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My SO is my best friend. I guess that makes my wife a double loser.
Lord Frankenstyle fucked around with this message at 06:12 on Mar 29, 2020 |
# ? Mar 29, 2020 06:10 |
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# ? Jun 10, 2024 10:50 |
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Lol a woman cant be a best friend im not some gay
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# ? Mar 29, 2020 06:11 |
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im alone haah
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# ? Mar 29, 2020 06:12 |
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My partner is absolutely my best friend in the world. Why can’t you stop being a pedantic weirdo and just call your wife your best friend, OP?
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# ? Mar 29, 2020 06:22 |
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Yes she is. But only because I don't have any other friends
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# ? Mar 29, 2020 07:28 |
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Who What Now posted:Yeah, I think I'm just using best friend in a way different to most other people. Obviously the person I have the most in common with and want to spend the most time with is my SO. But I don't want to spend 24/7/365 with her, and she doesn't want that either, we're still two separate people. So if I'm not spending time with her my next choice is probably going to be the person I call my best friend.
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# ? Mar 29, 2020 07:33 |
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I have my friends and I have my wife. She's my best wife but she's not my best friend.
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# ? Mar 29, 2020 07:47 |
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I think this best friend poo poo is pointless labeling. If your spouse is not the person you'd want to spend the most time with out of everyone you know then you hosed up. That's how my wife & I roll at least. We have our own friends & interests of course but we spend most of our social time with each other. Coronapocolypse hasn't added any stress to the marriage, even as we raise a newborn together.
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# ? Mar 30, 2020 04:04 |
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I'm friends with your dad so I would say yes OP
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# ? Mar 30, 2020 04:14 |
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sudonim posted:I think this best friend poo poo is pointless labeling. If your spouse is not the person you'd want to spend the most time with out of everyone you know then you hosed up.
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# ? Mar 30, 2020 07:23 |
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If your SO isn't the first one you want to go to with a funny story or to share your troubles with then what the heck are you even doing
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# ? Mar 30, 2020 09:30 |
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Rat posted:If your SO isn't the first one you want to go to with a funny story or to share your troubles with then what the heck are you even doing render unto gbs
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# ? Mar 30, 2020 09:34 |
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I can talk to my best friend once a month and it’s cool. If my wife goes away for business for more than 1 night or so I get bummed out even though I’ll try and talk to her every night that she’s away anyway. She’s my wife; calling it a friendship is selling it far too short. So no my wife isn’t my best friend she’s the person I wanted to marry, live with, and have kids with. My best friend is the guy I want to drink beers and watch dude movies with.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 04:56 |
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Definitely Goku pants
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 04:59 |
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Chinatown posted:im alone haah Holy poo poo, you joined this site on 9/11 You can be my Best Friend instead of Goku pants if you want
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 05:00 |
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AFewBricksShy posted:I can talk to my best friend once a month and it’s cool. If my wife goes away for business for more than 1 night or so I get bummed out even though I’ll try and talk to her every night that she’s away anyway. This guy gets it
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 05:01 |
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Tosk posted:Holy poo poo, you joined this site on 9/11 Lowtax sold the ability to change your regdate to 9/11 for a while. Registration for the forums was actually closed on 9/11; no one who has the regdate actually registered on that date.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 05:03 |
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Neither of them exist, so... yes? no?
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 05:20 |
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kazr posted:Yes sorry about your marriage
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 05:49 |
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Who What Now posted:It goes Arrhythmia posted:Where are you getting the extra ~992,000,000,000 friends He’s counting his fleas as friends.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 06:00 |
Obsidianheart posted:Neither of them exist, so... yes? no? youre wasting your cuteness. DAMNIT!
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 06:07 |
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I couldn't possibly be closer to anyone else, no one else knows so much about me, and I have way more fun being with her than anyone else in the world by a huge margin. How could I not see her as my best friend?
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 06:22 |
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Yes, Mrs. Genesplicer is my best friend. We have been married for over 30 years. We prefer each other's company to that of any other person. Good thing, too. Our schools both closed down on March 13. We will not be going back until mid-August. That is a long time to spend with one person, unless you are really good friends with them.PinheadSlim posted:I couldn't possibly be closer to anyone else, no one else knows so much about me, and I have way more fun being with her than anyone else in the world by a huge margin. How could I not see her as my best friend? Exactly!
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 06:42 |
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Who What Now posted:So I got into it with a coworker when I said that my wife isn't my best friend. I explained that I love my wife more than anybody in the world, which means my relationship with her is fundamentally different than that of a friend, best or otherwise. I further pointed out that I did not want to share a bed with or sleep with any of my best friends, unlike how I feel about romantic partners. So what do you guys think? Is your spouse/partner/boytoy/galpal a friend, something more, or a mix of both? there are probably a lot of people with this same view, also people who would find the way you break down something like that endearing. i like to think you're in a happy marriage, op
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 07:17 |
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My dog is my best friend and I would rather have a beer than a missus.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 09:20 |
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just lol if you don't think your SO is the least annoying person you've ever met. if you aren't just vibing together wtf are you even doing
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 10:05 |
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AFewBricksShy posted:I can talk to my best friend once a month and it’s cool. If my wife goes away for business for more than 1 night or so I get bummed out even though I’ll try and talk to her every night that she’s away anyway. Exactly.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 15:15 |
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Literally A Person posted:
I appreciate the support on this. However a word of caution. If you explain it to your spouse that they are not your best friend, make sure you tell them about the rest of the other part, or they walk around for a week thinking you're just an rear end in a top hat.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 15:24 |
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sleeping with my bestie who is also my wyfe
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 15:34 |
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There's been lots of article the last few years about how having your spouse as your best friend is horrible for your marriage. https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/marriage-friendship-wife/
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 15:41 |
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Anyways, I think I wouldn't be friends with my best friend anymore if they tried to stab me because I bought the wrong kind of pasta at the store.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 15:43 |
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My SO was my best friend at the time we got together. I stayed with her when she was not my best friend, and left her when she was not my friend at all. I think that your SO needn't be your best friend because that's just too high of a bar. Some days you won't feel like they are, and some days you will. They're not loving perfect and it's really on you to understand that going in. But they should feel irreplacable a lot of the time.
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 16:16 |
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She's definitely my best friend, OP. Just don't tell my wife! Yukka yukka yukka
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 16:50 |
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Applewhite posted:She's definitely my best friend, OP. Just don't tell my wife! Yukka yukka yukka ITT you are using a vending machine that only accepts "my wife" jokes as payment
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 16:52 |
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Oh I'd marry you vending machine but mai wife would object
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 16:53 |
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OP has no friends
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 17:19 |
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I think my cat is my best friend and my boyfriend is a close second. I don't have many friends tbh
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# ? Apr 3, 2020 18:08 |
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Welp we broke up today lmaoooo
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# ? May 20, 2020 02:18 |
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Dixville posted:Welp we broke up today lmaoooo I'm sure you'll find another cat
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# ? May 20, 2020 02:21 |
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Dell_Zincht posted:I'm sure you'll find another cat
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