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owlhawk911
Nov 8, 2019

come chill with me, in byob

McCracAttack posted:



What's the point of silicone wedding rings? I get that they're safer to wear in various situations where the ring might get damaged or be a danger to your finger. But why not just take your wedding ring off during those activities?

i've never heard of or seen one before, and i'm guessing the point of em is to sell you some dumb bullshit just like 90% of everything else

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Memento
Aug 25, 2009


Bleak Gremlin
Lots of people never take off their wedding ring, like, at all. My father in law can't take his off because he wore it during his first-class cricket career, and now it's more of a D-shape from all the cricket ball impacts.

Arcsech
Aug 5, 2008

McCracAttack posted:



What's the point of silicone wedding rings? I get that they're safer to wear in various situations where the ring might get damaged or be a danger to your finger. But why not just take your wedding ring off during those activities?

I don't use them myself, but I can think of a couple reasons: Some folks have A Thing about taking off their wedding ring (or their partners do) and these seem like a decent solution to that, or they might be useful when traveling in a high-theft area but you still want to retain the "I'm married" signal.

Trapick
Apr 17, 2006

Some people like to wear wedding rings. If you're in a profession where a metal ring would be dangerous it's a good option instead of not wearing a ring for half the time (again, assuming you like to wear a wedding ring).

wash bucket
Feb 21, 2006

Arcsech posted:

I don't use them myself, but I can think of a couple reasons: Some folks have A Thing about taking off their wedding ring (or their partners do) and these seem like a decent solution to that, or they might be useful when traveling in a high-theft area but you still want to retain the "I'm married" signal.

Trapick posted:

Some people like to wear wedding rings. If you're in a profession where a metal ring would be dangerous it's a good option instead of not wearing a ring for half the time (again, assuming you like to wear a wedding ring).

I've heard that answer too but it never made sense to me because the process is:

1. Take off your wedding ring.
2. Put on this other ring that isn't your wedding ring.

Like, you didn't swear to have and to hold your dearly beloved with this $15 ring you got off Amazon. So why bother? I'll accept that this is why these thing exist, I just can't follow the logic.

Trapick
Apr 17, 2006

McCracAttack posted:

I've heard that answer too but it never made sense to me because the process is:

1. Take off your wedding ring.
2. Put on this other ring that isn't your wedding ring.

Like, you didn't swear to have and to hold your dearly beloved with this $15 ring you got off Amazon. So why bother? I'll accept that this is why these thing exist, I just can't follow the logic.
If you lose your original wedding ring and get another copy, and you and your spouse agree it's now your wedding ring, isn't it? I'd say if you wear some other ring, and you and spouse treat it as a wedding ring, it now is one. Like, "wedding ring" is a property that can be bestowed on another ring in my mind. I guess I see it more as a marriage ring than a wedding ring, to be pedantic.

CrazySalamander
Nov 5, 2009

Trapick posted:

Some people like to wear wedding rings. If you're in a profession where a metal ring would be dangerous it's a good option instead of not wearing a ring for half the time (again, assuming you like to wear a wedding ring).

I'd probably pick up one of these if I worked in a machine shop. I haven't taken mine to the cleaners for years because having it off bugs me. It's like that dread from a cell phone or wallet being missing but worse.

hooah
Feb 6, 2006
WTF?
I've thought about getting one since my metal ring is almost too big a lot of the time, and since it's tungsten carbide it can't be resized.

wash bucket
Feb 21, 2006

Okay, I'm the odd one out here. Every time I ask about silicone rings I get a bunch of answers just like these that also don't make sense to me. But it's clearly me who isn't getting it.

I just can't imagine someone like my grandmother getting mad at my grandad for taking his ring off to work on a tractor but then being relieved when he agreed to wear a milk carton ring around his finger until he was done.

hooah
Feb 6, 2006
WTF?
I don't know about other folks, but if I got a silicon ring it'd be a permanent replacement.

wash bucket
Feb 21, 2006

hooah posted:

I don't know about other folks, but if I got a silicon ring it'd be a permanent replacement.

That would actually make more sense to me. I've only even seen them like getting ready to go on a mountain bike ride and someone takes off their wedding ring, throws it in their glove box, and puts on a silicone ring. Like, dude, we weren't going to get confused and hit on you during the ride. We've all met your wife.

Trapick
Apr 17, 2006

McCracAttack posted:

That would actually make more sense to me. I've only even seen them like getting ready to go on a mountain bike ride and someone takes off their wedding ring, throws it in their glove box, and puts on a silicone ring. Like, dude, we weren't going to get confused and hit on you during the ride. We've all met your wife.
If you time it just right you can pounce on him when he doesn't have one on and bam he's your husband now.

Powered Descent
Jul 13, 2008

We haven't had that spirit here since 1969.

McCracAttack posted:

That would actually make more sense to me. I've only even seen them like getting ready to go on a mountain bike ride and someone takes off their wedding ring, throws it in their glove box, and puts on a silicone ring. Like, dude, we weren't going to get confused and hit on you during the ride. We've all met your wife.

If they're used to having a ring on all the time, then their brain might constantly be throwing the "AAAAAAAAA your ring, you lost your ring, look around and find your ring!" alert. Wearing a dummy ring might turn off that distraction.

I've done a similar thing but with a wristwatch. I've worn a watch since I was a kid, it's just part of my clothes at this point. One time my watch broke, and for some reason or other, it was a few days before I could get to the store to pick up a replacement. But going bare-wristed would constantly set off that little alarm in my head, so I just wore the broken useless watch for those few days to shut it up.

JesustheDarkLord
May 22, 2006

#VolsDeep
Lipstick Apathy
My original wedding ring is somewhere in Neyland Stadium

wash bucket
Feb 21, 2006

Trapick posted:

If you time it just right you can pounce on him when he doesn't have one on and bam he's your husband now.

Married life is more stressful than I realized.

tuyop
Sep 15, 2006

Every second that we're not growing BASIL is a second wasted

Fun Shoe
My wife and I don’t wear rings because we think they’re gross.

El_Elegante
Jul 3, 2004

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Biscuit Hider
Gross? My gold ring was probably the most antimicrobial surface I’ve ever worn

alnilam
Nov 10, 2009

Powered Descent posted:

If they're used to having a ring on all the time, then their brain might constantly be throwing the "AAAAAAAAA your ring, you lost your ring, look around and find your ring!" alert. Wearing a dummy ring might turn off that distraction.

For me it's this, although my normal ring is wood and my substitute is cheap stainless steel, i just switch it on beach or swimming days

My wife also has a substitute ring because she's a surgeon and wants something lower profile for the OR. She says as a woman having something on reduces her male patients' creep levels by half. Old men suck in that way.

JIZZ DENOUEMENT
Oct 3, 2012

STRIKE!
Is there a website to track airplane flight patterns over an area?

I don't need it to be live, I just want to see generally where they fly, over a specific area.

I want to look at cities and see where planes fly over residential areas.

tuyop
Sep 15, 2006

Every second that we're not growing BASIL is a second wasted

Fun Shoe

El_Elegante posted:

Gross? My gold ring was probably the most antimicrobial surface I’ve ever worn

Metaphorically gross. A little symbolic chastity belt that also represents like, conspicuous consumption and dowries and wealth consolidation and the raping of the global south. all sorts of hosed up poo poo. Just gross.

FCKGW
May 21, 2006

McCracAttack posted:

That would actually make more sense to me. I've only even seen them like getting ready to go on a mountain bike ride and someone takes off their wedding ring, throws it in their glove box, and puts on a silicone ring. Like, dude, we weren't going to get confused and hit on you during the ride. We've all met your wife.

Maybe you should mind you own drat business.

Jyrraeth
Aug 1, 2008

I love this dino
SOOOO MUCH

JIZZ DENOUEMENT posted:

Is there a website to track airplane flight patterns over an area?

I don't need it to be live, I just want to see generally where they fly, over a specific area.

I want to look at cities and see where planes fly over residential areas.

Dunno if they do the heat map style "this many airplanes fly over this area" type things, but I love watching flightradar24 when I'm hanging out looking at the sky.

E: forgot about the times we live in lmao live maps are kind of useless lately

Jyrraeth fucked around with this message at 08:45 on Oct 2, 2020

greazeball
Feb 4, 2003



My wife works for a non-profit and didn't feel it was appropriate to go to the field wearing the (heirloom) diamond engagement ring I gave her. She's also rather sentimental so she asked me to buy silicon rings so she would still be wearing something from me. Then this year she started getting worried that all the hand washing and sanitizer gel she was using was going to make the rings fall off somehow so she wore them here for another four months and kept her other rings safe in a drawer.

dirby
Sep 21, 2004


Helping goons with math

greazeball posted:

My wife works for a non-profit and didn't feel it was appropriate to go to the field...
Jumping off this, but what is the standard implication/thing people imagine when someone "works for a nonprofit"? Because 1. I work for a nonprofit and it's a regular office job and 2. No one around me in the organization does anything I would phrase as "go to the field".

I fully accept my case could be an outlier, I just want to know what the stereotype is/what people are supposed to envision when reading greazeball's post.

Memento
Aug 25, 2009


Bleak Gremlin
I know some people who work in Africa for mining companies who regularly go out and do things like drill water wells and do earthworks for villages where the need arises. I assumed greazeball meant that sort of thing, going and doing humanitarian works in remote locations.

Literally Lewis Hamilton
Feb 22, 2005



I have like 5 silicone rings that are different colors so I can look cool. Why would my partner give two shits about what ring I’m wearing? Most of the time we’re not even wearing them, especially at home.

greazeball
Feb 4, 2003



dirby posted:

Jumping off this, but what is the standard implication/thing people imagine when someone "works for a nonprofit"? Because 1. I work for a nonprofit and it's a regular office job and 2. No one around me in the organization does anything I would phrase as "go to the field".

I fully accept my case could be an outlier, I just want to know what the stereotype is/what people are supposed to envision when reading greazeball's post.

Oof, it seems I'm in a bubble here and haven't really thought about how I talk about my wife's work in a while (also I usually just tell people where she works instead of being cryptic about it). We live in Switzerland and there are a lot of international aid organisations here and their beneficiaries are often in emergency situations in African, Asian and mid- or near-Eastern countries caused by wars, natural disasters or ethnic conflicts.

She works in comms and fundraising so usually it's just normal office work in town. But she makes annual trips to visit the projects they're financing (she works in a long-term development org now, as opposed to emergency medical where she worked before) so she can document progress and produce better fundraising materials. These are in west Africa in both urban and rural areas. In the past she did logistics work for a medical aid org and those trips included time in some very large refugee camps in east Africa and southeast Asia.

I said oof because I feel like I somehow expressed the same attitude as her colleagues in the medical aid org who felt like field work was the only work that counted and that the comms and fundraising people weren't ~real~ members of the org. The projects need their money (which includes field workers' wages!) from somewhere though and important planning, strategic and management tasks get done in head office, even if they aren't emergency pediatric surgeries. It sounds like my phrasing may have belittled the work you and many many many other people do for non-profits so I apologise if that was the case because it wasn't my intention!

wash bucket
Feb 21, 2006

FCKGW posted:

Maybe you should mind you own drat business.

Nah.

Slimy Hog
Apr 22, 2008

Why are people so up in arms about other people's choice in jewelry?

GOD FORBID PEOPLE DO SOMETHING SO SMALL AS CHANGE WHICH RING THEY WEAR!!!!!!

StrixNebulosa
Feb 14, 2012

You cheated not only the game, but yourself.
But most of all, you cheated BABA

I want a new tea mug like this:



But with a fun or custom design on it. Where do I look for that online? Etsy?

Manager Hoyden
Mar 5, 2020

tuyop posted:

Metaphorically gross. A little symbolic chastity belt that also represents like, conspicuous consumption and dowries and wealth consolidation and the raping of the global south. all sorts of hosed up poo poo. Just gross.

:jerkbag:

owlhawk911
Nov 8, 2019

come chill with me, in byob

greazeball posted:

Oof, it seems I'm in a bubble here and haven't really thought about how I talk about my wife's work in a while (also I usually just tell people where she works instead of being cryptic about it). We live in Switzerland and there are a lot of international aid organisations here and their beneficiaries are often in emergency situations in African, Asian and mid- or near-Eastern countries caused by wars, natural disasters or ethnic conflicts.

She works in comms and fundraising so usually it's just normal office work in town. But she makes annual trips to visit the projects they're financing (she works in a long-term development org now, as opposed to emergency medical where she worked before) so she can document progress and produce better fundraising materials. These are in west Africa in both urban and rural areas. In the past she did logistics work for a medical aid org and those trips included time in some very large refugee camps in east Africa and southeast Asia.

I said oof because I feel like I somehow expressed the same attitude as her colleagues in the medical aid org who felt like field work was the only work that counted and that the comms and fundraising people weren't ~real~ members of the org. The projects need their money (which includes field workers' wages!) from somewhere though and important planning, strategic and management tasks get done in head office, even if they aren't emergency pediatric surgeries. It sounds like my phrasing may have belittled the work you and many many many other people do for non-profits so I apologise if that was the case because it wasn't my intention!

tell your wife i said thanks


:jerkbag: yourself buddy

Clockwork Sputnik
Nov 6, 2004

24 Hour Party Monster
In Gmail, when you mark something as read without opening it, does it send a read receipt to the sender or perform any other action (for example pulling an image from a server, etc), or does it simply remove the unread flag on the user side?

El_Elegante
Jul 3, 2004

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Biscuit Hider

Marriage is inherently misogynistic and I have nothing but respect for people who recognize that

Manager Hoyden
Mar 5, 2020

El_Elegante posted:

Marriage is inherently misogynistic and I have nothing but respect for people who recognize that

Oh really please tell me more that is my stupid/small question

El_Elegante
Jul 3, 2004

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Biscuit Hider
No

owlhawk911
Nov 8, 2019

come chill with me, in byob

gonna register my relationship with the government for some reason. it'll take a court to separate us, so romantic

BonHair
Apr 28, 2007

owlhawk911 posted:

gonna register my relationship with the government for some reason. it'll take a court to separate us, so romantic

I only married my wife to make sure my son doesn't inherit poo poo when I die. The practical implication is that my widow will not have to sell our future house when I die.

We also don't wear rings because who cares.

Slimy Hog
Apr 22, 2008

BonHair posted:

We also don't wear rings because who cares.

Tons of people in this thread apparently.

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credburn
Jun 22, 2016
A tangled skein of bad opinions, the hottest takes, and the the world's most misinformed nonsense. Do not engage with me, it's useless, and better yet, put me on ignore.
If all this QAnon stuff began when someone on 4Chan or 8Chan or whatever weird anime/child porn/libertarian militia gun club forum, couldn't that person be located? If these "first posts" by this person are there, can't the feds or even just spunky Internet detectives reverse-locate this person through the IPs and/or what-have-you?

I think at this point it wouldn't make a difference, but I wish they would finally link this whole mess to a bored twelve year old who wanted to see if he could mind control people.

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