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OhAreThey posted:I'm interested in seeing what that would look like for Brits, Swedes, etc. The NHS has similar data, but I don't think anybody has made a lovely chart.
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OhAreThey posted:I'm interested in seeing what that would look like for Brits, Swedes, etc. It hits 73.85 in the third decile and skyrockets from there.
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The Bramble posted:*views skull drawings and prepares to deliver artistic critique on the subject, execution, and artist themselves* r/relationships: my girlfriend (351F) never smiles, would it be discriminatory to break up with her because she's a skeleton?
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Here's the weirdest thing you'll read today. My supervisor allowed one of my clients to sign-off a loan in his neighbor's name. How should I speak to my supervisor about this without getting fired from his intentional error? quote:I (36M) work at a loan agency and had to deal with an interesting client (32M), which unknowingly involves his neighbor (87M). I'm going to use the dialogue from the good parts, but you will see what problem I'm currently facing with my supervisor (41M) as well.
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The Bramble posted:Here's the weirdest thing you'll read today. This is so fake it has to be true.
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The Bramble posted:Here's the weirdest thing you'll read today. Why the gently caress is getting his boss fired not an option? That's probably criminal-charge poo poo right there.
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D34THROW posted:Why the gently caress is getting his boss fired not an option? That's probably criminal-charge poo poo right there. Per the comments, boss owns the company. Criminal charges are basically the only option.
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The Bramble posted:Here's the weirdest thing you'll read today. Has this been zapped? I need to see his replies.
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Tesseraction posted:Has this been zapped? I need to see his replies. He deleted his account so even those are gone.
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AITA for getting angry at my husband for continuing a behavior that might get us kicked out? quote:Sorry for lame title.
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I'm not a smoker, so I'm out of the loop. Would landlords actually care about you smoking on the property but outside? The smell and stains aren't an issue out there. I guess he could care about cigarette butts on the ground, but ideally if this is a once-in-a-while thing, you could remember to dispose of them.
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Bobulus posted:I'm not a smoker, so I'm out of the loop. Would landlords actually care about you smoking on the property but outside? The smell and stains aren't an issue out there. I guess he could care about cigarette butts on the ground, but ideally if this is a once-in-a-while thing, you could remember to dispose of them. If they care enough to have it in the lease, it's best just not to chance finding out if they care enough to enforce it. An apartment complex I lived in smoking wasn't allowed inside or in certain parts of the complex. But it really wasn't hard to just smoke on your patio, where it was allowed, or to go to one of the areas where it was allowed if you were elsewhere on the property.
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Bobulus posted:I'm not a smoker, so I'm out of the loop. Would landlords actually care about you smoking on the property but outside? The smell and stains aren't an issue out there. I guess he could care about cigarette butts on the ground, but ideally if this is a once-in-a-while thing, you could remember to dispose of them. Smoking outside doesn't leave the smoke smell outside when you come back inside. Everything he touches/sits on will reek.
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Bobulus posted:I'm not a smoker, so I'm out of the loop. Would landlords actually care about you smoking on the property but outside? The smell and stains aren't an issue out there. I guess he could care about cigarette butts on the ground, but ideally if this is a once-in-a-while thing, you could remember to dispose of them. A lot of people don't like the smoke around in general. This is without commenting or whether or not that's a reasonable thing for a leasing agreement. Anyway, lol if you believe a regular smoker saying some poo poo like "I'll take a walk every time I do it".
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Bobulus posted:I'm not a smoker, so I'm out of the loop. Would landlords actually care about you smoking on the property but outside? The smell and stains aren't an issue out there. I guess he could care about cigarette butts on the ground, but ideally if this is a once-in-a-while thing, you could remember to dispose of them. it's a little unreasonable to ban smoking entirely on the property, but it is legal to include that as a clause on a lease, and it is extremely stupid to routinely violate your lease when your landlord is also your neighbor probably the landlords just have a big problem with smoking of any kind, maybe for good reasons, maybe not. really bad idea to stick your hand on that oven to see how hot it is though!
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for getting angry at my husband for continuing a behavior that might get us kicked out? It's not "your own" driveway, it's the landlord's driveway and "no smoking on the property" means no smoking on the loving property. Do I agree with the landlord, no, but I don't think the wife is out of line.
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My coworker (44M) who I view as a father just confessed his attraction to me (22F)quote:As the title said, I had a very father/daughter dynamic with this man for the past year of working together. He knows that I view him as a father, especially because he reminds me of my actual dad. Over the past week he's been acting very weird towards me, but I assumed issues outside of work were effecting him.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:What I'm looking for is advice on how to establish boundaries at work so that he doesn't misinterpret politeness for attraction. i'm not sure at all that any young woman can thread that needle. unless you emit resting bitch waves, horny old men are going to interpret any sort of slightly positive interaction as attraction. you can only hope that the old men can keep their own horny contained
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Smoking juuuuuust outside usually bothers the other people instead. We live in a brownstone in Brooklyn where the houses are all connected. Like this: So our neighbor goes into his backyard to smoke, but stays close to the building. During the summer we like to keep the windows in our bedroom open, and the bedroom is at the back of the house on the second floor. So almost every morning around 6am from May to September we get to wake up to the smell of cigarette smoke because it somehow blows right back at the buildings but just a little to the right. EDIT: Smirking_Serpent posted:My coworker (44M) who I view as a father just confessed his attraction to me (22F) Ack, not even father figure, but father. After a year.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My coworker (44M) who I view as a father just confessed his attraction to me (22F) This is all her fault. Clearly leading this man on with her daddy issues.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Smoking juuuuuust outside usually bothers the other people instead. We live in a brownstone in Brooklyn where the houses are all connected. Like this: Sounds like you hosed you hosed up when you moved into an incredibly tight living situation
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causticBeet posted:Sounds like you hosed you hosed up when you moved into an incredibly tight living situation gently caress cigarettes
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Smoking juuuuuust outside usually bothers the other people instead. We live in a brownstone in Brooklyn where the houses are all connected. Like this: I have the same issue; my apartment bedroom is right above the door to the building and I get fumigated with pot smoke when folks think that's far enough to go before lighting up.
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ive quit smoking at this point but also gently caress people who get a whiff of tobacco, not even lingering tobacco, and act like its just the worst thing ever. fuckity off but then again ive lived this weird charmed life that currently has me living in a single family home w./ courtyard, literally near the geographic middle of a major city, and there a lot of space issue things ive somehow avoided
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Yeah New York would be super comfortable if you could just like buy a whole building and open up the first five floors for communal fuckabout space. Fuckin space smaller than a hotel room costs as much as a house there smh.
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AITA for selectively charging admission to my children's birthday party? quote:I have boy/girl twins in the same class who are turning 7 this year. For their birthday, I found a birthday party package at what is basically an interactive children's museum that they love.
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That's a weird-rear end school policy. My first suspicion is that the writer is somehow misunderstanding / misreporting it. How would the school even enforce that? edit: a bunch of the comments are that these rules are only in place if you are having the kid hand out the invites at school. He could completely bypass the problem by just mailing them to the parents or just calling them on the phone. Bobulus fucked around with this message at 20:10 on Mar 4, 2020 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my gf that her paintings are honestly not very good and super creepy? The skull is actually pretty good. A little lopsided, but that's really just a lack of expertise. She has a patience for small details that I lack. Every artist in the world draws like this at some point.
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I mean, all it takes to sell a piece of art is a willing buyer. Which isn't as easy as it sounds, but also doesn't mean skill is the only thing that matters (or even the main thing). Price 'em cheap enough as postcards or stickers, yeah you can absolutely sell those to some skull enthusiasts. However, turning 'sold a few pieces of art' into a regular gig that you can actually count on to sustain you is another thing entirely. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 20:09 on Mar 4, 2020 |
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Bobulus posted:That's a weird-rear end school policy. My first suspicion is that the writer is somehow misunderstanding / misreporting it. How would the school even enforce that? They can enforce policy on school grounds/during school hours. The policy probably exists so that a kid can't openly hand out invites to buddies in class making other kids feel left out. The parent should have just given the invites directly to their kid's friend's parents instead of somehow involving the school.
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it's fun to hate and it's socially acceptable for left leaning people to hate smokers, people do what they can get away with
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Bobulus posted:That's a weird-rear end school policy. My first suspicion is that the writer is somehow misunderstanding / misreporting it. How would the school even enforce that? yeah, my kid's school has the same policy. if you're going to distribute invites at the school then everyone gets an invite. otherwise contact the parents yourself without getting the school involved. i just made sure to adjust the cost for my kid's birthday downwards so we could afford a big party for all the kids. charging an entry fee is a pretty rear end in a top hat way to loophole around the problem
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AITA for wanting to name my child after my ex?quote:To make this short and spare myself the tears, i’ll make this situation as fast as possible.
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spacetoaster posted:They can enforce policy on school grounds/during school hours. The OP says in the comments that even with private invitations, if the school finds out the kids will be punished for it. Reddit's crowing about how they could sue if that happens, but you need more than $400 to hire lawyers.
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Licarn posted:The OP says in the comments that even with private invitations, if the school finds out the kids will be punished for it. the only possible way that this makes sense is that the OP misinterpreted school policy and is trying to save face by lying about it. unless it's some weirdo private school i don't see how the school would care about what happens at student birthday parties unrelated to school time or property
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In a country where 3rd graders are regularly strip searched at school that really doesn't seem like such a wild rule for a board to come up with
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Licarn posted:The OP says in the comments that even with private invitations, if the school finds out the kids will be punished for it. That's crazy. Either the OP didn't read the actual policy, or is in some weird cult school. A LOT of people never read policies, they just spout off whatever they heard someone else say about a policy as if it's fact.
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FormaldehydeSon posted:In a country where 3rd graders are regularly strip searched at school that really doesn't seem like such a wild rule for a board to come up with there might be a little bit of a difference with a school being able to police behavior on school property, versus off school property this difference might be why the key point is if party invitations are distributed in the classroom or elsewhere via alternative, non-school channels
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting to name my child after my ex? Let our daughter be a tribute to my late partner. Why would there be anything wrong with that?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting to name my child after my ex? quote:I tried not to tell her about it to avoid any problems, but as time went by, my fiancée hadn’t approved of any name yet. Last night i told her if we could name our daughter (ex’s name) and she completely freaked out. I love how he knew it would be poorly received, but just decided to go ahead and attempt to torpedo his entire relationship.
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