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Xenocides posted:I[35M] have a few borderline personality disorders, and because of of that dating is impossible. I am thinking of using a mail order bride service and wanted to know if it was a serviceable idea.
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Xenocides posted:I[35M] have a few borderline personality disorders, and because of of that dating is impossible. I am thinking of using a mail order bride service and wanted to know if it was a serviceable idea. this certainly won't end with some woman tolerating captain sperg here just long enough to get permanent residency and then divorcing him and taking half of his poo poo do it
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Jan 3, 2020 18:55
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PetraCore posted:That's not what BPD does. My rough understanding is BPD people do just fine forming attachments, they struggle to moderate their emotions and can flip from intense extremes aimed at the same subject. Is he trying to say that he has multiple personality disorders to a lesser/borderline degree?? I have no idea. Just like I have no idea why he put borderline in there with a strikethrough. I am guessing he is more of a sociopath.
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Jan 3, 2020 18:59
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Maybe he washes his rear end though and has a leg up? How can my husband[32M] and I[22F] best explain to his brother[35M] why he can't find a girlfriend? My brother in law can't find a girlfriend and he's starting to become really bitter about it. He goes on about how it's not fair that my husband is married and younger than him. He's even asked me if any of my friends from back home(I'm not from the US) would be willing to marry him for a green card or money. There's a reason no one wants to be with him. He's an alcoholic with a beer belly that only talks about sports and rents a room from a family, he shares his bathroom with the families kids. That's just not attractive. If my friends wanted a pale,pudgy alcoholic they'd stay where they are! How can we explain this to him without ripping him to shreds? tl;dr: My BIL can't get a girlfriend and wants me to get him a mail order bride. He doesn't realize that the fact that he can't get a girl is his own fault. Best comment comes from poster MAXIMUM FARTING with reasonable advice pointing out to him that he is worthless.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:02
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AITA for telling my GF to gently caress off trying to change me?quote:So, me and my girlfriend have been together for a year. We love each other but now my girlfriend seems to be fed up by something. She has not been able to sleep for a couple of days due to my snoring and loud breathing during sleep. She didn't sleep anything today. Of course when I wake up we have a talk about this because that bothered her so she brought it up and asked me to "please go to the doctor and sort it out, I want to be able to cuddle you and sleep next to you but you breath so loud and snore when you're asleep, if you care about me and this relationship do something about it". She has previously slept in the bathtub due to my snoring, lol. (she can't sleep on our sofa since its my parents house and they don't allow that). I woke up once with her sleeping in the bathtub. She is telling me to seek help. But this is who i am and i snore, she has to deal with it and don't ask me to change. The snoring's bad enough, but not brushing his teeth regularly? Eugh.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:02
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kimbo305 posted:She drove herself over. This might have been avoided if she were just more direct, but probably not since the bf seems inattentive. I don't know who tf would want to eat a few bites of a burrito that someone else noshed on, put away, and was noshing on again, even if you make out with that person everyday I have a bad history of girlfriends asking for a bite of something such as a burrito and having it just completely falling apart in their hands On either side, I would have offered and accepted the frozen tacos first anyway
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Jan 3, 2020 19:07
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Can’t use toothpaste due to minty taste? Does he not know other toothpastes exist?
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Jan 3, 2020 19:09
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Toothpaste too minty. Cant brush
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Jan 3, 2020 19:10
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DaveWoo posted:AITA for telling my GF to gently caress off trying to change me? "I don't brush my teeth regularly due to the minty taste of the toothpaste" I guess that settles it. There surely some people out there who don't wipe their butts, because the paper is too papery, or water is too wet.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:13
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Someone needs to make a toothpaste that tastes like an unbrushed mouth.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:13
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he needs to get that orange flavored toothpaste my mom used to get for me when I was a little kid, that stuff ruled it won't fix his atrocious personality but at least his teeth will be healthier
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Jan 3, 2020 19:14
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I usually get Marvis toothpaste in the jasmine mint flavor. It's a lot milder than something like Crest.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:16
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Yeah I don't like strong toothpaste flavors but somehow I manage to make do, and even using a toothpaste I dislike feels better than unbrushed teeth.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:17
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I don't have dental insurance and I have less than 500 dollars in savings at any given time, you better believe I brush AND floss since this guy is living with his parents, I would think that would heavily incentivize him to take care of his teeth, the one thing even european socialized healthcare tends to be really lovely about
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Jan 3, 2020 19:19
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The cool thing about stuff like hygiene and clothes is that you don't need to buy needlessly expensive stuff, but if you just pay slightly more than the cheap Walmart brand of everything you can likely get something that's far better and solves whatever problems you may have with it. It's like saving up for the $80 sneakers that will last for 5+ years instead of buying a pair of $10 sneakers that get holes in them and need to be replaced every 6 months. If you don't like your harsh cheap toothpaste, just buy the stuff that costs $10 a tube instead of $3 and it immediately solves that problem!
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Jan 3, 2020 19:22
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I wonder if there are "no toothpaste" people like the no shampoo or no soap people, arguing that the mouth is actually self cleaning and you only get plaque because you've accustomed your mouth to harsh chemicals, and just rinsing with water is perfectly fine and normal and actually better for your teeth.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:23
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What the gently caress kind of advice is that? Nobody needs $10 toothpaste; in fact brushing with just water is nearly as effective.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:23
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Leon Einstein posted:... in fact brushing with just water is nearly as effective. Brushing with morning waters even more so.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:25
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:I wonder if there are "no toothpaste" people like the no shampoo or no soap people, arguing that the mouth is actually self cleaning and you only get plaque because you've accustomed your mouth to harsh chemicals, and just rinsing with water is perfectly fine and normal and actually better for your teeth. Leon Einstein posted:What the gently caress kind of advice is that? Nobody needs $10 toothpaste; in fact brushing with just water is nearly as effective. Not even a minute passed.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:26
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:I wonder if there are "no toothpaste" people like the no shampoo or no soap people, arguing that the mouth is actually self cleaning and you only get plaque because you've accustomed your mouth to harsh chemicals, and just rinsing with water is perfectly fine and normal and actually better for your teeth. paleolithic human skulls had good teeth because they didn't cultivate grains, and therefore didn't really give the bad mouth bacteria those delicious carbs that turbocharge their growth I suppose I could see some health nutter believe their keto diet means they don't got to brush their teeth, but even cavemen used chewsticks
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Jan 3, 2020 19:26
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:I wonder if there are "no toothpaste" people like the no shampoo or no soap people, arguing that the mouth is actually self cleaning and you only get plaque because you've accustomed your mouth to harsh chemicals, and just rinsing with water is perfectly fine and normal and actually better for your teeth. Not exactly related to this but isn't there supposedly a tooth decay vaccine under development? Which is a wild concept to begin with frankly.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:30
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Remember, when buying an investment grade dildo or vibrator (S&P's BBB, Moody's BAA) that usage is tracked in hours, not miles, like you would expect. Just like with jet skis.Xenocides posted:The lack of attachments has made me fairly successful in my chosen field, and has afforded me the use of professionals whenever my sexual needs had to be met. I have also used professionals for company functions and weddings and other things that I needed to attend where attending alone would be a problem. Yeah, don't bring escorts to company events. Someone is going to recognize them.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:30
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DaveWoo posted:AITA for telling my GF to gently caress off trying to change me? wow a 21 year old adult, huh?
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Jan 3, 2020 19:31
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chitoryu12 posted:Not even a minute passed. I'm not saying that brushing is optional.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:31
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Leon Einstein posted:I'm not saying that brushing is optional.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:33
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PetraCore posted:That's not what BPD does. My rough understanding is BPD people do just fine forming attachments, they struggle to moderate their emotions and can flip from intense extremes aimed at the same subject. Is he trying to say that he has multiple personality disorders to a lesser/borderline degree?? Pretty sure he just doesn't know what the words "borderline" "personality" and "disorder" mean when they appear next to eachother.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:35
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cumshitter posted:Remember, when buying an investment grade dildo or vibrator (S&P's BBB, Moody's BAA) that usage is tracked in hours, not miles, like you would expect. Just like with jet skis. Real talk tho don’t skimp on things you stick inside yourself sexually. Your orifices will thank you. 
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Jan 3, 2020 19:36
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Someone repost the story about the guy who didn't brush because the feeling of the toothbrush annoyed him, and how he changed his entire diet and would just scratch at his teeth with his fingernails to clean them. The one where he changes every aspect of his life to avoid brushing and then ends by saying "I don't let this control my life."
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Jan 3, 2020 19:36
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teen witch posted:Real talk tho don’t skimp on things you stick inside yourself sexually. Your orifices will thank you.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:37
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Leon Einstein posted:Who is sticking a Hitachi inside of them?! Your mom.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:37
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I wonder if there are people who only brush their teeth the old style way like with soot and a boar bristle brush or something. Tooth cleaning hipsters.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:39
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big dyke energy posted:I wonder if there are people who only brush their teeth the old style way like with soot and a boar bristle brush or something. Tooth cleaning hipsters. I sometimes see facebook ads for dentifrice powder
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Jan 3, 2020 19:40
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Leon Einstein posted:Who is sticking a Hitachi inside of them?! Inside, around, up or out of. I don’t judge.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:40
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big dyke energy posted:I wonder if there are people who only brush their teeth the old style way like with soot and a boar bristle brush or something. Tooth cleaning hipsters. People definitely brush with charcoal still.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:41
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Leon Einstein posted:Who is sticking a Hitachi inside of them?! Prude
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Jan 3, 2020 19:43
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African chew sticks are making a big come back apparently. Hipsters will do anything if you make it sound exotic.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:45
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:I wonder if there are "no toothpaste" people like the no shampoo or no soap people, arguing that the mouth is actually self cleaning and you only get plaque because you've accustomed your mouth to harsh chemicals, and just rinsing with water is perfectly fine and normal and actually better for your teeth. I felt that way for a while without really articulating it that deeply. I too hated mint toothpaste and as a result didn't brush my teeth regularly for 17 years, and no dentist for the last 10 of those. Dated and got married during that time. When I started seeing a dentist again I had 3 cavities that weren't too severe. Got an electric toothbrush and my taste buds had dulled enough to tolerate toothpaste. Still only floss when I have bad breath or the week before the dentist. Ironically I stopped using shampoo at around the same time, which made my head stop being so itchy. I use antibacterial deodorant instead of antiperspirant and stopped sweating as much. And fine, I'll cop to being the guy who doesn't use soap. I haven't used soap in 6 years now and no one has noticed. If my MiL hasn't gleefully pounced on the fact that I smell, I guarantee that I don't.
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Jan 3, 2020 19:46
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i got one of those huge plastic turtle sandbox that i fill with fine grained Saharan sand and i bathe by taking off the untailored satin sheet i wrap around my luxurious curves and roll around in that dusty sumbitch like a gently caress-hungry chinchilla. then i anoint my hair with olive oil from olives i squeeze between my thighs, and by this time i am such a profoundly gritty greasy mess that legally i qualify as a clam fritter, so
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Jan 3, 2020 19:48
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:i got one of those huge plastic turtle sandbox that i fill with fine grained Saharan sand and i bathe by taking off the untailored satin sheet i wrap around my luxurious curves and roll around in that dusty sumbitch like a gently caress-hungry chinchilla. then i anoint my hair with olive oil from olives i squeeze between my thighs, and by this time i am such a profoundly gritty greasy mess that legally i qualify as a clam fritter, so Finally a pearl of wisdom.
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PetraCore posted:That's not what BPD does. My rough understanding is BPD people do just fine forming attachments, they struggle to moderate their emotions and can flip from intense extremes aimed at the same subject. Is he trying to say that he has multiple personality disorders to a lesser/borderline degree?? If he lacks empathy and can't form attachments, it could be anything from autism to sociopathy. People with BPD have many symptoms, but the ones relevant to this case is that they: 1. Have great difficulty moderating their emotions (especially anger) 2. Suffer from a fear of abandonment, often to an exaggerated degree 3. Have "black and white thinking" where they can't hold contradictory beliefs, usually in the sense of having difficulty comprehending a complex person as something more than "good" or "bad" This causes them to have extreme difficulty in their relationships. BPD is most commonly seen in people who suffered an abusive childhood and many of the symptoms are recognizable as coping methods or defense mechanisms; classifying a person as wholly bad because they did a bad thing allows them to immediately cut off someone harmful, which is useful in extreme situations but not a good way to handle adult conflict.
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