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sephiRoth IRA posted:AITA - for not allowing someone to propose during my wedding reception and for planning on not going to their wedding? 9/21/2020 is a Monday.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Because you give it away and then it's not yours anymore even though you spent your money and went through the trouble of procuring it. "You only got this in exchange for sleeping with me and if you stop sleeping with me its not fair that you get to keep it!"
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AITA for expecting a bite of my boyfriend's burrito?quote:Get ready for a petty AITA with my boyfriend. We are otherwise happy and I love his stupid rear end. So I (24F) was staying over at my boyfriend’s (24M) place and I made it very clear to him that I was pretty hungry. For background I am a big sharer - I always buy him stuff when I pick up or make food. I also go out of my way to save the remainder of any food I eat for him even though I’d be down to eat it later.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:11
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The Bramble posted:Girlfriend [26f] of 2 years tried on sexy underwear in front of her brother [26m] before showing it to me [28m]. Is that weird? I visited a friend in France once and all over his parents' house were nude pictures of his mom made by his photographer dad. Nothing graphic, stuff like a silhouette of her standing in the window or her half-draped in a sheet, but you could make out nipples and pubic hair and there were dozens of them. I asked him what he thought of having friends over with all those pictures all over the place; was he embarrassed? Did he get made fun of when he was a kid? (quizzical expression) "No? All of my friends, why would they make jokes? She is a beautiful woman and they all wanted to have sex with her."
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Jan 3, 2020 17:14
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for expecting a bite of my boyfriend's burrito? So he offered her some and she said no and then he made her other food and she's still complaining. Also, why is her hunger his problem?
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Jan 3, 2020 17:15
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Because she's hangry you empty husk.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:16
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Leon Einstein posted:So he offered her some and she said no and then he made her other food and she's still complaining. Also, why is her hunger his problem? beep boop
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Jan 3, 2020 17:18
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Leon Einstein posted:So he offered her some and she said no and then he made her other food and she's still complaining. Also, why is her hunger his problem? Serious q, are you a redpiller?
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Jan 3, 2020 17:19
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I mean, he's a weirdo for bringing it up again, but the whiny feed me look isn't great.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:20
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Leon Einstein posted:So he offered her some and she said no and then he made her other food and she's still complaining. Also, why is her hunger his problem? Because presumably you like and care about your girlfriend? And also she's a guest in your home?
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Jan 3, 2020 17:20
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Also she did get over it, he randomly brought it up 2 months later. Goddamn you have lovely takes leon.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:22
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AITA for putting extra food on my plate so my boyfriend can't eat it, meaning I get leftovers? My BF and I of 2 years spit all bills and costs down the middle (except all personal items or individual snack/lunch food). I'm finding it tough financially due to student loans and just entering a career. My BF is quite comfortable financially. I suppose I use my budgeting for a part of my reasoning behind what follows. When we have dinner together, I typically cook enough for a 4 person meal. My partner will have a 2 x 3 times portion of what I have. If I cook more, basically he just eats more - he works quite a labour intensive job. If there are any leftovers, my BF will always grab them for his lunch the next day. He works far earlier than I do, and uses that as his reason to take the left overs rather than buying or making lunch in the morning. I started to get slightly frustrated that I always had to purchase more food for myself for lunches. So I have started to put a bit extra on my plate every evening with the intentions of saving a small portion for my lunch the next day - meaning sometimes there was not enough for my BF to have leftovers. My BF caught on to what I was doing and said that I am being a really crappy person, since it is not his fault his body needs more fuel. While I do agree with him there, I also find it difficult when I'm already scraping the bottom of the barrel to get by financially, that I also have to fund his large appetite. Am I the rear end in a top hat here? Tl;dr - title.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:24
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for expecting a bite of my boyfriend's burrito? I am glad that two of the dumbest people in the world have found each other, leaving the rest of us to share our Mexican food with our partners in love and harmony.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:25
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for putting extra food on my plate so my boyfriend can't eat it, meaning I get leftovers? BF should be contributing more for food if he is eating all of it. It sounds like she's tried to address it and he isn't willing to leave leftovers in the fridge for her. It sounds like he doesn't think he needs to be responsible financially or emotionally for the amount he's eating, and it's affecting her. Sever.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:29
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Leon Einstein posted:I mean, he's a weirdo for bringing it up again, but the whiny feed me look isn't great. Do you often have a loved one shared how hungry they are as you take them home then make food for yourself without offering?
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Jan 3, 2020 17:29
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Tashilicious posted:Do you often have a loved one Let me stop you there.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:30
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Let me stop you there. nice
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Jan 3, 2020 17:31
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for putting extra food on my plate so my boyfriend can't eat it, meaning I get leftovers? Why can't they just talk to each other and figure it out
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Jan 3, 2020 17:31
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Mozi posted:Why can't they just talk to each other and figure it out odds are "she did mention it and hes an rear end in a top hat"
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Jan 3, 2020 17:32
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Mozi posted:Why can't they just talk to each other and figure it out It sounds like he makes excuses as to why he should have dibs on all leftovers.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:33
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Mozi posted:Why can't they just talk to each other and figure it out lmao, did you forget which thread you're in?
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also i cannot believe it needs to be pointed out again but women are socialized from birth to not make their presence opinions and needs heard.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:34
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AITA for not telling my landlord he's charging me way too low? u/AbdArc6m quote:When I moved in my appartment, almost a decade ago, the rent was proportional to the current market conditions, maybe slightly lower. Since then, the market has changed a lot, but my rent hasn't. Mostly because my landlord is old and doesn't take interest in current events and market changes. Get new loving friends, Jesus
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Jan 3, 2020 17:35
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I’m pretty sure this guy wants to gently caress his cousin...  WIBTA if I kissed my cousin on the cheek or on the forehead after giving her a gift for 60$ for her birthday? u/vietnowrevolver7m I'm a 17 year old guy and my cousin is 20. Her birthday is in less than two months, and I will buy her a gift for 60$ because I love her so much. I'm incredibly proud to be related to someone who is as ambitious, smart and sweet as my cousin. I was also thinking of giving her a hug and a kiss on the cheek or on the forehead after I give her the gift. I hope her boyfriend won't beat me up, but it will only be a completely platonic kiss. The kind of kiss you get from your grandma. Our grandma kisses us on the cheek sometimes so would it be a good idea if I did for the same on my cousin? Or would she get pissed and beat me up? To be fair though I wouldn't mind getting beat up from my cousin because she can do whatever she wants with me. TL;DR WIBTA if I kissed my cousin on the cheek or on the forehead after giving her a gift for 60$ for her birthday?
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Jan 3, 2020 17:37
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sephiRoth IRA posted:I’m pretty sure this guy wants to gently caress his cousin... 
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Jan 3, 2020 17:37
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Mozi posted:Why can't they just talk to each other and figure it out Because he doesn't get he's behaving shittily and that consuming a greater portion of the resources isn't a loving right when they share all costs equally. Nor does he value the cost of her preparing the loving food. Also, she's struggling and he's not and he doesn't see that this thoughtlessness will grind away her love for him.
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Jan 3, 2020 17:39
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sephiRoth IRA posted:I’m pretty sure this guy wants to gently caress his cousin... Roll Tide
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Regretfully I am 99% sure it’s a poo poo post as apparently the OP keeps making new accounts to repost after the posts get deleted, but maybe they’re just a weirdo too
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Jan 3, 2020 17:42
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sephiRoth IRA posted:AITA for not telling my landlord he's charging me way too low? send your landlord a really nice Christmas card and murder your friends before they blab
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Jan 3, 2020 17:51
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Regretfully I am 99% sure it’s a poo poo post as apparently the OP keeps making new accounts to repost after the posts get deleted, but maybe they’re just a weirdo too can you believe it? she got weighed underwater, and enjoyed it. her hair was in a ponytail. the shock
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Jan 3, 2020 17:51
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Tashilicious posted:Do you often have a loved one shared how hungry they are as you take them home then make food for yourself without offering? She drove herself over. This might have been avoided if she were just more direct, but probably not since the bf seems inattentive. "So I was staying over at my boyfriend’s place and I made it very clear to him that I was pretty hungry." "Anyways, before I agreed earlier in the day to drive over around 8 pm, I made it very apparent that I hadn't eaten since 11 am and was very hungry/needed to eat." Just add... "got anything in the fridge for me?"
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Jan 3, 2020 18:02
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for expecting a bite of my boyfriend's burrito? Best spoiler use in the last 1000 pages of this thread.
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Jan 3, 2020 18:06
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Sagebrush posted:I visited a friend in France once and all over his parents' house were nude pictures of his mom made by his photographer dad. Nothing graphic, stuff like a silhouette of her standing in the window or her half-draped in a sheet, but you could make out nipples and pubic hair and there were dozens of them. I asked him what he thought of having friends over with all those pictures all over the place; was he embarrassed? Did he get made fun of when he was a kid? What the hell
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Rosalind posted:Good vibrators are expensive. Expensive vibrators are expensive. Don't buy Big Buzz's lies.
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Jan 3, 2020 18:18
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sephiRoth IRA posted:AITA for not telling my landlord he's charging me way too low? Boot Lickers 2: Lick Harder. Promise you these are the exact same dweebs who drone on about *tHe InViSiBlE hAnD* except when it comes to groveling before landed gentry, I guess.
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Jan 3, 2020 18:20
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zakharov posted:What the hell it was acceptable in the europe. It was acceptable at the time.
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Jan 3, 2020 18:22
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kimbo305 posted:She drove herself over. This might have been avoided if she were just more direct, but probably not since the bf seems inattentive. "Made it very clear", "made it very apparent" If there was only a way to communicate your needs directly to your robot dude that clearly doesn't care about your insinuations.
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Sagebrush posted:I visited a friend in France once and all over his parents' house were nude pictures of his mom made by his photographer dad. Nothing graphic, stuff like a silhouette of her standing in the window or her half-draped in a sheet, but you could make out nipples and pubic hair and there were dozens of them. I asked him what he thought of having friends over with all those pictures all over the place; was he embarrassed? Did he get made fun of when he was a kid? Then we all had breakfast wine. ça va bien
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I[35M] have a few borderline personality disorders, and because of of that dating is impossible. I am thinking of using a mail order bride service and wanted to know if it was a serviceable idea. I have never had a lasting relationship. It isn't because I am bad looking or because of anything they did, it is because I am suffering from multiple " Because of this, starting and maintaining relationships has been all but impossible. I have been in therapy for these things for the better part of 30 years, and I have learned to "fake it" for the most part. I have found that faking it with a person that you are supposed to care about is impossible at least for me. The lack of attachments has made me fairly successful in my chosen field, and has afforded me the use of professionals whenever my sexual needs had to be met. I have also used professionals for company functions and weddings and other things that I needed to attend where attending alone would be a problem. For the last 5 or so years, aquaintences at work, and family have been asking why it is that I have not attempted to start a family, and i am lacking a suitable answer. I have been doing research on "mail order brides". The signup process isn't that difficult. It would also seem to solve the problem of hiring people to attend social functions and the like. I don't know if this idea is a good one, but it seems to solve the issues that I am having at the moment. What do you think? TL;DR I have
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I don't see anything that could possibly go right, so sure.
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