Is anyone in this sub able to look at a copy of the will and ELI5 to me? I could be interpreting it wrong I'm not familiar with this stuff at all. Also, my mom told me I have to go to the bank with her and "sign papers" regarding Dad when I go in for the holidays. What could this be? Thanks r/legaladvice I really hope I get some answers. EDIT: obligatory thank you for the gold! Also, thank you all for the amazing advice so far.. keep it coming I'm learning a lot and getting good ideas. _______ BWDM: Bad With Dad’s Money
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 20:36 |
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Alan Smithee posted:Pretty much yeah. Half were deleted cuz r legaladvice is insanely moderated. OP seems to have a good head about it too No one at the restaurant is going to be willing to perjure themselves to help the customer who never tips* get a chunk of money. Also, an agreement and an enforceable agreement are two different things. * I know, but come on.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 20:40 |
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howdoesishotweb posted:BWM 2020: Drinking Gin and Pelotonikkah Financed through next Hanukkah
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 20:43 |
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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:* I know, but come on. I feel like I’m missing something
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 20:44 |
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Alan Smithee posted:I feel like I’m missing something Guy from the story was tipping using scratch tickets.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:06 |
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gently caress anyone who tips in anything cutesy. Idiots on cruise ships tipping their stateroom attendants with postcards and poo poo. Can't eat postcards dingus.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:10 |
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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:No one at the restaurant is going to be willing to perjure themselves to help the customer who never tips* get a chunk of money. Also, an agreement and an enforceable agreement are two different things. He'd probably have to make a new verbal agreement every time he tipped her for that flimsy rationale to hold up. "Don't forget! We split the winnings! Come on, I need you to say yes in front of these witnesses! Cool, see you next week." Now I want to know how much this is. 3 months salary...so $10k if she's a decent bartender? Yeah, let's go to court on the weakest of arguments for $5k pretax.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:17 |
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It’s about the principle okay! ....she wouldn’t have sex with him
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:19 |
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Krispy Wafer posted:He'd probably have to make a new verbal agreement every time he tipped her for that flimsy rationale to hold up. "Don't forget! We split the winnings! Come on, I need you to say yes in front of these witnesses! Cool, see you next week." I'm willing to bet there's established case law (I recall there's a few cases about lottery pools at workplaces), he can get a lawyer on commission as long as the case remains trivial (file a form for small claims, appear for 2hrs, settle, bingo bango easy $1k), and he's hoping that she'll just cave and pay for him to go away. In that case it costs him nothing but time, and if he's tipping with scratch offs I bet he has plenty of that.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:28 |
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IIRC, any agreement governing a matter over $500 needs to be in writing to be enforceable.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:30 |
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Alan Smithee posted:Pretty much yeah. Half were deleted cuz r legaladvice is insanely moderated by cops.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:39 |
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19 o'clock posted:IIRC, any agreement governing a matter over $500 needs to be in writing to be enforceable. Recall from which source? Which jurisdiction?
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:48 |
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I've been running a little low on drinks lately, and the whiskey discussion of a few weeks ago caught my eye. It took some time and visiting a bunch of stores, but I now have some Mellow Corn and Evan Williams Bottled in Bond, thanks to this thread. I suspect they will be GWM if they're even close to decent, considering the prices and my unsophisticated palate.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 21:55 |
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Mantle posted:Recall from which source? Which jurisdiction? Just my business law courses in college. I just looked it up and it seems to be for goods sold over $500. As an aside: I’m glad I’m not a lawyer and so should you.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 22:14 |
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19 o'clock posted:Just my business law courses in college. I just looked it up and it seems to be for goods sold over $500. That's super jurisdiction dependent, otherwise contracts wouldn't need Agreement Entire clauses.
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 22:19 |
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19 o'clock posted:Just my business law courses in college. I just looked it up and it seems to be for goods sold over $500. Same Imagine having to give out free consultations like a bowl of jolly ranchers and mini Reese’s to guys like lottery printer man Works on contingency? No, Money down!
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# ? Dec 8, 2019 22:19 |
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Re: over $500 is the Statute of Frauds, which is in effect in some form anywhere that uses English common law as a basis for its legal system. That's not applicable here, but its validity is so basic that it's part of the multistate bar examination. Incorporation clauses are to avoid misunderstandings about specific terms or conditions, but the main body of the agreement is likely going to be required to be on paper regardless. In the event, there's no case here. If they were left as tips, then guess what buddy!? You were paying her in literal lottery tickets; the point of being paid is that you give exchange something, free and clear, for services rendered already. By definition giving her tickets is to transfer the risk and the rewards. In any other situation this would be wage theft, so be happy you get to legally stiff your server all those other times and get lost.
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 03:59 |
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There was a Nicolas Cage movie along these lines called It Could Happen To You, and I hope it gets cited if this case goes to court.
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 07:24 |
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I remember the commercial for that He explicitly says he will split it with her and I’m assuming he held onto the ticket
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 08:06 |
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Alan Smithee posted:I remember the commercial for that The movie was based on a real-life incident that is also GWM and GWL: when they interviewed the real people 15 years later they were both happy, still friends, and neither appeared to have blown the money.
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 13:32 |
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This thread could use the story of Jack Whitaker. Ultimate BWM, BWL. Already rich, and the largest lotto (over 300m at the time) absolutely wrecked everything around him, ultimately costing him both his daughter and granddaughter.
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 14:54 |
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Nocheez posted:This thread could use the story of Jack Whitaker. Ultimate BWM, BWL. Already rich, and the largest lotto (over 300m at the time) absolutely wrecked everything around him, ultimately costing him both his daughter and granddaughter. WestVirginia.txt
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 15:05 |
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A bunch of it got stolen from his car parked at a strip club which is the ultimate bwm.txt
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 15:12 |
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KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:The bow isn't an option, you actually borrow the bow from the dealer and put a deposit on it if the dealer has one. (they cost a couple hundred bucks to the dealer, they're not cheap) If you're buying a LX570 or a LS460, many dealers will loan you the bow for (last I checked) $500 deposit. poo poo, if I were buying a LX570 I would do it just for fun. When Santa Brings a Car, They’ll Need a Bigger Tree quote:Yes, there are people who give a car worth $60,000, $80,000 or more to someone special during the holidays, even rushing into a dealership on Christmas Eve. So many people give costly cars as presents that gift sales can make up 10 percent or more of December sales for luxury auto dealers, brand representatives and dealers say. quote:Belay that Grinch-like sentiment for a moment and return to Park Place Lexus in Texas. There, less than 10 days before Christmas, Mr. Brunner was awaiting a buyer who is having a friend make his down payment. quote:But it’s the bow that matters to the point that, some dealers say, no bow can mean no sale. quote:Most gift cars are given by men to wives, girlfriends or children, but there are exceptions. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/21/business/holiday-car-sales-bow.html
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 16:23 |
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The lacanian phantasy I guess
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 16:37 |
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Hyrax Attack! posted:When Santa Brings a Car, They’ll Need a Bigger Tree There is only one answer to this, and that's more Edit: quote:Mr. Brunner was awaiting a buyer who is having a friend make his down payment. lol, financing your "gift".
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 17:29 |
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Bow With Money: still have 72 payments left on that bow!
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 17:50 |
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Bow With Motorcar: Need help financing my gift payments
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 17:54 |
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There are (slightly) worse gifts than a car payment! My boyfriend [32M] of 8 months tried to surprise me [30F] with a pet octopus. I freaked out at him, now he's not speaking to me. https://rareddit.com/r/relationships/comments/7pc9qm/my_boyfriend_32m_of_8_months_tried_to_surprise_me/ quote:I [30F] used to be a marine biologist who worked in an aquarium. But it's a very mentally, physically, and emotionally taxing job, and I burnt out after about five years. I work an office job now, which I like a lot better in about a million different ways. I sometimes miss taking care of the animals, but it was not worth all the other bullshit that came with it. I just can't get over "Then my boyfriend exclaimed, 'Surprise! I got you an octopus!'"
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 18:38 |
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Hyrax Attack! posted:
I am so loving glad I stopped watching broadcast TV about 15 years ago.
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 18:40 |
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Tomfoolery posted:There are (slightly) worse gifts than a car payment! Holy poo poo! I've legit had nightmares about scenarios almost identical to that. Gonna steal this and post to the aquarium thread in PI.
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 18:50 |
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Tomfoolery posted:'Surprise! I got you an octopus!'" Ok, this HAS to become the new thread title
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 18:55 |
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Tax implications of an 8 digit gift?
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 19:01 |
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This is what happens when you mansgift to a woman
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 19:02 |
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:Tax implications of an 8 digit gift? OMFG
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 19:03 |
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The real reason her boyfriend is acting weird: the octopus killed him and assumed his identity
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 19:03 |
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Giving an animal as a surprise gift is an incredibly lovely thing to do. Whether it's a puppy, bunny, or....octopus. Maybe not BWM but definitely BWAL (bad with animal's lives).
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:Tax implications of an 8 digit gift? Still can't believe your posts are this good
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# ? Dec 9, 2019 19:07 |
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Sirotan posted:Giving an animal as a surprise gift is an incredibly lovely thing to do. Whether it's a puppy, bunny, or....octopus. Maybe not BWM but definitely BWAL (bad with animal's lives). What if it’s a horse And you put a car bow on it
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:Tax implications of an 8 digit gift? How does it feel to realize you've peaked? Jesus Christ that's good.
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