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smoobles
Sep 4, 2014

first he claimed to be a student of hitler, and then proved it by deleting himself instead of facing the consequences of what he'd done

Bean Dad, gone but not forgotten. his career ruined by beans.

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Push El Burrito
May 9, 2006

Soiled Meat
My parents made me learn by myself not to say the 14 words.

Garrand
Dec 28, 2012

Rhino, you did this to me!


The context is this link https://jezebel.com/this-is-what-happens-when-school-resource-officers-hand-498946056 about a girl being arrested and expelled when she accidentally blew up a plastic bottle in an experiment on school grounds. Everything after that is just him being a dumb edgelord with his friend.

ghost emoji
Mar 11, 2016

oooOooOOOooh

hyperhazard posted:

While I agree with what others have said, Twitter also doesn't reward assholes for apologizing. At most, you'll get a bunch of replies telling you that it's too little too late, or that you're not sincere. Or people retweeting you to make fun of the fact that you apologized.

If assholes are going to be criticized no matter what they do, most of them will choose to double down.

I think that's a result of confirmation bias - you only see bad apologies go around. Successful, genuine apologies don't get a lot of responses or quote-tweets because they're not enraging, and Twitter's algorithm rewards controversial posts.

Sunswipe
Feb 5, 2016

by Fluffdaddy
"Nice guy sincerely apologises for inadvertantly causing offence" just isn't as compelling a headline, although it does happen.
https://twitter.com/alyankovic/status/490724534513700864

Replies are obviously full of complaining about snowflakes being offended by everything these days, but at least Weird Al's a decent man.

BaronVonVaderham
Jul 31, 2011

All hail the queen!
That's why I can't stand digging into poo poo from many years ago searching for something we consider offensive now. Things evolve and change, and expecting absolute perfection from everyone (against current standards) for their entire past is unrealistic. What matters is how one reacts to and acknowledges that past.

Al does it right: you admit it's problematic and you didn't know at the time, you do better now.

bob dobbs is dead
Oct 8, 2017

I love peeps
Nap Ghost
on the other hand we drat well knew n---- was offensive a few years ago

Punkin Spunkin
Jan 1, 2010
https://twitter.com/DypsyDoodle/status/1345403188023754752?s=20

Dang It Bhabhi!
May 27, 2004



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BaronVonVaderham posted:

That's why I can't stand digging into poo poo from many years ago searching for something we consider offensive now. Things evolve and change, and expecting absolute perfection from everyone (against current standards) for their entire past is unrealistic. What matters is how one reacts to and acknowledges that past.

Al does it right: you admit it's problematic and you didn't know at the time, you do better now.

Lol who could’ve known anti-Semitic/n-word-laden “jokes” would be bad?

BaldDwarfOnPCP
Jun 26, 2019

by Pragmatica

Push El Burrito posted:

My parents made me learn by myself not to say the 14 words.

Yikes fellow posting individual, don't cut yourself.

Dang It Bhabhi!
May 27, 2004



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BaldDwarfOnPCP posted:

Yikes fellow posting individual, don't cut yourself.

Quoting in case they edit this lol.

Garrand
Dec 28, 2012

Rhino, you did this to me!

Today has been a good day for twitter

https://twitter.com/socialistdogmom/status/1345885877122301954

BaldDwarfOnPCP
Jun 26, 2019

by Pragmatica

Dang It Bhabhi! posted:

Quoting in case they edit this lol.

I was fortunate (and confused) that my parents told me never to say the N-word.

It was apparently popular in grade school.

Much later in life I learned not to say the R-word, the C-word or the F-word.

The bad F-word, not 'gently caress'


I lectured a guy on the N-word just the other day, he's half Indian (subcontinent) and half Irish so for some reason he thought it was acceptable.

Nice guy just didn't get the concept so now every time I talk to him I apologize for calling him out on it.

CharlestheHammer
Jun 26, 2011

YOU SAY MY POSTS ARE THE RAVINGS OF THE DUMBEST PERSON ON GOD'S GREEN EARTH BUT YOU YOURSELF ARE READING THEM. CURIOUS!

Dang It Bhabhi! posted:

Lol who could’ve known anti-Semitic/n-word-laden “jokes” would be bad?

Hey it was all the way back to 2013.....we just didn’t know

Air Skwirl
May 13, 2007

Neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom of night stays these couriers from the swift completion of their appointed shitposting.

BaldDwarfOnPCP posted:

I was fortunate (and confused) that my parents told me never to say the N-word.

It was apparently popular in grade school.

Much later in life I learned not to say the R-word, the C-word or the F-word.

The bad F-word, not 'gently caress'


I lectured a guy on the N-word just the other day, he's half Indian (subcontinent) and half Irish so for some reason he thought it was acceptable.

Nice guy just didn't get the concept so now every time I talk to him I apologize for calling him out on it.

For some reason being treated really lovely by the British makes some Irish people think it's okay for them to use the n word, like it's the same as when African Americans use it. Reginald D Hunter, an African American comedian who lives in the UK sometimes talks about it.

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Dang It Bhabhi!
May 27, 2004



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BaldDwarfOnPCP posted:

I was fortunate (and confused) that my parents told me never to say the N-word.

It was apparently popular in grade school.

Much later in life I learned not to say the R-word, the C-word or the F-word.

The bad F-word, not 'gently caress'


I lectured a guy on the N-word just the other day, he's half Indian (subcontinent) and half Irish so for some reason he thought it was acceptable.

Nice guy just didn't get the concept so now every time I talk to him I apologize for calling him out on it.

I don’t know what you’re talking about but the original comment was about bean dad’s racism and you seemed to (still) not get that.

Elysiume
Aug 13, 2009

Alone, she fights.

CharlestheHammer posted:

Hey it was all the way back to 2013.....we just didn’t know
Wonder what the most recent thing will be; saw this from 2016:
https://twitter.com/hilaryagro/status/1345815820769906690
Maybe someone was able to nab all of his tweets before he nuked his account.

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BaldDwarfOnPCP
Jun 26, 2019

by Pragmatica

Dang It Bhabhi! posted:

I don’t know what you’re talking about but the original comment was about bean dad’s racism and you seemed to (still) not get that.

There is much I don't get, but thanks, just got it.

I thought this was the boomer thread and that they were being legit. :shrug:

Dang It Bhabhi!
May 27, 2004



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BaldDwarfOnPCP posted:

There is much I don't get, but thanks, just got it.

I thought this was the boomer thread and that they were being legit. :shrug:

Aah it happens! :moonrio:

BrigadierSensible
Feb 16, 2012

I've got a pocket full of cheese🧀, and a garden full of trees🌴.

Re: swear words/offensive slurs.

Different places/cultures see different words as different level of offensive for many different ways.

I am Australian, and have gotten in trouble on this website, and in real life for my casual use of the C word. A word which I have often and affectionally used to describe my friends, but is inappropriate amongst Americans.

On a sillier note, my dad is Indian, and he said that in Chennai one of the worst things you can call someone is மைத்துனன், which translates as "brother-in-law". The insult being the implication that I hosed your sister.

christmas boots
Oct 15, 2012

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To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
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Biscuit Hider
How does the Indian word for “stepfather” rate?

Son of Thunderbeast
Sep 21, 2002

BrigadierSensible posted:

Re: swear words/offensive slurs.

Different places/cultures see different words as different level of offensive for many different ways.

I am Australian, and have gotten in trouble on this website, and in real life for my casual use of the C word. A word which I have often and affectionally used to describe my friends, but is inappropriate amongst Americans.

On a sillier note, my dad is Indian, and he said that in Chennai one of the worst things you can call someone is மைத்துனன், which translates as "brother-in-law". The insult being the implication that I hosed your sister.

I heard something similar about being called bhenchod (sister fucker), though that one's a lot more direct of an insult

Son of Thunderbeast
Sep 21, 2002
hello my urine angels

Vincent Van Goatse
Nov 8, 2006

Enjoy every sandwich.

Smellrose

BrigadierSensible posted:

On a sillier note, my dad is Indian, and he said that in Chennai one of the worst things you can call someone is மைத்துனன், which translates as "brother-in-law". The insult being the implication that I hosed your sister.

That's a pretty cool bit of trivia, thanks.

Arsenic Lupin
Apr 12, 2012

This particularly rapid💨 unintelligible 😖patter💁 isn't generally heard🧏‍♂️, and if it is🤔, it doesn't matter💁.


I was told, when I lived in Mexico in the 1970s, that "Su tia en una bicicleta" meant "Your aunt had sex on a bicycle riding through town at high noon." I sure hope that was true.

RPATDO_LAMD
Mar 22, 2013

🐘🪠🍆

BrigadierSensible posted:

Re: swear words/offensive slurs.

Different places/cultures see different words as different level of offensive for many different ways.

I am Australian, and have gotten in trouble on this website, and in real life for my casual use of the C word. A word which I have often and affectionally used to describe my friends, but is inappropriate amongst Americans.

On a sillier note, my dad is Indian, and he said that in Chennai one of the worst things you can call someone is மைத்துனன், which translates as "brother-in-law". The insult being the implication that I hosed your sister.

Some words also have straight-up different meanings in different cultures/dialects, like the above-linked tweet with Weird Al Yankovic apologizing for using "spastic" in a song, which is a derogatory term for epileptics(?) in UK English, but not in US English.

Data Graham
Dec 28, 2009

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RPATDO_LAMD posted:

Some words also have straight-up different meanings in different cultures/dialects, like the above-linked tweet with Weird Al Yankovic apologizing for using "spastic" in a song, which is a derogatory term for epileptics(?) in UK English, but not in US English.

Cerebral palsy iirc. It had that meaning in America too once upon a time but eventually it got kleenexed into generic usage like many formerly specific terms like "moron"

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Nov 17, 2011

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RPATDO_LAMD posted:

Some words also have straight-up different meanings in different cultures/dialects, like the above-linked tweet with Weird Al Yankovic apologizing for using "spastic" in a song, which is a derogatory term for epileptics(?) in UK English, but not in US English.

Yep, apparently these things go in phases. They start off as purely medical terms, then they get turned into general terms, then slurs, then they stopped being used and a new word used as a medical term, which then gets turned into etc.

Scope is a charity which once had a name that no-one used anymore: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scope_(charity)

Douche Wolf 89
Dec 9, 2010

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I used to listen to Roderick's podcast with Ken Jennings and I'm really not surprised he's this degree of horrible. Outside of general annoying boomer takes, he had that weird attitude of thinking if he knew 1 factoid or had one experience with another culture, he was an expert on them and completely incapable of being racist, bigoted, etc. He can make anti-Semitic jokes, you see, because he dated a Jewish girl once. He has never murdered someone for being gay, so obviously he isn't a homophobe. Actually Ken Jennings is horrible for this, thinking that living in South Korea from like age 8-10 makes him an expert on how every Asian person thinks.

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Read After Burning
Feb 19, 2013

"All this, for me? 💃Ah, you didn't have to! 🥰"

Data Graham posted:

Cerebral palsy iirc. It had that meaning in America too once upon a time but eventually it got kleenexed into generic usage like many formerly specific terms like "moron"

Yeah, as someone who grew up in the southern US in the 90s/early 2000s, I remember "spastic/spazz" being used similar to "tweaker" or like someone who had ADHD or something.

Sagebrush
Feb 26, 2012

Son of Thunderbeast posted:

I heard something similar about being called bhenchod (sister fucker), though that one's a lot more direct of an insult

yeah my friend taught me that one when we were in high school

did not realize how offensive it is until i was drunk at a wedding and got into the "oh no, i only know a few food words and swear words" thing with some ladies who were native speakers. they eagerly pushed me to reveal the swear words i had been taught, as you do, and i said "haha no $friend says they're pretty bad" but they kept insisting so i relented and whoo the mood sure did instantly change lol

like i would say it wasn't quite as bad as if someone had taught a non-english-speaker the n-word, but probably as bad as the c-word or particularly crude phrase involving it

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Sagebrush
Feb 26, 2012

Douche Wolf 89 posted:

Actually Ken Jennings is horrible

agreed. i never liked that guy.

geordi for jeopardy 2021

Data Graham
Dec 28, 2009

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Read After Burning posted:

Yeah, as someone who grew up in the southern US in the 90s/early 2000s, I remember "spastic/spazz" being used similar to "tweaker" or like someone who had ADHD or something.

Yeah, same, in California.

Course it can be hilarious when someone (who should know better) uses a relatively tame term of abuse wildly incorrectly. I used to listen to 2Griff a long time ago and he kept habitually using the word "twink" as though it meant "stupid person" or "mental lightweight" which to this day makes me guffaw

Mak0rz
Aug 2, 2008

😎🐗🚬

Elysiume posted:

https://twitter.com/hilaryagro/status/1345815820769906690
Maybe someone was able to nab all of his tweets before he nuked his account.

It just keeps coming.

https://twitter.com/darcyleegray/status/1345895275890683905

EL BROMANCE
Jun 10, 2006

COWABUNGA DUDES!
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Josef bugman posted:

Yep, apparently these things go in phases. They start off as purely medical terms, then they get turned into general terms, then slurs, then they stopped being used and a new word used as a medical term, which then gets turned into etc.

Scope is a charity which once had a name that no-one used anymore: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scope_(charity)

And to prove your point, when they changed the name to Scope we were all calling eachother ‘scope pricks’ in the playground within days.

xtal
Jan 9, 2011

by Fluffdaddy
Good lord. I'm glad there's no record of my dumb posts for the last 10 years. Well at least not that kind of dumb.

Bismuth
Jun 11, 2010

by Azathoth
Hell Gem
I know the other guys are more high profile but theres a girl getting really dragged in the artist community because she has a fetishized nazi OC based on a REAL nazi that turned out was also her "sona/alter ego" and she was saying she wasnt supporting the "ideology" but when people went digging it turned out she was following some legit nazi types as well as CP artists. I feel like she could have been a Main Character if it wasnt for the higher profile ones all rolling out the last couple days

Heres her terribly worded apology and below someone's much better rebuttal https://twitter.com/sarahpdraws/status/1345589273622360066

Mak0rz
Aug 2, 2008

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Just imagine how big Meltdown May is going to be this year!

poly and open-minded
Nov 22, 2006

In BOD we trust

Sagebrush posted:

yeah my friend taught me that one when we were in high school

did not realize how offensive it is until i was drunk at a wedding and got into the "oh no, i only know a few food words and swear words" thing with some ladies who were native speakers. they eagerly pushed me to reveal the swear words i had been taught, as you do, and i said "haha no $friend says they're pretty bad" but they kept insisting so i relented and whoo the mood sure did instantly change lol

like i would say it wasn't quite as bad as if someone had taught a non-english-speaker the n-word, but probably as bad as the c-word or particularly crude phrase involving it

I had a similar situation in Korean when I knew the insulting slang term for vagina but not the medical one. I was trying to describe it and was apologetic and said something like "please tell me what to say instead of __" and the woman I was talking to said "don't say that word."
"I know. What would be the better word to use?"
"Don't say that!"

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AlbieQuirky
Oct 9, 2012

Just me and my 🌊dragon🐉 hanging out

SpudCat posted:

Was there some popular parenting book boomer parents got this poo poo from?

Bean Dad is a millennial, I’m pretty sure. Assholes know no generation.

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