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Bruceski posted:Venmo is like Paypal but without the web integration. It's just folks through the app sending money to each other. As far as I know the app's not shady, but last I heard it was treated like sending cash so if, for example, someone got ahold of your phone and sent themselves your bank account's contents Venmo wouldn't do anything to help. Venmo is actually owned by Paypal.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:01 |
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AITA For being upset that the girl I’ve been seeing let herself into my place and did my laundry and dishes? I’ve been seeing a girl for just over a month and things have been really good! She is generally good with boundaries. Always asks if she can stay the night, etc. Enter yesterday. It’s my mother’s 60th Birthday and I’ve spent the whole day setting up this party. It’s finally midnight and we are leaving the hall. I turn on Spotify and I get notified that I am listening on my Xbox. I live alone in a studio apartment and haven’t been home since 9am. Turns out she decided to surprise me. Let herself in and did all my laundry and washed all my dishes. I live in a studio apartment and have virtually no privacy and after the hellish day that was my mom’s birthday-I was just exhausted. That last thing I wanted was for her to come to my place unannounced and do my laundry. AITA for being annoyed? She just said her peace and was upset I didn’t do a good job acknowledging how much work it was. EDIT: Thanks everyone for the advice. I think part of the problem is she still lives with her parents and it isn’t as big of a deal to her. We talked. She cried but ultimately I’m not breaking up with her over this. Going forward she knows that I need my personal space and I’ll for sure be locking my door no matter what going forward.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:01 |
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You gave a 1mo gf a key?
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:06 |
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Beachcomber posted:You gave a 1mo gf a key? His edit makes it sound like he just leaves his door unlocked all the time.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:09 |
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this guys an ingrate dipshit
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:12 |
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wizardofloneliness posted:His edit makes it sound like he just leaves his door unlocked all the time. Which is extremely dumb.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:13 |
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Motherfucker posted:this guys an ingrate dipshit Yeah we get that he left dishes out in true ingrate fashion. What we never investigate is just what the women in these threads must look like/ living situation in order to feel willing to settle for these fuckups
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:15 |
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Oh the AGONY of my mothers birthday, now a girl is doing my chores that I did not do for myself, for me, UNINVITED no less!! Why must everyone be so inconsiderate and CRU-EL!!
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:18 |
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wouldnt we call this stalker behavior if it was a guy
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:23 |
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TheDeadlyShoe posted:wouldnt we call this stalker behavior if it was a guy Eh, different dynamic. Plus this dude sounds like a reddit issue weenie so I feel less charitable.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:25 |
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Doing chores is aggression
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:25 |
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sneaking into my exes apartment to get revenge by stealing the gobbets of hair she sticks to the side of the shower
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:27 |
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Bruceski posted:Venmo is like Paypal but without the web integration. It's just folks through the app sending money to each other. As far as I know the app's not shady, but last I heard it was treated like sending cash so if, for example, someone got ahold of your phone and sent themselves your bank account's contents Venmo wouldn't do anything to help. A while back there was a convoluted post in legal advice about a guy claiming he was robbed by an escort who also accessed his phone and sent $2k from his account to hers and what were his legal options. The vast majority of responses were "you learned an expensive lesson" with a follow up of "lock your drat phone you moron"
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:30 |
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That guy really hit the jackpot. Normally unlocked doors result in getting robbed blind. Instead he got a surprise cleaning service. The girlfriend probably assumed the unlocked door was an open invitation to let herself in.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:32 |
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Motherfucker posted:Oh the AGONY of my mothers birthday, now a girl is doing my chores that I did not do for myself, for me, UNINVITED no less!! Why must everyone be so inconsiderate and CRU-EL!! It's actually super hosed up to enter someone's home without permission, especially during a time when you know they're going to be gone, hth
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:32 |
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pentyne posted:A while back there was a convoluted post in legal advice about a guy claiming he was robbed by an escort who also accessed his phone and sent $2k from his account to hers and what were his legal options. I have an app on my phone from my credit union which allows me to do phone banking, including transfers etc. The app has its own PIN which it requires, separate from the phone. Does venmo not have that?
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:41 |
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AITA for absolutely refusing to pay my ex girlfriend and her child after I came into money?quote:My ex girlfriend of 7 years cheated on me and initially led me to believe the child was mine when she was pregnant. Shortly before giving birth her father asked me to meet him where he told me he had reason to believe I wasn’t the father. How could anyone rationally argue that he would have any duty of care towards a woman who'd betray him like that?
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:44 |
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Maybe he keeps a spare key under the welcome mat or something.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:44 |
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Cockmaster posted:AITA for absolutely refusing to pay my ex girlfriend and her child after I came into money? Other people hoping hell loan them money they wont repay
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:48 |
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Cockmaster posted:AITA for absolutely refusing to pay my ex girlfriend and her child after I came into money? Is it a worse use of money than 'becoming a landlord' though?
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:49 |
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Cockmaster posted:AITA for absolutely refusing to pay my ex girlfriend and her child after I came into money? You know, they never once say if the kid is theirs or not. Wonder if that's on purpose?
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:51 |
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I have the same question about the kidTheDeadlyShoe posted:Is it a worse use of money than 'becoming a landlord' though? It does not say what she wants the money for so its hard to judge, because there remains the possibility she wants to open a restaurant.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:54 |
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ScentOfAnOtaku posted:You know, they never once say if the kid is theirs or not. The language he uses pretty clearly implies that it isn't his
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:55 |
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He clarifies in the comments that the kid isn't his.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 04:59 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not going to my brothers wedding over 'politics'? Siri, show me straight priviliege.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:05 |
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ScentOfAnOtaku posted:You know, they never once say if the kid is theirs or not. Comments say he got a paternity test and it isn't his.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:07 |
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QuarkJets posted:It's actually super hosed up to enter someone's home without permission, especially during a time when you know they're going to be gone, hth Show me on the doll where your friends sneaking into your apartment for a surprise birthday party hurt you.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:10 |
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Motherfucker posted:Eh, different dynamic. Plus this dude sounds like a reddit issue weenie so I feel less charitable. Both wanting your own space after a gathering, and being weirded out that someone is in your own without your knowledge or permission are really normal reactions. And you going so hard after this dude is frigging odd.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:10 |
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Dating my taken ex and the most jealous/toxic argument and situation you’ve probably heard about TL;DR - WE KNOW WE ARE TOXIC WE WANT ANSWERS NOT TO TELL US SOMETHING WE ALREADY KNOW No judgements we know we’re terrible just looking for answers (PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING DOWN BELOW) Me and ex are still in love. She’s super jealous, tells me to drop a platonic friend but she won’t breakup with the boyfriend she’s been cheating on with me. She wants me all to herself. Who should drop who and is it fair for her to keep her bf if i can keep my friend. Me [18M] and my Ex [18] dated for a good 9 months. We’re still madly in love hardcore to the point where we can’t be separated and always crawl right back to each other. She’s found a boyfriend, i have not been in a relationship since. We have been cheating without his knowledge throughout their entire relationship and once he found out recently my ex faced social consequences even after her bf forgave her. It’s been about a week and we’ve gone right back to cheating. We’re both heavily jealous, me of her boyfriend and her of any girl that isn’t family. She’s dating him to preserve her social life which was minimal to begin with. She’s forcing me to drop a platonic friend because she doesn’t want another girl to be talking to me. I said I won’t drop her because she hasn’t done anything wrong and won’t even consider it until she breaks up with her boyfriend. She refuses to break up with him because it’s “different”. She harasses my platonic with mean dms and i say that if she doesn’t stop I’ll let her bf know we’re still talking as he wanted her to block me on everything and is like a prison guard having her check her phone for messages and everything. If i message him he will break up with her and have her social life pretty much torn to shreds as she is involved with a lot of groups her bf is involved with or completely stop contact between the two of us. We’re not looking for judgement we just want a clear answer on who’s more in the wrong for all of our horrible actions as terrible people. I hate you both but you are nowhere near the most toxic. What you describe is also not love.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:42 |
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Don't leave your door unlocked, holy poo poo. Don't invite yourself over to your SO's place without their permission either, that's not cool.
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:44 |
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I (F31) live with my ex of ten years (M30) after he came out as gay a year ago. I’m trying to date someone new. If you’re anything like my friends your initial reaction will be “girl get the heck outta there!!” But it’s not so simple. I work full time but my wages are not enough to live alone. At this age all my friends are married with kids and can’t take me on. I have no family here as I live in a different city. I could flat with University students but at my ripe age I know it wouldn’t be good... So - I live in my own bedroom/lounge in the house me and ex hubby rent together. The thing is I’m finally hitting the dating scene. The guy I’ve started seeing knows my story and seemingly doesn’t mind. But deep down I feel like it may be damaging things. He can’t ever come here, and I have to drive out of town to see him. My ex has been dating since July. He has a steady boyfriend and to my disgust a girl he fools around with too. I’m over being upset about that... but I know I’m never going to truly get over it while I’m stuck here. Rent in this city is madly high, I could live in a small turd box with no money left, or I can live a comfortable life here in this emotional prison. I can’t weight it up. I know I’m not moving on the way I should be while I have to see the ex every day. And, if I was my new date I’d be slightly uncomfortable knowing he lived with his ex - even if she were gay... Financial ruin or never moving on?? I’m trying to get promoted at work but it’ll take time and a bit more of my soul. I could move back to my home city but all my friends and my new date are up here... and my job is the first job I’ve ever liked going to and I don’t want to lose that. I don’t know if advice will help... but any is appreciated. TL;DR: I live with my ex due to difficult circumstances and am anxious about dating and stuffing it up. Hi, this is my gay ex that I still live with. This is his boyfriend and this is the girl he is also fooling around with. He is totally gay though. Are you a character from a really bad soap opera?
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# ? Jan 13, 2020 05:49 |
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# ? Jun 5, 2024 07:07 |
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Made a new thread for you guys to post in: https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3910844
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