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Sunswipe posted:I bet the teenager loves sharing a bed with an 8 year-old.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 20:49 |
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Why were 8 year old twins sharing a king bed in the first place, what a bizarre sleeping arrangement
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 20:53 |
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Zeeman posted:Why were 8 year old twins sharing a king bed in the first place, what a bizarre sleeping arrangement My one and a half year old has recently taken over my wife and I's brand new king size bed and we are sleeping on our old mattress in the living room
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Oh, this is my dad except he's gotten significantly more chill and less terrible over the years. But he still sucks and I have no clue why my mom is still married to him! Does he still insist in sleeping in your bed with you?
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 21:02 |
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Batterypowered7 posted:Does he still insist in sleeping in your bed with you? Man, I wish I had a king size bed when I was a kid.
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:He doesn't. The two 8 year old twins share a bad, now with dad. Whoops, misread. That's still weird, right? I've got two sisters and they had to share a bedroom when we were kids, but they didn't have to share a bed.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 21:26 |
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Tomfoolery posted:New Zealand has no current Covid cases and is basically open for business. She must really love her boyfriend to want to stay with him / his lovely parents instead of enjoying a Covid-free existence. If she’s outside, she probably has some tedious quarantine procedure waiting for her to reenter the country. Plus the travel costs of flying there and back once school opens back up, unless OP is in Australia.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 21:35 |
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Mikl posted:"Be the bigger person" is code for "let someone who despises you walk all over you" apparently? havent had much experience with abusive families, have you?
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 21:35 |
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I dunno young kids or twins needing to share a bed for a little while isn’t crazy uncommon. Pretty sure I know a few families who needed to do that. The bed is not even close to that posters issue lol
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 21:35 |
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empty sea posted:I had geese as a teen and let me tell you, they are vengeful creatures who will gleefully run up to you, knowing you feed and shelter them, and still nonetheless grab your pantsleg in their beak and twist and jerk it furiously with all their might because they think it's your flesh and they are composed entirely of hate.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 22:01 |
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Zeeman posted:Why were 8 year old twins sharing a king bed in the first place, what a bizarre sleeping arrangement quote:Because they wanted something they can jump on. "And they can't jump on a twin size bed?" quote:Because a twin sized bed doesn't make a good wrestling ring.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 22:07 |
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hang on those are good points
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 22:08 |
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teen witch posted:AITA for having my son fill out a job application after a store employee/close friend asked him not to? deon cole's son working for a pet store now?
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 22:23 |
your parents divorcing loving rules sometimes. there's no hiding when two people who dont belong together are locked in a relationship pact. plus maybe you'll get double christmases sometimes.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 22:49 |
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Khanstant posted:your parents divorcing loving rules sometimes. there's no hiding when two people who dont belong together are locked in a relationship pact. plus maybe you'll get double christmases sometimes. this tbh; my parents were divorced and that meant i got double christmases every year. plus i didn't have to listen to them yelling and arguing all the time. it was win/win for everyone.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 23:05 |
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Divorce is cool and good and more people should do it.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 23:19 |
I'll divorce anyone who wants to right now, anybody, I don't care who you are.
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spacetoaster posted:Holy poo poo. So many giant problems could be avoided if people could just keep the horrible thoughts they have on the inside. un-uttered truths become poisonous
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Khanstant posted:I'll divorce anyone who wants to right now, anybody, I don't care who you are. Not if I divorce you first!
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 23:33 |
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Yup just gonna stay together for the kids, teaching them over the years that relationships are bound with bitterness, disinterest, and constant fighting. This is definitely a superior outcome to no longer being yoked to someone I don't like. ETA: Also, gonna divorce when they become adults, teaching them that they can never trust a relationship not to end suddenly, and guilting them with the fact that they were the reason their parents suffered for years and years instead of finding a less lovely living arrangement.
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# ? Jun 8, 2020 23:38 |
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The difference between masturbating to porn and someone in your real world (e.g. ex, work colleagues, facebook friends etc )quote:Bit of as ask reddit and relationship advice combined here... I have seen this come up quite alot on here but still in need of asking the question myself and hearing the opinions of you all. My age gap BF is telling me this is normal sexual behavior, is it? One of those great "the answer is in the question" concepts.
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 00:03 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:"And they can't jump on a twin size bed?" Ok, given this in the comments he is the best dad ever and every bad thing is mom's fault, full stop. Also it's sweet that he likes to tuck his boys in. In some countries parents share a bed with their kids until puberty.
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therobit posted:Ok, given this in the comments he is the best dad ever and every bad thing is mom's fault, full stop. But is it totally normal in Europe?
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 00:07 |
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Bed sharing could be an issue if the kids feel like it's weird or uncomfortable, but it's not inherently harmful to co-sleep with kids at any age or relationship. You could argue that the modern Western setup is more likely to be harmful, since it goes against how things were done for centuries/millennia. (I am not arguing that.)pentyne posted:The difference between masturbating to porn and someone in your real world (e.g. ex, work colleagues, facebook friends etc ) I like how BF holds both "this is my private time and not your business" and also "but it's totally normal and cool and you should also think it's normal and cool." Couldn't say whether there's a big problem in him jerkin to his ex, but there is a HUGE problem with him not even trying to engage with his current partner's discomfort.
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Puppy Time posted:Bed sharing could be an issue if the kids feel like it's weird or uncomfortable, but it's not inherently harmful to co-sleep with kids at any age or relationship. You could argue that the modern Western setup is more likely to be harmful, since it goes against how things were done for centuries/millennia. (I am not arguing that.) Sure these things happen without the age gap, but you'll get a regular post where a girl says "Hey, my bf is insisting I have to blow him every night or he gets migraines, this is insane right" and everyone laughs that he's trying something so dumb and the OP breaks up with him. If it's a agegap post its "I've been doing this for 6 months and I don't like it but I don't want him to think I'm weird what can I do?"
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 00:29 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for telling my mother-in-law she's a terrible parent? DCF is apparently child services, btw. Mikl posted:"Be the bigger person" is code for "let someone who despises you walk all over you" apparently? In my experience, yep. Has been ever since I was a kid at school. It can also mean "What is harming or bothering you doesn't bother me, but you bitching about it does, so shut up."
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pentyne posted:The difference between masturbating to porn and someone in your real world (e.g. ex, work colleagues, facebook friends etc ) The answer here is clearly to start doing it back, as it were... solicit porn of one if his friends and go to town. See how long he thinks it's ok.
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 00:54 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:In my experience, yep. Has been ever since I was a kid at school. It can also mean "What is harming or bothering you doesn't bother me, but you bitching about it does, so shut up." Ideally, it's supposed to be a deescalation thing, where you don't go aggro on milder slights because that'll just lead to everyone involved getting hosed up, and probably a few people who weren't involved. In practice, yeah, it's used as a status quo enforcement way too often, which is why so many people go the Karen route: they know that it'll get them what they want because people value peace over fairness in a lot of settings.
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 01:00 |
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AITA for telling my friend his frosted tips make him look like a guy named Zack?quote:Yes this is a validation thing, i dont think what i said was very offensive. For clarity, he had a brother named Zack who died like a year ago who i never met. He got super touchy and stuff when i made fun of the name zack. As if people arent allowed to hace the same name. i didnt do it with the intent to hurt his feelings. the existence of his brother, andhis subsequent death slipped my mind
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for telling my friend his frosted tips make him look like a guy named Zack? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qc_PO32nT4g
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 03:33 |
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AITA I arrested my friend’s dnd character.quote:So I’m dmming a campaign and this just happened yesterday, I know I’m probably in the wrong here but I need another opinion. (I want you to keep in mind we’re all under the age of 16 so we’re all very chaotic and this is a homebrew)
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 03:38 |
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empty sea posted:I had geese as a teen and let me tell you, they are vengeful creatures who will gleefully run up to you, knowing you feed and shelter them, and still nonetheless grab your pantsleg in their beak and twist and jerk it furiously with all their might because they think it's your flesh and they are composed entirely of hate. They will also beat at your legs with their wings while they try their damndest to rend and tear your "flesh" until you kick and kick at them and they finally give up. My aunt had a flock of Guinea hens and was forced to get rid of them because they decided they owned the entire small town she lives in and cornered her neighbor in his garage. I convinced her to name the alpha Guinea Loggins though, so that was fun.
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AITA for reminding my sister that she is dumb after she keeps reminding me that I am the affair babyquote:Throwaway because I don't want my older sister to read this
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CherryCola posted:My aunt had a flock of Guinea hens and was forced to get rid of them because they decided they owned the entire small town she lives in and cornered her neighbor in his garage. A lot of folks pair em with chickens to keep them from just running amok. Guinea fowl are territorial but also kinda too dumb and wild to remember they can go home. They'll follow the chickens back when it gets to bedtime since they flock strongly they just assume the chickens know what they're doing. Guinea fowl are just overall really weird lil bug eating noisy bastards. threelemmings fucked around with this message at 04:36 on Jun 9, 2020 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for reminding my sister that she is dumb after she keeps reminding me that I am the affair baby ESH. They're both dumb teens who need to be separated from each other before one of them chews the limbs off of the other.
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 04:29 |
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AITA for pointing out that my mom is as much of a gold digger as my sister's bf?quote:My (21f) mom (53) met my dad (54) in college. My dad comes from old family money, but my mom's family was very middle-class. But when my sister (24) and I were growing up, my mom acted like she had always been upper class, and is very snobbish. I remember how we would go to dinner with her siblings and she would insist on choosing the restaurant to make sure it was "up to her standards" make a big show of paying the bill, and then would poo poo-talk her siblings and their spouses/kids the whole way home, making fun of their clothes, cars, jobs, you name it. She has always placed importance on whoever was wealthiest/had the "best" family, and wouldn't let my sister and I hang out with kids after school who weren't up to her "standards." It's made our relationship a little strained, especially since she obsesses about these things today, but she's my mom and I love her. Enjoyed this one Irony here is that OP's mom was a much harder gold-digger by her own standards. Dude in the story is self-funding his way through law school in 2020 (for better or for worse I'm not saying this is necessarily a good idea), OP's mom went to college in the 80's when it was super cheap and just married someone from a wealthy family right out the gate. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 04:40 on Jun 9, 2020 |
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AITA for always telling my disfigured virgin twin brother about my successful sex life when he has a hard time dating?quote:We are 27 year old twins, he lives on his own and so do I. We hang out a few times a week, I usually go to his place.
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# ? Jun 9, 2020 04:38 |
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He's definitely thoughtless but unless I misinterpreted it seems like he gets it and wasn't actually trying to be a dick to his brother. Just didn't think about it. More of a sad one, sucks all around for everyone.
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threelemmings posted:He's definitely thoughtless but unless I misinterpreted it seems like he gets it and wasn't actually trying to be a dick to his brother. Just didn't think about it. It's p hard not to think about that, I would say if they were super young it could be a mistake but if they're 27 OP has basically gotta be a narcissist or sociopath to not connect those dots.
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