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1) saying "cum gutters" absolutely is different from saying "I find this wrestler attractive" 2) saying "I find this wrestler attractive" is completely unnecessary and adds very little to the discussion in the first place. So let's just not.
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smarxist posted:Man, I must have way differently calibrated sensibilities than I thought, because I'm pretty The horny is constant and pervasive. It isn't just innocent emotes and to try and frame it as that is disingenuous. Jordynne Grace, Hikaru Shida, Kota Ibushi, Anna Jay, Shazza McKenzie, and the list continues on and on of wrestlers who have had strings of posts just talking about their body and people being horned up over them
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in general, and the AEW threads (only ones I really post in) have been pretty mild and have only really gotten weird/gross to the point of needing a corrective maybe a half dozen times.
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sorry if it seemed like I was trying to downplay it, that's what I mean by what my sensibilities are and what I feel it has amounted to versus what's actually going on. I can see how a more pervasive undercurrent can be intolerable.
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The admin solution to this kind of thing is always just to add another mod. So everyone draw straws, I guess.
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Honestly I think Would you Say this to their face is a good rule of thumb
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As rooster teeth recently noticed the 2000s moderation attitude is very outdated
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We're getting closer to a tweet about Quack... https://twitter.com/dabryceisright/status/1274077493457235976 https://twitter.com/thecherryfox/status/1274082038493196290
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cams posted:this is part of why i am completely open to the idea that my idea of how people wanna post on this forum is completely out of date, cause i had to think about whether or not that was true for a second. been posting here long enough that i used to pirate, among other things, pornography from torrents on this forum. i have accepted that my idea of how people wanna post is completely divorced from the modern reality. please stop posting for the love of god
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smarxist posted:Everyone stays pretty chill and positive, and most of the gawking at athlete bodies is confined to posting their own tweets or it’s a difference of degrees and how you keep talking about bodies in this thread of all places is pretty weird there duder! that link John Cena posted is a pretty good example of how lame this sub is. lecherous comments going unpunished and defended, Jerusalem telling people to “use the report button” as if that would do anything, and coconono posting his twitter constantly as if everyone should give a poo poo and now here we are, the town pervert felt emboldened enough to make a sketchy list, always a good thing on this website, and accuse a woman wrestler of threatening him in a thread about abuse.
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Junpei Hyde posted:please stop posting for the love of god Uhh...aren't you literally able to make this happen?
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Junpei Hyde posted:please stop posting for the love of god use your loving buttons! what the gently caress!
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WatermelonGun posted:it’s a difference of degrees and how you keep talking about bodies in this thread of all places is pretty weird there duder! Yeah one of the major reasons I stopped posting often tbh
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WatermelonGun posted:and how you keep talking about bodies in this thread of all places is pretty weird there duder! gently caress off with this bullshit, addressing the content and what's being discussed and how is integral to any cultural changes
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Junpei Hyde posted:please stop posting for the love of god Stop the culture.
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Dango Bango posted:Uhh...aren't you literally able to make this happen? I would like them to just stop, and if they can do that I dont need to do anything else
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Junpei Hyde posted:please stop posting for the love of god (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST) (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Junpei Hyde posted:I would like them to just stop, and if they can do that I dont need to do anything else Clearly wishful thinking isn't working.
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LionYeti posted:Honestly I think Would you Say this to their face is a good rule of thumb
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JOHN CENA posted:I've been away from this forum for a few months now. The reason is because for a long time I found a lot of the posting in the AEW threads creepy and borderline disgusting. I brought up my concerns with it in the past here in this forum and was shouted down for it, the only person really seeing things from my perspective being yea ok. I went to the mod of this forum to talk about it, and he handwaved it saying he didn't see it as a problem. More months go by, it wasn't getting better so I PM'd the mod again, he said that he had never seen the hornyposting (which is a term i loving hate, it's just gross posts.) He said he never saw these posts and I should have been reporting the posts (I was) and PM'd him in the past (I definitely did) to show him there was a track record. I pointed out that I had done these things, and all he had to say was I should continue to report said posts, and the majority of the ones he did see were "tongue in cheek. So I went to the admins. They said the mod's defense was that the posting was a "time honored in joke" that the other mod of this forum happens to enjoy and doesn't want to disrupt. I was flat out told if the mods don't want to stamp out the culture, the admins were not going to be stepping in. The most I could do was report posts, which clearly wasn't working since the admin told me they hadn't seen ANY reports from that thread. It was suggested to me that it might be better for me to find other places to post in, so I did. It actually killed a lot of my interest in wrestling. So I still post here on SA, I still like SA, but I can't even lurk in this forum without being creeped out. Thank you for posting this. The posts in here are making me look at my past posts and behavior and I promise I will be better. I am sorry to anyone who felt uncomfortable to post here. Also if me not posting here would make people more comfortable I will happily leave because I love you guys and never wanted to hurt you.
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smarxist posted:gently caress off with this bullshit, addressing the content and what's being discussed and how is integral to any cultural changes no it’s just you justifying your own perversions and downplaying your own contribution to the problem.
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Junpei Hyde posted:I would like them to just stop, and if they can do that I dont need to do anything else
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MorrisBae posted:We're getting closer to a tweet about Quack... The fact that Quack's a fairly well documented weird rear end in a top hat and seems to be known by a good chunk of people yet nothing's been done about it is weird. I don't know if he's a sex pest, but have heard of some rumors about bullying early on in the days of CHIKARA's wrestling school.
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MorrisBae posted:We're getting closer to a tweet about Quack... I really hope this is the worst thing Bryce has ever done because I don't want to believe he's an actual loving monster, too.
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I gave them the smallest hurdle and they couldn;t clear even that. Anyway clearly the way I was treating horny posting was bad and made a lot of people super uncomfortable and I sincerely apologise for that and will try and stamp down on that going forward.
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(edit) nevermind, it;s not worth it
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cams was trolling or impossibly dumb, either of which should take a break from this thread for a while.
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Junpei Hyde posted:I gave them the smallest hurdle and they couldn;t clear even that. It absolutely was. Do better.
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Anything would be better than "unilaterally allowing it" so you also have the smallest hurdle to clear
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Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Not gonna lie, it feels strangely relieving to see so many people come out and say that they also find the creepy bullshit too much. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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cams posted:lol for real, i am trying to be honest and have a dialogue about my behavior which i have admitted is wrong. doing my best to explain where i am coming from in an honest matter. if there's something wrong with how i'm posting then loving do something about it because i am at a loss. listen to the people who hate what i am saying and do something about it. you do not need to explain where you are coming from. you have said you would try to improve and that's good and I honestly hope that you do. we all have things we can work on. i do too.
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Chromatic posted:Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot kind of hosed up
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Chromatic posted:Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot great joke
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Chromatic posted:Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot Not here please.
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Chromatic posted:Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot what if they didn't do this because joking about this is dumb and bad, like this post
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Chromatic posted:Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot Read the room for fucksake.
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Chromatic posted:Someone should accuse Orange Cassidy of sexual misconduct and the proof just being a blank Twitter DM screenshot How about no.
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StarkRavingMad posted:I haven't seen him say anything perverted and discussing the parameters about what is and isn't acceptable seems appropriate the thread is about abusive wrestlers and he keeps talking about he just wants to admire wrestler’s bodies and how he wants to do that in a nice way. its weird. also he posted a gigantic ban me screed a while ago and yet is still here, posting like a dipshit without any integrity. gently caress him, and gently caress you too.
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