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It means there's absolutely nothing special or unusual or persecutable about you, but you still want to feel like an embattled minority because you are a self-centered piece of poo poo who can't bear not being the focus of any debate.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:21 |
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# ? May 28, 2024 08:48 |
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Demisexual is functionally being ace with exceptions, same way you can be straight or gay with exceptions. It's a thing, and it's really not silly enough to be worth mocking honestly. Not when there's people out there actually calling themselves animesexual jesus christ
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:25 |
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Tenebrais posted:same way you can be straight or gay with exceptions so bi?
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:26 |
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Trying to turn "I only want to gently caress when I feel like it" into an identity is extremely mockable, actually.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:26 |
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OwlFancier posted:I mean in the sense that I become straight when I am with someone of the opposite gender, I suppose. Kinda feels like you're being dismissive of asexual people. Sometimes I want to have sex with someone and sometimes I don't is just basic human interaction. People who are married to or live with the hottest celebrities of whatever gender or sexual identity spend most of their time not wanting to have sex with them.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:28 |
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Tenebrais posted:same way you can be straight or gay with exceptions
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:28 |
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Andrast posted:so bi? That would be why I am skeptical of saying "it's not a real thing unless you do it all the time" given what people who normally espouse that opinion think of me. Skwirl posted:Kinda feels like you're being dismissive of asexual people. I again invite you to apply that logic to a bisexual person being in a monogamous relationship and see where it leads you. I find it entirely possible to understand that people's experience of sexuality can diverge significantly from what is considered acceptable by society while still being able to have relationships that would not incur any quarrel from others, because that is literally a thing I do. If you would like to argue that bisexuals should be on a lower tier of acceptance in LGBT spaces because we do not constantly perform transgressive sexuality, you are of course welcome to, I would not dream of stopping you. I am sure you will find others willing to argue that with you. But until then I do not think it is outlandish to suggest that people can find themselves generally unable to experience sexual attraction, and experience discrimination on those grounds, without it being the case 100% of the time. OwlFancier has a new favorite as of 12:45 on Dec 24, 2020 |
# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:29 |
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sugar mouse posted:They're apparently pretty good but located in thanet and no-one gives a poo poo about thanet. You're just going to have to start raising sheep in every bit of greenspace, instead of only like 3/4 of it.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:29 |
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there wolf posted:You're just going to have to start raising sheep in every bit of greenspace, instead of only like 3/4 of it. gently caress it, I know where I can get a great supply of rat and pigeon, I'll learn to live off that. Also in regards to the argument above, I knew a guy who said he was vegan except he sometimes ate meat. And cheese. But aside from that he was totally vegan.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:43 |
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Andrast posted:so bi? If the majority of the world is actually bi then sure
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:47 |
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Skwirl posted:That's not a thing 99% of Americans have ever eaten or even seen or read about. Yet you’re replying to someone talking about jellied eels which no one except a tiny part of London even sells and nobody except olds and tourists doing it for the vine buys
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:53 |
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OwlFancier posted:That would be why I am skeptical of saying "it's not a real thing unless you do it all the time" given what people who normally espouse that opinion think of me. This is clearly a bear trap I've willing stepped into, but. Not wanting to gently caress someone isn't an identity, almost everyone of every sexual identity spends most of their time with people they don't want to gently caress. And it feels insulting to asexual people that you compare their experience to the fact you mostly hang out with ugly people.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 12:59 |
isn't "demisexual" just "i don't have sex on a first date"
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:09 |
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:18 |
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The Saddest Rhino posted:m e r r y
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:29 |
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HOE HOE HOE ‼️😜😜 ITS THAT TIME 🕝⌛️ oF yEAR AGAIN‼️ 📅🗓📌 💯 OUR DADDY 👨👀🍆👅💦ST. NICK™ is CUMMING 👀💦💦👅🍆😜😜 TO TOWWWNN ‼️🎅🎅🏡 BUT WAIT! 🙇😯 SaTAn Clause has been WATCHIN YOU‼️👀👀 hes been takin NOTES 🕵📝📝🔭 👀😎he KNOWS if you’ve been NAUGHTY 👿👺or NICE 😇☀️👼if you’ve been GOOD for GOODNESS’ SAKE 😇😌❤️💙😘 Daddy Nicholas will slide down into your CHIMNEY 🍆🍑😏 aND eat up 🍴😋your COO(ch)KIES nd MILK 🍪🍼👀😜👅💦💦😩👏👏😏 IF YOUVE BEEN NAUGHTY 😡😤👺🖕❌❌ NO CHRISTMAS CUMMIES FOR U! 😣🍆💦💦❌🙅😔😔 send this to 2️⃣5️⃣ of Santa’s lil ELF TWINKS 👦👦🔥💦😜 & you’ll get Daddy Nicholas’ SUPER FESTIVE🎉🎁 THICC DICK‼️😜😜🔥🔥🍆💦💦🎉🎁💦😩😩
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:37 |
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Skwirl posted:This is clearly a bear trap I've willing stepped into, but. Not wanting to gently caress someone isn't an identity, almost everyone of every sexual identity spends most of their time with people they don't want to gently caress. And it feels insulting to asexual people that you compare their experience to the fact you mostly hang out with ugly people. It is entirely possible to characterise most sexualities as "not wanting to gently caress someone" but you clearly are capable of understanding that sometimes people can have a particular trend in those they don't want to gently caress, which can cause people difficulties when the people they don't want to gently caress are people that society expects them to want to gently caress. For apparently not knowing what it meant 30 minutes ago you certainly seem very invested in the idea that they're acceptable targets.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:40 |
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It's something literally everybody experiences, and singling it out as something distinctive only makes sense through the prism of growing up poorly socialized through awful internet "communities".
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:42 |
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It's not Christmas until Rhino posts about Santa's Cummies
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:42 |
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:44 |
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Internet sez: "Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where people only experience sexual attraction to folks that they have close emotional connections with. In other words, demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after an emotional bond has formed."
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:50 |
Light Gun Man posted:Internet sez: "Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where people only experience sexual attraction to folks that they have close emotional connections with. In other words, demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after an emotional bond has formed." FFT posted:isn't "demisexual" just "i don't have sex on a first date"
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:55 |
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If you weren't attracted to people you wouldn't go on dates with them, so I think it is quite explicitly not that, despite your apparent emotional need for it to be that.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 13:58 |
Is it a fundamental aspect of a “real” sexual orientation that society has a history of persecuting you for it?
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 14:00 |
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OwlFancier posted:If you weren't attracted to people you wouldn't go on dates with them, so I think it is quite explicitly not that, despite your apparent emotional need for it to be that. You can be attracted to someone in ways that aren't sexual.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 14:03 |
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True, though I doubt the people complaining would believe that the distinction between sexuality and romanticism is real either.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 14:04 |
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This same discussion happens every single time demisexuals come up, literally nobody ever learns anything or changes their mind, and it's annoying every single time.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 14:06 |
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The argument is dumb, so I'm going to go back a couple pages and let everyone know I'm Lord/Lady Sir Serendipity Seven-Toes Nanaimo Bar of Shire Green because that almost works there.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 14:16 |
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FFT posted:isn't "demisexual" just "i don't have sex on a first date" It's someone who needs a strong emotional connection to want sex, and it's largely used by teenagers who think if they aren't constantly horny and DTF then they have a radically different sexual expression than anyone else. What's that you say? Sexuality and sexual desire is a broad spectrum that most people will shift around on over the course of their lives so carving out niche terms for anything that isn't facing entrenched social/cultural prejudice is kind of silly? Nonsense. It's sexbeast or repressed sexbeast , and nothing else.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 14:34 |
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It’s a perfectly reasonable label to apply to yourself, as are many others. I don’t really see how it’s mock-worthy outside of back in the day where you’d see tumblr teens freaking out about coming out to their parents as not being into having sex with strangers.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:02 |
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Eh it is an example of people trying to make something mundane special. What demisexual is is something a large percentage of the population a,ready does
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:11 |
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I'm a sapiosexual, therefore This actually made me curious, and I guess I should be surprised it too has a flag Garrand has a new favorite as of 15:26 on Dec 24, 2020 |
# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:23 |
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Garrand posted:I'm a sapiosexual, therefore That's just Luigi.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:33 |
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sorry the only colors we have left are poo poo brown and vomit orange
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:34 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:Eh it is an example of people trying to make something mundane special. What demisexual is is something a large percentage of the population a,ready does clearly everyone who isn't demisexual is an emotionless fuckbeast who slams their knob into every hole visible. knotholes, keyholes, ATM machines, a hole left in a snowbank after someone else hosed it, you name it. that's just how the rest of humanity rolls.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:36 |
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Eagerly awaiting for the UK to descend into the Fallen London universe where every spare inch of your flat is used to grow mushrooms and a massive eel farm dominates the suburbs
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:44 |
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The European freshwater eel is critically endangered due to that time period when it was a staple food for the poor of London. So, you know, that's gonna be a fun time bringing that back.
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:53 |
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RoboRodent posted:The European freshwater eel is critically endangered due to that time period when it was a staple food for the poor of London. gross
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 15:56 |
RoboRodent posted:The European freshwater eel is critically endangered due to that time period when it was a staple food for the poor of London. European? We don't want no eels from Brussels
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# ? Dec 24, 2020 16:02 |
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# ? May 28, 2024 08:48 |
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lord bo okonomiyaki of liquor express
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