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HMS Beagle posted:WIBTA if I stole my girlfriend’s daughter’s Pokémon card? Like he literally acknowledges that he'd be stealing from a 6 year-old. Is stealing from a 6 year-old simply normal for this guy?
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But she stole from him first!
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Jan 1, 2020 11:07
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As easy as taking pokemon cards from a baby
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Jan 1, 2020 11:10
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This is unironically why a lot of schools banned Pokemon cards.
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Jan 1, 2020 11:17
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If this guy wasn't a shitlord, explaining why that card is so special would be a great way to bond with a child that he may one day be a father figure to, depending on how serious he is about his girlfriend.
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Jan 1, 2020 11:30
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My (25,f) therapist (50sf) is encouraging me to cheat on my boyfriend? Hello. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I have been seeing my therapist once a week for 4 weeks now. My boyfriend has been a pretty crappy boyfriend this year. He has admitted to cheating on me, he is verbally and emotionally abusive and overall has low care for my feelings. I do plan to break up with him by the end of our lease (April) but for now I have to be cordial to him as we still live together. If I also attempt to break up with him while we’re still living together, he will make my life a living hell. I told this all to my therapist. She is suggesting I start moving on now while we’re still “together” so I can completely remove him from my mind while focusing on someone else. She even suggested I message my ex-boyfriend. She also thinks “cheating” on him back will make the situation easier on myself. This was all told to me last night, so I ended up texting and having a conversation with my ex-boyfriend all while my boyfriend was laying next to me. I felt disgusting and grimy doing it, and I dont want to hurt my boyfriend or ex-boyfriend. I dont feel my therapist is giving me good advice. I’m not sure what to do. Tl;dr: my therapist is encouraging me to cheat on my boyfriend to “get over him” EDIT: thank you all for your advice. I will be changing therapists. I never think cheating is the right thing to do (no matter the circumstances) and I think people that cheat are horrible human beings. With that being said, I will not be cheating as my therapist suggested. There are a lot of reasons I cannot move out now, mainly being money. I can make it till April. Thank you again everyone.
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Jan 1, 2020 11:32
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What the christ. Murder that 'therapist'
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Jan 1, 2020 11:57
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I call bullshit. (Who talks to their therapist at night?) At best, therapist suggested moving on, she decided to hit up her ex with bad results, now feels bad and wants someone to blame.
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https://twitter.com/mikedolanvevo/status/1211840171332767744?s=21
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Sloth Life posted:I call bullshit. (Who talks to their therapist at night?) At best, therapist suggested moving on, she decided to hit up her ex with bad results, now feels bad and wants someone to blame.
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My boyfriend (19M) asked if he could have sex with his best friend (17F). My boyfriend (19M) and I (17F) have been dating for 2 years. We’re in a normal healthy relationship. Randomly, two days ago, my boyfriend asked me during our FaceTime call if he could have sex with his best friend who is the same age as I am and goes to the same school as me. Those two have been friends since the start of my freshmen year and they knew each other first. I’m casual friends with her and we knew each other since middle school but never had the interest to get close with each other. I know those two hang out every now and they’re like siblings to each other. They’ve been through a lot before I even knew him. Two days ago, in call, he explained how his best friend just got through her heartbreak and she just really wants to lose her virginity before we graduate, just for the sake of it. I was so weirded out and disgusted. I try to be an understanding person and girlfriend but this really triggered me to the point of where I wanted to break up with him. Usually my boyfriend is very understanding with how I feel too but I could tell he was getting a bit upset when I told him how disgusted and disturbed I was that he even asked me. I try to be so understanding but I couldn’t understand why he would ask me in the first place. That just tells me he wants to have sex with her. I understand his point of trying to help out a very close friend and I know he doesn’t have feelings for her but I can’t deal with it. This whole situation just turned into an argument and I haven’t spoken to him since but he’s been trying to contact me. On his Instagram stories, he’s been hanging out with her and their friends together during this whole thing. I just want to tell my story out to people and I want to know people’s opinions because I feel wrong. I understand my boyfriend but I can’t let him do that with another girl. Maybe I’m wrong, I don’t know. TL;DR: My boyfriend asked if he could have sex with his best friend.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My boyfriend (19M) asked if he could have sex with his best friend (17F). He already has and is just looking for cover
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Jan 1, 2020 14:36
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Kitchner posted:I'm Welsh and I could tell you how to pronounce it properly but I couldn't write it. You'd be better off looking at a YouTube video. Is it the ch in 'loch' in the Scottish sense?
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Jan 1, 2020 15:57
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didnt know gandalf was jesus
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Jan 1, 2020 16:15
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HardDiskD posted:didnt know gandalf was jesus Have.... have you never seen the movies? Or read the book? They're not real subtle about it.
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Jan 1, 2020 16:34
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HardDiskD posted:didnt know gandalf was jesus It's pretty obvious if you think about it.
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HardDiskD posted:didnt know gandalf was jesus didn't read the book or watch the movies, im guessing?
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HardDiskD posted:didnt know gandalf was jesus It's a coincidence. Gandolf was a maiar (basically an angel) who walked Middle Earth for about that long before the Balrog incident. Balrogs were basically corrupted maiar who threw in with Sauron's boss at the dawn of time. Edit: Gandalf's more like Archangel Michael. Beachcomber fucked around with this message at 16:40 on Jan 1, 2020 |
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Jan 1, 2020 16:37
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He comes back alive and has a beard and magic powers but he doesn't really absolve anybody of sins or anything like that.
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Jan 1, 2020 16:44
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Mr. Lobe posted:As a gay, I would be put off as hell if I found out some girl went and told her boyfriend to play pretend gay to go to a party where straight boyfriends were not wanted. That's why I think she is an rear end in a top hat too. also, it's not going to work. a straight dude in a gay party sticks out like an awkward, uncomfortable thumb who can't dance and is wearing way too many layers.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My boyfriend (19M) asked if he could have sex with his best friend (17F). SalTheBard posted:He already has and is just looking for cover Yep. Guy is 19, probably in college, and looking around for more naive high school students to sleep with.
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Beachcomber posted:It's a coincidence. Gandolf was a maiar (basically an angel) who walked Middle Earth for about that long before the Balrog incident. Balrogs were basically corrupted maiar who threw in with Sauron's boss at the dawn of time. Not that much of a coincidence. Tolkien and CS Lewis hung out irl you know.
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AITA for not stopping my band's show because my girlfriend got caught in the moshpit?quote:Am using a throwaway though I'm not sure why because the second she sees this, she'll know it's about her.
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ad090 posted:AITA for not stopping my band's show because my girlfriend got caught in the moshpit? My mental image of the night 
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ad090 posted:AITA for not stopping my band's show because my girlfriend got caught in the moshpit? some of the texts she sent him quote:Why don't you listen to me when I try to talk to you quote:Stop thinking of yourself, for just a second, fool quote:Shut up, shut up, I don't want to hear your mouth quote:Your mother made a monster, now get the hell out of my house
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Jan 1, 2020 17:56
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I see his new albums song list is really taking shape.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:My mental image of the night I would not begin a mosh pit around something whose teeth are at crotch height.
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I'm surprised the drummer is taking the girl's side. Kind of ridiculous to expect the band to stop playing here IMO. Spending three hours miserable and confused is not the only way to show support for your partner. Going to the punk/metal gig when that's not your scene was a mistake in the first place. Hellblazer187 fucked around with this message at 18:32 on Jan 1, 2020 |
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ad090 posted:AITA for not stopping my band's show because my girlfriend got caught in the moshpit?
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When I googled the mosh pit post the first results were stories about big bands pausing a show to check on a fan that was hurt in a mosh pit so I guess its a thing bands that care do? It doesn't matter, they are done.
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Hm. I guess I'm just not seeing how it would really even be possible. Sounds like everything happened really fast. But yeah they are obviously done at this point.
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Hellblazer187 posted:I'm surprised the drummer is taking the girl's side. Kind of ridiculous to expect the band to stop playing here IMO. Yeah, like if those other girls didn't help her sure, stop it temporarily, but expecting them to up and cancel the gig because she got a booboo while (albeit unwittingly) standing in a mosh pit is pretty ridiculous.
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Jan 1, 2020 18:47
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People in the comments are talking about how big and small bands will more often then not stop playing if someone gets hurt, or call people out for being shitheads, and apparently Kurt Cobain for instance was famous for stopping shows and yelling at the crowd to calm down.
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It really depends on the genre nowadays, lot of punk bands will open with something nice about respecting personal space, lot of hardcore bands you get kicked in the head. Someone will always help you off the floor immediately no matter how brutal the show is. Occasionally bands will stop a song if too many people are getting knocked down, usually they just say "let's turn down the intensity a little" between songs. I think I've only really seen a show stopped because of like a 6-man brawl, that's a bad idea, people get angry. Fortunately it was just those same guys fighting in the street after. If his gf was really so unfamiliar with the territory of that scene, he is the rear end in a top hat for not telling her what to expect. Maybe she is a poser and he thought she would know. tldr: don't date guys in bands
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Pinecone Sample posted:tldr: don't date guys in bands Support their careers by alleviating them of the distraction of a relationship
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He probably should have paused and let her get out of the forming most pit instead of just waving at her, it doesn't sound like she got hurt too bad but my understanding is an unprepared person can get fairly hurt before the people around them realize what's happening.
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My vague understanding of moshing is it's several steps down from a stampede dynamic, where people have the ability to step back and give you space and stop if you get hurt and people are prepared and taking precautions to not get completely wrecked or wreck someone, but the tight packing and movement means someone who isn't prepared or is small can get hurt pretty bad pretty fast and once people start falling on other people you want to stop because that gets out of hand. What I'm saying is I'm kind of unclear exactly how hurt his ex-gf was because he's being so vague, and even if she only scraped her arm on something the dude who fell on her was wearing and is bruised up it's an absolutely terrifying situation to be in unexpectedly.
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Pinecone Sample posted:tldr: don't date guys Ehhhhh Pinecone Sample posted:tldr: don't date Nailed it
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Hellblazer187 posted:Hm. I guess I'm just not seeing how it would really even be possible. Sounds like everything happened really fast. quote:She ends up going down in the pit, and another dude trips over her and lands on her hard. I can see she's crying and screaming. The pit stops and some other girls pull her out. She's bleeding from her arm and goes to the bar, and I can see she's bleeding. She's pointing at her arm, screaming. I can't hear poo poo.
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